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All-kinds-of-crazy year end, and a slow start to this new one  

partygald 38F
2659 posts
1/1/2015 9:41 pm

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All-kinds-of-crazy year end, and a slow start to this new one

I originally wanted to post about one of the things I'm about to post about in specific, but I guess the past week have been...rough, so I'll conveniently lump everything into one. Let's hope it's not too damn long

I'm at work, and yes, it's still an empty office. The rest of the drones will flock back in Monday onwards. As is such things. So yes, I'm not alone but it's pretty much quiet here. I cancelled an appointment today. I originally had a late morning meeting with some people that I had to chat with for work. I had set this meeting up last week (yes, it was my idea) to go through some of the issues we've been facing before the rest of the world kicks in next week. Seems like a good idea. Definitely productive. Then I woke up this morning, and decided that I'd rather enjoy my last day of silence and informality in the office, and that I wanted to wear my denim shorts in today. I got in, then called them to cancel cos I had some "issues" I had to deal with. Well....it's somewhat true...so yeah. I'm quite hell bent on spending the entire day watching videos, blogging, maybe even make some purchases online and doing everything else in the office except work.

The last week of last year. I think life saved all the crazy from last year and dumped them all in the last week cos somehow, it missed me or something. Waitaminute...that can't be right. Anyways. Two days before Christmas, we had the annual company D&D. It's the usual, corporate, formal thingymajig, plus a fair bit of alcohol. I sat through it fairly mundane enough, trying to get through it as fast as possible. Cos Mr Married (who actually is not married anymore, but let's not change his moniker) had booked a room in the hotel that we were in, so we had plans for after. I even went out with some friends from work after before meeting him back at the room. By this time, we were both a little boozed up, so by the time i got to the room, he was already waiting. We fool around for a bit before he decided to tie me down. I wasn't crazy about the idea at the time, but let him talk me into it. So he stumbles around and can't find anything and decides to call room service to send up a roll of masking tape. Alarm bells ringing? Probably did, except you don't hear too well when boozed up AND in that kinda mood. More fooling around, then masking tape arrives, then we proceed.

He taped my hands together behind my back, and more fooling around, and he though it'd be fun to give me a masking tape bra. My alarms must have been switched completely off that day cos I agreed. Admittedly, it was quite fun. So I was on the edge of the bed, my legs on his shoulders. He was thrusting his hips in mine, spradically increasing his pace, and slowing down. he continued to tape my breasts up. (I later found out he was trying to tape everything except my nipples, leaving them exposed ) This was going well until I egged him to not stop. This caused him to get a little more excited, and he decides he wants to play with my breasts. And in his excitement, he rips at the tape that he had stuck over my breasts. Of course I scream, and rolled over quite violently i ended kicking him in his face. I was still rolled over and tearing when he came over and then realized that when he had ripped the tape off my breasts, he also removed some skin off from the underside of my breast. I don't know about you, but that can seriously damper any positive mood taht you're in. That, for lack of any better word, fucked up the entire evening. It actually fucked up my entire week. Took me 3-4 days before I could shower without pain So yeah. Masking tape, not good for sex.

More crazy shit that follows.

New Year's eve party was at a friend's place. There was this couple who were visiting that kinda stood out. Well, they would. Earlier in the evening, before it got real crowded, a friend of mine (the host) introduced me to them. They seemed nice. Very physically attractive As we spoke, I later found out why. The girl was a boxer. Like a national level kinda boxer (which I found to be really kick-ass! ) and the guy was fighting professionally as well. So I found that really interesting and ended up talking to them a great deal. As it got really crowded, I left them and ended up with some of my other friends. Then an hour past the New Year, I hear shouting. Of course we all turned to look, and I saw this couple arguing. Then it all happened very quickly. Their argument escalated, and she tried to slap him. He turned just in time (which I thought was rather quick reaction on his part. I guess it's down to his training too huh) and she hit him on his shoulder. She tried hitting him again twice and he backed away from her, and splashed her with his drink. She turned her head and it landed on her blouse. This caused her to flip cos she lunged at him throwing a fist. I thought, shit. This is gonna end bad. He dodged to one side and pushed her back. She didn't fall (which I thought she would have), but staggered back a few steps, and looked like she was about to attack again when a few others stepped in. The screaming continued and then real quickly, died down. Then, it got real interesting.

Someone, I guess I can understand why, had called the police. I can understand why, but I still thought it was dumb But yes, the police were called in, and for some really fucked up reason, they wanted to cuff the guy. I mean, by the time the police had arrived, everything was calm. They showed up, asked a few questions, and then looked like they wanted to cuff him. Now, I don't know both of them, aside from the fact that we spoke earlier that night. They both seemed nice and bright. And I also abhor violence against women. Wait, correction. I abhor voilence. Be it against men, women, animals. Just, no. But, to be fair, he was defending himself, right? I mean, she lunged at him. I think she could have took his head off. I think I thought that was a little unfair. They didn't cuff him, in the end. But the intent itself was a lot disappointing. In the end, they took down their particulars, and the coupld left. Which was also strange, and kinda sad. No one should fight during the New Years, right?

That being said, I've set out to take up boxing She looked like she could kick ass. Actually, they both did. Heh..anyways. Happy New Year!

shakeurbonbons 36M  
199 posts
1/1/2015 10:22 pm

Looking like a bright start to the new yr... I've planned to do the exact same! Work can wait til next week.

And what a kick ass end to the year! Pun obviously intended!!

How's the underboob healing? Must have been some really strong masking tape.. Did u have to go braless for a bit to avoid the abrasion

FunPleasurable 56M
3997 posts
1/2/2015 3:08 am

Mmmmmm. XOXO .

Anyway, happy new year.

Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.

345 posts
1/2/2015 8:39 am

Boxing. ok. kick ass. ok Lol

SirTeezalot 71M
22018 posts
1/2/2015 8:51 pm

Happy New Year young lady.

Seems you get up to so much crazy mischief year round, it must be difficult to top it come NYE.

Sir Teezalot


StargateSG1_80 40M
189 posts
1/3/2015 1:11 am

Happy New Year!! The year ended with a bang... or a bandage. I do hope that your wound heals quickly as days passes. Didn't know that what seemingly to be a perfect couple could rip each other heads off in a matter of hours and what's worse, on a New Years Eve. Oh well! Somethings are not easily controlled while there are some that you could, like ask Mr Married to stop doing something absurd to your body... but what's happened already happened so that's a valuable reminder for you in the future?

partygald 38F
1822 posts
1/3/2015 6:54 pm

    Quoting shakeurbonbons:
    Looking like a bright start to the new yr... I've planned to do the exact same! Work can wait til next week.

    And what a kick ass end to the year! Pun obviously intended!!

    How's the underboob healing? Must have been some really strong masking tape.. Did u have to go braless for a bit to avoid the abrasion
It's pretty much healed, thank you
And yes, had to go braless for a good few days while it healed. The freedom of it aside, it actually forced me to dig out stuff from the back of the closet that I haven't worn in years!

partygald 38F
1822 posts
1/3/2015 6:55 pm

    Quoting karko8514:
    Perhaps,it should have been mutual. He taped your tits,you his nuts. In anticipation of the New Year countdown,in sync with the fireworks,rip the tape off each other simultaneously ?

    Sorta "tit- for-tat" . Hmmm,more appropriately,"tit-4-nut.

That's....actually a pretty good idea
Maybe I'll suggest this next time..hahaha

partygald 38F
1822 posts
1/3/2015 7:01 pm

And a happy new year to you too

partygald 38F
1822 posts
1/3/2015 7:05 pm

    Quoting SirTeezalot:
    Happy New Year young lady.

    Seems you get up to so much crazy mischief year round, it must be difficult to top it come NYE.
Happy New Year to you too. It's not a conscious attempt. Well....not all the time
Thanks for stopping by

discreteSteve62 52M
2076 posts
3/18/2015 1:38 am

Yikes, peeling skin off with tape. Sounds very unpleasant. My evil ex-girlfriend had some of her skin peeled off by medical tape,* but I didn't know that masking tape had enough stick to pull off skin too.

A better solution, if you want to play with tape again some time, is bondage tape. It supposedly has plenty of friction against skin and some other surfaces, but doesn't stick to anything except itself. I haven't used it, but a friend said it's great stuff for its intended purpose. (If Singapore has weird laws about such products, you could have someone send it to you with the labeling removed. Then it would just be tape.)

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The fight sounds police-call-worthy, regardless of who started the violence. But what should the police do when they arrive? That gets complicated. In the actual case, it sounds like she was the one who escalated a conflict into physical violence, and that he used the least possible force to de-escalate the conflict. In that case, if the police were going to arrest anyone, it should be her.

But in an instance of physical violence between men and women, the man is presumed at fault, because on average men hurt women more than women hurt men. (Women apparently initiate violence just as often, but cause harm less often because of differences in average physical strength.) My evil ex-girlfriend physically assaulted me on a few occasions (four, I think), and I never fought back because if I happened to hurt her in self-defense I'd still risk being treated as the aggressor. (I even went as far as visiting a police station to report her, but I just wanted it on record that she assaulted me in case she did more serious harm the next time. But the police said if it wasn't worth an arrest, it wasn't worth any kind of report.) I moved about 1900 km to get away from her, and I'm glad I made my escape.

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* I was sympathetic at the time, but now I recall that with a hint of cruel delight, because the medical tape was because of a completely cosmetic procedure that I had tried to talk her out of doing.

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