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need2befilledxox 35F  
23 posts
11/1/2019 2:01 pm
Instant messenger


Is there a reason why I can’t use IM as a standard member? I figured it’d be something that I can do for free. But every time I wanna chat the upgrade to gold pops up. Could someone me out?

Allhard4u50 58M
844 posts
11/1/2019 2:06 pm

Hi, as a standard you need points to IM. 11 points to initiate a message.....and most of the time it doesn't work....it use to be free.....


MonsterCacti 35M
666 posts
11/1/2019 2:14 pm

U need 11 points per chat or post a ton of pics answer blogs and get tipped than you can either buy gold or get gold free from AdultFriendFinder if you wait your time. Also I would be more than happy to fill you up if u like I have heavy loads


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:08 pm:
Like you could buy gold with just points?? They also give out free gold membership? What do you have to do for that?

corey1946 22M
7 posts
11/1/2019 2:14 pm

Often use other things like snapchat, you can add me there by the same name


Oldercock54 66M
21 posts
11/1/2019 2:14 pm

it sucks


agedfun1 72M
595 posts
11/1/2019 2:15 pm

Sometimes it is better to just send an email and tell them to IM you.


Kptoplease72 48M

11/1/2019 2:16 pm

Lol... I like a load of points. I could give you a load in return.


forgotforgetting 53M
7104 posts
11/1/2019 2:20 pm

Over the years, this site has tried to monetize every aspect of the site. In effect, monetize fun. All its really done is frustrate people.

The blogs seem to be the last frontier. To that end, welcome to the blogs.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


nelly030176 44M
16 posts
11/1/2019 2:21 pm

i'll fill you.


dogslife2live01 68M
1927 posts
11/1/2019 2:25 pm

help you how? you mean like pay your membership so you can hookup with other guys?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:04 pm:
No, maybe there’s something I’m doing wrong or could do that would allow me access to IM. But hey I wouldn’t stop someone wanting to pay for me too have a gold membership!

Richard_Wood1969 50M
2 posts
11/1/2019 2:29 pm

Yes they are going for the money because they are a business. You get tantalized just enough with the free options then entice you to break down and pay. Judging by the amount of gold members, I believe the business model is working. Seems like introducing yourself in IM then moving to a different platform like Snapchat or Kik or whatever seems to be a good work around.


need2befilledxox replies on 11/1/2019 7:11 pm:
The problem is I can’t reply to anyone on IM. Nor can I start a convo. If I try this window pops up that tells me to pay for a membership...

dogslife2live01 68M
1927 posts
11/1/2019 2:30 pm

    Quoting forgotforgetting:
    Over the years, this site has tried to monetize every aspect of the site. In effect, monetize fun. All its really done is frustrate people.

    The blogs seem to be the last frontier. To that end, welcome to the blogs.
what's this world coming to when all these companies are trying to capitalize on our hard earned money!
g$d will punish them all


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Redhawk0969 50M
15 posts
11/1/2019 2:31 pm

Half the time the messenger feature doesn’t work! This site definitely has gone down hill. Monetizing everything on it.


dontcumtoofast 33M
113 posts
11/1/2019 2:48 pm

yeah, it sucks. you need points but they never actually give you the points. it's all a scam


wanka22 47M
1 post
11/1/2019 3:04 pm

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PAWAPh 44M
12597 posts
11/1/2019 3:06 pm

*Having Fans Will Accumulate Your Points*

Jack


bbuckwwheat 61M
3972 posts
11/1/2019 3:07 pm

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Proff269 50M
33 posts
11/1/2019 3:21 pm

Tou can also write an erotic story and get points.


ForKixxx 55M

11/1/2019 3:45 pm

Keep blogging...you’ll gain points that way...
IM....I always thought it meant Ignore Me


whynotnow95670 41M
31 posts
11/1/2019 4:26 pm

Yeah, the whole points thing. Lame.


Misfit7935 41M  
31 posts
11/1/2019 6:25 pm

I don't like that it costs points even if the person you are messaging doesn't reply


Bon_Dover 27M  
14 posts
11/1/2019 7:11 pm

Need points for that


loveme12270 49M
55 posts
11/1/2019 9:10 pm

U need points sweety


Mjh8787atOutlook 39M
35 posts
12/31/2019 4:33 pm

You on kik or anything like that??


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