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Smiling faces on AdultFriendFinder
Posted:Sep 24, 2016 9:06 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2019 1:01 pm

While not offering the same, i will confess to being drawn to biopics with a picture of a big smile, front and centre for all to see. Of course this being the virtual realm, it doesn't mean they are actually of the person grinning, but all the same it humanizes this site, making it more real, at least for me.
Personally, privacy issues, a profession and myriad family and friends who may happen by, keep me from being so open and like minded. Not that i'm in any way adverse to my passions, yet i still harbour a sense that my private life remain so, except with those I choose to share. lol - and perhaps with passions so broadly defined, all the moreso.
So here's to all you brave souls baring all - in the most real sense - for all and sundry to see and read, with desires, even those once secreted, so publically put on display. And don't we all just love to be passionate.
joy, sex, life, and lament
Posted:Feb 6, 2016 6:22 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2019 7:36 am

joy, sex, life, and lament. is it odd they tend to follow one another as certainly as the seasons? and by lament i don't necessarily mean hearts broken in shards, altho' that can be one's feelings when all goes wrong. i'm referring more to the long, slow graduation of decline; when friendship and trust grow while desire, that burning hunger to dance most erotic, to please til our lover is sated and spent, wanes to a mere flicker when once roared an open fire.
we sense the loss viscerally, standing in stark contrast to earlier times. even having adored a woman, how is it the hill of passion we so eagerly crested, eyes wide like explorers of a new land, falls tragically into the sedate realm of comfy and too bulky housecoats, and morose netflix choices?
we can push back at its meandering journey. make play dates - share with others - take a lover - but there it stands in the corner, a shadow of its former self, sad and diminished in each other's imaginations.
perhaps some know the secrets to forever pushing time from the equation and retain eros' arrows. yet in my limited purview, even those long term, seemingly happy couples no longer wear that shining flicker in their shared gaze. having settled for comfort over passion, i suspect they are set in their roles, while hungry and a bit barren in their loins.
so pardon my melancholy, but this being a venue of the erotic and ribald, perhaps those who've succeeded in breaking the cycle can weigh in with their tips of the trade, educating those of us forever relegated to the slow lane.
ah well, we always have lust to appease our instincts, even if after so many beds we've forgotten the colours.
why men seem compelled to post up their cocks
Posted:Jun 2, 2015 6:11 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2017 7:56 am

scrolling round here for some time, I find myself wondering who are penis pictures for, even if I do fling one around on occasion as well - and offer it up to any who ask?
my inclination is they're not really the most interesting images for women, despite our shared visual acuity.
and ones all dressed up, in hats, or tuxes - are, well, disturbingly odd. now I get that guys are quite enthralled with our dangling dunces - but they look disturbingly demented, sort of all dressed up with nowhere to go.
i'll admit to having at times flung an image off after chatting a bit when it seems a reasonable virtual attribute to share. but is it just to flash 'em like a boastful promise?
a bent to exhibitionism (I do enjoy my hand up a skirt in a rather public space, or my date pressed up against a wall with me deep inside)? or just a lusty moment of loneliness?
maybe an image of our stiff, glistening lance should reside in the friends only section - to be viewed if so desired. or saved for the occasional cam on line - when a long slippery tug may be more appreciated.
comments adding to my limited wisdom are always welcome.
a riff on beauty
Posted:May 29, 2014 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2015 10:28 am

i listened to an interview with Maya Anjelou today (some people deserve capitals) and you couldn't help but recognize how beautiful some people can be. no amount of fitness, or tanning or lipstick can post us close to that most authentic beauty.
may a bit of her rub off on all of us.
the only thing more foolish than being slaves to our own wants - is being a slave to someone elses
Posted:May 11, 2014 4:50 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2014 7:38 am

unless being a slave is what one's after of course.
are we really here for IT - or to avoid IT?
Posted:May 7, 2014 5:05 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2015 9:25 pm

A couple questions if anyone wishes to weigh in -

1. are we here looking for sex? or avoiding sex?
or not so much - sex - per se - but the complications that come with it? the interpersonal stuff that accrues over time - some delightful - some not so. when fun days - evenings - outings - and in-ings - start to become overshadowed with the notion of wants - wanting someone to be this - and that - and no longer the sentient whose smile and wit and whatever caused such attraction. and ultimately - the break-up. and don't those just rip one's heart out - no matter the side of the equation.
so - it does beg the question - if we're not really here to avoid - rather than dancing in the real world where sex and smiles and tactile delights are open and easy and available?
well, if so, I guess it's fine to keep our sensuality gripped tightly in hand at times- rather then being good boys and girls and sharing..... but then.

2. which brings to mind the other side of the coin - when women are surrounded by a hoard of men - enjoying the sweat and growls of a gang bang - what are you thinking? just wondering. it appears entirely submissive to me - with even some whispers of (well, a term it seems that cannot be said hereabouts) r - fantasy. and while us men are thrusting and tugging and spanking and .... yep, kissing to - we're not really aware what's going on from the neck up - the rest is pretty obvious - a total relinquishing to overwrought desire - but still.
Where have all - the soft curls gone - long time passing
Posted:Apr 26, 2014 4:58 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2015 9:27 pm

Just an observation - while women claim to shear all their locks for mens' benefit - i would suggest that in fact most of us yangs prefer some remnant of post pubescence fuzz be left for us to admire.
Now - don't get me wrong - i am enthralled with that perfect flower that spreads its wings so graciously when approached with a synergistic sensuality
- but a lil bit of soft downy curl is greatly appreciated. Not that i'm requesting a beard between a woman's legs, hanging down round her knees (which seems physically impossible - or deliberate circus act) - just - well - a nice lil patch perhaps - something to snuggle into.
Both boyz and girlz going prematurely bald - all over - seems to be chasing a time gone by. Or just that old adage of once you start pulling on a thread, you can't stop til everything comes unravelled - or un-fuzzed in this case - or just razors gone wild.
Can't men be men - our fuzziness and all - and women still
capable of some well tended fur - for us to muss up soft or rough - and occasionally catch a lil of her nectar?
Bald may be beautiful - but gosh - not when everyone's hairless?
need i say any more - altho men can work it a bit to
Posted:Apr 24, 2014 10:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2016 5:24 pm
are pictures more sensual in black and white? there is something about a b&w image - with supple wrists playfully handcuffed behind.
a fine sense of fire without obsession
Posted:Apr 24, 2014 10:18 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2016 5:25 pm
southern belles - need anyone say more - with blogs even
Posted:Apr 24, 2014 10:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 5:01 am
I could post dozens - nay hundreds - of southern peaches that have bared their souls for ??? I guess our mutual pleasure. only with their permission of course.
is any more proof required of 40/50 being a most graceful sweetspot for women?
Posted:Apr 24, 2014 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 7:34 pm

40/50 something fine tended women - stuffed with fun - full of gratitude - and eager to be - well stuffed I think.
so come on - good golly - who isn't licking their lips - yes girls - it's ok to drool as well - your bf's have been doing it since 10.
thanks for the lustful images ladies. your efforts are much appreciated by all who wander these halls.
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why women are like 17 year old boys
Posted:Apr 24, 2014 9:11 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2016 5:54 am

an ode to the forty and fifty something woman.

now how is it that a fifty (yep - and don't snicker, we all hope to pass that milestone - millstone - call it what you want) year old guy - still pretty fit - with a measure of wit - some bits and pieces that rise to the occasion - can be so enamoured with the forty-fifty something woman - when all my compatriots are chasing maidens 20 and 30 years down.

well I could simply go grab some images posted for our enticement in this realm. and a marvel of care they are. near perfect in their resplendent beauty - as tho' time has passed them by. and whether by trick of light - exceptional lens - or god's great grace - they defy the notion of time's passing and stand testament to the immortal nature of nature's perfection.

yet - the allure - the attraction is not based on merely the physical - but the sensual nature of their ephemeral attraction. cause it's not the meat boys - it's the cranial motion.

a brief history of men (for you women)
we've been tugging ourselves raw since somewhere round 10. and most satisfyingly so. sure of our cum - hurried along by reminisces of our orgasm - we were as easy to please as mud. all we needed was to close our eyes and dream of someone - jeez anyone - TOUCH IT(come on - admit it - no matter what we call ourselves - in youth we were all tugged by a pal - and reciprocated in gratitude - but that's a story for another time). yes girls - that studley guy you're swooning over - has been tugged - or tugged - and sucked by some other dude. hey - we were perpetually horny.
so you see - by 17 we were 7 years into our most fervent - cock stiffening desire and handy satisfaction.

now don't get me wrong - so were girls. just their complete satisfaction not so readily achieved. but by 40 each and every charming maiden had figured it all out. so after some 7 years of persistent rocking - let's see - 40 + 7 = 47 - your overwhelming fascination with your delightful little treasure has you catching up with 17 year old boys. yep - the ones whose advances you long ago scoffed - pushed back - sure in the knowledge they wanted only to breach your ramparts and mount their flag in your hillock. and well - now that you're one of us / engines revving perpetually high - alas we yangs having been at it for nigh 40 years grow a bit weary of ours. might be why we do start to yearn for safe harbours to launch our jetty's in - sorta - kinda - with real feeling and all.

so - that perfect feminine 40/50 something hunger - seven years in - with all playfulness cast asunder - confident in your driving skills - yearning to be touched just so - as compelled as a 17 year old male jerking 3-5 times a day. and as a reasonably wise 50 something myself - seeing that hunger- that yearning - that daredevil ready to have any and everyone make it happen sultry look - is a resplendent joy like no other. so while your 30 somethings - all hot - working it - laughing at its power - are also a thing of beauty - something whimsically synergistic in the well aged perfection of graceful desire - that's worn so eloquently 'neath the thinnest cloak of a most sweeping and hungry desire - as we get a tad older. you are as compelling as any of life's wondrous creations. gggrrrr.

and now i'll go get a few pics - just to prove a point.

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