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first AFF meeting.......  

rm_sensibleclit 45F
43 posts
1/3/2007 8:20 pm

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3/2/2007 9:33 am

first AFF meeting.......

Well I was going to add a new blog but I guess us poor standards can't so I'll just post.
today I had my first AdultFriendFinder date.....
so apparently the thing works, had great fun....
I still have his scent on me, some scratches marks on my back, sore nipples (but in a good way), the sensation of him inside me, I can still hear his breath in my ears, his strong arms hugging me tight, his masculine body against mine against the wall, his kisses everywhere.....a salty taste in my mouth, the sound of laughter and of pleasure.
This is how a woman wants to be treated boys!
That's why I'm putting this here, so some of you can understand that sensual means that and not:" come here and let's fuck"
Or :"you have great eyes, let's fuck!"...
I know, nothing new under the sun....
But I got lucky and I just wanted to share, I love good sex, and i'm curious to see if I can raise the bar (it was put pretty high today, I think I had at least ten orgasms).
Intelligent comments? suggestions? Adding a member or a couple would better it? Be quick to answer because otherwise i'll find out by myself...he, he....
kisses, Anna

maglightthick69 45M
47 posts
1/3/2007 8:52 pm

Glad to see you had fun. This place can be a great connection point. Welcum to the club.

rm_TrebeTee 58M

1/3/2007 9:43 pm

Good for you, Sensible! And, yes, you are right. As you described your encounter, that is how a woman should be treated. I think it is great you had a MORE than pleasant experience. I hope you have continued succes!

rm_firstonein_1 63M/55F

1/3/2007 9:56 pm

Anna~good for you! Sensual leads to good/great sex and for me the only sex worse than no sex is bad sex.

rm_prfsoapm10 43M

1/4/2007 6:15 am

That's sounds like the quite the high bar - congrats on your first great encounter. Now if they could only all be like that! I'm not sure I can give any ideas other than keep searching - carefully. Exploring your sexuality and sensuality (it's great when they go hand in hand) is amazing - and I wish you the best! Give me a shout sometime!

rm_sensibleclit 45F
6 posts
1/4/2007 9:01 am

Ohh, finally somebody that admits in all this sea of politically correctness (which is ok, don't misunderstand me..) that he's envious of the "lucky guy" (i consider myself the lucky girl but that's another girls that envy me yet....). Flattering. But I firmly believe that good sex happens between like minded people and so maybe you are envious of something that for you would be a terrible experience.....again that's probably a womanly perspective and you guys will just enjoy the five sheeps in the room with me of the other blog just as
too harsh. sorry you all know i love you all, just some of you more than others.....
a lot of you asked me what i like in sex, and to be a little more graphic,mhhhh....I'll let you know in the next blog....

rm_caltathea 62M
7 posts
1/4/2007 10:42 am


I don't believe a word of it, from the Ph.D. to your story. If you have a doctorate (at 28 y/o, meaninng you've spent your whole adult life in school), what is your field of study? And, if this guy was so good, why are you still here, and being so indiscrete and unsophisticated as to be blogging about it?

You say you want real (yes, some of us actually read the profile text), yet from my experience on this site, you seem to be nothing but a "fnf" (faker and fantasizer). It just goes to show that you can be anything you want to be in cyberspace.

Though, I do like the profile pix. I just wonder if they're really of you.

And, having said all that, if you're having fun doing this, just keep on keepin' on... Just don't get too full of yourself, that would be delusional.


rm_sensibleclit 45F
6 posts
1/4/2007 11:09 am

thom. as you said in cyberspace everyone is free, which means to believe things or not...and to blog about them or not....I actually hope guys start to understand what girls want so maybe we will get better sex than the previous generations when nobody was talking about it.....naive? maybe.
As per the PhD it's in italian literature and it was attained in Italy (it's three years there after the master or laurea)....
wonder why I'm so nice to even bother answering you and not just delete your post...I guess i have a nurse complex...or maybe one of my inclinations is you said...believe what you want...
good luck in here and beware of the fakes....

nice speedo, are you sure you are not italian?

rm_caltathea 62M
7 posts
1/4/2007 2:44 pm

Anna, my intent was not to be mean, but as you say, just to state my beliefs.

Perhaps your mission to teach us how to sexually satisfy women is both ill-conceived and belated. AdultFriendFinder is probably not a good forum and those of us who are truly interested in the wonder that is female sexuality, already know. You're just young and haven't had the benefit of the more experienced among us. I do applaud your motive. It is noble and worthwhile. And, as such, I must retract my "indiscreet" comment, as your efforts have a clincial component.

Thanks for your explanation, and thanks for the "speedo" compliment. I'm not Italian (I'm English , but I have been there. I will remain ever vigilant for fnfs, and good luck with your quest. Don Quixote would be proud of you.

Take care,

rm_sensibleclit 45F
6 posts
1/5/2007 9:54 am

thom, you bet don quixote would be proud of me! I'm kind of fond of lost battles.....
no offense taken anyway from your messages but you obtained two effects.
first now i'm recieving a ton of messages questioning my "reality", men, originality! please.....(side effect....lots of pics of people in speedos....)
Second "exposing" my phD I kind of feel I'm intimidating people, this might be good in a sense that if you are intimidated by that it means we'll never be a good match...ok i studied more than some of you, i'm sure you have tons of things to show me that i don't know..bring them on, don't be shy, I don't bite! (not all the time at least).
I've met plenty of professors that were true assholes (sorry about the rudeness..) and janitors that were really nice people, ok, I don't know many janitors but you got the concept....
I'm rambling again you say? time to go then.

rm_caltathea 62M
7 posts
1/5/2007 10:59 am

Anna, I am sorry to have clouded your experience on this site. That was not my intent, either. The consequences of my comments were "unforeseen" and "unintended" (prehaps those are some more famous last words). But, don't be too hard on the fellows, they're just trying to get their penis' wet, and you ladies can sometimes make that a challenging project.

I understand the intimation factor of the Ph.D. I have a doctorate in organizational psychology, which I tend to keep secret from those who don't need to know. Usually when they find out, they immediately think I've been psycho-analyzing them (as if that's all I've got to do with my life). That has turn more than one date sour. And, I'm sure it's even more pronounced for a lovely young lady like yourself. I'm sure the incongruity melts minds down. Maybe we should both take the Ph.D. out of our profiles.

Unfortunately, I can not undo any of the harm, but again, my apologies. "...this, too, shall pass..."

BTW, I do bite, but only people I like.

All the best,

rm_Hobo622 67M

1/8/2007 8:15 am

Good for you Anna...Congratulations on the hook up. We should all be so lucky. Nice statement about Professors and Janitors. Good prespective. important in today's world.

That's what helped you find a good match.

Here's to continued success

rm_norm5869 64M
20 posts
3/2/2007 8:43 am

anna your right men do need to take the time to make those specail moments with a women. its just not wamp bamb thank get up and leave. a man if he wants to have those moments with a wopmen has to show her she is speacial and take the time to cuddle and make her feel great . any one can fuck but it takes a man to love his lady . great that you found a man

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