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partygald 38F
2616 posts
3/22/2019 12:08 am

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"Please enter from the back side"


Lemme make it clear - this isn't an ass story. Well, as starting to type this, it isn't. It's just I've been seeing this sign on more than a few shops. Particularly, this sign has been posted on side entrances. thinking, it's a literal translation from the native language to English notifying you the main entrance is around the back. Or is front? Either way, I thought it was funny

in India for work and was schedule to leave this evening but was told last night I have a formal dinner to attend tonight so.... flying out early tomorrow. Did I mention I fucking hate these formal dinners? But the boss insisted enough to change my flight back so I guess gonna go. I just hope what I have is appropriate

Anyhow. Right before I left, I was spending some time with the husband and we were just lazing around at home. It was one of those evenings where I wear a short skirt and he kinda follows me around the house, perving away. (What? You mean not everyone does ?!? ) We got to talking about how some people just don't like giving head. (It came about cos I was thinking about the last time I was with the bf and his friends and one of them was reluctant and it ended being awful and awkward. But I didn't tell him . But anyhow). And we both agreed if the partner is reluctant, then we're better off not getting it. Spare everyone involved the pain, right?

Which also got us talking about going bottomless - there're topless beaches, and generally, places where going topless is not too frowned upon. But the minute you go bottomless, then it becomes an issue? Doesn't make sense. And rule applies to both males and female too. Fuckin strange one, this is...

Oh! On the topic of strange, the husband and I haven't had sex in awhile. Like a few weeks. I sat on his face and he made once. Does count? I don't think it counts...but anyhow. So yeah, no sex with the husband for about a little over a month now, since before we left Singapore. I suppose it's quite normal in marriages....right? But the thing is, we've had plenty of opportunities but we just didn't take the extra step. I mean, for fuck's sake, I grinned on his face til I came....if wasn't a prelude, I don't know what is. But it just didn't happen.

I don't think it's something I should be worried about....for now. Right? I dunno.
What do you guys think?

partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 12:10 am

I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice, but uh....you know, it helps me think, writing. But hey, if you have two cents worth, share your thoughts. Heheh...thanks for reading!


RavenGB 59M
1173 posts
3/22/2019 12:19 am

We men are strange creatures - try asking him. "Darling, I really want you right now, please fuck me". If that doesn't do the trick, there's a problem. It may not be a problem between you two, but he is worried about something. Communication is vastly under-rated in human relations!

Good luck!


photispittas 39M
79 posts
3/22/2019 2:24 am

Really that is not married life is just un horny husband for my opinion.....


jajo696 65F
2530 posts
3/22/2019 2:27 am

This is the perfect place to ask for advice....as we all have opinions....and you may take em or not....but if nothing else it broadens ones scope of thinking, IF one has an open mind.

I agree......communication is the key. Come right out and ask..." do we have a prob", come right out and tell him...." i need you in me right now'.

We never know whats going on in someones mind unless we ask. Same deal....have an open mind and see how he responds.

Sending good vibes your way ~~


dogslife2live01 68M
2123 posts
3/22/2019 2:34 am

i have to agree with you "I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice,". well for some things it may be... but fuckin' issues! well them should be discussed with ones mate... and maybe make it a threesome (a therapist)
afterall you are just 36 and have, let's say another 50 years to live... dam! that is a long time to live sexually frustrated!
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


ClitLickB4DickU 61M
1224 posts
3/22/2019 2:49 am

I had a GF once (well, more of a concubine) that didn't give head. But that one deficiency was more than compensated by her other skills and attributes, and she Loved getting Licked by me in long, multiple Orgasm sessions. Our relationship lasted years, until she went away, got married and now has a son. Before she left, she introduced me to her friend, who took over her previous role (gotta love Indonesia), and that girl Absolutely Loved to give Blow-Jobs. So much so, that sometimes you had to fight to get your Dick out of her mouth and Fuck her. Oh, and she didn't like having her Pussy licked.

Different Strokes for Different Folks, I guess.

On the hubby front....not sure. Perhaps ask. Legs Open....."do you want to Fuck me?" Is he having a prostate problem, or other medical issue? Worry and stress so can't get hard? For sure he hasn't lost interest in you, from your accounts. I'm sure you'll work it out.

Enjoy your Formal Dinner


MyBaffies 51M
4422 posts
3/22/2019 3:11 am

Sign outside Family Planning clinic: "Please use rear entrance".

Baffies

My Blog: MyBaffies


Looknfind18 68M  
4279 posts
3/22/2019 4:29 am

i always enjoy reading. I wouldn't worry about the lack of sex, in marriage there are spells where it does happen. Sure when you get home from this trip things will change. Would love to see a photo sometime in your formal dinner attire. Enjoy every moment,


Pleasureinc 57M
1410 posts
3/22/2019 5:00 am

Seeing the very sexy body images you have posted and observing how your dirty mind works on your blogs,..... I cannot imagine why your hubby has not taken advantage of your presence, but that is just me........! I agree with previous comments that you need to talk to him about it. Good luck!


bull_in_florida 61M
966 posts
3/22/2019 6:30 am

I was having almost this same conversation the other day - for some reason men and women seem to be oil and vinegar. As long as someone is shaking things up, oil and vinegar blend in an awesome way and everything is great. But, when neither side actually takes an action to shake, to agitate, to really keep things mixed up... then, we separate. We may still be together like in the same bottle, but, we separate into our separate daily lives and daily activities.

Married, lovers, friends with benefits - what ever the relationship is doesn't seem to matter - when things get comfortable, busy, or just ignored it seems that separation of events occurs - and the sexual relationship is the first that goes.

So, yep, I would definitely agree talk to the boy, see what's going on, and BTW be prepared to be the one who's going to shake it up and keep it going. Don't be the one who waits.

Have fun and enjoyed the post!!


maybejustrex4 53M

3/22/2019 6:54 am

My thought is you should keep sitting on your husband's face until something else comes up.

My only other suggestion is the sudden, sweet but deeply perverted gesture...the ten second ball grab, the "feel my boob its so swollen" or the "did they get ALL the hair during that wax (bent over just out of reach)...then go about your business la, la, la...This will eventually rouse the beast.


unknown170 41M
45 posts
3/22/2019 10:48 am

Kinda normal for a couple after married for a few years, afterall we do get bored over time, thats why you have a very understanding husband and im sure you have waysssssss to spice things up


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:08 pm

    Quoting RavenGB:
    We men are strange creatures - try asking him. "Darling, I really want you right now, please fuck me". If that doesn't do the trick, there's a problem. It may not be a problem between you two, but he is worried about something. Communication is vastly under-rated in human relations!

    Good luck!
lol
Yeah, I suspect that'll get a real reaction. Could be stress too. He gets affected by that quite a bit. But still. Yeah, need to communicate better.

Thanks for responding


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:09 pm

    Quoting photispittas:
    Really that is not married life is just un horny husband for my opinion.....
Heheheh....at the moment I suppose...


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:11 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    This is the perfect place to ask for advice....as we all have opinions....and you may take em or not....but if nothing else it broadens ones scope of thinking, IF one has an open mind.

    I agree......communication is the key. Come right out and ask..." do we have a prob", come right out and tell him...." i need you in me right now'.

    We never know whats going on in someones mind unless we ask. Same deal....have an open mind and see how he responds.

    Sending good vibes your way ~~
Thanks for the good vibes It is much appreciated.
And yeah, seems like we all need to be better communicators though.


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:13 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    i have to agree with you "I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice,". well for some things it may be... but fuckin' issues! well them should be discussed with ones mate... and maybe make it a threesome (a therapist)
    afterall you are just 36 and have, let's say another 50 years to live... dam! that is a long time to live sexually frustrated!
    bonne chance
Wow...thanks for the optimistic prediction!! lol
And yeah, needs to be nipped in the butt now! Still, I suspect it might require some time though....but at least I'm gonna try. Fuck no to sexual frustrations!!
Now THAT is a slogan...: Thanks for stopping by!!


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:16 pm

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    I had a GF once (well, more of a concubine) that didn't give head. But that one deficiency was more than compensated by her other skills and attributes, and she Loved getting Licked by me in long, multiple Orgasm sessions. Our relationship lasted years, until she went away, got married and now has a son. Before she left, she introduced me to her friend, who took over her previous role (gotta love Indonesia), and that girl Absolutely Loved to give Blow-Jobs. So much so, that sometimes you had to fight to get your Dick out of her mouth and Fuck her. Oh, and she didn't like having her Pussy licked.

    Different Strokes for Different Folks, I guess.

    On the hubby front....not sure. Perhaps ask. Legs Open....."do you want to Fuck me?" Is he having a prostate problem, or other medical issue? Worry and stress so can't get hard? For sure he hasn't lost interest in you, from your accounts. I'm sure you'll work it out.

    Enjoy your Formal Dinner
Thank you!
Dinner was a mixed bag of......well, just a mixed bag.
And yeah, I think stress might be it. But I don't know until I ask and I WILL ask.
But yeah, thanks for taking time to read and respond. Although, as much of a good idea of asking blatantly is, I don't think I need to ask with legs open. THAT, might be a bit much


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Sign outside Family Planning clinic: "Please use rear entrance".
That's probably the best use for it. Although I have been to a gay club that used the sign "Please use rear entrance" or something to that effect. That's also good use for it


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:19 pm

    Quoting Looknfind18:
    i always enjoy reading. I wouldn't worry about the lack of sex, in marriage there are spells where it does happen. Sure when you get home from this trip things will change. Would love to see a photo sometime in your formal dinner attire. Enjoy every moment,
Thank you!


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:19 pm

    Quoting Pleasureinc:
    Seeing the very sexy body images you have posted and observing how your dirty mind works on your blogs,..... I cannot imagine why your hubby has not taken advantage of your presence, but that is just me........! I agree with previous comments that you need to talk to him about it. Good luck!
Heh...thank you!


partygald 38F
1813 posts
3/22/2019 10:22 pm

    Quoting bull_in_florida:
    I was having almost this same conversation the other day - for some reason men and women seem to be oil and vinegar. As long as someone is shaking things up, oil and vinegar blend in an awesome way and everything is great. But, when neither side actually takes an action to shake, to agitate, to really keep things mixed up... then, we separate. We may still be together like in the same bottle, but, we separate into our separate daily lives and daily activities.

    Married, lovers, friends with benefits - what ever the relationship is doesn't seem to matter - when things get comfortable, busy, or just ignored it seems that separation of events occurs - and the sexual relationship is the first that goes.

    So, yep, I would definitely agree talk to the boy, see what's going on, and BTW be prepared to be the one who's going to shake it up and keep it going. Don't be the one who waits.

    Have fun and enjoyed the post!!
Huh...that's pretty accurate. Good analogy.. thank you
And I don't have any problems taking the initiative . Least I can do is make this fun....

Thanks for stopping by


niceGuyWildSex 41M  
94 posts
3/23/2019 7:17 am

the fact that you are writing this means you are starting to get atleast a little bit concerned. might as well just do something about it - like just fuck him or if that's not happening naturally, then talk about it with him. Its easy for things like this to build up getting extra hard to break the cycle. How about a sweaty workout to feed his scent fetish to get things going?


shakeurbonbons 36M  
196 posts
3/25/2019 3:47 pm

I guess it take two hands to clap. Both of you have been tied up with work recently, and i suppose if my memory serves me accurately you have had these dry spells before. Nothing to worry about - but the next time you guys have sex - i’m sure its going to be explosive... and i’m sure you will share with us


discreteSteve62 52M
2077 posts
10/16/2019 5:42 am

My wife and I occasionally have dry spells. We tend to get pretty cranky at each other if they last more than a week though, and at that point we have to find a moment to get busy with each other, instead of whatever else it is that we're busy with.

Of course, we don't have any other sexual outlets, so the sexual tension builds faster than it might if we were each able to find someone on the side who doesn't mind being on the side.


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