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First time SEX GAMES to play with your lover: Scenarios : )
Posted:Nov 25, 2012 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2015 5:10 pm
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This post is for those of you who are bored with everyday sex and want to add some fun and excitement to your sex life.
Here is your assignment for the week.
I am writing this as I would instruct someone who has never done anything like this before and this will be their first time.

1). Choose a date, at least one or two weeks away where you can guarantee you and your lover can be alone with no possibility of interruption. (Make sure you have the days off from work, and babysitters etc.)

2). (This is simply a suggestion and not a requirement for this little scenario to work. Please keep reading).
Choose to invite a friend or acquaintance and find out how your lover feels about that, and how you feel about the possibility of another man or woman joining your little adventure.

3). Find a way, to tie up your lover. This works best in a standing position, but you can try this lying flat on a bed, preferably knees bend and spread a bit.
You must find out how willing and receptive your lover is going to handle this idea. If you have discussed or attempted this in the past and the answer was an absolute no, you can still pull this off with a simple compromise. Please understand that there are very dominate trust issues at stake here. Plan carefully and think of every possible thing that could go wrong so that you can quickly get your lover out of the restraints in the event of an emergency.
If your lover has issues, then simply tie them up with something that will break very quickly if needed, like sewing thread. The whole point is to have them become submissive. Sewing thread is a quick easy escape. You will get the same effect that you desire. The goal is, to have your partner want to stay in the position they are in, NOT to be in a position they were forced into and cannot get out of. If you must, you can get him or her to agree to the terms without question, all or nothing and give no hints of the evening's plans. You might try something like "since you're not willing to be tied up, here's my compromise: you will hold on to (these ropes, etc) and you will not let go under any circumstance, not without my permission. Do you understand ?

4). You have one week, or two, to drive them crazy wondering what is going to happen on this day. Tell them in advance, not to make any plans on the day you picked and don't answer any questions at all about that day.

5). Now come up with a list of questions to ask your lover. Somehow you need to get these answered before the date so that you can make plans as you may need time to trouble shoot things in order to pull this off. You can decide whether you want your lover to know that you want the answers to these questions, or find another way of finding out the answers such as having them emailed to them from an anonymous email, a note left in their pocket, lunch bag, car, mailed with an anonymous regular postal address to send it back to such as general delivery at the post office attention whomever, or ask a friend to watch for a letter in the mail from your wife or husband and have it go to their address or p.o. box to keep it more interesting.

Here are some suggestions: (These questions are from a woman to a man, so you may need to edit them> Feel free to copy and paste them as you want.

Timing is of the essence and these questions need to be answered. You have 2 days to answer every question. When you have completed this questionnaire send it to: (--------)
This is a TEST !! AND there's rules that go along with it !!!!!!

FIRST of all: You have to answer honestly ....... if you can't ....then leave it blank. For every answer you give me, I will totally and completely deep throat that wonderful cock of yours !!!!!!! and for every blank you leave me, I'm going to base my actions on whatever I decide the answer to be........

SECOND .....everything you say, WILL be held against you.

THIRD......do not answer to please me. Answer according to what YOU want and desire....what captures your curiosity.....what intrigues YOU !!!!!!!

LAST. I want to know EXACTLY what YOU want.....WHAT "gets your swerve up" what hits the spot...what makes your cock hard instantly.....what you fantasize about whan you masturbate......what pictures you paint to look at while you're masturbating..... And be carefule....hehehehe !!!!!!!! I've included some things I alread know just to see if your are paying attention ....or lying !!! LOL

NOW........before you start.......I want you good and horny !!!!! SO......before you answer ANY question.....
I want you to stand up,..... unbuckle you belt.....unzip your pants.....push them down to your thighs........and masturbate for me.....RIGHT NOW ! If your cock isn't already hard........keep stroking it.....!!!!!!

Answer all questions hosnestly... ...you can answer in the spaces between the questions then send this back to me. Remember: the intensity of your pleasure depends on the answers you give me....... LOL

These questions are not in any way written to imply breaking any of "the rules". "Redlight" will always apply, unless specifially mentioned before hand, and equally agreed. Don't do anything you don't want to, no pain....ect. and some of these questions are just written to fuck with your head.....LOL

1) What roles do you like to play ? OR would like to play ?
a) teacher (to include "first times" example: teach a girl to suck cock, for the first time or
a girl's first time anal
b) dominant (within reason)
c) helping with a girl's first time bi experience (teach her just how to suck on a clit)
d) teaching another guy how to go down on a girl (his first time)
e) virgin...you play the part
f) submissive (within reason)
g) forceful (within reason)

2) Do you fantasize about being tied up ?

3) If so, in your fantasy.....are you able to get free on your own ?

4) What would you allow yourself to be tied up with ?
a) rope
b) leather straps
c) metal safety handcuffs
d) Smith and Wesson handcuffs (no safety latch... 2 keys)
e) velcro handcuffs with quick release clips (no, you can't
reach the clips)
f) chains
g) sewing thread
h) licorice ropes (yes, the candy)



5) If asked, what would you be willing to participate in/do? (if the situation/people present/atmosphere was just right)
a) a threesome 2 men, one woman (while I watch)
b) three men, one woman
c) more than 5 women, you are the only man, and I direct each girl, telling them exactly what I want them to do to you
d) sex in public
e) sex while other couples watch ( them sitting in the dark, with a spot light on us)
f) play the role of a stranger
g) make a porno movie (direct it..... talk on camera)
h) allow yourself to be photographed (naked, various positions, while masturbating ) (no face shots)
i) make a sexy audio tape

6) Do you like having your ass played with ?

a) with my tongue
b) my finger
c) tiny vibrator (soft)
d) ice
e) candy cane (not till Christmas !!!)
f) something you haven't told me........ ? Tell me what it is ___.

7) Would you enjoy wearing ....
a) women's silk panties
b) pantyhose
c) bra (pretty lacy one....... )

What populates your fantasies ?
a) lace/silk
b) vanilla flavor or smell
c) certain dirty words (be very specific....... please ???
d) flowers ( or the smell)
f) foods
g) leather
h) plastic
i) rubber
j) expensive woods (cherry, oak, rosewood...or their aromas)
k) fetish items.... TELL ME !
l) sex toys
m) music
n) temperature
o) small enclosed spaces
p) being watched by strangers (inside a limo..... sharing a cab
ride)
q) watching strangers fuck
r) movie vehicles (trains, car, boat, plane)
s) sex outdoors (in the snow, rain (I remember you said thunderstorms)
t) being blindfolded

9) Which do you want used on you ?

a) Vibrator
b) Anal beads
c) double penetrating dildo
d) vibrating egg
e) whip
f) paddle
g) ice cubes
h) strap on
i) nipple clamps

10) Do you enjoy sex under the influence of drugs or alcohol ?
a) which ones.....

11) Do you have a fetish for any of these particular items ?
a) legs
b) tits
c) gloves
d) leather
e) silk
f) pantyhose
g) toes
h) fingers
i) ass
j) feet
k) foods
l) uniforms
m) shoes
n) a particular profession (teacher, librarian, stripper, doctor,
police)
o) other objects

12) Which dirty words turn you on?
a) fuck
b) suck
c) pussy
d) cock
e) tits
f) breasts
g) slut
h)

13) Do you like being told exactly what to do... (being given precise instructions ?

14) What roles do you like a girl to play ?
a) slut
b)
c) horny bitch
c) prim and propper (school teacher)
d) rough and tough
e) Miss Barbie
f) typical blonde
g) neglected housewife
h) bad little girl
i) professional (doctor/lawyer)

15) Would you like to walk into an orgie already in progress, or be there at the beginning, when the first guest shows up, watching everything orchastrate...... instigating....

16) What are your favorite sexual positions ?
a) You, on your hands, bent over, ass and feet up on a tall bed, doing a handstand
b) you on your hands and knees
c) 69
d) woman on top
e) doggie style
f) table/counter
g) shower/pool/hot tub
h) against the wall

17) What do you consider to be the sexiest parts of a woman's body
a) face
b) legs
c) tits
d) ass
e) hands/fingers
f) mouth
g) lips
h) pussy
i) feet

1 Is there anything left out of this questionnaire that you wish or desire and are too chicken to tell your lover ?
You must include this no matter what you THINK your lover will say
Tell me______________________.

19) What things do you dislike. Place them here:


Remember......... every blank you leave........ I will base my actions on whatever I wanted your answer to be......... and I'll deep throat your wonderful cock, for every answer you give me !!!!!!

6) Continuation from point before all the questions:
Find a small box and some sticky notes. You are going to write on these sticky notes and place them in the box for your lover to pick them out, one at a time. Make sure you have 2 different colored stacks of notes. One one of the colors either red or pink notes, write some type of reward. Make sure there is a time limit for each note and make sure your lover knows what the time limit is. Over all, choose one but keep in mind if you end of with 50 notes and you want to spend 10 minutes on each, this is going to take days so keep it short, you want them all complete within the single session of this one special day. So I suggest 3 minutes each if you have around 16 notes, that's a total of 48 minutes straight.
You want rewards on one color, and simple punishments on the other color. Make sure your lover knows in advance, that this color is a reward, and this color is a punishment, and they will be choosing each on their own until the box is empty and hopefully, there won't be 20 punishments in a row.
Sample rewards and punishments. You must decide what punishment is sufficient and what is too severe, this is meant to be a fun and erotic game, not a game of physical torture.
REWARDS:
Vibrator held against their cock or clit for your time limit (3 minutes)
oral sex
a maraschino cherry placed in their mouth, or feed them their favorite flavor of ice cream for 3 minutes( I like to food flavors added so that the flavor in their mouth is also associated with one more of the five senses, while experiencing others like the vibrator or whatever.
masturbate your partner

PUNISHMENTS
Rub a huge piece of ice across their naked body for 3 minutes
apply very gentle nipple clamps
Be sure to use things from their list of questions that they didn't like
spank them (I prefer gentle/medium swats)
tickle them
Blindfold them
cover their mouth with tape or scarf tied (not too tight !)

7) Make sure, that just in case, you give your lover a safe word. Something that will stop the scenario and temporarily postpone the game for whatever reason, bathroom break, muscle cramps, what ever the emergency. The word I suggest is red-light. Most likely your lover is going to completely forget all about the safe word because they are so distracted, so make sure you don't push them too far.

You may consider making a voice recording. If you have a friend close enough to ask this favor of, if not, you may find some text to speech freebie program on the internet. Once you begin your scenario and your lover is tied up, and blindfolded, you may want to record a knock on the door, and have some friend record a conversations with you about your tied up lover and your plans for them. If your partner is blindfolded, they won't necessarily know that someone else is NOT in the room. It's fairly easy to pull off making them think there is by using a long stick with maybe a glove taped to it, so that you can touch their feet with it while making it totally obvious to your partner that you are at their head kissing them or something. Don't forget to make a recording of your friend saying good-bye, you telling them thank you and how great it was, and then the door closing without your lover every having the blindfold being taken off. Write out a time-frame kind of script for what will lead up to starting the recording, when to pause it, and when to play the good-bye thank you part with the sound of the door closing. You may just want a strangers voice, knocking on the door, introducing them self and asking if they can watch, then your voice giving them permission as long as they do not interfere.

9) Consider a little alcohol, and once your lover is tied up and bound, have them drink at least 2 or 3 shots of something to help them relax. Or, you can include an occasional shot of tequila or something in your notes of punishments.

10) There is a lot of planning when considering such a scenario. There are endless variations you can come up with. You may wish to tell your partner nothing until you arrive at dinner at a restaurant and hand them the questionnaire. You may not get the detailed answers you want if you rush them through dinner. You may not get answers to things that were left out of the questionnaire that you want them to tell you, and don't forget, it's easier to write down what you want rather then tell your partner what you want, face to face. IF you choose not saying anything until dinner, here's a way to start it off. First of all go for an early dinner, around 3, 4 or 5pm so that you aren't rushed. Give them the questions at the beginning and let them know you expect every answer before dinner will be over. Use a firm, dominating yet quite voice. Say something like: Today I want to take you to a place you've never been. I want to make you cum harder than you ever have before in the most intense way humanly possible and I'm really going to enjoy myself doing it. I want you to trust me, and it's for this reason that I give you a safeword. If anything gets to be too much, or you want to stop, or an emergency comes up I want you to say "redlight", and I will immediately stop whatever I'm doing. Otherwise you can say stop, don't, no, all you want and I'm not going to stop. Do you agree to this ? Ask them if they have any questions and let them know that just because they ask, doesn't mean they will get an answer. Don't give away many details, and leave as many unanswered questions as you can get away with.

11) Don't forget to use a dominating, deep, new and different voice. This will only add to the intensity of the whole experience. You may need a few days to practice, especially if you've never done this, you don't want to crack up laughing all the time, or it's never going to be believable. Don't forget to give them specific commands such as "You will not move ! If you move, I will double the punishment time, or I will cut the pleasure time in half."

Lastly, consider your own feelings. You may really enjoy this. Be sure to include things that really turn you on.

If you have any questions or need more help planning just post a comment and I will answer asap.
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December 26, 2015 Party Update
Posted:Dec 4, 2015 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2021 7:45 pm
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December 4, 2015 at 6 pm
So far, 7 couples confirmed, 2 single ladies and 1 single guy with a monster cock !
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Just for the guys...
Posted:Sep 13, 2015 5:35 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2015 4:23 pm
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I LOVE ANAL !!!!!!!!!!!

Here is something you may not have known.

Initially, when the head of the cock just starts to go in, the pain really is so bad, that
sometimes I think I just might pass out! It usually only takes around 30 seconds, maybe a whole minute, to relax enough that the pain goes away completely, then I'm ready to get fucked good and hard for a long time!!!

I like to grab the wrist, or hip, of the guy ... to let him know.. If it hurts
really bad, then I squeeze kinda hard... just a whole 30 seconds is usually enough... and before you know it I'm grabbing him to pull him in deeper.
If there was a way to measure, the intensity of the pain, just so that you understand, I would have to say, maybe stick your cock in an open flame for about 30 seconds. I don't think I have ever experienced a pain more intense than this. If you don't believe me, go grab your girl's dildo and shove it in yourself. ( I strongly recommend you just believe me, and not attempt this on your own.)

Done right, and very slowly, with lots and lots of lube, it really can be amazing!!!! I love anal so much I could go 30 days straight !!!!!!!! But, it would have to be a man who understood, how to start really slow.... not to push... and let her do the pushing. It can actually be completely pain free if you take it slow enough. It would be super nice of you guys if you took the time to start with a finger or two first !!!
You guys really can not begin to imagine the intensity of the pain, just at that moment. If your lady hates it... I can bet that's why. Anal ease is a cream you can buy at the adult stores. It works great. Only takes about 20 seconds or so, but know this, if you use too much you could really hurt her and she wouldn't know because it will be numb, and at the same time... get too much on your cock, and it will be numb too!!!
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Here's a new game for you to play !!!
Posted:Sep 9, 2015 7:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2015 5:38 pm
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I'm completely NOT into the pain game so here's my compromise:

Get some business cards, and print one thing on each card.

Then make your lover draw cards. Some are rewards and some are punishments... again not into the pain game but this could get really FUN !!!
Each thing has a 3 minute time limit, so be sure to set a timer each time!

1). Masturbate for 3 minutes while looking into my eyes
2). Feed him/her Maraschino cherries
3). Rub an ice cube all over his/her body and nipples
4). Watch me masturbate
5). Wear the blindfold
6) Did Q-tips into ice water and write dirty things all over their body (but tell
them that it's a permanant marker AND they have to guess what you wrote.
If they guess wrong... they get a punishment card
7). 3 minute massage
. Anal ease and a finger in his/her ass along with oral sex for 3 min
9). Wear the velcro handcuffs
10). Ice cube blow job him or her
11). Close your eyes... then stick your nipple in their mouth
12). Oral sex with a small vibrator in, or against your mouth
13). Guess the item in my hand (they should be wearing the blindfold for this. If they guess wrong, squirt tons of lube between their toes... it must stay there for the 3 minute time limit.
14). PRETEND ... rub some non smelly lotion on one of their nipples and tell them that it will make it numb in a minute... (again, they should be blindfolded for this) get one of the NON-piercing belly button rings and place it on their nipple. Then grab their hand and let them carefully feel the nipple ring. Get their attention off it quick by insisting they draw another card.
15). Sex with ice cubes inside her....
16). Pop rocks candy blow job... THESE ARE AWESOME !!!!!!!
17). Tell me ONE thing that you really want to try, but don't want me to know
1. Underwear off, bend over my lap for a spanking. If it's the guy, make sure you squeeze your thighs and tease his cock a lot !!!
19). Good old fashion titty fuck. Believe it or not, I actually kinda miss this.
20). Introduction to a cock ring
21).Blindfold.. then bathe them in the shower. They are not allowed to help. Only stand there
22). Have them get on the floor. Hands and knees and put their head down on a pillow. Make them reach back with both hands and spread their ass for a good rim job. If it's the girl doing the giving, the angle is MUCH better if you straddle them facing the opposite direction.
23). Skype masturbation with strangers on webcam
That's all I have. Took me a few days to come up with all of them. If you guys have anything awesome to add please let me know !!!!
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too good not to share.........
Posted:Sep 9, 2015 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2015 6:02 pm
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Thought I would share... try to get some work done after this LMAO !

Ok, I'm totally embarassed, and my face is all red but I just have to tell
someone or I'm going to POP !

I put my clit ring back in yesterday so I could run up and down the
stairs to do laundry and cum all day !!

This is all true, as it happened at 5:00 this morning........

My alarm went off at 5:00 AM I went back to bed, I just wanted to sleep
a whole 5 more minutes... totally hopeless. I'm awake now. I kept
my eyes closed, hoping I would fall asleep and apparently, my clit
was much more wide awake then I was ! I woke up soooooooooooo
horny. I laid there thinking... "don't do it. Not today, you have to get
some work done, and it's going to take forever..... don't touch it !
But it's throbbing, too much to ignore..... I just couldn't stand it !!!!!
It was like my hand was totally out of my control and suddenly
GOOOOOOOOOOOOD MORNING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I touched it ! My alarm was about to go off again, I set it for 5:15 just
in case.... it was now 5:04 ! WOOOOOOOOOOOWWWW !!

I can't believe I did this !!!!!!! Completely and TOTALLY UNLIKE me !

Just rubbing my clit was in no way in hell, going to do the job !
The alarm is going to go off in 11 more minutes, the girls are going
to be getting out of bed to come and see if I'm dead because I
never sleep past 5 and the house was dead silent.

I got up rolled the air conditioner into my room and turned it on,
thank God it was warm enough to let it run for a few minutes so
I could muffle any noises...

I crawled back in bed and took off my panties...... rubbed my clit
more...... another minute more..... and I knew what I really wanted...
I had never done this before..... I don't know why this is what my clit
wanted at 5:04 AM !!! I have no clue !!!!

I licked my fingers, they were soaking wet from rubbing my clit.....
I began lightly spanking my clit... wow ! That felt really good !!!!!!
TOO GOOD !!!!!!!!! A little bit harder, little harder...... DAMN !!!
I just might cum doing this !!!!!!!!!!!! Holy shit ! This could work !
I could hear the noise from beneath the covers...... this wasn't
working well enough...I lay there thinking..... if I had a small plastic
ruler.....no, the corners are sharp......the handle of my hairbrush......
no that won't work. My comb !!!!!! it's about 7 inches or so long........
teeth from one end all the way to the other...... flexible...... bendable
this could work !!!!!!!!! I grabbed it and got back in bed.... bending it
and letting it go to smack my soggy wet clit..... I flinched, and squirted !!!!!!!!!!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWW !!!!!!!!
I kept doing it, over and over, a bit harder..... and then I thought,
this clit ring has got to go. I'm afraid I'm going to get a bruise if
I keep doing this with this ring still there. I'm surprised it hadn't just fallen out !
I had about 8 more minutes before my alarm went off ........
I spanked my clit and imagined that you were there watching me,
demanding that I kept my eyes closed as you took the comb away from me.
I Imagined you telling me to spread my legs wider and hold the skin
around my clit taught so It stuck up in the air so high that the hood uncovered
that one very sensitive spot !!!
I raised my hips off the bed and managed to smack my clit again ! I could hear you
telling me not to move, and not to flinch, but I couldn't help it, it was automatic !
Smack ! A little bit harder each time until I could feel that it had swollen to the
size of a grape !!!!! and super sensitive !!!!!!!!!!!! it was an explosion of sensations !!!!!!!!!!!
I sucked my fingers and rubbed my clit rolling around and around in circles
You told me to hold still and that every time I flinched you would
do it again, harder each time ! Smack, smack, smack, repeatedly !!! I took the flat
side of the comb and began running the ribs of the flat teeth back and forth over my
clit from one end all the way to the other over and over. I swear I could feel every
single individual one !!!!!! I bet I could have counted them exactly !!!!!!!!
I did this for about a minute and stopped randomly to spank
my clit again before all of the exploding sensations faded away !
I couldn't stand it !!!! Counting the teeth of the comb, smack,
more ribs of the comb back and forth creating a weird wave of
vibrations....... smack.......... vibrate...... smack ! smack and one last; SMACK
and I EXPLODED !!!!!!!!
That was one of the most intense orgasms I have ever had !!!!!!!

Who knew ???????? Nobody ever told me !!!!!!!!!
and I had never done this before !!!!!!!!!!
I think I may totally be a little bit more submissive and kinkier than I
thought I was.........

My clit has been awake allllllllllll day !!!!!!!! Seemingly arriving 3 feet ahead
of me. Barely tender, not really sore........ just a constant.....
hellooooooooo HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!

and of course, my breasts nipples are still super tender...
And peeing has been a totally new experience !!!! Just a tiny bit sore !
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My guide to hosting your own swinger's party
Posted:Dec 24, 2012 5:59 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2014 4:18 pm
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Here is a sample party invitation:

Please send us your fantasy, written down, with as much detail as possible. We will be choosing random fantasies and getting others to participate without the writer's knowledge.

The more honest you are with your fantasy, the more everyone will enjoy it !

**** SEX GAMES****
1) PLEASE RSVP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE:
*** PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS !!!***
Please confirm that you have read, understood and agree with all of the following.
We realize that it is lengthy - but there are many people who have not attended this sort of party before. There are many questions as to how this works - what the etiquette is - what the "rules" are. This should answer most of your questions but PLEASE do not hesitate or be embarrassed to ask if there is something we failed to cover.
If you can not make it PLEASE let us know ASAP so that we can invite another to take your place. If we are expecting you and you don't show up - the Lady's will be left hanging. That just wouldn't be right now would it ?
We realize this is new to many of the guests. Understandably many of you are nervous. Some of the guests have experience with this type of party - some don't. But even those with experience do remember what it was like the first time --- and there is a first time for everybody. So please don't get scared and "flake out" on us...You'll be suprized at what a great night this turns out to be and you will have a blast !!!
If we do not hear back from you by (give a date) - we will give your space to another person.
2) We will be sending you a 'WISH LIST" as well as the limits for each woman attending.
Just so you will have a basic idea going in what each woman wants, desires, likes and what she will or will not allow. If you have any wishes, desires or limits please let us know these as well !
3) We will be sending out some food suggestions
These types of parties sure work up an appetite ! Nobody wants to break and get dressed to go out grocery shopping because everybody is starving. If everyone brings some food to share ( and not just a bag of chips) we'll all be well nourished and have a high level of energy (grin)
to allow us to go well into the night. Hot foods are usually really lacking at these kinds of parties - chicken, meatballs, potato wedges or any hot item from your local deli would be great ! Fruit, veggies, queso, chips, sweets, finger sandwiches and other assorted munchies will also be needed as well as paper plates, cups, napkins, plastic silverware, etc. Please don't feel as if you have to spend a lot of money. Most of these items can be obtained very cheap !
4. People are responsible for bringing their own beverage.
Whatever you like to drink. Soda, water, beer or wine. We realize that some people may need some liquid encouragement to unwind, relax and get ready to play but this is a sex party, not a drinking party. Only bring the amount of alcohol that you need to have. Any one who arrives obviously intoxicated or who gets that way during the course of the party will be asked to leave.
5) Please bring anything else that you may need.
Condoms, lube, towels if you wish to shower before leaving, miscellaneous toys, extra pillow, toothbrush, etc.
You are more than welcome to spend the night, or two. You may wish to bring an extra pillow or two, a few blankets, and a comfortable change of clothes for the ride home.
6) Date - Time - Location
Date: ________________
Time: We will expect all guests to arrive between 7:00pm and 8:30pm. as we don't want to be suprised by and unexpected knock at the door. We will probably talk, eat and socialize for about an hour or so, and then get the play started around 8:30pm -- the play will last until we all give out, or approx dawn on the third day.
The exact location will be disclosed in our final email invitation to you.
7) THIS IS A PRIVATE PARTY.
A) PLEASE DO NOT MENTION OUR PLANS TO ANYONE - NO ONE - NONE OF YOUR FRIENDS - PLEASE DO NOT DISCUSS THIS !!! There is no need to draw any unwanted attention to our get-together.
While the party location will tolerate a certain level of noise, please be considerate of the other guests. Do NOT race thorough the parking lot or neighborhoods with music blaring, etc. You may say that you are attending a "Birthday Party". DO NOT SAY THAT YOU ARE ATTENDING A SEX PARTY !!! No need to get the local PD suspicious.
We want to have a long fun hot wild sexy night but we need to respect the local property and neighborhood.
C) This is a PRIVATE party. Additional guests are NOT welcome - so please, do not bring anyone with you that we are not aware of as both you and them will be denied entry ! If you have any friends who are interested in also attending, that you can personally vouch for, please have them email us for more information.
D) If we find that you have violated the secrecy of our event by revealing it's location or it's nature, you will be immediately banned from attending and your name, nickname, photo and email address will be publicly posted in EVERY club, board and e-group as having done so
PARTY GUESTS :
Some of the guests are Bi - and this is a Bi friendly event. Now this does not mean that you have to be Bi. ( "No" means "NO" !!!! ) Rest assured that no one will pressure anyone into anything - but everyone MUST be open minded and realize that this sort of play may be going on around them. I know some of the Ladies LOVE to play with each other. . We just ask that all guests be treated with respect.
9) The most important thing to remember is when at the party is that the LADIES will be respected AT ALL TIMES. They are indeed there to participate in a cum soaked sex party and are there because they want to be there and are fulfilling a fantasy or need but they are NOT there to be abused or disrespected. These women are friends, wives, girlfriends, lovers, sisters, daughters and mothers - treat them as such.
10) Each Lady will have her own wishes, desire and limits as to what they will or will not do. A brief summary of each will be sent to you before the party. Some will want and request to be fucked in every opening, to be licked, to suck you , some love cum all over them, to be double or triple penetrated, used roughly or softly, etc. Some will only want to do some or all of those things (such as only anal or oral only, etc). Each will be very clear about what they will or will not allow, and those LIMITS WILL BE HONORED AT ALL TIMES !!!
11) Some participants may be willing to so some things with some, but not with everyone - that's their choice, and not to be disputed. Do NOT try to talk into, or worse, force or just do, something that the participant is not willing to do. You will be immediately removed, and this removal will be unpleasant for you. When in doubt, simply ask and RESPECT the answer.
12) If a Lady is busy or engaged in play with another - please ask to join in: don't just push your way into the action. She will either ask you to join in or wait for a few - trust us - you will be taken care of !
When in doubt, ASK FIRST ! Above all, NO MEANS NO THE FIRST TIME !
13) This is an intimate gathering where group dynamics and feelings can change very quickly. To insure that the guests are having a good time, it is assumed that if you are attending the party that you will participate sexually at the level you are comfortable doing. Not everyone has to fuck everyone. If you feel that participating is no longer right for you, then of course no one would feel insulted if you changed your mind and felt you would prefer to leave.
14) Condom use is NOT your choice. This is totally up to the ladies. If they say you wear one, then you wear one so bring them with you. And remember that a fresh condom is required for each new participant. No "double dipping" !!!
15) Not all participants will be into anal sex - but just as a reminder NO DOUBLE DIPPING !
please be sure to wash with soap and water before continuing with any play after enjoying anal sex !
16) For some of the guests this is the first time they have ever done anything like this. They are nervous about it going well, about your behavior, etc. While ALL are also very enthusiastic about participating and are very aroused about it (to say the least (grin) they still have some worries and doubts. If we all make SURE that is goes well, that all respect is shown and that the proper behavior and decorum is shown both to the guests and the property we all ensure that everyone has a great time then we know that this will not be the last time we can do this, but rather this will be just the beginning of many fun parties !
17) There will be a total of 5 rooms available for play. Doors to all rooms will remain closed at all times, unless someone is entering or exiting. Room # 1 will be "HE'S THE BOSS"
Room #2 "SHE'S THE BOSS", Room # 3 is the main (free for all) room, Room # 4 " Newbies ONLY ". Room # 5 To be announced later. Each room will be labeled. Everyone will be given a pen and paper, to write down their interests and then put on a blindfold. This is your ONE chance at anonymity !!!!!!!
While EVERYONE is blindfolded, the host will come around, take your paper, and deliver you to the room of your choice. Some people are curious, or know that this is exactly what they want, they just don't want their partner to know of their fantasy/interests. This is your chance to get what you really want !!!!
1 Both rooms, "He's the boss, and She's the boss, will have one single person in charge(for each room) of everyone's safety. This person will not drink, or take part in the play of this room, unless another person is appointed the job by the HOSTESS. This person will remain fully clothed throughout the event.
There are other things to consider.. You may want to make participation mandatory for entry into the "He's the boss, and She's the boss" rooms.
Suppose you and your partner want to go into the dom room. Maybe you've never discussed this with your partner. At first everyone is blind folded so no one knows which particular room their playmate went into. If you both end up in the same dom room......... it will be something to share....... not only at the party, but shared later after they go home...... rather than one person having hurt feelings because they found out "by accident" ...just looking......... verses, they BOTH have the same desires and for whatever reason......
19) You may not enter and leave rooms 1 and 2 repeatedly, for the sake of just watching. You may enter any room ONCE. The second time you enter, you will participate. Remember, that rooms 1 and 2 will have a "Master at Arms". Someone who is not drinking or playing. Their sole job is to manage all that goes on in the room, who enters, who leaves, and who returns.
20) Everyone gets a safe word. Please do not think that you do not need it. Not only for safety's sake, it is also to be used to put an IMMEDIATE hold on the situation for whatever reason. Whether it be due to extreme muscle cramp, whatever. The safe word is " REDLIGHT " Do not use it unless it is needed, do not say it in casual conversation. This is strickly reserved for it's intended use. Please be aware of anyone saying this word. If this word is said, EVERYTHING in the room STOPS IMMEDIATELY !! No questions asked, NO HESITATION. If you do not comply, you will be escorted out. This is not to say that things can't resume after the situation is assessed. It could be a real emergency.
21) A curtain will cover the main entrance of the hall that leads to rooms 1, 2 and 3 so that the people in main room, do not see which room you were in as you re-enter the main room. Again, all doors will be kept closed at all times
22) Some of the people attending the party are Bi. If you are totally straight, not negotiable, not curious, 100% forget it.... then guys, please wear a blue ribbon around your wrist, and ladies, please wear a red ribbon around your wrist so that everyone knows what your limits are. If you do not wear the ribbon, it is understood, that you are Bi. LADIES : If you are bi-curious, and would possibly consider allowing another woman touch you.... then please wear a pink ribbon. Please do not feel that "returning the favor" is expected. It is not. This party is intended to be fun, and a great way to relax and relieve some stress, not create it. If at anytime you feel too uncomfortable with the situation, please say "redlight".

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My guide to hosting your own swinger's party
Posted:Dec 24, 2012 12:53 pm
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Here is a sample party invitation:

Please send us your fantasy, written down, with as much detail as possible. We will be choosing random fantasies and getting others to participate without the writer's knowledge.

The more honest you are with your fantasy, the more everyone will enjoy it !

**** SEX GAMES****
1) PLEASE RSVP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE:
*** PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS !!!***
Please confirm that you have read, understood and agree with all of the following.
We realize that it is lengthy - but there are many people who have not attended this sort of party before. There are many questions as to how this works - what the etiquette is - what the "rules" are. This should answer most of your questions but PLEASE do not hesitate or be embarrassed to ask if there is something we failed to cover.
If you can not make it PLEASE let us know ASAP so that we can invite another to take your place. If we are expecting you and you don't show up - the Lady's will be left hanging. That just wouldn't be right now would it ?
We realize this is new to many of the guests. Understandably many of you are nervous. Some of the guests have experience with this type of party - some don't. But even those with experience do remember what it was like the first time --- and there is a first time for everybody. So please don't get scared and "flake out" on us...You'll be suprized at what a great night this turns out to be and you will have a blast !!!
If we do not hear back from you by (give a date) - we will give your space to another person.
2) We will be sending you a 'WISH LIST" as well as the limits for each woman attending.
Just so you will have a basic idea going in what each woman wants, desires, likes and what she will or will not allow. If you have any wishes, desires or limits please let us know these as well !
3) We will be sending out some food suggestions
These types of parties sure work up an appetite ! Nobody wants to break and get dressed to go out grocery shopping because everybody is starving. If everyone brings some food to share ( and not just a bag of chips) we'll all be well nourished and have a high level of energy (grin)
to allow us to go well into the night. Hot foods are usually really lacking at these kinds of parties - chicken, meatballs, potato wedges or any hot item from your local deli would be great ! Fruit, veggies, queso, chips, sweets, finger sandwiches and other assorted munchies will also be needed as well as paper plates, cups, napkins, plastic silverware, etc. Please don't feel as if you have to spend a lot of money. Most of these items can be obtained very cheap !
4. People are responsible for bringing their own beverage.
Whatever you like to drink. Soda, water, beer or wine. We realize that some people may need some liquid encouragement to unwind, relax and get ready to play but this is a sex party, not a drinking party. Only bring the amount of alcohol that you need to have. Any one who arrives obviously intoxicated or who gets that way during the course of the party will be asked to leave.
5) Please bring anything else that you may need.
Condoms, lube, towels if you wish to shower before leaving, miscellaneous toys, extra pillow, toothbrush, etc.
You are more than welcome to spend the night, or two. You may wish to bring an extra pillow or two, a few blankets, and a comfortable change of clothes for the ride home.
6) Date - Time - Location
Date: ________________
Time: We will expect all guests to arrive between 7:00pm and 8:30pm. as we don't want to be suprised by and unexpected knock at the door. We will probably talk, eat and socialize for about an hour or so, and then get the play started around 8:30pm -- the play will last until we all give out, or approx dawn on the third day.
The exact location will be disclosed in our final email invitation to you.
7) THIS IS A PRIVATE PARTY.
A) PLEASE DO NOT MENTION OUR PLANS TO ANYONE - NO ONE - NONE OF YOUR FRIENDS - PLEASE DO NOT DISCUSS THIS !!! There is no need to draw any unwanted attention to our get-together.
While the party location will tolerate a certain level of noise, please be considerate of the other guests. Do NOT race thorough the parking lot or neighborhoods with music blaring, etc. You may say that you are attending a "Birthday Party". DO NOT SAY THAT YOU ARE ATTENDING A SEX PARTY !!! No need to get the local PD suspicious.
We want to have a long fun hot wild sexy night but we need to respect the local property and neighborhood.
C) This is a PRIVATE party. Additional guests are NOT welcome - so please, do not bring anyone with you that we are not aware of as both you and them will be denied entry ! If you have any friends who are interested in also attending, that you can personally vouch for, please have them email us for more information.
D) If we find that you have violated the secrecy of our event by revealing it's location or it's nature, you will be immediately banned from attending and your name, nickname, photo and email address will be publicly posted in EVERY club, board and e-group as having done so
PARTY GUESTS :
Some of the guests are Bi - and this is a Bi friendly event. Now this does not mean that you have to be Bi. ( "No" means "NO" !!!! ) Rest assured that no one will pressure anyone into anything - but everyone MUST be open minded and realize that this sort of play may be going on around them. I know some of the Ladies LOVE to play with each other. . We just ask that all guests be treated with respect.
9) The most important thing to remember is when at the party is that the LADIES will be respected AT ALL TIMES. They are indeed there to participate in a cum soaked sex party and are there because they want to be there and are fulfilling a fantasy or need but they are NOT there to be abused or disrespected. These women are friends, wives, girlfriends, lovers, sisters, daughters and mothers - treat them as such.
10) Each Lady will have her own wishes, desire and limits as to what they will or will not do. A brief summary of each will be sent to you before the party. Some will want and request to be fucked in every opening, to be licked, to suck you , some love cum all over them, to be double or triple penetrated, used roughly or softly, etc. Some will only want to do some or all of those things (such as only anal or oral only, etc). Each will be very clear about what they will or will not allow, and those LIMITS WILL BE HONORED AT ALL TIMES !!!
11) Some participants may be willing to so some things with some, but not with everyone - that's their choice, and not to be disputed. Do NOT try to talk into, or worse, force or just do, something that the participant is not willing to do. You will be immediately removed, and this removal will be unpleasant for you. When in doubt, simply ask and RESPECT the answer.
12) If a Lady is busy or engaged in play with another - please ask to join in: don't just push your way into the action. She will either ask you to join in or wait for a few - trust us - you will be taken care of !
When in doubt, ASK FIRST ! Above all, NO MEANS NO THE FIRST TIME !
13) This is an intimate gathering where group dynamics and feelings can change very quickly. To insure that the guests are having a good time, it is assumed that if you are attending the party that you will participate sexually at the level you are comfortable doing. Not everyone has to fuck everyone. If you feel that participating is no longer right for you, then of course no one would feel insulted if you changed your mind and felt you would prefer to leave.
14) Condom use is NOT your choice. This is totally up to the ladies. If they say you wear one, then you wear one so bring them with you. And remember that a fresh condom is required for each new participant. No "double dipping" !!!
15) Not all participants will be into anal sex - but just as a reminder NO DOUBLE DIPPING !
please be sure to wash with soap and water before continuing with any play after enjoying anal sex !
16) For some of the guests this is the first time they have ever done anything like this. They are nervous about it going well, about your behavior, etc. While ALL are also very enthusiastic about participating and are very aroused about it (to say the least (grin) they still have some worries and doubts. If we all make SURE that is goes well, that all respect is shown and that the proper behavior and decorum is shown both to the guests and the property we all ensure that everyone has a great time then we know that this will not be the last time we can do this, but rather this will be just the beginning of many fun parties !
17) There will be a total of 5 rooms available for play. Doors to all rooms will remain closed at all times, unless someone is entering or exiting. Room # 1 will be "HE'S THE BOSS"
Room #2 "SHE'S THE BOSS", Room # 3 is the main (free for all) room, Room # 4 " Newbies ONLY ". Room # 5 To be announced later. Each room will be labeled. Everyone will be given a pen and paper, to write down their interests and then put on a blindfold. This is your ONE chance at anonymity !!!!!!!
While EVERYONE is blindfolded, the host will come around, take your paper, and deliver you to the room of your choice. Some people are curious, or know that this is exactly what they want, they just don't want their partner to know of their fantasy/interests. This is your chance to get what you really want !!!!
1 Both rooms, "He's the boss, and She's the boss, will have one single person in charge(for each room) of everyone's safety. This person will not drink, or take part in the play of this room, unless another person is appointed the job by the HOSTESS. This person will remain fully clothed throughout the event.
There are other things to consider.. You may want to make participation mandatory for entry into the "He's the boss, and She's the boss" rooms.
Suppose you and your partner want to go into the dom room. Maybe you've never discussed this with your partner. At first everyone is blind folded so no one knows which particular room their playmate went into. If you both end up in the same dom room......... it will be something to share....... not only at the party, but shared later after they go home...... rather than one person having hurt feelings because they found out "by accident" ...just looking......... verses, they BOTH have the same desires and for whatever reason......
19) You may not enter and leave rooms 1 and 2 repeatedly, for the sake of just watching. You may enter any room ONCE. The second time you enter, you will participate. Remember, that rooms 1 and 2 will have a "Master at Arms". Someone who is not drinking or playing. Their sole job is to manage all that goes on in the room, who enters, who leaves, and who returns.
20) Everyone gets a safe word. Please do not think that you do not need it. Not only for safety's sake, it is also to be used to put an IMMEDIATE hold on the situation for whatever reason. Whether it be due to extreme muscle cramp, whatever. The safe word is " REDLIGHT " Do not use it unless it is needed, do not say it in casual conversation. This is strickly reserved for it's intended use. Please be aware of anyone saying this word. If this word is said, EVERYTHING in the room STOPS IMMEDIATELY !! No questions asked, NO HESITATION. If you do not comply, you will be escorted out. This is not to say that things can't resume after the situation is assessed. It could be a real emergency.
21) A curtain will cover the main entrance of the hall that leads to rooms 1, 2 and 3 so that the people in main room, do not see which room you were in as you re-enter the main room. Again, all doors will be kept closed at all times
22) Some of the people attending the party are Bi. If you are totally straight, not negotiable, not curious, 100% forget it.... then guys, please wear a blue ribbon around your wrist, and ladies, please wear a red ribbon around your wrist so that everyone knows what your limits are. If you do not wear the ribbon, it is understood, that you are Bi. LADIES : If you are bi-curious, and would possibly consider allowing another woman touch you.... then please wear a pink ribbon. Please do not feel that "returning the favor" is expected. It is not. This party is intended to be fun, and a great way to relax and relieve some stress, not create it. If at anytime you feel too uncomfortable with the situation, please say "redlight".

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