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Dude is gone now
Posted:May 20, 2015 4:09 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2017 3:09 pm

I LOVE my lil buddy with all my heart.

That is all I can say right now.
Question for Women – Do you . . .
Posted:May 18, 2015 5:27 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2018 4:19 pm

My question is: Do women feel like they “owe” a guy something when he opens doors, pays for a date, etc. Given my answer to the ‘Women’s Lib’ post I would like to know if I am in the ballpark. Which was: “I prefer to pay for dates out, maybe because I'm an "old" guy. The same goes of opening doors etc. Yes I know women can open doors but I just like to do nice things for them. Neither are done to make a woman feel like she owes me something.”

Yes, I know not all women are the same, so I am looking for some general input. I would really like to know what is going on inside your heads and/or hearts when a guy does these things. I’m not looking for a PC answer either.

I do those things because; I care about the woman I am with, I respect the woman I am with, I enjoy doing nice things for the woman I am with. I do not think she is weaker because I do them, I know they can.

Just a guy trying to figure y’all out.
Heeeerrres Dude – a picture
Posted:May 18, 2015 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2018 4:45 pm
I was able to get a couple from my ex so
Heeeerrres Dude when he was younger the white spot is a reflection.

He is the most lovable cat in the world.
Stay furry my friends.

Dude my lil buddy – a short reprieve
Posted:May 15, 2015 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2017 3:09 pm

I was going to spend the day outside with Dude today, but it’s been raining all day.

My ex also wants to spend some time with him and so do a couple neighbors; he is very popular in the neighborhood. So, since he isn't in pain, and the memorial service for a friend (in my posting about Alcohol) is also on Saturday, and schedule stuff, we have postponed the final vet appointment until Wednesday. He will get lots of love and outside time before he goes.

Now that I have gotten some food and water into him, via syringe, which I hate having to do to him, he has been more active. He also has eaten a little bit on his own today – crunchies yum.

So he and I will sniff the air and watch what is going on around our house (yes it is his house as much as mine). I will tell him that I love him a million times, scratch his ears and give him chin rubs.
An Open Message to SandraD
Posted:May 15, 2015 9:12 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2015 6:43 pm

Hello Sandra,

I’ve read some of your postings and replies to others, you come across as smart and strong. I have not seen the accusations and won’t look for them. What is more important is that I see you have been hurt and are planning on leaving. That makes many people here sad.

You do not have to defend yourself. Since the accusations are not true then they are not about you. They only reflect who or whatever the accuser is. The other people who read your postings have a better idea and appreciation for who you are. You matter and they matter – the rest is just noise.

As far as the site is concerned, personally I have very few expectations of them. They are a business in an unregulated space (the net). Their primary focus is to make money anything more is unfortunately unrealistic.

We, Americans & Canadians too (I believe), have the Right of Free Speech. A part of those rights include being able to say things that others, many others, will not like. That includes bullying and haters. Bullies will be on the net no matter what any of us do. Is it necessary? NO. Can you get away from it? Given the context of sexually based sites probably not.

So what “should” you do? Like I said I’ve read some of postings replies to others about how some people here act. You have essentially said block them. As you can see many people will miss you, so you lose something you have enjoyed and they lose the same. If you allow haters to dictate what you do – they win.

I cannot tell you what to do. So I have a personal request of you – stay and enjoy what you do. Ignore/block or whatever, anyone who doesn’t appreciate what you do. I hope you will remain strong and take the advice you have given others. If your is paying attention to this it will set a strong example for her to follow.
Dude my lil cat buddy – update
Posted:May 15, 2015 8:58 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2017 3:09 pm

Once the rain goes away I am going to spend the day outside with Dude. He was originally an outside guy and eventually chose to hang with me inside half of the time. He was more active yesterday afternoon when we were sitting on the front step, so I will sniff the air and watch what is going on around with him. I will probably tell him that I love him a million times.

I have to feed and give him water with a syringe, which he isn’t fond of. But he has always been a very easygoing guy, so it isn’t too hard, except for the reason why I have to do it.
Dude my lil cat buddy - last update
Posted:May 14, 2015 4:08 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2015 5:03 pm

The x-rays were done today, lungs are cancered up. My ex Cathie is going to look at them just to be sure about the decision. She will want to see him probably tomorrow. So he will be put to sleep Saturday.

I am going to miss him more than I have words to describe
Dude my lil cat buddy – update plus . . .
Posted:May 13, 2015 3:57 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2017 3:09 pm

Vet called today with blood test results. It shows increased calcium level, which could be an indication of cancer. Since his breathing was “a bit rough” it could be there. Next step is x-rays to see further. So I am not happy. I’m going to talk to the ex, Cathie, who I was with in 2009 when Dude limped into our lives. We knew he tested positive for feline HIV or leukemia then but we were told it could be that he had been vaccinated – long story. Cathie and I are friends so I will see what she thinks/feels.

To add to that . . . my most recent ex (2013), MG, called from out of the blue. Her fiancé split (actually her 2nd fiancé split in 1 year) and she called me. She knows I would drop pretty much everything to fix what we had (much more than just a sex thing) – another long story. That is pretty much the reason why I ended up here. Whether she will see/listen/hear or whatever is way up in the air.

So I am in a pretty shitty / confused place right now. As I read this it makes me seem like an f’n drama queen, which I am not.

Again, I am asking everyone to please pray, or whatever you do, for my lil buddy.

Thank you
Dude my lil cat buddy
Posted:May 12, 2015 5:51 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2018 4:44 pm

Just got back from the vet, he was dehydrated and his lungs sound a bit rough. He got an anti-biotic shot, fluids and they took some blood for tests. Tests are for HIV, other functions plus Thyroid. All kinda like happened to me. Thyroid is important in cats.

So please pray, or whatever, that my lil dude will be a good with the tests. They should be in tomorrow, so I probably won’t get any sleep. I’m kinda scared, I love my lil buddy a lot. I promised him when he arrived here that I would do all I could to keep him healthy and happy.
Alcohol & Final Lap
Posted:May 8, 2015 11:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2018 4:30 pm
I just got news that a good friend of mine, Donald, died this AM. He was 41 years old and could not or would not kick his alcohol problem.

We were racing buddies; he crewed for me for a while in the 90’s. In 2011 we raced an off-road car together, the first, and only, pro race he drove in. I have offered one of my checkered flags to his mom to go with him.

People, if you can’t control what you do just don’t fucking do it. When you die it effects the people who care about or need you. He is leaving 5 without a father.

I may post more about him later.

Below is a pic of the car in action

An apology
Posted:May 7, 2015 11:43 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2015 11:34 am

No, this is not sex related, but this subject has been discussed here before so . . .
First, I am a huge football fan. I expect the game to be played by the rules.

Mr. Kraft, whom I care little about one-way or another, has asked for an apology in regard to “Deflategate”. He probably isn’t going to get one from the NFL. So this will have to suffice.

I am sorry you have a number of dishonest people working for you. I am sorry you and those people lack integrity.
I am sorry but your team deserves to lose a significant number of draft picks.
I am sorry that you have a team name that you do not represent well or deserve to use.

I am sorry your highly talented and accomplished quarterback thought he had to;
- get involved in tampering with the game balls,
- lie to cover up that tampering,
- has now lost a significant amount of integrity
I am sorry but Mr. Brady deserves to be significantly suspended.

I am sorry your coach, who is probably one of the best football minds in the game, thinks we believe he ‘does not know’ anything about how the balls were dealt with.
I am sorry but Mr. Bela-cheat (hummm, sorry, I guess my auto correct did that, I know nothing about it) deserves to be significantly suspended.

Finally, I am sorry that you are such a sorry example for anyone to follow.


Disclaimer: I am a die-hard RAIDER baby. And, I really, really hate dishonest people.
Question for Women, what do you consider . . .
Posted:Feb 19, 2015 4:08 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2015 4:08 pm

to be the definition of a BBW?

I know BBW means Big Beautiful Woman. The question is what constitutes big?

Many here claim this is what they are, just curious I guess.

Thank you,
I’m not a teacher here
Posted:Jan 28, 2015 3:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2016 3:06 pm

I was told that I should “Try and teach them how to be real men, or even gentlemen.”

I have a few questions for anyone who cares to honestly answer or comment.

I do not know any of the males on this site, good or otherwise. I am not their boss, parent, mentor or teacher. Since they do not seem to pay attention to women, or other men, what would make you think they would pay any attention to what I say?

I am responsible and answerable for my comments here, no one else’s. If people don’t like what I have to say why would they want me to teach what I know?

I welcome any credible, constructive and on point answers or comments.

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