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This group,,,,,,,
Posted:Nov 3, 2016 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2020 10:11 am

I have been struggling with this for a couple of years now. I have now reached a point where I can no longer do this. It has become a thankless time eating chore.

So before I explain why, I need to thank 3 people who have helped me over the years. First a huge thanks to our former group Hosts clydecouple2 or as many know them as Bill and June. Guys you have helped set up, been there for advice and a listening post all these years. I feel as if I have let you down for doing this. Next and just as important was slow_n_easy007. She helped me with finding guys and running the parties. Thank you for helping with clean up and set up.

I have been asked by a couple of people what happened? I honestly can not say, but the end result is a lack of people attending. I can stab some guesses as to why. Its not a Hotel party, I charge everyone, My home is old and the stairs suck going upstairs. My house is not nice enough for folks. Lack of big TV. No music, not wild enough. Lack of Gold membership.

Over the years I have been told by most everyone how much they enjoyed the party and they can not wait for the next one. Then with that they pretty much disappear never to be heard from again. I have screened people to keep out the riff raff. This takes time. A lot of time. I hear all the time how I need to do more parties. Every month at least. So early in the start up of this I tried to fill in with smaller parties. And people stopped attending. Flash forward to the last few months where every month has had something going on. The result ,,, the same, people stop attending. This time I barely had 5 guys.

As your Host I always do not get to play. Nor do I always have the time to set and wait for a space. There are times when if you want a bonfire, I have to set out there and light the fire and watch it through the evening, Yes for the first couple hours of the party I was on my phone a lot. This seemed to have rubbed some people the wrong way. Well I was on it directing others to the party, taking calls about being late and of course the I can't show up calls. I thought hosting would open doors for me. However it seems to have closed doors for me. I know of several events that happened and no invite was extended. Or in one case an invite was extended then the info was never sent along. I have had one couple, time4fun662 that has ever invited me to anything. On a side note this couple and clydecouple2 are the only ones where the ladies ever gave me a huge thank you hug and kiss at the end of the night. Thank you Ladies!

So where does this bring us to for the here and now? Good question and one to be honest I am not sure of. I hope that perhaps people will use the group site for events or meeting local people. There may be some gangbangs from time to time. I have a large project in the house coming up. If I get this done and depending on how things go, I may have a party in the summer. No promises. What I would do is turn the group over to someone else. What ever I am doing is not working. So if someone else wishes to step up let me know. I have asked for ideas and suggestions on this blog and all I get is more silence each time. I just can not go on like this.

To all that attended over the years, my honest thanks for attending. To my regulars, I am sorry I let you down. I had hoped for more.

Private Message
Posted:Jul 9, 2015 5:21 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2020 6:43 pm

This post has been set to private. Only the host can see your message. Have a question or need to contact us then leave it here. You can leave party info here also.
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Who we are and the rules, Please read
Posted:Jul 7, 2015 8:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2019 6:56 am

We are a no drama group that meets a few times a year. We are older, most of our couples are in their 40's. We accept couples, females and males. We have a no pressure to play policy, this means you can show up and not have to play.

Our parties have been so far at private homes. Since you are coming into someones home expect to be screened.

The old rules

1 No means NO

2 Respect others

3 no drugs, this covers pot also. Drinking in moderation is ok.

The NEW rules
1 If you desire to attend you will send the host a face picture, phone number and a non AdultFriendFinder way to contact you.

2 Three strikes and you are out rule. If you break one of the old rules that is a strike against you. 3 times you are out. For those that cancel with out a good excuse within 24 hours of the party this is considered 1 strike. If you are a no call no show that is 2 strikes against you. If you are a day of the party request/invite and you no call no show that is 3 strikes and you will be blocked.

3 If you sign up as a couple and your partner backs out then you are now a single. Single females we always have a spot for. Let us know so that we may invite another male. For men you will go on the single male list. You may no longer be invited because we may have all the men we need. You will go on a back up list. IF YOU SHOW UP AT THE PARTY WITHOUT LETTING US KNOW BEFORE THE PARTY,YOU WILL BE TURNED AWAY and this will be 2 strikes against you.
Looking at the parties and learning something
Posted:Nov 8, 2015 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2015 9:48 am

So why do we leave the party postings up from past parties? I have been asked this recently. Well they are left up for others to learn from. I will not make comments about those that show. People who show up once may not like our parties and decided not to attend more. Sometimes someone will not be a fit or act strangely and not be invited back. Where the real education comes from are those that are listed as no call, no shows. These are people that often times have begged to attend, then just never show up. Beware of these fakes. If they do not show at a party, will they show up for you? Answer is probably not. Those listed as a cancellation have called and said they could not make it.
What are you looking for to start swinging again?
Posted:May 19, 2020 8:17 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2020 7:54 pm

So what conditions are you waiting for to start playing again? Is it numbers, A vaccine, Warmer weather? I want to know so spill the beans.
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Summerish party
Posted:Mar 19, 2020 11:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2020 9:25 pm

So I was thinking of trying a single ladies and couples party. This was suggested as a way to attracted some new ladies and couples.

First off how much interest in having one is there? Who is interested?

Next I really can not set a date yet until we all see where this virus thing is going. I have dates for this to be over as far out as late June or early July.

For those of you that have attended before comment here. Those that are interested but have not attended a party, leave a way to contact you in the private blog section, so that I can chat with you and answer any questions you have.
So now we are getting looked at!
Posted:Feb 4, 2020 11:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2020 6:48 pm

First off thank you to all that commented on our last post. It is still up and I am looking for more comments.

So I am getting lots of winks, flirts and friend requests. So here are my thoughts on many things going on. Sorry this is going to be the shotgun approach.

First to those, mostly guys, that send me friends requests. I am going to decline unless you have attended a party. If we and we have a great bonding perhaps. I AM not going to friend you without knowing you.

Gentleman, which I use loosely with some of you. You send me a picture of your dick. First I am a straight , so it does not impress . Is this your way of telling who you are? The size of your cock does not mean you are invited to a party only on that. Ladies just a vag picture is not cutting it either!

Why oh why are you gold members sending a standard member ??? Surely you must know we can not reply back. You want to talk, then scroll up from here to the private post section and leave a way to contact you. Then we can .

Finally, this grows and meets when people actually respond and join in the blog.

Thanks all
Ok, gloves off
Posted:Jan 29, 2020 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2020 9:59 pm

So it has been awhile since the last party. I am getting asked for another. The problems are many. First it is mostly guys that are asking. For the most part the size of the parties are determine by the of ladies that attend. I try keep the mix at 2 guys for every Lady. I have bumped that up if I have a Lady that asks for more guys. I have done this as not scare away single ladies that have inquired about attending and feel that the party will turn into gangbang on them. be honest it has seemed impossible get single ladies attend. I have spent hours on a phone with them answering all kinds of questions and assuring them this is a safe place attend. Nothing happens without their consenting it. It appears this is not working as I have had anywhere from 2 to 4 single Ladies ask me about each party and never sign up. What do you want see get you attend a party?

Lets talk about couples next. Some of the problems for the single Ladies cross transfer here couples. I DO understand that you want keep your wife safe. Again I have spent HOURS on the phone with couples answering and recovering the answers over again and again in the on and on. What do you want see get you attend?

Alright you single guys last. With the exception of a couple of guys you have been respectful of the rules and behaved. For those that showed up! The last couple of the get togethers it was getting harder and harder to get guys to show. What is going on here? I have been accused by more than one guy on here of these parties being gay in nature with the aim of tricking straight guys to attend so that they will be used and converted becoming gay or bisexual. Does anyone believe this? What do you want see in order attend?

Overall here are other concerns I have, First off, Home. I have the feeling that some folks have turned their noses up at house. I know its an old Farm House, but its what I have. I have been working on it so perhaps it has not shown its best side always. I am sorry if I have let you down there. Many Hotels from understanding are now cracking down on parties. Besides You can moan and scream at place and not get a phone from the front desk!

Putting together a party is time consuming. So do I charge more to have some extra cleaning done? Do I put a limit on the length of phone calls? How do I get more Couples and single woman? You may laugh at this but do I charge more? Have I not charged enough? Am I being to cheap?

I am looking for answers. To any groups there with advice, I welcome your input.
That just threw a wrench in things
Posted:Jul 20, 2019 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2019 5:58 pm

So IM has been acting up on here for the last several days. First it was thing now its something else....or is it, hmmm. So I notice the other night the message about standard members not getting more than 3 IMs a day was gone. Yup as another nail in the coffin of AdultFriendFinder, they have now taken away IM standard members. Not that as a single guy I ever meet many on here, but host the was another topic. So not sure how to at going on from here.

Ideas please! is join just for a month before the parties. So thats like 30 bucks which I guess I could spread guests. Another is figure a way me with their info so I can them. Any ideas here???
Fall 2019 party?
Posted:Jul 20, 2019 10:16 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 10:24 pm

So I have been working on the house. Depending if I get some more things done and I can solve one little problem... looking at a swing party in late fall. Right now I am seeing how much interest there is. Now remember I need couples and single woman along with some guys. So just hearing from guys alone is not going to cut it.
Summer 2018 party
Posted:Mar 20, 2018 12:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2020 9:49 pm

I am THINKING, notice the word thinking of maybe a party in July. Hosted at my home same things as last time. Before I even start planning, who is interested in attending?
July swing House Party
Posted:Jun 10, 2017 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2017 10:39 pm

Well it seems like that the people have spoken. So once again we will have our Summer House party.

When; Sat, July 22 at 7 pm till ?

Where; Private Home

Who; Any one over 30 can ask to attend. We do allow a number of single males in but keep it around a 2 guys per lady.

How to attend: First read the rules above. Second have a g rated face picture to send to me. Next if you have not attended a party here before, WE MUST CHAT. This means all, females, males and couples. So I will need a Phone number.
The group is a standard member so I can not reply to many of you. If you look above there is a private message section you can leave info at.

This party will be stripped down. There will be no basement or Pool, since no one ever used them. There will be a bonfire out back at dark, so if you desire to play in the yard you may do so.

Anyone have any ideas on what they would like to see?

Couples 7
R & J (called off)
R& K
1HotButt ( 2nd no show, Yes folks they were the couple that sat in their Car for 15 to 20 minutes then drove off without so much of a word. ATTENTION folks this couple just plays games so if you are planning on meeting you have warned)
Naughtynun69 & D

single females 2
Nan (no call no show)

Single males 10


Rahim ( no call no show)
What is fair?
Posted:Sep 11, 2016 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2020 10:48 pm

So I was on IM today having a rare chat with a gentleman. He told me that he had found a party that was asking for single males. When he inquired he was told that single females and couples were free. Single males pay $80.

The first thought that comes to mind is, what the hell? I understand that it does cost money to rent a hotel room. But at that price two guys or three at the most should be able to rent one hell of a room. Where is the rest going?

So allow me to break this down on several levels. First, why is it just assumed or expected that it is correct to charge the man? Do we not have equality? I understand that many men make more money than women. There is a couple on AdultFriendFinder that clearly posts they will only talk to Gold members. I suspect that they feel it is their way of insuring great people. Just because you have money to spend on a gold membership, it does not make you a better person.

So another way to look at this. You are a woman and are having a gangbang for you. Most men can cum once some twice. How many times can you cum? Me guess is several times more. So who is getting more out of the GB? Now in NO way am I suggesting that some how this leaves men off the hook. This does not mean that men now get in free and women have to shoulder the burden.

How much is something worth to you? I gave a person I knew several years ago a car for free. The Dealer wanted to give me nothing for it so they needed a car at the time. Within a couple of months the car was backed into a pole and smashed the rear. Had the one door smashed in. Trashed inside and several others thing done to it. So to answer the question what is free worth? Nothing. So give a party away to women and couples it becomes worth nothing to them. Over charge the men and now they will feel they are entitled to something.

Not to explain all the bad behavior of men here. But when you make one part pay the burden for everyone else what do you expect? There is a better way in my view. How about all pay some? Then all see a value. No one sex feels they are more special than the other because they are free or are supporting everyone else.

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