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Year end parties and pet-names. That's a fair bit of bodily fluid swapping ;)  

partygald 38F
2616 posts
1/6/2019 9:37 pm

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1/19/2019 12:32 am

Year end parties and pet-names. That's a fair bit of bodily fluid swapping ;)


Happy New Years all! Have I wished you already? Dammit I can't remember....so uh....well, I just wished you again so... I hope it's going well enough. Officially first week in and uh...it kinda feels the same
I mean, seriously, what changes, right? Personally, the coffee I get from the cafe is still the same. Good some days, burnt and horrible the next. I mean, seriously....is it too much to ask for some consistency?
Then again, I keep coming back. Mainly cos they've got the strongest wifi I know of, and that makes my work a lot easier to do. I could do my work at home but every time someone sends me something I'll have to stab myself in the ear from waiting too long

Anyhoo. It is hot and humid as fuck here in bali. Ok, that's not new. But it's still an issue. It's great for wearing very little and getting a nice tan. Or just soaking in the sun. It's not so nice when you step into an enclosed space and everyone smells from the humidity. Every time I step indoors, I swear, the default scent is exhaust and sweat. . Still, I shouldn't complain Yes yes....I'm in a lil mood today.

Let's change the subject then. Christmas party. I said I'd post how mine went so, here it is.

We got invited to a party at a friend's place. It was always gonna be one of "those" parties cos, well, that's what this friend always does. I was a bit hesitant to go, mainly cos I'm not crazy about most of the people who attend these parties (I've been to two before and it's usually the same people. It's a small group here, as it should be. But I just don't like some of them). Also, it was pretty far from where we are, so the long ride up isn't so appealing. But at that point, the three of us (the husband, bf and have spent the last few days glued to each other, so the boys decided we'd go, and I got out voted. So we went.

When we got there, I saw a few people I really preferred not to see, and saw some new faces. It was an hour or so of pleasantries, some light food when it got cheesy quite quickly. They did the "drop your keys in a bowl" thing to swap partners, and I declined. There were only 8 other people there so it kinda made things a bit awkward. The rest went on with it and I kinda sandwiched myself between my two boys. Lemme tell ya, the good thing about bringing two guys to these parties is, it doesn't allow for much room for others to join Kinda defeats the purpose of going to these parties to begin with, but, you know, just in case you go and don't find anyone suitable, just bring two guys

So yeah, I didn't start off in the mood to go all out, but...something about other people in the room going at it. I suppose it's live porn. We were sitting on a giant beanbags, and all three of us were watching different people. Some were awkward, some were passionate. Regardless, that got us in the mood and before I knew it, I had my dress pulled over my head, my underwear removed and I was sitting there completely naked, stroking a dick in each hand. I got them both to stand up right beside each other and I knelt on the beanbag and alternated between both dicks, sucking them off, playing with their balls. It must have been the knowledge of an audience present, cos I made the blowjobs loud and sloppy. Like I was shoving their dicks down my throat and encouraging both of them to face fuck me. We couldn't decide after, who it was more a turn-on for, me, the boys, or those watching

Despite how I felt in the beginning, I WAS looking to have some fun, but I never thought we'd go that far. I came three times that night. Twice in that room on those beanbags and once more when we moved outside by their pool. The evening was kinda dampened by this one guy who kept coming over to fondle me. He came over twice, while the husband, bf and I were in mid-thrust, to squeeze my ass once, and fondle my breast another time. I could out later he was a newbie, but still! Fucking basic courtesy here, right? Ask or check if it's okay before putting your hands where they don't belong

We left shortly after 2am. The hosts kept asking us to stay over but....I wasn't about to fall asleep there. Like eeew If the evening was surprisingly hot (and it WAS), the ride home was worse than a cold shower. Try riding home at 2am in a little dress and no underwear. That shit will sober you up fast! LOL. So yeah, that was my Christmas Eve. New Years was a lot more quiet. We spent the entire evening at home . Which is pretty ironic cos we actually got a LOT more fun in. Just the three of us, building castles in the sky....just the threes of us....

Oh! And uh....ok. The husband has a thing (well, he has many such "things" but..) where he growls. Like when he's going down on me, he sometimes growls. That's why I call him my bear. It's like a pet-name. You know...the irritating thing where couples do..give each other pet-names. . So yeah, he's my bear. Some of my friends hear it and they think it's cos he's like my teddy bear, or that he's hairy. He's actually not hairy at all, although he works out and he's quite wide. But the truth is, I gave him that name waaaay back when we used to work together in the same office and he was cheating on his wife with me. He fucking growls. It used to get to me, but these days I actually find it a bit funny. Like sometimes I hear a growl coming from between my legs, an I can't help but laugh. LOL

So he did it a few times at the party and for some silly reason, I felt embarrassed. Like for him. LOL. Of course it wasn't a big deal, and it only mattered to me. But....heh. The silly hang-ups we all have. I suppose in hindsight, that party was a bit more significant that I'm giving it worth. I've never been to a public party with both the husband AND the bf together, let alone bare my ass and fuck both of them in front of people I don't know, and some I care less about

Ah well, we live, we learn. Thanks for reading

partygald 38F
1813 posts
1/6/2019 9:39 pm

Got me thinking - I'm gonna regret asking this but...I'm actually curious
What are some pet-names that have been given to you?
What are some that you have given to your partners?

Any specific reasons for picking those names?


ClitLickB4DickU 61M
1224 posts
1/7/2019 1:10 am

Happy New Year......again

Re your hubbies pet-name....I heard an Aussie friend use the slang term "Going Down for the Growler" once when referring to Cunnilingus....so appropriate

I've never been to such larger sex parties, only MFMF recently and MFFF once when much younger , and have always wondered at the sensitive etiquette involved in accepting or rejecting advances in such situations. I guess I have a fear of being the unwanted dick in the room, else invited to "Growl" a Pussy that had been the recent recipient of everyone else's Dick. Yuk.......


MyBaffies 51M
4422 posts
1/7/2019 3:19 am

He came over twice, while the husband, bf and I were in mid-thrust, to squeeze my ass once, and fondle my breast another time - I've seen a handful of amateur videos of group parties of this nature and there always seems to be one or two who think it's OK to just jump in and grope and probe and do all sorts of things without asking. Like you say, have some courtesy.

Used to have a friend I chatted with on the phone quite regularly. I used to call her Bagpuss as she'd often start yawning loudly down the phone in the middle of chatting. I was hoping it was due to her busy life as a nurse rather than any of my stimulating conversations.

Baffies

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Looknfind18 68M  
4279 posts
1/7/2019 5:31 am

sounds like you made the best of a bad situation. Love reading about your adventures. Have a great 2019


partygald 38F
1813 posts
1/8/2019 7:52 pm

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    Happy New Year......again

    Re your hubbies pet-name....I heard an Aussie friend use the slang term "Going Down for the Growler" once when referring to Cunnilingus....so appropriate

    I've never been to such larger sex parties, only MFMF recently and MFFF once when much younger , and have always wondered at the sensitive etiquette involved in accepting or rejecting advances in such situations. I guess I have a fear of being the unwanted dick in the room, else invited to "Growl" a Pussy that had been the recent recipient of everyone else's Dick. Yuk.......
There IS an etiquette, but no one has ever bothered to explain it to me, or us, ever. But I guess if all else fails, basic courtesy is always safe to fall back on. Right?
And "Growling" a pussy (oh gawd...let's not make that a definite term now...) after it has received dick is...kinda hot. Or it can be Different strokes for different folks...?


partygald 38F
1813 posts
1/8/2019 7:53 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    He came over twice, while the husband, bf and I were in mid-thrust, to squeeze my ass once, and fondle my breast another time - I've seen a handful of amateur videos of group parties of this nature and there always seems to be one or two who think it's OK to just jump in and grope and probe and do all sorts of things without asking. Like you say, have some courtesy.

    Used to have a friend I chatted with on the phone quite regularly. I used to call her Bagpuss as she'd often start yawning loudly down the phone in the middle of chatting. I was hoping it was due to her busy life as a nurse rather than any of my stimulating conversations.
LOL
Funny. Although I fail to see the connection between yawning loudly mid conversation and bag puss. Still, funny name


partygald 38F
1813 posts
1/8/2019 7:54 pm

    Quoting Looknfind18:
    sounds like you made the best of a bad situation. Love reading about your adventures. Have a great 2019
Thank you! You have a good year ahead too!


MyBaffies 51M
4422 posts
1/9/2019 4:24 am

    Quoting partygald:
    LOL
    Funny. Although I fail to see the connection between yawning loudly mid conversation and bag puss. Still, funny name
Ah sorry. Bagpuss was a charming children's animated TV programme in the UK in the 1970s which followed the story of a saggy, old, cloth cat and his friends which lay in a shop window waiting to be claimed. It was one of my favourites as I was growing up, although it is long before your time.

Anyway, Bagpuss used to yawn loudly before he settled down for a nap at the end of each show.

You'll find a few episodes on YouTube if you're interested.

Baffies

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partygald 38F
1813 posts
1/10/2019 8:25 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Ah sorry. Bagpuss was a charming children's animated TV programme in the UK in the 1970s which followed the story of a saggy, old, cloth cat and his friends which lay in a shop window waiting to be claimed. It was one of my favourites as I was growing up, although it is long before your time.

    Anyway, Bagpuss used to yawn loudly before he settled down for a nap at the end of each show.

    You'll find a few episodes on YouTube if you're interested.
Riiiiiiiiiight....that makes sense.
Well, more sense now anyway Thanks for taking the time to explain


shakeurbonbons 36M  
196 posts
1/17/2019 7:33 am

The newbie was an opportunist. But how was he going to ask permission - while you were in mid thrust? It would have been quite a funny scene.


discreteSteve62 52M
2077 posts
5/24/2019 1:12 am

Being watched is so hot. Wife and I went to a sex party, and first we tried out the cunnilingus platform (kind of like a doctor's office examination table, with foot rests and all), but the noise from a group room was kind of distracting. Then we tried the two-bed room, but the other couple wasn't paying attention. Finally we went to the place where we should have been all along, the voyeurism and exhibition room. Ten or twenty people were there, and I first went down on her then fucked her, and it was fantastic.

But there was a newbie there too, some guy who asked to touch my wife's breasts while we were quite busy fucking. At least he asked, but I can't imagine that either of us had a look that suggested we were looking for a third.


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