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Phone calls from the Mighty Marine....  

secret_lade 47F
13999 posts
10/23/2021 5:30 pm
Phone calls from the Mighty Marine....


The Spawn and I decided break out of the house and head TC day.

I have say, the drive from Bellaire Traverse City is beautiful when the f colors are everywhere....

The best part of my day was hearing from my Mighty Marine, though.

We were in Old Navy when I seen his na pop up on my cer ID.

"Hi Babe! I'm so happy hear from you!!"

I still rey miss him so, so much.

"Hello Mother!"

He has liberty ti on weekends, now.... And he was excitedly telling about his "civies" that he bought and how excited he was that he can walk and talk on the phone and wear his ear buds out in public.

Apparently when they're in their "cammies", they aren't owed do any of that.

It made smile hear him laughing and talking with friends while he chatted with on the phone.

They were on their way the bowling ey...

I would have given anything bowl a fra with him.

Usuy when I talk my Marine, I feel better when the conversation is done. day I did not... day I wished he was ho.

I still have good days and I still have not so good days.....

day was a not so good day.

I can think of is, if I'm this broken up about a middle leaving the nest, what am I going be like when the Spawn leaves as well??

I may need be institutionalized.

We'll save those thoughts for another day....

Until then, happy Saturday!

CL_Love 49M/48F
367 posts
10/26/2021 8:18 am

Hugs momma bear. I haven't gotten any of my spawn to leave the nest yet, but if all goes according to plan, they will both leave next summer and it will be a cold blast of water to the face for me. Hang in there!


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:59 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    When the G-girls moved out I was happy and sad. I'm getting used to it. You will, too.
I have way more good days than not so good days now.... It helps that he's not so miserable and starting to enjoy things. I know that eventually it won't feel like a piece of my life is missing, but right now it still does.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:56 pm

Nope, but today was better.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:55 pm

    Quoting  :

It's tough.... But it's amazing too.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:54 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    It will be hard when the Spawn moves out but if she doesn't leave the area, it will be an adjustment, but you'll still have the opportunity to see her.
I've already warned her.... I'm expecting her to come home frequently from college and if she plans to move away, she'd better get a place with a guest house because I'm coming too. LOL


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:49 pm

    Quoting MrRareity:
    I can't say this enough but your blog makes me happy. Although I'm not a parent from what I've heard and know it's going to be hard on you when the youngest leaves. But they will come home often just as long as they don't move across country. From what I've read you are close to your kids so they might be living with you but they will see you and call you. All because of the closeness you share. Next thing you know you'll have little feet scattering throughout the house bring you another joy. Mom sounds like a very wonderful woman to me.
It makes me feel good to know my blog makes you happy. I'm at a point where I can't wait to have little feet scurrying around the house, I miss baby snuggles and inquisitive toddler minds. It's going to be a while for the Marine or the Spawn.... Maybe the Oldest Son will finally settle down. One can only hope!


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:35 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    The good days will soon out weigh the bad days.
I anxiously await all of those good days. I can't wait to see him at Christmas.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:35 pm

    Quoting sweetpete919:
    Semper Fi to your Marine Son! God Bless Him from a Vet
Thank you... I certainly am proud of him.


citizen4722 63M  
73456 posts
10/24/2021 1:19 pm

The good days will soon out weigh the bad days.


MrRareity 61M  
4504 posts
10/24/2021 10:01 am

I can't say this enough but your blog makes me happy. Although I'm not a parent from what I've heard and know it's going to be hard on you when the youngest leaves. But they will come home often just as long as they don't move across country. From what I've read you are close to your kids so they might be living with you but they will see you and call you. All because of the closeness you share. Next thing you know you'll have little feet scattering throughout the house bring you another joy. Mom sounds like a very wonderful woman to me.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


pagancountrygirl 64F
6210 posts
10/24/2021 7:18 am

It will be hard when the Spawn moves out but if she doesn't leave the area, it will be an adjustment, but you'll still have the opportunity to see her.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


G000dbuddy 34M  
1219 posts
10/24/2021 6:00 am

day was a not so good day.

goodbuddy781


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:40 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It's all part of being a parent.
    Is there another way to be one? πŸ˜Άβ—
I don't think there is another way.... Difficult as it feels sometimes, I still wouldn't trade it for anything.


mc_justmc 61M  
6839 posts
10/24/2021 4:37 am

When the G-girls moved out I was happy and sad. I'm getting used to it. You will, too.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:37 am

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    Empty nest syndrome is real and painful. As you fully know, your job as a parent is to raise them to go out in the world and prosper. They don't tell us about the part where they leave the house to come back for holidays or visits 😞
They don't tell us about that part.... And it is hard. At least I know my son is coming home for Christmas, he bought his plane tickets already, but wouldn't tell me the day he arrives because he wants it to be a surprise. I can't wait.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:31 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I don't have children but I can fully understand your Rollercoaster of emotions. I hope you have a wonderful Sunday. Hugs
I think it's going to be a pretty lazy Sunday today.... Resting and recharging.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:29 am

    Quoting upsidedownsky:
    Beautiful.

    I am so very happy to hear these things.

    (Aside from the difficulties.)

    Things are looking good.

    Your future is bright.

    Do not worry.
Thank you. I have to say, the present feels pretty cloudy and uncertain.... It's hard to see that bright future.


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/24/2021 4:23 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    If Spawn is the last to leave the nest, it may be even harder. Sorry for the negative thought!
She is the last to leave, I'm certain it will be difficult. I've spent my entire adult life mothering children...


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39302 posts
10/24/2021 2:34 am

If Spawn is the last to leave the nest, it may be even harder. Sorry for the negative thought!


upsidedownsky 41M  
606 posts
10/24/2021 1:39 am

Beautiful.

I am so very happy to hear these things.

(Aside from the difficulties.)

Things are looking good.

Your future is bright.

Do not worry.

*. *. *


MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2195 posts
10/24/2021 1:05 am

I don't have children but I can fully understand your Rollercoaster of emotions. I hope you have a wonderful Sunday. Hugs

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


CUMHANDLEME 59F  
790 posts
10/24/2021 12:02 am

Empty nest syndrome is real and painful. As you fully know, your job as a parent is to raise them to go out in the world and prosper. They don't tell us about the part where they leave the house to come back for holidays or visits 😞

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Paulxx001 64M
21901 posts
10/23/2021 10:00 pm

It's all part of being a parent.
Is there another way to be one? πŸ˜Άβ—


sweetpete919 73M
3001 posts
10/23/2021 9:59 pm

Semper Fi to your Marine Son! God Bless Him from a Vet


secret_lade 47F
8762 posts
10/23/2021 5:31 pm

The Spawn and I decided to break out of the house and head to TC today.

I have to say, the drive from Bellaire to Traverse City is beautiful when the fall colors are everywhere....

The best part of my day was hearing from my Mighty Marine, though.

We were in Old Navy when I seen his name pop up on my caller ID.

"Hi Babe! I'm so happy to hear from you!!"

I still really miss him so, so much.

"Hello Mother!"

He has liberty time on weekends, now.... And he was excitedly telling me about his "civies" that he bought and how excited he was that he can walk and talk on the phone and wear his ear buds out in public.

Apparently when they're in their "cammies", they aren't allowed to do any of that.

It made me smile to hear him laughing and talking with friends while he chatted with me on the phone.

They were on their way to the bowling alley...

I would have given anything to bowl a frame with him.

Usually when I talk to my Marine, I feel better when the conversation is done. Today I did not... Today I wished he was home.

I still have good days and I still have not so good days.....

Today was a not so good day.

All I can think of is, if I'm this broken up about a middle child leaving the nest, what am I going to be like when the Spawn leaves as well??

I may need to be institutionalized.

We'll save those thoughts for another day....

Until then, happy Saturday!


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