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Hey! Take it easy! That's my arm!!  

secret_lade 46F
6860 posts
9/29/2020 2:09 pm
Hey! Take it easy! That's my arm!!


Nose Hairs was standing next to me in the morning meeting, this morning.

Here's the issue with that....

Nose Hairs is one of those people who playfully punch others in the arm.

Say something funny?? Punctuate that joke with a punch to the arm!

Trying to get someone's attention?? Punch their arm and ask if they're paying attention!

Ready to get out of the hot seat during the meeting end round robin?? Punch the person's arm next to you and say "You're up!!"

Now, I do want to emphasize it is just a playful punch to the arm, but after a while, even those playful punches start to get sensitive.

So, there I stood, the human punching bag, waiting for my turn in the round robin, when he kind of went crazy!

"Ok, you're up!! Whatcha got?? Go!!"

Input barrage of playful arm punches here...

"Ow! My arm!!"

I laughed, but I wasn't exactly exaggerating as I was rubbing my arm. It really did kind of hurt.

"Good Lord, stop hitting her!"

My Evil Twin was coming to my rescue and stepped between the two of us. She and I were both laughing, but it was a really odd moment....

And suddenly I wondered, have I ever done this to anyone else?

Considering I'm not a touch person, my guess is no.... But now I will forever be acutely aware of whether or not I'm a playful puncher.

secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/30/2020 3:32 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Get everyone who works in nose hair's vicinty to wear padded arm gaurds. He should then get the message
I think I might have an old pair of swimmies that my daughter used to wear at the beach.... LOL You think that might be a little too obvious?? LOL


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/30/2020 3:31 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Yep he's pat-the-fanny 's cousin and I have to strike back- cant help ot when you get in my space
Pat-the-fanny... LOL Thankfully, I don't come into contact with him!


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/30/2020 3:29 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Nah, that has to be one of the most irritating things people do.......a bit like ruffling someone's hair........

    Though I've often wanted to playfully punch someone's face, repeatedly, until they modify their behaviour........... Nah, that would never work.......but aye, ye ken what ah mean!
It is totally irritating.... Even more annoying than the arm grabber. I hate it when I'm talking to an arm grabber and I'm trying to get away... There's just no escape. They know it!! That's why they grab your arm!


citizen4722 62M  
68407 posts
9/30/2020 9:48 am

Get everyone who works in nose hair's vicinty to wear padded arm gaurds. He should then get the message


pocogato12 68F  
34842 posts
9/30/2020 6:34 am

Yep he's pat-the-fanny 's cousin and I have to strike back- cant help ot when you get in my space

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lindoboy100 57M
22299 posts
9/30/2020 3:38 am

Nah, that has to be one of the most irritating things people do.......a bit like ruffling someone's hair........

Though I've often wanted to playfully punch someone's face, repeatedly, until they modify their behaviour........... Nah, that would never work.......but aye, ye ken what ah mean!

Pull ma finger.........


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 11:22 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I just thought of something...
    ... I've never kicked anyone in the balls. I've thought about it.
    But I never have.
    You? 🤔
I have, actually. Only one person, it was my first step-dad.... My mother had a few husbands while I was growing up.


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 11:19 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    My alcoholic neighbor is a toucher. I don't mind when drunk women grab me, but being sober, I'm not exactly comfortable with grabbing her back.
It all depends on where she's grabbing you.... If she's grabbing your junk, I think it's safe to grab her back. Lol


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 11:16 pm

    Quoting jolielaide:
    or the one person who can't just 'hug' like a normal person they gotta slap your back too and hit the real sensitive part that f'king stings?!? i HATE that shit. i've literally had to arch my back on a few occasions and dead ass look at them and go, oh, my God, you're banging on my back.

    some just don't realize how heavy-handed the f'k they really are until you say so.

    don't sit next to that guy or if you have to, before he even gets the idea, tell him you can do without the punches; steal his thunder. honestly, all that extra touching, playful or no, is unnecessary and inappropriate; surprised no one has told him so.
I'm definitely not a hugger. I pull back from anyone who tries to hug me outside of my family. My friends usually tell me "I know you don't like it, but you need a hug" when I'm having rough moments, and then give a hug.


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 11:08 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    whenever someone does something to me that I don't like, I let them know in a privates setting that they need to change their behavior

    people don't realize they are doing something to offend

    thanks for sharing

    be safe

    Diana Ross - "Stop in the Name of Love"

    Stop! In the name of love
    Before you break my heart
    Baby, baby
    I'm aware of where you go
    Each time you leave my door
    I watch you walk down the street
    Knowing your other love you'll meet
    But this time before you run to her
    Leaving me alone and hurt
    (Think it over) After I've been good to you ?
    (Think it over) After I've been sweet to you ?
Well... I let him know, it just wasn't very private. Lol


jolielaide 49F  
1457 posts
9/29/2020 7:43 pm

or the one person who can't just 'hug' like a normal person they gotta slap your back too and hit the real sensitive part that f'king stings?!? i HATE that shit. i've literally had to arch my back on a few occasions and dead ass look at them and go, oh, my God, you're banging on my back.

some just don't realize how heavy-handed the f'k they really are until you say so.

don't sit next to that guy or if you have to, before he even gets the idea, tell him you can do without the punches; steal his thunder. honestly, all that extra touching, playful or no, is unnecessary and inappropriate; surprised no one has told him so.


easy_going2014 53M
14006 posts
9/29/2020 6:34 pm

whenever someone does something to me that I don't like, I let them know in a privates setting that they need to change their behavior

people don't realize they are doing something to offend

thanks for sharing

be safe

Diana Ross - "Stop in the Name of Love"

Stop! In the name of love
Before you break my heart
Baby, baby
I'm aware of where you go
Each time you leave my door
I watch you walk down the street
Knowing your other love you'll meet
But this time before you run to her
Leaving me alone and hurt
(Think it over) After I've been good to you ?
(Think it over) After I've been sweet to you ?

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secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 5:37 pm

    Quoting CharlesD6996:
    I am not a touchy-feely person. Especially in the workplace, people need to keep their hands to themselves; especially now.

    I used to work with a guy that always wanted to put his hand on my shoulder when he talked to me. He looked at me funny when I told him I don't swing that way. Needless to say, he stopped after that.

    Touching (or in your case, a 'playful punch' is an invasion of someone's personal space. I'll bet he wouldn't appreciate a playful kick to the junk, would he?
Ha ha ha.... No, I doubt a playful kick to the junk would be welcome. That's a good analogy though!


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 5:35 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    Some people have no sense of physical space or appropriate touch, even if they are well-intentioned.

    He probably came from a family with siblings who pounded on each other without a second thought.
I think he did come from a family with fighting siblings, actually. To be honest, when I did live with my brother when I was tiny, we used to fight all the time. Like, bloody nose and black eye fights. Yikes!!


mc_justmc 60M  
6597 posts
9/29/2020 5:32 pm

My alcoholic neighbor is a toucher. I don't mind when drunk women grab me, but being sober, I'm not exactly comfortable with grabbing her back.


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 5:32 pm

    Quoting Fuklikedogs:
    I think you missed an opportunity with your evil twin for a moment of embrace and comfort in which it could of lead to more intimate moments potentially. Lol! Just kidding but you should of socked nose hairs straight in the nose and watch his eyes water up and the shocked expression, then the roar of the crowd!!!
Yikes! The Evil Twin and I don't roll that way. Lol As for Nose Hairs, I don't think he realizes he's doing that... After today, he's probably more aware though.


Paulxx001 63M
16784 posts
9/29/2020 5:16 pm

I just thought of something...
... I've never kicked anyone in the balls. I've thought about it.
But I never have.
You? 🤔


CharlesD6996 50M  
294 posts
9/29/2020 4:16 pm

I am not a touchy-feely person. Especially in the workplace, people need to keep their hands to themselves; especially now.

I used to work with a guy that always wanted to put his hand on my shoulder when he talked to me. He looked at me funny when I told him I don't swing that way. Needless to say, he stopped after that.

Touching (or in your case, a 'playful punch' is an invasion of someone's personal space. I'll bet he wouldn't appreciate a playful kick to the junk, would he?

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Granny872 68F  
2722 posts
9/29/2020 3:55 pm

Some people have no sense of physical space or appropriate touch, even if they are well-intentioned.

He probably came from a family with siblings who pounded on each other without a second thought.


Fuklikedogs 49M
1740 posts
9/29/2020 3:48 pm

I think you missed an opportunity with your evil twin for a moment of embrace and comfort in which it could of lead to more intimate moments potentially. Lol! Just kidding but you should of socked nose hairs straight in the nose and watch his eyes water up and the shocked expression, then the roar of the crowd!!!


secret_lade 46F
4614 posts
9/29/2020 2:19 pm

I'd have to say... I still think Close Talker takes the cake when it comes to annoying conversation habits.


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