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Suffering an AFF relapse thanks to hornyhotmilf15 (not a compliment)  

realnicedik4u 62M  
61 posts
8/9/2015 2:52 pm
Suffering an AFF relapse thanks to hornyhotmilf15 (not a compliment)

After realizing a few years ago that some women on AdultFriendFinder aren't worth getting upset with, I thought I was making progress. I've really enjoyed camming and there are some women who, even though I may never meet them in person, are fun to chat with especially while I'm camming.. I've had numerous women enjoy my cams, pics, and videos and for those who don't like then that's their prerogative. However there are some women who not only lack manners but are also conceited, rude, and borderline racists as well. I've never called out a member before but after my interaction with her I would suggest any man to stay away from hornyhotmilf15. So here's the story:

I noticed hornyhotmilf15 and thought her pics were nice. Never contacted her and as a standard member I can't see much anyway. Saw her on cam and admittedly she has a nice body. I saw her on IM so I decided to tell her how much I liked the cam. Conversation went something like this:

Me: Just wanted to tell you your cam was very nice
Her: Thank you.
Me: My cam isn't as hot as yours but you're welcome to watch if you'd like
Her: Not interested but continue watching mine.

Now I thought that last comment was rather conceited but I let it go. The next reply from her (and I hadn't replied back) pushed me:

Her: Black dick!, Gross!

OK, so you don't like black men, that's fine. But to make that unsolicited remark (I made no attempt previously to convince her to try black, that's not my style), just wasn't needed and clearly told me she finds nothing appealing about black men. Now I know some people are against any interracial contact (yes she's white), but if you're not interested just say so and let it go. In my case since I didn't press her on her preferences she could have simply said sorry but I prefer white men or just not reply at all.

So I needed a comback. Since I know French and "gross" in French means "big" I came back with the following reply:

Me: Thanks for saying that, gross means big in French and I've been called a BBC. Thanks for the compliment.

If she didn't jump off a cliff after that reply she was close LOL. She starts calling me names and that point I suffered my relapse and told her to " stay with needle dick, stupid bitch". The guy was small but it's the first and only time I called a woman a bitch here but I honestly felt she deserved it for her classless remarks. So I blocked her and hoping she's done the same to me.

For the women out there who feel they've been mistreated by men here, don't assume every man is the same and also don't feel that if you're not interested that you have to be rude and classless like hornyhotmilf15. If the guy is rude to you that's one thing, but if he approaches you with respect and he doesn't fit your preferences\physical appearance, just politely say "thanks but I'm not interested" or don't reply at all. You could also do us men a favor and stop viewing our profiles as if you're interested. I've been told by women that I accept rejection too easily but I'm always going to respect those preferences as it makes it easier for everyone involved to move on. That being said there's a silver lining with another member that I'll talk about in another post.

Just being Real

1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
8/9/2015 3:23 pm

 Sadly a lot of us here are not displaying adult behaviour. Ignore and move on, enjoy the day


realnicedik4u 62M  
79 posts
8/9/2015 3:25 pm
    Quoting  :
You are correct. Since I'm not hitting on men it doesn't apply to me LOL but there are classless men out there as well and probably deserve to be called out.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/9/2015 3:25 pm

 That was so wrong. Try not to judge all women on one classless ...........


realnicedik4u replies on 8/9/2015 5:10 pm:
I have never judged anyone as a group, only as individuals. That's how stereotyping begins. No need to worry about how I interactive with other women

realnicedik4u 62M  
79 posts
8/9/2015 3:26 pm
    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Sadly a lot of us here are not displaying adult behaviour. Ignore and move on, enjoy the day
Yes, I'm hoping that will be my last relapse


nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
8/9/2015 3:40 pm

 A bitch indeed...that was totally unnecessary!!!!!!
WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


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