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Response to the "Other Woman"
Posted:Feb 11, 2009 10:30 am
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2009 9:58 am
I am not going to waste any cordial greetings with you, and am going to just get down to business. Yes, I think that you are a bitch and here are the reasons why as if I have to explain them but apparently you are just that damn dumb. I will handle him in my own way, don't you worry about that but as a fellow female, it would seem that you would have some sort of respect for yourself as well as myself but it is obvious that you have neither. If you had the slightest amount of respect for yourself you would not be involved with a man who is in a relationship with another WOMAN! You must enjoy being called a homewrecker, , , slut, and yes BITCH!!

It may be true that there were some issues before you came along, however, if he wanted to leave he could have BEFORE YOU!! He has said nothing to me about wanting to leave or no longer continue the relationship so what does that tell you, girl!! I call you a GIRL, because you are immature. A mature woman stands on her own, and finds a man who is gonna be hers and hers ALONE, not go after someone who is in a relationship. The blame is 50/50 in my eyes. I am actually a little disappointed in you, because at first glance you seem fairly intelligent, boy did you have me fooled.

He will make a choice, whether he likes it or not. In truth, if he wanted you, he would have already been gone. He is a grown man, capable of making decisions on his own. I will not lie and say that I don't love him, because I do. BUT I WILL NOT PLAY 2ND for anyone, so this decision will be made quickly. I hope that when it finally sinks in you do not find yourself too broken up........that's a lie!! I hope it hurts like hell because then you can feel the way that I feel right at this moment knowing that I have to deal with this bullshit!

But I hope you and others like you take a long look inside of yourselves and see that when a man has someone else, and he has to sneak around with YOU, that is NOT anything but shame and guilt. You should not settle for that because we women should stick together and set a higher value on ourselves. You really ought to value yourself more. Now I have made vows with him, and we will have to make some decisions about where we are to go from here, but you dear need to wake up and walk away. You don't have him. You never did.

A Booty-Call is not a relationship!

Now where is YOUR dignity?
From the Other Woman.........
Posted:Feb 10, 2009 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 2:23 pm

I am writing this to just state my side of things. First of all, I am not going to apologize for anything that I have done, because I do not feel as if I owe you one. You may think that I am a bitch, and that is fine, it doesn't bother me because I have been called much worse. Anyway, in the beginning I was unaware of his relationship with you, and perhaps to you, I should have ended things or curbbed things once I found out; but why didn't he do that? If what you share is so wonderful and special why would he look to me for anything in the first place? So do not pour out all of the blame on me, because he is the one that has made promises to you, not me. I do not know you, therefore I do not owe you anything.

Maybe he enjoys my company; my conversation, or my sense of humor. Could it be that he loves that special thing that I do with my tongue or how I arch my back a certain way. Now, don't get mad but maybe you should learn some new things in the bedroom. Oh hell, get out of the bedroom. Maybe he wants to be adventurous, and you are being a fuddy duddy. I am not going to go as far as to say that he is in love with me, but I do believe that I am very special to him without a doubt. If you don't like it....tough. He is NOT going to stop messing around with me. I am not asking him to leave you for me, but if he does then so be it. Apparantly something wasn't all together all right before I came along.

Now, I am told that there are involved. Ooops! But he is such an awesome person, I can't stay away from him even for them. You may think that I don't care about anyone but myself, but I do care for him. I know it hurts to now know that you are not as special as you had thought, but what is a girl to do? I have what he needs, and wants, so if you want to let him go, then ok. You couldn't get him from me even if you tried your hardest. Just accept it that you have lost. Walk away now with as much dignity as possible.

The Other Woman.........

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Posted:Feb 10, 2009 4:04 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 2:23 pm
She stands in the shadows, because she is afraid to be seen.

She hides her feelings from the world, because she is unsure if they are real.

There are those who see her, yet refuse to truly see who she is within.

She lives in a world of hurt, fear, and pain.

She dreams of him rescuing her from it all, yet she knows, he will let her down just as the others.

Her heart, lonely, aching, hoping, wishing, is all she has and there are days, she wishes it would leave her in peace.

Peace will only come in death........
You Better Make Me Holla!!!
Posted:Feb 2, 2009 7:15 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2009 1:45 pm
I love to have sex, anyone who knows me or has read my blog knows that is a fact that I am not ashamed of at all!!! But there are somethings that a man has to be able to do in order to truly receive the full passion of Lady!! I have to be turned on completely and in full force!!

Light kiss--------makes me wet!!(Will probably pull u in closer)

Massage-------makes me wet!!! (Will scrunch my ass up to you!)

Grab my ass------wheeeeeew!!!! (Will bend over!!)

Bite my nipples--------whoooooa!!!(Legs are openning!)

Suck on my clit---------SHIT!!!!(Mouth is watering for dick!)

Bend me over and fuck the shit out of me.........stand me up......sideways..........missionary.......let me ride....... but dammit if you make me holla......we can do it again!!!!

But only if you make me Holla!!

What is the MUST DO for you?

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Posted:Jan 30, 2009 10:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 2:23 pm
I had a pretty good nite tonite!!! A couple of my friends and I went to a tattoo shop and we got tattoos and piercings!! I got my tongue pierced!! I love it already!! I love the way it feels in my mouth, and I cannot wait to try it out with D!!!! WHEW!!!! But I have a few questions....HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PIERCINGS? WHERE AND WHEN IS IT A TURN ON OR TURN OFF? DO YOU HAVE ANY? HHHMMMMM WHERE???

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Posted:Jan 26, 2009 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 2:23 pm
Dear Heart,

We have to get on the same page. You and I have been at odds for a while now, and things don't seem to be getting any better, so I thought I would write you a love letter of sorts. I know that you are lead by emotions, and I am lead by logic, and being opposites some may believe that we are unable to work together, but I disagree. Don't you? All that is needed to be done is for you to realize that I should be the one who takes the lead. The only reason I say this is because, logic should always be at the head of any decisions, especially those that will affect our lives.

I know that you remember the times when you lead.....do we have to rehash those memories to prove my point? Well, let's think back to the boy you were so in love with in middle school? What did he do to us? Ok, what about David? Yeah, it was back in high school, but do you remember the hell we went through with him? If you had just listened to reason, it would have saved us a lot of pain. What about the man you convinced us to marry? You were so adamant about it you even shouted me out!!! What happened to that forever you kept screaming? We all ended up in divorce court!!!! Oh the memories!! Sorry, if I sound sarcastic, but a lot of pain could have been avoided if you had just not been so stubborn!!

Now you really have me worried, with the route you currently have us on, and I am hoping that you would please just consider relinquishing control just for a little while. We need to be logical about the situation.

Ok, well, that is all I have to say for now. I hope you will understand what I am trying to do for the both of us. I look forward to hearing from you very soon.


The Brain
Posted:Jan 26, 2009 2:58 pm
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2009 7:37 pm
I have always thought of myself as a "protective" person......yet I never thought of me being a "jealous" female. Today, I was talking to a friend of mine, and I actually stated before I even thought about it that I get jealous! I stopped for a minute, then kinda laughed; but then I asked her: "What's wrong with a little jealousy as long as you don't go all psyco?" There are individuals, who claim to not experience jealousy, yet I do not know many! I believe people do not like to use the term jealous, or jealousy, because it makes one seem insecure with oneself. Maybe, maybe not......... but what is the big deal?

I have been in a relationship for nine years, and as much as I say, that I do not mind a female eyeing my man, I do not want it to go any farther than that!! PERIOD!!! I know that he loves me....but yeah, I would be upset if I walked into the club and seen him bumping and grinding all up on some female. Yeah, it's just a dance, but I find dancing a form of intimacy, when it comes to a slow jam!! Some call it dry humping, but whatever! I am not the female that gets jealous of my man looking at a female.........if someone is beautiful, how could you avoid it?

Do you think that jealousy can harm or heat up a relationship? There are some deeper issues if it goes to psycho stalker, but can someone be driven over the edge by jealousy or insecurity? Is it possible for someone to be neglected to the point of insanity? What type of things cause jealousy or insecurity? The person who feels the jealousy, are they insecure, or is it because of his/her lover's actions?

Just a little thinking going on in my mind, right now!! So what do you think? Do you think a little jealousy in your mate is a turn on or a turn off?

Speak up and Out!!

(* Just trying to get u guys riled up!!! I am not a jealous person!!!)
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Sexual BEAST!!!
Posted:Jan 23, 2009 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2009 6:47 pm
I look into his eyes and I am instantly turned on. In his eyes I see a plan, and when this man has a plan in mind, orgasms flow! As he throws my coat onto the chair he pulls me close and kisses me! I feel my juices flow as I become lightheaded. He pulls me in closer almost as if he could sense my knees buckling beneath me. When he finally releases my mouth from his I try to catch my breath and stumble backward a little. He flashes me an evil grin as he takes my hand. I can hear him saying something, but I am still overwhelmed by the passion of his kiss, and the softness of his lips to make out what he is saying. He stops me in front of the couch and pulls me into an embrace, that is unable to be described except for these two words........Full Body!!! His arms wrapped around me, his lips sliding down mu neck as he smoothly removes my blouse and with both hands grip my enormous DDs!!!! I am in LOVE!! This man has my blood boiling without making me angry! Amazing!! I run my hands under his shirt and feel that solid chest and his smooth abs, but before I can go any further much less any lower, he whips me around.

Now with my back facing him he slides those big hands of his down my thigh. He was taller than I so as he slid,I bent!!! Here I am bent over in front of this man, feeling as if I am sex starved and he is grinding his hard as dick into me!! He at first playfully smacks my ass!! The next slap leaves my ass stinging, and my pussy dripping. He slips his hand into my panties and begins to tease my clit as I am bent over. His hands are skilled in every conceivable way. My knees buckle again as he sends me into a climax. He commands me to go into the bedroom, and I say "NO! Fuck me here!!! NOW!"
He gives me "the eye" and oooooooh I know I am in for it now!!
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My Shoes Will Get Wet!!
Posted:Jan 10, 2009 10:37 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2009 8:06 pm

It's cold and pouring down rain. A part of me just wants to stay homw not wanting to trod through the rain in my new black and red stilletos. I love these shoes. I feel sexy as hell in them, too damn sexy to waste the aura of them on mudpuddles! I hear the rain speed up as I look at myself in the mirror. I look at the way my black lace panties fit nicely on my ass. I run my hands over my breasts loving the way the satin and lace bra raises my hefty 44 DDs and I begin to smile.....This woman isn't afraid of the rain! I slip on a very sheer black shirt and an unbelievably devine short black skirt! I run my fingers through my hair, look into the mirror again, grab my coat and umbrella as I slip on my sex shoes and head towards the door. Only one thought on my mind. I wanted to be bent over, standing in my sex shoes and that big hard dick pounding my wet pussy until my legs gave way.

I swirl my coat around my shoulders, and with one of my arms within my other hand grabs the umbrella and reaches for the door. I pull the door open and there stands this sexy dark skinned man with gorgeous eyes grabs my arm and backs me into the house as he pulls my coat from my body.```````````````

To Be Continued.......
Hello Again and Happy New Year!!!!!
Posted:Jan 10, 2009 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2009 8:05 pm

I know that it has been awhile since I have been around and let me tell ya, I have missed my friends!!! Just alittle update on D and I...... Yes, we are still together!!! I had back surgery this summer, and am doing pretty well. U know nothing is going to stop me from achieving my goals in any aspect of my life especially in the bedroom!! LOL!! I am attending college, this is actually my second year and have a 3.3 GPA!! But don't worry, I will keep it dirty in my little corner!! For those who know me, yeah the passion is still burning and ooooooooh it is hot!!! I have some awesome stories to tell you guys about!!! HOT!!! HOT!!!! HOT!!!!! To those who don't know.....Lady, (that's me)does the blogging!! WWWWWEEEEEEEEEHHHHHHEEEEEE do I have some adventures to tell you about!!!! But this is just a little hello to let you all know that we are back!!

Blogging Soon!!!!

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Got Loneliness???
Posted:Apr 16, 2007 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2008 4:08 pm
Have you ever felt ALONE? I mean really alone. Feeling as if you are walking through this world and that no one has your back, your front or anything else!!! I have. Have you ever felt as though everyone you love always find a way to disappoint you, no matter what you do or say; no matter how hard you try to show that person your feelings are real and deep.......soul wrenchinly true? I have. I have felt as if I was living in this deep dark cloud and just couldn't find my way out. There were times when I didn't want to come out. I just use to pray that it would engulf me, and just allow me to disappear. Then things would get better, and I would see the sunlight for awhile, only to have that damn darkness return 10 times worse than before. So how do you get out of the pit when it just becomes too damn hard to climb out yourself, and you feel there is no one to help you out? I can tell you what I have done. I have cried my way through it. Sounds weird doesn't it? But that is how I get up and get out!! I face the darkness every single day and cry as I fight through the shadows and make it through. I have found that is MY way of dealing with it. See, there is no way to prevent the shadows from encroaching into my life, but I deal with them. I feel eventually I will run out of tears and have to create another way for me to get through but I know that I can and WILL!!! But today I have to cry.
Should I be mad?? I want to hear what you think?
Posted:Apr 2, 2007 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2009 11:24 am
Ok, here is the deal. As everyone knows D and I are here to meet a bifemale, for both of our pleasures. We are also on another site. Anyway, D and I at times chat separately, which is no big deal as long as each of us make it know what we are looking for. Right?? Right. Ok, anyway, D began chatting with this female who supposedly knew about me. Well, we thought that everything was all good, so D gave her the cell #. Ok, no big deal, right???? Wrong, this trick is not bisexual. It was all a lie to try to get to D!!!! Ain't that bitch??? Now, D is not answering her calls.

Now, would you be mad if you found out that someone of the opposite sex was calling for your partner, even after they found out that about you. Along with the fact that he/she is not what you are looking for? How would you handle the situation. I am a little upset, because the cell # is suppose to come with both of us agreeing on the person. I am not usually an insecure person, but I can't help but wonder what type of conversations were going on when I wasn't around. I mean something had to be said, for her to keep calling unless she is a stalker. What do you think??? Oh yeah, the fem only lives about 2-3 hours from us!! Come on people tell me what you think!!!

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Got my Sex Shoes!!!
Posted:Mar 28, 2007 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2007 10:00 am

Some men, find it sexy for a woman to keep her heels on while he fucks her!!! Some men like to keep their socks on!!! (I hate it when a man keeps his socks on, don't ask me why but I do!!) Fellas, do you like it when a woman is wearing a high pair of pumps or do you prefer bare feet? Check out the poll and answer. Leave a comment if you feel you want to be specific!!
I love to fuck a woman while she is wearing a pair of sexy shoes.
I rather be the one wearing the heels during sex.
I love wearing a pair of sexy heels while he is fucking me.
I prefer my lady to be barefooted.
It doesn't matter to me, as long as we are fucking
I prefer to be barefooted.
I prefer a woman in a pair of sexy high heeled boots.
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