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A Farewell To AdultFriendFinder Pt.2
Posted:Mar 1, 2012 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2012 11:03 pm
So now you know the reason, and the reason is love, is there a better reason? Actually, the reason is much deeper than love. How do I explain? To rationalise your feelings on a sex site is like digging for gold in a septic tank , you’ll never get much except you know what . Having said that, being ever the optimist, I’m gonna give it a try

Speaking for myself, I’ve grown tired of cold meets, cold encounters, and even colder sex with cold women, but that does not mean that I did not enjoy myself, I did actually, in a perverted sort of way, and I have paid dearly for it To be honest, It made me cold also. Cold in that, sex became nothing more than sort of a game I played where you rake up ego points for looks, body type, performance, capabilities, etc. It’s true believe me. Look at the blogs here that glorify sexual encounters, sex parties, orgies etc. Except for a few, for the rest, all they ever write about are about are looks, body type, performance, capabilities etc. Sounds like a cheap used-car review sometimes . What has become of us? Have we lost our ability to feel? Are our feelings limited to achieving that 5-8 second orgasm? Then what? A little peck, wash up, get dressed, mumble some casual goodbyes and run out as fast as possible? Human interaction has come down to that and it’s sad when you try and do your best to have sex and then run as fast as you can after you’re done. I must admit, I’m a culprit as well

Then you meet someone, who is warm, caring, honest, understanding, beautiful, sexy and bloody good in bed. Someone, whom you are attracted to. Someone, you can talk to, who’d listen to your crap and whom, you’d spent hours just listening to her talk. Someone, you know you care about. You realise that you have feelings for this person, but you’re also aware that deep down inside, the automatic cold review is hard to resist, as in your mind you’d go “wow!, pretty face, nice body, boobs and ass, can do doggie…damm…nice bj, wonder if she would let me do 69 on her?” What do you do? Do you let your cold side get the better of you and use this person for sex without letting emotions get into the way? How many times have you done this, and regretted when you let a good woman/man go? No doubt you’re friends, but to be honest, your ulterior motive is still sex

For me, I’ve always waited for the best. Guess what? It’s been 11 years of waiting for that warm, caring, honest, understanding, beautiful, sexy and bloody good in bed woman without letting my feelings or emotions tell me whether she is warm, caring, honest, understanding, beautiful, sexy and bloody good in bed. I’ve been on auto-pilot too long So what did I do? I took charge of my emotions and learnt to get go. Let things happen naturally and not hold back. We’re still exploring each other relationship-wise and I must say, at the age of 40, I’m discovering an inner maturity when it comes to commitment

Will this fail? Who knows? There is always the risk. But you must give it your 100%, I know I will and with this, I’m happy to announce my farewell to AdultFriendFinder

A Farewell To AdultFriendFinder..Pt.1
Posted:Feb 26, 2012 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2012 11:59 pm

How do I begin this blog. I thought about this thoroughly and I’ve come to the obvious decision to bid farewell to my membership on AdultFriendFinder.

I’ve had some great times here, in my almost 11 years, I’ve met so many wonderful people, memorable lovers, good friends, fantastic couples, not to mention the strange, weird and downright crazy segments of the AdultFriendFinder membership spectrum , I’ve been befriended, loved, adored, respected, liked, confide in, consoled, confronted, scorned, scolded, cited, hated, you name it, I’ve been there, done it, and bought the T-shirt making factory that prints these things

I’ve had so many insanely happy times, partied like a rock star on countless occasions, I’ve loved, lost and cried, I’ve celebrated my life with those who complimented the occasion, I’ve travelled to meet good friends from both local and abroad and they in turn have visited me on their travels. I’ve tasted and learned the bittersweet lessons of adult life on a sex site and understood the needs and wants of men, women and those in between, on this site. I’ve seen the worst and I’ve been lucky to experience the best. I’ve found great company and experienced extreme loneliness, even in a crowd.

I’ve done all of the above and more but I’ve never truly had strong inner deep feelings for anyone…..until now…until I met her .....and yes...you can find love on an adult site....I met her here... The difference in our personal status is glaring not to mention the awkwardness of our first sexual encounter…….(to be continued)
Let Bygones Be Bygones
Posted:Feb 3, 2012 1:32 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2012 8:47 pm
So much has happened in 2011 both in my social and private life and a lot of not so good 'things' looks certain to spill over into 2012. The danger is of course, letting those 'nuisances' corrupt the possibility of an otherwise certain better year ahead for me.

But ever the optimist, I am certain that I will not let my past influence my present thinking. Having said that, I must admit that I do also have my fears, most notably the fear of 'unfinished business', translated meaning past unresolved feuds and fights. These 'issues' both with family and friends will always remain the thorn in my side, the dagger in my back and the virus in my blood.....

But not to worry, I'll try my best to cultivate humility, shun any form of celebrity, restrain my indulgences, spend wisely, be more tolerant of others....and most importantly....be a better person than I was in 2011... help me make the most of my promises folks
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The Enigma of the First Meet :)
Posted:Jan 30, 2012 1:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2012 8:45 pm
Just the other day, someone whom I've been seeing made me remind myself that I've been a member on this site for almost 11 years now ...starting with the oblivious handle of cummalot...moving on to cummalot2 after the untimely demise of my fist handle and eventually settling on cummalot3...

N, whom I spent a 'hot' evening in a 'cute' cool hotel room also asked me about the number of people I've met on this site...girls, guys. couples... and groups and what was my initial reaction upon meeting them ...Yes, I do meet guys but I'm not Gay. I've met them over drinks cuz, what the heck! I love meeting people and I love drinking more . So if you're not a fuck buddy...at least you could be a drinking buddy...both are fun

My reaction upon meeting new faces here has always been the same, time-tested and often time honoured tradition of making them feel at ease...drinks helps of course but it's always been letting the conversation flow and being focused on the personality rather then the person. Confused? well...I really don't care how people look...heck!! i'm no looker myself...its your personality that matters. So people, don't worry about how you look as from my 2-cents experience...your personality matters more than your looks

Btw, it helps to dress decently also

The Eve of Eve
Posted:Jan 5, 2012 2:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2012 10:24 pm
I always believe that what you do on New Year's eve and New Year's Day will in some strange way effect what you do for the rest of the year. It's an old superstition and I'm not one for believing in old wives tales...but I'm not one known for taking unnecessary risk either

My New Year started on the eve of New Year's eve....yeah..I started early and had a date with an interesting lady from here. Surprisingly, there was no traffic jams and I was early, so I started with my usual drink and waited for her.

Ominously, she walked in the bar and walked past me but I soon caught her eye and we had a good time chatting each other up over pint after pint of Guinness. ( I do love a lady who knows how to appreciate the black stuff) . She has a great personality and a fantastic open attitude. Not to mention, a curvy body...at the right places ...we talked about everything...including her time overseas and of course, we talked about my fav city...Penang turns out, she has some Penang experience also

She left early and I continued drinking for the night. We caught up again the next day...which was New Year's Eve at a 'seminar' organized by a friend and later we had our 'little party'....what can I say...the moment I stepped into the shower with her...I had a massive hard-on, I guess I correctly over-complimented her on her smooth, silky body and absolutely smooth, pinkish nipples and pussy...the compliments were from the soul...I went down on her and felt her squirting in my mouth...hmm..hmm...I must say, I came many times that day...and so did she....

Well...thats what I did on New Year's Eve...and New Year's day....so I guess superstition will have it that I'll be doing the same thing the whole year through ...right? btw, what did you do on the eve?
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Seasonal Hope
Posted:Dec 12, 2011 8:40 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2011 12:57 am
Someone I knew long ago, whom I had a brief but wonderful relationship with, called me out of the blue just to say that she'll be thinking of me this Christmas....aaawwwwww

This is such an unexpected but surely most welcomed gesture by this lovely lady, so much so, I'm thinking of reciprocating by going out and buying her an expensive Christmas gift. I'll have to DHL the thing to her in Aussie-land (Australia), but what the heck, I'll be thinking of her, Christmas also

Tis' the season to be grateful for small gestures

On another note, I'll be off on my holidays....and won't be back for many-a-days

Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year yer-all
Ebony and Brownie
Posted:Nov 17, 2011 12:15 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2011 9:38 pm
I've always admired black women and I use the term 'black' with respect knowing that the politically correct term is either coloured, african, carribian or someplace where the people are 'dark-skined'. In short, to say it like I always do, I love them 'soul-sistas'

My experience with one started while I was in the US and this sweet skined hot black lady, Tea (pronounced 'Tea-Yah') who lived next door. She was more lite-cream coloured than black and she had a black bf, a muscular imposing 6 footer with a deep deep voice and at times when I sat on my 1st floor apartment porch at night, I could hear them making love next door with him pounding her hard and his deep voice going "oh Yeah baby!! Yeah!!! Shiiitttt Yeah baaaabbyyy!!!!" suffice to say, she also sounded pretty satisfied

She was friends with my sister whom I lived with and would drop by our place from time to time just to hang out. She had a great warm and friendly attitude and an incredible personality and would often tease my sister in my presence saying things like "wooo..I wouldn't mind having a piece of your brother, I'd give his asian ass summ negro luvvin" my sister, being the traditional asian girl, would roll back her eyes saying "He's no match for you...you'll be very dissapointed"

So much for my sister's predictions, late one evening, while my sister was at work, Tea came by while I was lazying on the couch, in my shorts and tee....she was wearing tight-fitting sweaters and leggings and she jumped in beside me and like pretended to bite my face saying "hmmmm....grrr...I love brown suggarrr" . I was a bit shy back then, so I just gave her a goofy smile and pinched her stomach but then she proceeded to put her legs around moving to dry hump my brown behind ..I guess she could sense that I was incredibly horny while she licked my ear-lobes softly saying "you like that honey" , all this while she was still dry humping me, only this time, she deftly moved in front of me, put her hands in my tee and proceeded to kiss, suck and bite my lips....hmmm....(to be continued)

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Ritual Simplicity
Posted:Oct 20, 2011 12:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2011 10:46 pm
Just saw a familiar face in blogland and it made my day

It's funny how such simple things in life makes you happy

I remember when I was very much younger, student, poor and very much in love with my college sweetheart...very sweet girl and bloody good in bed . I remember things were very simple between us then...no fuss about where or what to eat? where to go dating? what movie to watch, which joint to hang out, whom to meet, what to do in the weekends...and of course...what position in bed ...errr...whatever she wants of course

Well...the thing is, I fondly remember that such simple things we did would make me extremely happy...it was like a magic happiness pill (*I also discovered another magic thingy, but thats another blog entry*)

I'd remember she calling me every night...just to say goodnightand sleep well...silly you may think....but that made me sleep really well, happy in my dreams....knowing someone I cared about, cared about me....hmmm....and I remember never having a bad night having her calls.... ...and you know what...I may sound like a bloody cheapskate now...but such simple things in life that made me real happy....were FREE!!

Tone Hotel?
Posted:Oct 17, 2011 2:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:26 pm
In the absence of contrary beliefs, I would rather follow the norms, you know, go with the flow...not rock the boat. Sometimes, this proves to be the best and most often, I stay out of trouble

But,...and I know you were expecting a 'but' , as time has so often proven, my curiosity often takes the better of me, and I end up with 'new' experiences, which then gives rise to a blog entry....such as this

Such a situation arose recently, this time my travels took me to yet another uncharted territory....budget hotels

I've always said...looks can be deceiving and we should never judge a book by it's cover, metaphorically speaking of course...but, I must say I was pleasantly surprised when I ventured to stay in the famous budget no-frills hotel, the off-shot of that no-frills airline...dammm...with requisite add ons (toiletries set, 24hrs air-con, 12hrs tv, 24hrs internet). To put it short, much better than staying in a 5 star hotel...without the not-really-needed frills actually. And the price?....dammmmmmm cheap la macha!!!! ..with a clean room, excellent shower, dammm comfortable bed, and a 7-11 downstairs....fooo yooo....can you beat that!!

...and....I met a great girl on the second day,..and her friends on the next...had somewhat of a blast exploring the city and the clubs....woo hooo....well...thats for another blog

In short, I really liked this particular budget hotel and my trips will never be the same again

Signs of Aging
Posted:Sep 26, 2011 12:41 am
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2011 2:22 am
Dammit!!....I used to be able to wake up at 6 in the morning, put on my fav pair of NBs and go for a 10km run...easy and when I felt like pushing further, I could go another 5 to 10km, stop and do some light exercises, come back, have a peasant's breakfast and go to work. Everything will be alright

When I say "used to", I meant like some 3 to 4 months ago Well, so much of living in the immediate past , after a slight bout of illness, I resumed my morning run last weekend, ..err...maybe I should be honest and say...I barely ran... ..at least I tried.... It was torture...huffing and puffing..trying to at least make 5km dammm!!!. Today, I feel my joints aching, muscle cramps and my feet feels like they've been ran over by a hippo on a tricycle ...arrrrrhhhhh....I'm in my late 30's mind you but my body feels like I'm touching 50

Oh Well Life goes on

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Yummy Licking Pic of Furry Pussy
Posted:Sep 22, 2011 3:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2011 9:55 pm

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...And Its Still Raining!!!
Posted:Sep 21, 2011 1:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 1:6 am
It must've been a premonition. The title of my last blog was "When It Rains" and boy, did it rain

As you know, and probably would've experienced it yourself, the seasonal monsoon winds that bring torrential rains to the west coast are here and poor yours-truely was caught in a thunder-storm that lashed JB recently. I can't aptly describe the rain except quote my favourite wise-fella, Forrest Gump who said:-

"One day it started raining, and it didn`t quit for four months. We been through every kind of rain there is. Little bitty stingin` rain... and big ol` fat rain. Rain that flew in sideways. And sometimes rain even seemed to come straight up from underneath."

All I know is that it rained and rained so much all day, that when the sun finally came out, it was raining still...I mean now I know what CCR meant when they sang "Have you ever seen the rain coming down on a sunny day?"

hmmm.....rain, rain go away, (not so) lil' cummy wants to play....blah blah blah

When It Rains
Posted:Sep 15, 2011 2:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2011 9:58 pm
Gosh* I'm so bored!!!

I hate it when I have nothing to do. Days like this usually happen when I'm not out travelling but stuck in the office sometimes I find myself staring at irrelevant nonsensical things...like the bare wall sounding my deary office . This morning, I was so bored, I counted the number of tumb-tacks on my notice board!!...then I mentally colour coded them

Yes, I know I could pass time by surfing smut online but I feel I've gotten pass that...I mean, how much excitement could you get from staring at pics of boobs, ass and pussy all day....I even surfed the ladyboy sites just to see whats all the fuss about...nothing actually...just more boobs, ass and ...err...dicks

Dammm...I won't even bother to spell-check this boring piece

Someone please help me!!!!!


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