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partygald 38F
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8/2/2015 9:10 pm

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Back with a bang! No...back and banged!

I'm back. It has been too much eating, drinking, smoking (fell off that pretty bad), sun, and sex. Yes. I said it. Too much sex. At some point (ok, many points...) I was fucking just for the sake of cumming. I agree, that IS the point to many, but I'd like to enjoy the entire process of it. And. I think I may have carpal tunnel syndrome. I honestly do. This from jerking dicks. Like seriously, how do guys do it? I mean, it's an entire lifetime of jerking your own dicks. How do you not have this? Maybe it's the angle...ah well. My wrist and forearm hurts. Try explaining this to my Dr...

Anyhow, I promised myself no withdrawal symptoms (I have them every damn year ) but here I am, taking a day off from work to recover from...a holiday? Blech. So much to blog about, but I'll hone in on a few things. Not sure I'd have space otherwise.

To the uninitiated, I've just spent slightly less than 2 weeks meeting up with my regular groups of FWBs. From the get go, there were already hitches and glitches. First of all, a few of us had our flight delayed, or cancelled. Mine was delayed by a day, and then delayed further upon arrival. Good thing was I had two friends (a married couple) who had travelled on the same day and they waited for me at the airport, and we shared a cab to our villa. Turns out, only one other lady had managed to get there on time and everyone else was delayed. We had booked a 5 bedroom villa, and on the first night, 4 of us decided to bunk in one room. Needless to say, my friend's husband was the happiest one that night

There were supposed to be 15 of us, 5 couples and the rest (myself included), flying in solo. There were only 12 of us in all, and only 3 showed up as couples. The other two couples only sent one representative and unfortunately, they were there alone cos they were heading for splitsville, which is sad to hear cos I've known all of them a long time. Speaking of which.

One guy, Fred. He used to work here and I've known him for close to 10 years now. We've been meeting up consecutively 6 years now, I think. And we've all agreed early on, that there would be no photo or video taking, when we're in a group. Not all of us are comfortable with the idea, and we had all agreed. Fred, got caught trying to secretly videotape a few of us. One of the other guys caught him and there was a huge issue. It wouldn't have been that bad if he had just apologized, but one thing led to another and it came out that he has been doing it a few times now. We got him to leave. Which turned quite ugly. Fred, Fred. You will be missed for your humor, but not your integrity.

I also realized (ok, this is gonna rouse up a few feathers, but I'm just gonna say it) that a full week plus of sexcapades and debauchery might be too much. Ok, most of us had most of our deepest fantasies fulfilled. Most of us. One of my friends, male, has developed a fondness of watching girls in the toilet. Which is fine, it's his thing. But I'm not sure I want to get comfortable having someone watching me (and more often stroking himself) do a number 2. Eew. Not my thing. But I digress.

Back to it being too long. It is. I've come back not being very interested in sex. It happens every year. But I think this year, we pushed it a little bit far. You know when you're at a party, like out all night dancing, and it should end when the light comes on, or when the sun rises. But you push it further by heading somewhere else to try and extend the fun, and it doesn't become quite a fun anymore? Kinda like that. No, wait. Exactly like that. it'll take a few days, or a week or so to get back into getting aroused by anything physical. But I guess a whole week of seeing and experiencing dicks and pussies of all shapes and sizes can do that. Of course, mentally... I'm always good to go.

Overall it was a good trip. It always is. Nice to catch up with good friends. I'll sign off with just one more fuck up along the way. There were many on this trip. This is one.

On the 3rd day, I think. I can't remember now. But it was morning and I was on one of the outdoor pool beds with two others, getting acquainted. All of a sudden, I hear a scream. Of course I turn. And I saw this girl, probably in her early 20s, swearing and trying to cover her eyes with her hands, and storming out. First thing that came to mind was, how the fuck did she open our door? We had locked it, for obvious reasons. One of the guys got up, wrapped a towel around his waist and ran to close the door. A few hours later, I get a call (I was the one that made to booking, and thus, had given them my number) from the owner of the place. Apparently, we had scarred he friend, who had popped over to collect some things from the villa that she had needed. She was going on about how it was inappropriate of us. She walked in on an early morning orgy. Big fucking deal.

I was pissed about the fact that she (the girl who had walked in on us) calling us old. And! The fact that it was rude of her to fucking simply walk in, use her own keys, to open the main door of a villa that was occupied. There was a fair bit of raising my voice in that call, and she eventually apologized. She came by a few days before we left to apologize in person. What was funny about it though, she called before, then knocked on the door, then called again, to announce that she was outside. I bet this is going to make one of those horror tenant leasing stories.

Ah well. Happy Monday y'all.

Muscle_man_SG 33M
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8/2/2015 9:18 pm

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08540Tantrafun 56M  
1072 posts
8/2/2015 11:12 pm

sounds like you had fun,

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shakeurbonbons 36M  
196 posts
8/3/2015 11:55 am

Was waiting for this update!

That was a hell of a trip. Pretty intense to say the least i'd love to meet this group sometime๐Ÿ˜ˆ

Not sure if your fiance would be pleased with the lack of action at his end ๐Ÿ˜

SirTeezalot 71M
22042 posts
8/3/2015 7:37 pm

So there were many more volcanic eruptions than we saw on TV?

I remember I went totally off booze for 6 months after a binge that got out control on my 21st but never in my life have I ever been put off sex although I have never had an orgy with more than one other person.

As for your "carpal tunnel syndrome", that's also a new one on me. Its quite odd that I have never really thought about it. And I have 2 arms but I only ever use one of them for self pleasure even in my younger days when solo orgies went on as many as a dozen rounds. I can remember many a sore dick the next day but at worst my left arm may have been a bit wobbly playing darts. I once also made the mistake of helping myself to a desperate quickie before running off to play football and remember my legs felt they were about to collapse beneath me all through the game.

But as you say its all about the need to cum and its the pure urgency that keeps the muscles pumping. If you don't need it you just cant do it.

And I am sure I am not the only bloke who has similar problems with his fingers when returning the favour. I always reach a point when you feel the woman about to cum but you also feel your fingers about to seize up on you at just the wrong time. Bet you don't get "carpal tunnel syndrome" fixing yourself but then by the sounds of things you hardly need to.

Sir Teezalot


FunPleasurable 56M
3998 posts
8/3/2015 10:56 pm

We dick jerkers don't have carpal tunnel syndrome. What we have is carnal tunnel sin-dom.

As for explaining to your doctor, try this. "I was helping to pump for water from the aquifer, mate!"

Being watched doing a number 2 is actually having an audience in your throne room. And of course having a shitty day.

Withdrawal symptoms are pretty bad unless they are premature ejaculators making in scheduled deposits. No interest should be paid for that.

Well, as for the unscheduled visit, she inserted the key into the hole and turned without using the knocker, so she shouldn't complain seeing you all inserting keys into appropriate keyholes to open up more fun. But at least the guys did play with your knockers, right?

Welcome back. Please recover fast and plan another wild time again.

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Hoshener 35M
12 posts
8/4/2015 8:46 am

that was fkn hilarious. Love the stories. Keep em coming!

dctrtongue69 50M
47 posts
8/4/2015 11:21 am

This doctor understands.. well, I'm not a real doctor but I play one on the internet. Besides, we get much more practice than you do but keel working on your angles.

partygald 38F
1813 posts
8/7/2015 7:55 pm

    Quoting shakeurbonbons:
    Was waiting for this update!

    That was a hell of a trip. Pretty intense to say the least i'd love to meet this group sometime๐Ÿ˜ˆ

    Not sure if your fiance would be pleased with the lack of action at his end ๐Ÿ˜
It was pretty intense at times. And the fiance wasn't too pleased. Then again he never was too thrilled about the idea to begin with. He's only just begun speaking to me again.

shakeurbonbons 36M  
196 posts
8/9/2015 10:13 am

    Quoting partygald:
    It was pretty intense at times. And the fiance wasn't too pleased. Then again he never was too thrilled about the idea to begin with. He's only just begun speaking to me again.
๐Ÿ˜ I wonder how intense can intense be ๐Ÿ˜˜

Oh well, I guess he knew what he was getting himself into... Over time - I suppose he'll prob be conditioned to accept it along with everything else about you!

I guess it's back to normal I guess.

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8/9/2015 12:20 pm

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discreteSteve62 52M
2077 posts
4/7/2016 2:49 am

My wife keeps me so busy that I haven't needed to jerk off since we met, so I don't any problems along those lines. Before we met, if I beat it a lot the skin on it might get sore, but my wrist didn't.

The party sounds like a mix of good and bad. That's always going to be the case, but it sounds like the mix was not as good as it had been traditionally. That's unfortunate, but I guess it's unrealistic to expect every year to be better than the year before. Sympathy in particular about the guy with the inappropriate video use.

It would be interesting to have a little follow-up about the accidental visitor. It's nice that she got over it enough to apologize later. But after getting over the shock, did she just decide that she was in the wrong? Or did she decide that it was hot, and that she wishes she could be part of something like it? Or just fantasize about it without actually wanting to be a part of it for real?

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