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secret_lade 46F
5763 posts
6/2/2020 2:52 pm
Some people get under your skin...


My work BFF stopped by my office today to ask me how I was doing.

He said to me... "Some people get under your skin, and not in a bad way, a good way. You're one of those people who got under my skin."

He was expressing concern as I haven't been myself for a while. I told him I haven't felt like myself for a while. I can't pinpoint what's wrong, but something just isn't right. I just wanted to talk to him, and try to mull things over, but God dammit, everybody and their brother wanted to hover outside my door and be a fucking pain in the ass.

"Someone made a mess in the bathroom." You're a big girl, clean the fucker.

"I need to be off on Monday, I just wanted to let someone know." It's fucking Tuesday, you will see your manager between now and then.

"Can I get some gloves?" No

"One of my friends just gave me this gift card for being an essential worker!" Accepting gratuitous gifts and money is AGAINST company policy!

"Do you know where [someone who is visibly not in my office!] is?" NO!! You can use a phone the same as I can. Page them.

Needless to say... I didn't get the opportunity to vent my feelings or frustrations about anything and, in fact, got just a little bit angrier at all the needy fucking assholes I work with.

Work BFF thinks I need a vacation, and, he's probably right. The problem is, who wants to go on vacation now when everything is a fucking mess in the economy? Businesses open? Closed?? Travel ban???

I'm also feeling a hair lonely....

In a sea full of people who are coupled up... There is me. I feel like the lone who never gets picked for a team.

This too, shall pass, I know.... But it's an awfully emotional journey for me.

secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 5:00 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Aye McLade, it will pass. You're a lovely girl, it won't be long.....
Thank you lindoboy...


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 4:59 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Yes...this too shall pass. Hopefully and eventually. Sorry....i dont have words of wisdom ( at least to me...lol ), Im feeling it too.....and have decided to just ride it out.....and see how we all emerge from this cocooning. Tequila helps that process ~~
It's ok to not have words of wisdom... We're all going through this together. I'm feeling better today, some days are just harder than others.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 4:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Doing my best. I made myself chuckle today when I told Nose Hairs that as soon as we're told we don't have to wear the stupid masks anymore I'm going to chuck mine into a pile and light them on fire.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 4:55 pm

    Quoting topherific:
    lol, as the 70s poster of a kitty hanging on a stick said 'Hang in there Baby'
I'm hanging...


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 4:54 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Just go to any major city and steal and set fires. No quarantines there. Will get you out of the house. Masks optional. But by gosh don’t even think about going to a salon for a pedicure. You might get sick.
    No, I’m not bitter at all.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ
I saw a facebook post today that cracked me up. It said "I'm not sure if I should be taking a mask with me to go shopping or a brick." Crazy times...


topherific 57M
4680 posts
6/3/2020 8:09 am

    Quoting secret_lade:
    sports analogies... are always lost on me. I have no idea what they mean, probably because I don't know the sports, themselves. I've also never seen this movie... Yikes! LOL
lol, as the 70s poster of a kitty hanging on a stick said 'Hang in there Baby'


positively4you 70F  
3954 posts
6/3/2020 4:06 am

Just go to any major city and steal and set fires. No quarantines there. Will get you out of the house. Masks optional. But by gosh don’t even think about going to a salon for a pedicure. You might get sick.
No, I’m not bitter at all.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:51 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Yes, I've certainly found it hard going being on my own throughout lock-down.
    Ten weeks has passed a lot quicker than I expected though! But enough's enough now.
Yes, I agree! Enough's enough!


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:50 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Come on down! Everything is open here. I've been playing "odd man out", as well. We can go beaching, I can tan and you can .... uhmmmm ......... pink!
I really wish I could take you up on that and go beaching with you! I think it would be fun.


jajo696 65F
2230 posts
6/3/2020 1:48 am

Yes...this too shall pass. Hopefully and eventually. Sorry....i dont have words of wisdom ( at least to me...lol ), Im feeling it too.....and have decided to just ride it out.....and see how we all emerge from this cocooning. Tequila helps that process ~~


lindoboy100 57M
21631 posts
6/3/2020 1:45 am

Aye McLade, it will pass. You're a lovely girl, it won't be long.....

Pull ma finger.........


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:43 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... Vacation...
    How big is your balcony? πŸ€” Sun β˜€ lamp and a palm 🌴 tree and you're halfway there. Pour a πŸ₯ƒ rum and coke, some Carribean music 🎢 and you're all set. πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘
    Just a thought... πŸ˜Žβ—
It's a tiny balcony. LOL With a chain smoking neighbor below me. I was sitting out on it last evening when she decided to grace us with her presence. It was magical... The smell of nicotine in the air, the dogs barking and chasing the joggers who strolled by on the walking path. Couldn't have been more relaxing.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:41 am

    Quoting KX450F2016:
    I have been on my own the majority of my life. Yeah, I get lonely once in a while but it passes. I have really only had 2 relationships in my life, both marriages. 2nd one shouldn't have happened, but I settled cause I can't find anyone. Now I'm not sure I want to. LOL
I think I'm a mixture of both... I really miss having a trusted person that I can talk to, and just be myself with. Good, bad, and ugly.... Someone I don't have to dress up for to hang out with, someone who actually wants to hang out with me. Then there are times when I just need my space to be able to do my own thing. Independence.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:33 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    It's nice that your BFF came to talk to you

    have a great week!
We didn't really get to talk though... Too many interruptions. It was basically 45 minutes of people continually hovering outside my office to ask stupid shit. I think in a lot of cases people see me in my office talking with someone and they're just looking for an 'in' to be a part of the conversation. I hate that.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:28 am

    Quoting JustLookn439:
    Well as far as accepting gratuitous gifts, couldn't you just wait until your boss is busy unwrapping his free golf gift cards to slip YOUR gift into your handbag?
It wasn't my gift card or friend, it was one of the floor associates who had received it. A lot of customers have been gifting the associates for being essential workers, which is a very kind thing. Problem is, most businesses will not allow the acceptance of gratuitous gifts as they can be perceived as bribes. We can be termed for accepting this stuff, so everything has to be turned in to management. The management staff is not heartless, and the gifts are given back to the associates who receive them. This coworker didn't turn anything in, and suddenly, after I reminded her that we aren't allowed to accept gifts, she claimed to be off the clock and the friend had been looking for her for weeks.


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:15 am

    Quoting topherific:
    i certainly understand feeling like life has lost focus or purpose or direction or...focus on your strengths and loves and tomorrow will take care of itself. there is a verbal exchange in the movie "Field of Dreams" the ghost of shoeless joe jackson is coaching the rookie who showed up from the past as well, "full count what do you think (the pitcher) will do?" " he probably will go low and outside...or in my ear"(having been brushed back by the pitcher twice) shoeless joe says "so be ready for low and outside...but watch out for in your ear"
sports analogies... are always lost on me. I have no idea what they mean, probably because I don't know the sports, themselves. I've also never seen this movie... Yikes! LOL


secret_lade 46F
3964 posts
6/3/2020 1:10 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    ...and that is why woman created the blog...
    happy ventday
yes, you are right. I do a lot of venting on my blog, too.


dogslife2live01 68M
1998 posts
6/2/2020 9:13 pm

...and that is why woman created the blog...
happy ventday

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


topherific 57M
4680 posts
6/2/2020 8:57 pm

i certainly understand feeling like life has lost focus or purpose or direction or...focus on your strengths and loves and tomorrow will take care of itself. there is a verbal exchange in the movie "Field of Dreams" the ghost of shoeless joe jackson is coaching the rookie who showed up from the past as well, "full count what do you think (the pitcher) will do?" " he probably will go low and outside...or in my ear"(having been brushed back by the pitcher twice) shoeless joe says "so be ready for low and outside...but watch out for in your ear"


JustLookn439 54M

6/2/2020 6:58 pm

Well as far as accepting gratuitous gifts, couldn't you just wait until your boss is busy unwrapping his free golf gift cards to slip YOUR gift into your handbag?


easy_going2014 53M
13447 posts
6/2/2020 6:48 pm

Hi secret_lade

It's nice that your BFF came to talk to you

have a great week!

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Good luck!!!


KX450F2016 51M  
114 posts
6/2/2020 5:18 pm

I have been on my own the majority of my life. Yeah, I get lonely once in a while but it passes. I have really only had 2 relationships in my life, both marriages. 2nd one shouldn't have happened, but I settled cause I can't find anyone. Now I'm not sure I want to. LOL


Paulxx001 63M
16703 posts
6/2/2020 4:26 pm

Ahhh... Vacation...
How big is your balcony? πŸ€” Sun β˜€ lamp and a palm 🌴 tree and you're halfway there. Pour a πŸ₯ƒ rum and coke, some Carribean music 🎢 and you're all set. πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘
Just a thought... πŸ˜Žβ—


mc_justmc 60M
6312 posts
6/2/2020 3:34 pm

Come on down! Everything is open here. I've been playing "odd man out", as well. We can go beaching, I can tan and you can .... uhmmmm ......... pink!


citizen4722 62M  
67505 posts
6/2/2020 3:13 pm

Yes, I've certainly found it hard going being on my own throughout lock-down.
Ten weeks has passed a lot quicker than I expected though! But enough's enough now.


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