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Weekend plans, birthday nookie, and...ultimate surrender?  

partygald 38F
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6/19/2015 8:03 pm

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Weekend plans, birthday nookie, and...ultimate surrender?

i was supposed to have a really long weekend. Um..okaay. I still have a pretty long weekend lined up, but now find that I suddenly have time to blog. I've been wanting to blog the whole week, but found neither time nor motivation. So here I am, an unexpected opening this morning. Let's see if I can get all that I wanted to here. Brace yourselves....I hope it's not long...

Weekend plans
First up, let's run through the plan for the weekend. It's Mr Not-Married-Anymore's birthday this weekend. He's off golfing and left yesterday and will only be back tomorrow afternoon so, that's my Sunday and Monday occupied. I've booked a little staycation in a hotel that includes a spa package so, that should be fun. For me at least I'm also trying to make it a little more special for him cos I've got my "trip", (also known as a fuckation, I guess, if we're throwing our terms...) coming up in July that he's never been very happy with. So I guess this is me trying to make it up to him. So yes, the plan. He doesn't know it yet. He knows we're doing something. I'll drop him a message tomorrow to meet me at our room and I've dug out my french maid outfit (it's a few years old, and probably not in style anymore LO and will be "cleaning" when he gets there. He's still very much into tit play so, I guess that's on the menu too. LOL SO yes, that should set the tone. I just hope he doesn't come straight from his golfing. Hmm...then I'l really have to clean him up.

So that's one part down. This evening I've also got plans to attend a party with the girlfriend. She got invited to a party on a boat. I'm assuming it's a yacht...but anyhow, yea. Boat party tonight. I was a little hesitant but I guess in all relationships, it's a little give and take. I was planning to clean up yesterday and today, but I guess that will have to wait. It's gonna be tiring but I'm sure I can find it in myself to have some fun I was also contemplating cycling tomorrow morning, but that really depends on what happens tonight. Realistically, I doubt that will happen.

Oh! I also just found out that Monday is no panties day. I should be able to partake in that rather seamlessly

Moving backwards.
Last weekend, I was tasked by an old friend of mine to be her wingperson. She had come out of a relationship and that was her first foray back on the market and we went manhunting. I knew her last boyfriend too, and knew they had troubles but only found out the extent of it. He had seemed like a nice guy, and was always polite when I saw him. Turns out he had a nastier side. In the last year they were together, he had raised his hands on her. I know this friend of mine fairly well, and she can be a firecracker as well. No...she's well into dynamite territory. But anyhow, on numerous occasions, they fought and he hit her. The last one he gave her bruised ribs, a black eye and swollen cheeks. She made a report and now he has a restraining order on her and her family. That's pretty fucked up scary.

But that's that. It's been more than half a year since they split and last weekend we went manhunting. And it was funny as hell. I don't think I made a good wingperson. Funny cos I always thought I was a good wingperson. Guess I've been out of the dating game a looong time too. It was also slim pickings. She's in late 40s so she's looking for guys 55yrs and above. I guess not many guys in that range were out that night..? I dunno...but I'm sure we'll be out again. Guys in that age range here. Be wary...we are hunting, and she's hungry! Well, she is...i'm just her wingperson

There was a few more items I wanted to rant about, but can't seem to remember now. Ah well...

On a side note, some of the guys on this year's trip (the fuckation) have suggested wrestling. Shit...what was it...ultimate surrender? Yeah, I think that's the one. As always, we were mailing each other on ideas and suggestions and this one came out tops. I didn't know what the hell that was so after a quick search on the interwebs, I found out what it was. I, honestly, have never seen that before, until then. We then moved towards the possibility of mixed matches and whatnot, but the premise is the same. Wrestling. Well, not official wrestling, but you get the idea.

The first thing I though of (me being me) was safety. What if either one of us gets a little too enthusiastic and end up injuring each other? Then I also thought, what if I end up losing? Which then get me actually searching grappling gyms, and was surprised that I actually was considering taking lessons! LOL
Which then got me looking through the list of gyms, and thinking..how icky I'd get lying on the floor in any of those gyms. Shit...talk about issues So anyhow, that's still up in the air. Taking lessons, that is. The whole wrestling grappling thing looks like it's gonna happen. I just hope we find clean mats or mattresses. I've seen some of the videos. Losing isn't half bad...

Annnnnyhow, that's my long weekend planned out. Something will probably mess up the plan somehow, but I'll try to have some fun regardless. Hope your weekend plans pan out well. Til next time. Thanks for popping by.

FunPleasurable 56M
3998 posts
6/20/2015 8:06 am

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shakeurbonbons 36M  
196 posts
6/20/2015 10:25 am

Mr not married is gonna have a blast

dctrtongue69 50M
47 posts
6/20/2015 2:07 pm

Just for the record... french maid outifts never go out of style

discreteSteve62 52M
2077 posts
4/7/2016 12:33 am

If you're wing-person for her again, and the pickings are thin among guys she would consider age-appropriate for a relationship, what's wrong with helping her look for some cougar action? Is she just not into younger guys?

When my wife was unattached, she wasn't really looking for relationship material anyway, but when she was in the mood for a hook-up, she went for young guys, because they weren't relationship material; they were easy to throw away when she had what she wanted from them.

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