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Safety in meeting  

ndfun64 55M  
8 posts
8/20/2019 12:20 pm
Safety in meeting


Although always interested in meeting someone for some heated fun. I am always worried about the safety of it all. Does anyone else have these concerns and how does one work thru them?

HAMONMAN 60M
10168 posts
8/20/2019 12:52 pm


Email communication to make sure everyone is on the same page, then a non-sexual meeting so all parties can size each other up, then decide.
Hope this helps.


bitchkitty2017 67F  
5289 posts
8/20/2019 12:59 pm

Sure we all have thoughts of whether that person is gonna bring someone with who will knock me over the head and ...well we all are thinking that if that person is a pervert or not ...I make sure that there is alot of people around ..then again i am more wary and stay my distance...like a six foot long table when coffee is on the agenda..lol


Jtrees17011 31M
13 posts
8/20/2019 1:16 pm

Definitely need to feel the people out you are thinking about meeting, like a lot, especially on here, so many flakes and weirdos, definitely get to know the people REALLY well before proceeding.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
8/20/2019 3:25 pm

Definitely some ongoing communication to hopefully gain some insight and perspective on the person.

First meeting (maybe a few) in public places a must!!

Depending on how much you want to vet them...you could do a search of them on your favorite search engine (provided they gave you a real full name). You could get some info from that to see if info they gave you may match. More extensive info usually has to be paid for.

A bit much,but sadly in today's world...not unheard of!

Best of luck

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Damien3321 42M  
37 posts
8/27/2019 9:41 am

of course things need to be perfect


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