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Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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Posted:May 3, 2014 12:07 pm
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Every story there is, there an origin from what the story originate. As always, I have another story. When you think of the work draw, you might think of two or more Cowboys, pulling out their guns out their holsters, while they going to battle. Or someone doing Art work. I learned years ago, there another meeting for the work draw. I was in the Air Force at tech school, there was a brother (black man) that was consider hideous. But he was admired by everyone, he has women who was considered outside of his league. No one could figured out, how did he get these type of women. There was this one lady there, all of the other guys with intimidated by her, so many of us didn't pursue her. The first time this guy perused her, she laughed and said, are you serious? Many of us would have said, she's not interested and moved on and never try to get with her again. But, this guy, thought he still had a shot, so he tried a different approached, by golly, he got her! So one Saturday morning as he was coming up the barrack, there tons of guys waiting for him, one guy walked up to him, and before he could say anything, the one guy said, you guys wonder how such an ugly man, get beautiful, smart women. He said, everybody has a draw! I said, what that? He look at me and said, some people good looks and some women wants that. Some people have intelligence, education, or maybe can make them laugh. We all have a draw! This is the one thing that make that woman want to be with you. Every person, man or woman has a draw! I admit, he was a sharped dresser, he had a good conversation and well adverse on anything, he was smart and intelligent. Even thought, the guys found him to be ugly, but our opinion didn't matter! He then said, my draw, first of all, I care for them, I'm not a just trying to get some pussy. I always dress my best, except if I'm going to the gym or exercise. I wear the best cologne, I'm current on all world events. I'm a good talker, but a better listener. If I can get a woman to have a conversation with me, I can get her. I'm not conceited, but I do have confidence! That woman he dated, fell in love him, and wanted to leave her husband to be with him, she asked him to leave his wife as well. This is the same woman who wouldn't give him the time of day. They both was married, not sure how the story ended? But speaking of drawing, I guess my draw if my sense of humor, I'm a funny guy and a good person to be around. But again, he said something that I sometimes lack is confidences! I still get intimated by someone who I feel I'm not in their league. But, I need to better myself, so I can have something to offer, be a better me so I would enhance my draw. So my question to everybody here whether man or woman, everyone that read this blog, "WHAT'S YOUR DRAW"


Posted:Apr 27, 2014 3:36 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2014 6:09 am

Strange how life is, sometimes we can be a the right place at the right time, or being at the wrong place at the wrong time. I was going to school quite a few years back, there was a student, she had everybody going gaga over her, she was an item and she knew it. I had a buddy, that she liked, I told him go for it. So he did, and they was an item, and on the campus was a nerdy guy. People joked him for being nerdy, one day on a break, I was chilling with a few people. The nerdy guy told us that he had sex with that girl, the same girl everybody was lusting at. I didn't think much of it, I didn't believe him, so some of the girls heard it, but that day, the hot girl wasn't at school. So when Monday came, someone mentioned to my buddy about what the nerdy guy said, my buddy was angry. He said, I'm going to kicked that geek ass, how dare him! So, on his break he grab her and said, come with me, he went up to the nerdy guy and ask him, in front of her, did they has sex? She turned her head, the nerdy guy, said yes. My buddy grabbed the nerdy guy and was going to pound him. She said, Stop! We did had sex! This is what happened, she was hurt about another failed relationship and wanted to get drunk. The nerdy guy, was bored and just wanted to go out, so he when out, they both happen to go to the same bar, she was so drunk and hurt, she allow him to take her to his home and they had sex. Talking about being at the right place at the right time. The so called nerdy guy, admitted, he had sex with woman who he's not in the same league, and this would never again happen in his life time. He just was at the right place at the right time. For her, my friend told her, it was over, he called her all kind of bad names, I even told him to loosen up on her, don't call her them names. The other women, who thought she was better than them, laughed at her, it got so bad, she ended up quitting school. So sad, being at the wrong place at the wrong time cost her an education. Another story, I knew friends who steal, and knew where some firecrackers were, they broke in and stole them many times. This is being at the wrong place at the right time. The wrong place, stealing the firecrackers, the right time, there was never any cops around. But, this day, I knew this friend who was a good , they asked him to go with them, they said, nothing would happen, they never got caught. So my friend when with them, but this is another example of being at the wrong place at the wrong time, you can guess what happened. They got caught, even thought he was innocent, he was guilt by association. Later in life, it had an effect on him. One thing about life we don't know what going to happen, like the nerdy guy getting with a beautiful woman, but just being bore and wanting to get out the house. We never know what ""place and time" we might end up in.
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"Can we be friend"?
Posted:Apr 27, 2014 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2014 2:50 pm

If you chat with someone and then meet them, for some reason, they might not have the qualities you looking for, do you give up and keep trying? You never know, once you get to know this person they might be person that has something to offer. Or, are we so shallow and just want what we want? We all do this, I done it myself and that not cool. But, I guess if you not interested let know them up front. There not going to be sparks with everybody, but we keep trying to we do get the sparks. If no physical attraction there, can two be people friend? I knew a few women, that I wanted, but they didn't feel the same, It hurt spending time with them knowing I would never be able to touch them, or if there would ever be a chance we could be a match, so I ended the friendship. So, was I wrong? I had a wise friend that said, you can never have enough friends. I know people that feel, if the person not what they looking for, why meet them? Having a cup of coffee or breaking bread with someone is always a good thing. I guess it would be the same situation I was in, spending time with a woman that's not into me. So what do we do? Keep looking? I know people who been on and off the system for over 20yrs, no lie, still searching for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. That a long time, so what I have to say to when I meet someone. Let's see? I'm not what you looking for, but I'm not a bum and I have a few good qualities, but in the mean time, while you continue for that search, "Can we be friends"?
Posted:Apr 22, 2014 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2014 4:35 pm

I want to give credit to this site, I e-mailed, and get to know some great people, I may never meet them, but we shared an e-mail and established a friendship. We all have a common bond, we love to write blogs, there are some of the best writing I ever read on this site, creative, great pictures to go with the site, and intriguing words. There's a lot of hard work, effort and time that people did to mastered their blogs. I read many blogs on here and it's inspired me to write a few of my own. Most of the topics on here are from all different things, from sex or, whatever what on the writers mind at the moment. For all the blogs I read, thanks to those to allow me to read your precious work, and I appreciate you reading mine as well, I appreciate the many comments. So many names, I can't say them all, but thanks to each and everyone of you, and thanks to my new friend, sweet_VM, get a chance checkout her blogs. She's my new friend, and to my new friend, if you ever decide you want some chocolate, I will give you some and I would say "THANKS". To all the bloggers out there, keep up the good work! This is the best way to bond.
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Posted:Apr 21, 2014 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2014 12:18 pm

There are many way to say sex. Like intercourse, making love, being intimate, penetrations and most of all fucking. This is God's gift to all man, was a woman, someone we can be with on a romantic basics. Times have change, who would have image a site where people can get together and have sex. When I was young, I never would have known what the word "swinger" meant. Back in 1986, I went to a stripping place, where girls dance in a little area. There was a young lady stripping, she was hot as hell. To tell how hot she was, when she got naked, my dick was so hard, my dick could have broken a diamond! So after a while, I told her, I would love to be intimate with her, she said, she get off at 10:00 and I got ask her husband. At the time, it was 7:30, so I said Ok. She also mentioned they were swinger, I'm a hick from Va., what the fuck is a swinger, I had no idea what she was talking about. So as I was leaving, I said, what kind of fool she think I am. I walk to up to this woman husband and say, hi, I'm Drew, can I fuck your wife? They man would beat the shit out me, say have me arrested. But, I just couldn't figure out what a swinger, I went to my job and hung around, and ask some of my friends, they didn't know, I ask the girls, and told them the story, they was shocked that I was at that place and they said, don't go back, they probably going to kill you and your picture would be on a milk carton. But, I couldn't get her out of my mind, so I when back. So at the times she and I was 20s, he was mid to late 40's, a sugar daddy. I was nervous, he walk of to me and say are you the guy who want to fuck my wife. I was nervous as hell, and mumble, he said, relax, you can, it would be ok, follow us home. So we drove for miles, I said, these people going to kill me, but I can't miss a chance to be with her, so we get there, had a beer, I ask what's a swinger? They told me, I couldn't believe this exits, now this is 1986, not 1966 with the free love. I thought I went back in time, wow, people do this! So he allow me to have sex, so I did, I notice when I got there, they had tons of cameras. So I had sex, and loved it! But the tricky part, they have mirrors all over the place and I wasn't sure if I was being recorded, my first movie! Well, my first porn, later when I found out I was being recorded, I knew then, I couldn't get into politics or run for congress, with my luck, they show a film and say, who that black ass belong to, I'll be ruin. My little story, but sex been around forever. How did you think Adam and Eve had Cain and Abel, they had sex. There a joke about Adam and Eve, some asked someone, what's the first thing Eve said when she saw Adam? This Moran, scratched his head and was thinking, and thinking, so the other person asked him did he know the answer. The guy said, "that's a hard one". and the other guy said, that the answer! Anyway, when I was 10, not even 11, I notice when the little girls walk by my little pee-pee got stiff, so at the age of ten, I had sex, been hooked on sex every since. I knew a nympho, I made a deal with her, get everything we need so we won't have to go out, and have all the sex we can in 24hrs, no clothes, we can eat and have a few drinks, and have sex. We can watch a movies, talk, make out and have sex. That was one of the best day of my life, in a 24hr period, we had sex 13 times, no lie, she was a horny bunny rabbit and I was hornier that three pecker Billy goat. But, get back to swingers, that an awesome thing, we can mess with someone, with the husband or wife consent of course, you can go to party have wild orgies, this is an awesome site! Love how people think on here! Life is great, when you are a swinger, you don't realizing you went back in time to the 60's. Because the greatest thing about the 60's was free love and the 'SEX"!
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"Life simple pleasures"
Posted:Apr 18, 2014 6:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2014 8:59 am

So what drives you, motivate you, get you going. Is it money, fame, wealth? What your biggest desire. We all have that something that keep us going another day. There are many pleasures, it could be, just to be the best, or getting in a position that life is not stressful. Maybe It could be writing blogs on AdultFriendFinder. There was a time when I was down and depressed. I thought I had no pleasures, So as I was thinking, I thought I needed something to keep me going another day. A purpose in life, then one day, it came to me, it was simple. My life pleasures is Laughter. I love to laugh and make my friends laugh. The reason for the air that I breathe is for my laughter. My life pleasure, while also being simple, it don't cost a thing, and it's the best way to cause happiness. What's your pleasure?
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Posted:Apr 18, 2014 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2014 8:18 pm

Are we who we are, from our surrounding? Imagine there are two babies, one born to rich parents and one born to poor parents. Will the baby born from the rich parents be more of a success that the poor ? In 1983, there was a movie called "Trading places" with Dan Aykroyd and Eddie Murphy. It was a comedy, but it was deep. Aykroyd was a snobbish rich man, Murphy was a poor man that pretend to be cripple to get money. There was two old guy in the movie, they had a bet. If you chance the two men environment they would be come different people. The rich man would commit crimes and the poor man would be a model citizen. They ruin the rich man, ruin his business and frame him for having drugs, he lost everything. The poor man was taking off the street and put in the rich man position, and everything you could imagine. Can't tell the rest, you got to see for yourself. So is there a method to the madness? Is How we do in life, is because of environment or how we was raised? I can't answer that, I never been rich, we went from poor to lower middle class. I do admit. we as a family did better as things got better, I, myself did better in life. I wanted more in life, and had the desire to achieve some of my goals. But, I can't say that in every case. I had friends from both side of the tracks. My friends who parents who was financially secure, end up not doing as well as my friends from the other side of the tracks, who would have thought that. I'm amazed about that, I really thought my one friend would doing a lot better. But what It come down to it, it's not the Environment, What? It's not the environment, or not even how we was raised. It come down to 'US" as an individual. My one friend from upper society, got with some bad people, got hooked drugs and spend most of his life in jail, he get out a fail his drug test and right back in, I feel for my friend, I can just hope for the best. My other friend, was around the drugs and alcohol growing up, he's not a drug user, he's a person who has a 9 to 5, like me and surviving. To be honest, I though he would be the one on drugs and spend most of his life in jail. Go figure! But, there are some of us who's a product of their environment. It wasn't a surprise that young girls in my neighborhood, going to have tons of . We know a family, the mom had 9 , so the was sexual active at 13 and she had 9 , starting from the age of 13, from seven different daddies. I had a good friend who hate his dad for leaving his mom, he said, his dad was a womanizer, he's the same way too. If you tell him different, he would be ready to fight you. So are we our Environment? It's not for me to say, It's up to you!
"Are you a good listener'?
Posted:Apr 14, 2014 8:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2014 2:57 pm

Are you a good listener? To be honest, maybe at times I'm not. I have been given advice at times, but desperate matters has to happen for me to take that advice. Also, if I absolute believe that I'm right, I might not listen either. There a lady I know, she get mad with me and she say, you don't respect me and never take my advice! One thing about me, if a person is critical, I wont listen. I can be wrong as two left shoes, but I don't take advice from a critical person. I also don't take advice or listen to someone telling me something that wrong, I might be a fool, but I'm not foolish, come to think about it, I'm both! Well, anyway, there are some people who are excellent talker and if you listen to them, they will bleed you dry. Remember in Africa people listened to Jim Jones and thousands of people committed suicide. That prove you don't listen to idiots or madmen, or listen to a mad idiot, that not good. I have a theory, would you like to hear it? A wise man only get wiser if he listens. So, my question is? Are you a good listener? Only if the person giving the advice is wise.
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Posted:Apr 13, 2014 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2014 5:41 am

When we look in the mirror, do we like what we see? I known a woman who was 40lbs over weight, she hated what she saw when she look in the mirror, but I saw a kind, sweet, beautiful person. When I looking in the mirror, I see a guy who kind of let himself go. I'm not in the best shape right now, I don't play basketball or sports like I used to, I haven't ran in a few years. I'm getting older so my hairline isn't the same. But, I love what I see, I still see a good person, great friend, and an excellent lover, and if you my true friend, I got your back. Do you hate the person we see? What's our perception? We might feel we can chance ourselves, but try this, chance that person that look back at you, when you look in the mirror! First thing you do, is not only like them, but love them. They might have done someone or something wrong, forgive them! They deserve a second chance. Remember everywhere you go they go too. Look after them, because what you do reflects them. Go for a walk, it would clear both of your minds, and it's relaxing. Start trying to eat right, if you both overweight, help them lose weight. Maybe cut back on the sweets for starter and eat fruits and nuts for a snack. Every day walk or exercise for 15min, that not hard we get 24hrs to a day, 15min can be done. After a month try 20min and so on. If that person, lack conversation, read to them or maybe watch something informative, that will help them when they talk to others. Remember this person is your project, they need you to become a better them! You tell that person you love them, not in a conceited way, but you tell him, chance your though about them. if that person is a know it all, or a smart ass, you stop them from being that. You create them into a likable person. This is going to be a work in progress, but in the end you going to look in the mirror, and see the person looking back at you, and you going to love their "PERCEPTION"!
"Green lights all the way'
Posted:Apr 10, 2014 7:12 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2014 3:48 pm

Imagine you have one of them days that everything goes your way. Get up and you have a good feeling things will fall in place. You normally leave and catch every red light possible. But today is different, nothing but green lights, green light all the way! I never when to any destination would out getting at least one red light, so If I get all green, it would be sign. I would know my luck has changed. I would buy a lottery ticket, I would just need one, because I would have the winning numbers. Go to the casino and play my favorite machine and bet the max, so I can win tons more money. I'm superstitious, no different than a person carry a rabbit's foot or a four leaf clover. Or someone doing a ritual before their favorite sports team play. We might be considered foolish or even consider fools. I usually don't win. But I look at life, one thing I can say I'm lucky. I'm bless, as many times I try to mess up my life, I'm still standing. We all need luck, but realistically, I probably won't win the lottery, might have to work till I'm 65 and put money in my 401K, that Ok. Once in a while I can take a trip and I do enjoy life when I can. But I won't give up on my superstition, this is one thing that give us hope that maybe things might get lots better, and by chance, if it really do happens? "Green lights all the way'!
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Posted:Apr 10, 2014 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2014 2:59 pm

Do you like chocolate? Want some? There are some women who love black men, but some who won't touch a black man with a ten foot pole, well, they won't touch this black man. I love all flavors, chocolate, caramel, vanilla, cherry, lemon, I think women are a beautiful creation. Big or small, short or tall, we love you! I work with a white women had kind of a hippie, she had black friends hung out with blacks, but she said, she would never be intimate with a black man or this word that she used, "Interbreed" with a black man. That Ok, I'm not asking her to have my baby. I know some Asians women who only mess with successful white men. Everybody like what they like. I want everyone to know, I'm not a player by no mean, believe or not I'm a good guy. I tested the waters at age 11 and got hooked. I think sex is the best gift a man and a woman can give each other. So ladies, in the want to try black, remember what they say. Once you go black, you won't go back. Who knows? But check this out, you wake in the morning and have a black man on your mind, whether it's a famous actor or a friend, you find yourself listen to our type of music, and you find yourself talking a lot of slang. You might be craving some "JUNGLE LOVE"
"What show confidences in a person?
Posted:Apr 7, 2014 6:02 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2014 2:44 am

Is it ok to have too much confidences? Some might consider that to be cocky or conceited. One thing I know, people who are confident are go- getter and a success in life. One think I admit, I lack confidence, there are time I felt like an underachiever. I met a lady on a date site years ago. At the time, my wages was low, I live in an apartment in a bad part of town and my transmission going bad on my car. She lived in an area, a few miles from where live now, and in that area, people have money. I went to her home, she was a knockout, had a home that you see in a magazine, educated, and financial secure. I had nothing. We went out and had a blast! She call to make sure I made it home safely, and wanted to see me again. I let it end, because I felt I was going to be exposed. I felted I wasn't in her league, not good enough for her. I look back and she was everything I wanted, but I lack confidence and my self-esteem was low. I talk to my doctor about her, he told me she wouldn't had cared what I had, or what I haven't, she was into me. I could believe it So confidence, where can I buy some? You can't buy it, It's just how we perceive ourselves. First we got to love ourselves , that step one and If we do, we won't let us fall. But, I know sometimes we don't try to do things because we know we going to fail, but failing is a good thing! If you try whether we do good or failed, we made an attempt. We all going to fail at something, but some of us going to fail at almost everything, that alright, life has it lessons. But, I respect the person who afraid to do something, but do it, rather that the over confident person. The over confident person, love to brag about everything, and need that pat on the back, they would step on you to get ahead. They want to be notice, and acknowledge for everything that they do. They want all the credit for the work, even though it might be a group thing. They are selfish, loud mouth and got to be heard. I respect the underachieve more. But there are ultimate confident people, they are ones who do their best, and their work speaks for itself, they are honest and legit, they are willing to help you be a success, they don't ask for praise. They earn their way to the top by merit, schooling, and doing good work, they don't kiss ass, and they are down to earth! What show confidences is a person? " IS BEING HUMBLE"!!!!!!!
Honest is the best policy...or is it?
Posted:Apr 6, 2014 8:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2014 4:25 am

Years ago I worked at a place, there was a trucker that came from Texas to drop off his load. He back up the truck and someone unload the truck. He always seem happy, but I could tell he's putting on an act, and he reek of booze. One night I was off my shift, and he drove up. I ask him, was everything OK? He always say yes. But I ask him to tell me the truth. He said, you got time. I told him, I'm off shift and have plenty of time. So we when in the break room, and have a cup of coffee. He started saying , he worked for this company since he was 18 years old. He asked his high school sweetheart to marry him and she say Yes. Their goal was to have three . They set a date for the wedding, and a week before he got married his buddies gave him a bachelor party. He said, he got a little tipsy that night a slept with one of the strippers. He told his buddies that he need to tell his wife to be about what happen. His buddies said, forget about it, don't tell her and go on with his life! So he and his wife to be got married. At this time he said, I was the happiest man alive, a great wife, a good job, two and a great home. By this time ten years passed. his wife was pregnant with their third . They always wanted to have three . He said, his conscience was still bothering him after all these years. He said, when he come home from road trip he was going to tell her what happened years ago. He told his wife what happen at the bachelor party ten years ago. He said, I was tipsy and I woke in the morning, and a stripper and I was in bed naked. He said, he never slept with anyone else, and his conscience been bothering him every since. He said, she stood there for a moment and gave him a stare. She said, I love you, you my husband , we going to work it out and I forgive you. He said, how bless he was for getting a second chance. So 20yrs later, he was preparing to retire. When they was in high school they talk about him getting a job and retire in 30yrs, by then the would be gone and they can travel and enjoy life. They were debt free, the house was paid and they had no bills at all, they both had nice cars. He told her, he was going to put in his paper for retirement, she said, that not a good idea, he said, why? She said, she wanted a divorce. he said, what happen, what did I do. He said, he forgot about the bachelor party, She said, you know why! You cheated on me before we got married. He told her, 20yrs ago, I told you what happened, you said you loved me and we were going to work things out! if you felted that way, why didn't you divorce me 20yrs ago. She said, I always wanted three and I wanted then with you. I wanted us to be a family and see them go to college and go on with their lives. You were a great father, excellent husband, but I can't forgive you for what happened. She said, we going to sell the house, anything in it you want you can have. Once the house is sold, I'm leaving the state and you will never see me again! She moved out, took her things and file for a divorce. So within a few months the house was empty and eventually the house sold. They had someone to do the paper for their money on the house, she got her share and he got his. He said, crying, please don't leave me we dated since we were in the 5th grade and you always been a part of my life, don't go! She said, it's over! He said, she kissed him for the last time and said, have a nice life! He said, I been now working for the company for 40yrs, still miss her, and never got re-married. I see the once in a while. I ask about their mom, they said the promise her that they wouldn't tell her where she at. After they were divorce two years, he heard that she got re-married. He said, he been unhappy since. In this world we taught to do the right thing no matter what is it. So my question is.....Honesty is the policy...or is it?

I have a question. If a person mess around before they are married, is that still adultery?

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