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Day 2 into the 4 day weekend....  

secret_lade 46F
5332 posts
6/26/2020 4:37 am
Day 2 into the 4 day weekend....

I took a couple of vacation days this week.

It has been an absolute, fucking blessing!

You don't really realize how burned out you are until you step away from something, even if only for a brief moment.

Going to bed late.... waking up when you want to.

Enjoying your time just doing... nothing!

I woke up this morning and lay there, for a long moment, listening to the song playing in my mind. It was Guns N' Roses, and I still knew every word.

You Will Be Mine

There is always music in my dreams. Sometimes I recognize the song, like today, and I can always hear every word.... It doesn't take long, once I'm awake, for the words to disappear, though. But, if I lay there quietly.....

Sometimes I don't recognize it. Sometimes I wake up and think, have I heard that somewhere? Does it sound familiar? Once upon a time there was a musician blogger on here that I would read.... He had told me those songs I didn't recognize were songs I had created.

I had liked that.

The Spawn and I ended up going to Sturgeon Bay yesterday after I got my hair cut.

I was disappointed to see my tree had finally fallen into the water....

There was something about that tree that kind of gave me hope, they way it just clung there, standing strong.

It is what it is, I suppose.

We just continue to keep.... Moving on.



author51 57F  
95827 posts
6/28/2020 12:48 am

I did a double take when you mentioned Sturgeon Bay as I have a Sturgeon Lake close to where I live..Enjoy your extra days off..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 3:12 am

    Quoting jolielaide:
    sorry about your tree y'know your feelings about it giving you "hope" are pretty spot on bc the Bible says much the same; for there is hope of a tree that even if it be cut down, it will sprout again.

    nothing wrong with wanting to holding onto a little bit of hope.
I'm curious how long it will be before the water washes it away. I think we all find bits of hope in different ways every day.... I like to hold onto it whenever I can.


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 3:04 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I was off Monday and Tuesday but I had an abscessed tooth that was bothering me. Thank God for amoxicillin. So, how did the new "do" come out?
I got a bunch cut off.... But I really like it. I've been wanting to wear it a little more natural, it's naturally wavy, so I layered the shit out of it and added face framing. It's still a little longer than shoulder length, it's right at my preferred length.


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 2:54 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    find another tree

    I'm so glad that you decided to take that time off

    next week I'm off on Friday, no plans

    want to find the right song, the right melon, the right BBQ, the right everything

    and, if not, just keep movin' on

    hmm

    be safe

    Good the Mad - "Bird in Another Tree"

    I'll be down the street doing laundry
    I'll be down the street doing laundry
    I'll be folding up and sorting out some things
    Just so you know if you need me

    There's gonna be a little space in between
    There's gonna be a little space in between
    I'll be dancing on the wire chasing dreams
    Just so you know if you need me

    So I sing to my bird
    To the beat in my pulse
    You know I can't wait forever
    All ends meet up

    Baby forgive me
    I've been singing to a bird in another tree
    Oh baby forgive me
    I've been singing to a bird in another tree

    I'll be on the road writing memories
    I'll be on the road writing memories
    I'll be playing all the mad ones into sleep
    Just so you know if you need me
This is completely unrelated, but I heard a song on the way home from the beach last night that I'd never heard before. It was completely unexpected, I couldn't believe they were playing it on Sirius.

Dinah Moe Humm - Frank Zappa

I laughed out loud at the part where he asks if she has "cooties in there".

Oh my...


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 2:39 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I'd love a vacation but I'm not in the right frame of mind at the moment..plus it'll be a killer on my legs!
    We all need songs in our heads as well as our hearts
The best vacations are taken when you are ready. Otherwise, you don't enjoy them...


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 2:37 am

    Quoting CharlesD6996:
    Reminds me of that line in Office Space.

    Michael Bolton : Peter, you're in deep shit. You were supposed to come in on Saturday. What were you doing?

    Peter Gibbons : Michael, I did nothing. I did absolutely nothing, and it was everything that I thought it could be.


    Sometimes nothing is what you need to do in order to recharge those batteries.
Most of my days are spent frantically trying to get all the pieces of my job done within the workday, then coming home to work day part 2 where I have to clean, and cook, and do after work errands.... So, I can completely understand what he meant about doing absolutely nothing. That, in itself, is a vacation.


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 2:33 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Great song. Music is such a part of my mental and emotional landscape. Any older song can act like a time machine and transport to a past memory filled with either joy or sadness. The randomness of it all can be exciting.

    Enjoy your days off. Laying in bed is a wonderful thing. Since I work at home I have that luxury to wake up and make breakfast for everyone and then go back to bed. Alone but it is what is.

    Thank you for a wonderful post.
While classic rock may be my favorite genre of music now.... I spent a good portion of my teenage years listening to GNR, Metallica, Ozzy, Nirvana..... Which really throws my kids for a loop. LOL


secret_lade 46F
3861 posts
6/27/2020 2:26 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Happy new haircut McLade!!

    Sounds like another well earned rest. I often find myself enjoying downtime where doing nothing is the best kind of relaxation.

    Shame about the tree. Life is an ever changing picture.
It is an ever changing picture... which can be tough, sometimes, because I'm a creature of habit. The more things are different, the more I want them the same....


topherific 57M
4679 posts
6/26/2020 9:25 pm


jolielaide 48F  
1389 posts
6/26/2020 6:02 pm

sorry about your tree y'know your feelings about it giving you "hope" are pretty spot on bc the Bible says much the same; for there is hope of a tree that even if it be cut down, it will sprout again.

nothing wrong with wanting to holding onto a little bit of hope.


mc_justmc 60M
6273 posts
6/26/2020 3:41 pm

I was off Monday and Tuesday but I had an abscessed tooth that was bothering me. Thank God for amoxicillin. So, how did the new "do" come out?


easy_going2014 53M
13394 posts
6/26/2020 3:05 pm

find another tree

I'm so glad that you decided to take that time off

next week I'm off on Friday, no plans

want to find the right song, the right melon, the right BBQ, the right everything

and, if not, just keep movin' on

hmm

be safe

Good the Mad - "Bird in Another Tree"

I'll be down the street doing laundry
I'll be down the street doing laundry
I'll be folding up and sorting out some things
Just so you know if you need me

There's gonna be a little space in between
There's gonna be a little space in between
I'll be dancing on the wire chasing dreams
Just so you know if you need me

So I sing to my bird
To the beat in my pulse
You know I can't wait forever
All ends meet up

Baby forgive me
I've been singing to a bird in another tree
Oh baby forgive me
I've been singing to a bird in another tree

I'll be on the road writing memories
I'll be on the road writing memories
I'll be playing all the mad ones into sleep
Just so you know if you need me

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citizen4722 62M  
67404 posts
6/26/2020 9:32 am

I'd love a vacation but I'm not in the right frame of mind at the moment..plus it'll be a killer on my legs!
We all need songs in our heads as well as our hearts


CharlesD6996 50M  
258 posts
6/26/2020 9:29 am

Reminds me of that line in Office Space.

Michael Bolton : Peter, you're in deep shit. You were supposed to come in on Saturday. What were you doing?

Peter Gibbons : Michael, I did nothing. I did absolutely nothing, and it was everything that I thought it could be.


Sometimes nothing is what you need to do in order to recharge those batteries.

All the best,

Post Me


MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
334 posts
6/26/2020 7:11 am

Great song. Music is such a part of my mental and emotional landscape. Any older song can act like a time machine and transport to a past memory filled with either joy or sadness. The randomness of it all can be exciting.

Enjoy your days off. Laying in bed is a wonderful thing. Since I work at home I have that luxury to wake up and make breakfast for everyone and then go back to bed. Alone but it is what is.

Thank you for a wonderful post.


lindoboy100 57M
21532 posts
6/26/2020 7:01 am

Happy new haircut McLade!!

Sounds like another well earned rest. I often find myself enjoying downtime where doing nothing is the best kind of relaxation.

Shame about the tree. Life is an ever changing picture.

Pull ma finger.........


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