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Quotes From a Sensually Intuitive Woman
Posted:Dec 10, 2019 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 7:22 pm
As seen on a profile on another app:

"I am passionate, open and curious I want to know what ignites your soul. Deep, passionate kissing. Slow, intense make out sessions. If you kiss me like your body wants to become one with mine, I'll be yours".

Damn! If you are on AdultFriendFinder, reach out to me... I am local, and my body aches for you
An excellent idea, courtesy of a picture collector
Posted:Dec 7, 2019 12:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2020 5:28 am
Recently, a "real" woman from Wisconsin played texting games with me, but unknowing to her she just helped me and other guys more effectively deal with fakes, et al on this site. Here's how:

If you are ever in doubt about someone you are chatting with being real, ask them to send a picture of themselves flashing a "peace" sign. If they won't, or send one of someone else, time to move on.

I tried that recently, and the conversation abruptly ended with a string of profanities on the part of the "woman", and one happy gentleman on this end foiling another fake.
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Meet & Greets During the Holidays
Posted:Dec 15, 2019 2:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2019 4:06 pm
Are you able to schedule meet-ups with potential new lovers/play mates at this time of year? I find it a challenge with family obligations, holiday parties, and here in Minnesota, the weather. I met a woman this week that I believe share chemistry together, but between our schedules, it is going to be a while before we can rendezvous again.

Like most guys, I have needs, and can always release myself on my own, but I hesitate sometimes using porn or someone's photo, as doing that excessively can detract from the extreme satisfaction of the genuine experience...
This site is now like playing a slot machine..
Posted:Feb 8, 2021 9:50 am
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2021 4:00 am
You spin and spin the "wheel" and you wind up losing 98 times out of 100.

I am grateful for the friends I have made here, but in my quest for a sexual soulmate I encounter so many fakes and scammers that it has become little more than a game to when I get bored...
The latest attempted scam?
Posted:Jun 23, 2020 5:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2021 5:46 pm
Just this morning...
About ready to give up....
Posted:Jun 22, 2020 4:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2020 12:05 pm

I know.... many have said that before, but with the stress of everything going on, including, but not limited to Covid 19, I don't have the time to deal with fakes and players.

Abridged version here... I began talking to a woman where we had an almost instant connection. We spent an afternoon talking on the phone, and was completely upfront about our desires and imperfections. We talked about keeping in touch and building upon getting to know one another, and her even making plans to visit me this summer (She even liked liked my blog and wanted to know me better through that also).

We exchanged a few more texts over the next week while she traveled. Then, she fell silent. I sent several texts over a period of a week with no response. I then emailed her through the site, asking if everything was all right, or perhaps had met her soul mate, and just wanted to know. Within 24 hours she had blocked me, and can't even read her blog posts.

If I said anything wrong, I was willing to own up to it and/or explain, as words can sometimes be misinterpreted here, but to just cut me off? Sorry, that is just unacceptable, especially for a supposed mature woman.

I vett those that I have contact with here, and have and make time for the genuine friends I have made here, but for the players that tease you, block then leave you hanging? No thanks. I have exhausted almost all of the emotional energy within me.
An unusual, strange request.
Posted:Apr 14, 2020 5:27 am
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2020 9:14 pm
A bit more light-hearted today so let's have a laugh!

True story: I reached out to a woman on another site yesterday, and before introductions even started she asked me to send a picture of me touching my nose. Instantly, a yellow flag went up. What is her intent? Is she (or maybe he) trying to collect pictures and assemble a collage of guys that look like fools?

I went ahead and took a picture of myself touching my nose, but cropped the rest of my facial features out, as you can see. I sent it, and she responded "But I can't see your face". I replied, "You didn't ask to see my face, you asked for a picture of me touching my nose"

Before long, she was gone, but left feeling good I had called their bluff.
Getting Acquainted in Bed
Posted:Apr 13, 2020 7:12 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 7:23 pm
I get it -- There are many that can meet a total stranger at a hotel or wherever, disrobe, fuck, get up, get dressed and leave. If that is your thing, fine. But that is not me. Sex is not something I can do on-demand, nor I am I initially turned by a woman's naked body. However, here is something totally magical when you meet someone that has a full life, yet is sexual and sensual without being nasty and vulgar -- where you make being intimate with someone and satisfying each other's needs a priority -- so natural that you are willing to cut-to-the-chase and get acquainted in bed.

This takes not only being sex positive, but a willingness to be prudently vulnerable. Two caring and attentive people can masterfully and quickly establish if there is chemistry between one another, with the result being you eagerly anticipate getting together as soon as your schedules allow. The moment happens. You knock on the door, and she opens and greets you warmly with first kiss as you close the door... your lips meeting and your tongues doing a perfect dance together telling that you and your partner's bodies will soon merge. She leads you to the couch where you sit together and cuddle, talk, laugh, have a drink and become much more comfortable and in awe of each other, not being able to keep your hands still. Before too long I reach the point of "no return" where, after looking into her eyes we resume kissing and then removing her shirt, I begin to suck her breasts, immediately eliciting moans from her as she caresses and runs her fingers through my hair, then moves her hand down to where she feels how hard I have become. It is then she takes my hand and leads me to her bedroom.

We undress in front of each other, soon revealing our naked, imperfect bodies. it doesn't matter -- the chemistry between us is undeniable. We embrace skin-on-skin for the first time, basking in the warmth of human contact that is so natural and right. Taking me by the hand, she laid me down on the bed with her, where we engaged in natural, easy flowing conversation in between deep, long kisses and our hands probed one another in loving exploration, and my mouth more aggressively sucking her breasts, telling her without words how much I worship and adore her.

Finally, the look in her eyes, smile, and her wetness tells me we are 100 percent ready for one another. She parts her legs, and I gently slip in. It takes us a few minutes to find the best fit, and there are moments of laughter while that is happening, but before long we are relaxed and I can see on her face I am hitting the right spots. Her legs tighten around me, looking into her eyes as our bodies, minds and souls are becoming one with each pump and grind. I carefully watch and feel for movements and sensations that please her most, and she confidently communicates with me what she needs and wants, and I respond as I hold back my orgasm in favor of hers.

After an incalculable amount of time, she senses my deep need and moans for me to cum and give it all to her. I begin to pump harder and wider as I look into her lustful eyes, feeling her kegals beckoning my orgasm and then I start flowing into her with total abandon as I moan her name and she nearly screams as every last drop is gladly surrendered to her.
After catching our breath, a sweet, peaceful afterglow ensues. We lay there spooning, taking, laughing, and thanking one another for being who we are -- two very sexually honest and open, yet caring people. She took every ounce of semen from me, and she is relishing that part of me being inside her.. and admits she will try to keep it in here as long as she can.

As always when you have earth-shattering sex, you wonder if it will be a one-night-stand, or that person will want to be with you on an ongoing basis, the latter of which I made abundantly clear at the outset. She said absolutely, and in spite of our busy schedules and responsibilities, we have made being together to at least be intimate a top priority. Each time we are together the orgasms have intensified, we have tried new things, and we have bonded and become the best of friends and lovers, and yearn for one another almost constantly. I have almost never have to masturbate, as I want to save all of my cum for her.
Not very inspired to blog these days..
Posted:Mar 28, 2020 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 7:23 pm
Like many others across the USA, we are practical lockdown. I got laid off my job for at least two weeks. Wish I had someone close by where we could be having sex nearly 24/7 -- I am sure my semen production would increase with such frequency, lol.

Nevertheless, I am grateful for the friends I have made here in blog land.
2020 Bicycling Season is Underway!
Posted:Mar 8, 2020 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2020 2:46 pm
Temps reached the upper 50s today, so I thought I would start to get back into shape after a four month winter-imposed break to get back on the bicycle and build up endurance for the longer excursions I take when the real nice weather arrives.

Ice is still on the lakes, and some deep snow is seen in shaded areas, but the state of Minnesota plows the Gateway Trail during the winter, so, except for dodging some puddles here-and-there, the trail is very much open!

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"Dear John" text.. Disappointed but not surprised
Posted:Mar 1, 2020 7:30 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2020 4:38 pm

Received this after my new lover got back from her vacation:

"Thanks for your messages while I was away. Unfortunately, I do have write the “dear Jane”, I thought about it a lot on my trip... the reason I reached out anyone that night, who happened be you, was the residual of a whole night awake and drinking. I need get a grip on my life and that’s going require focus. I appreciate you, you’re very sweet, and I’m glad have had the experience with you."
Too young, too far away.. and too FAKE
Posted:Feb 28, 2020 8:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2020 8:41 pm
I send out that response on average 3-4 times a week!

All 25-35, asking me to them. Instead I call, and find, to no surprise, that it is a text-only number .

To quote a line from a Kingston Trio song, "When Will They Ever Learn...."
Can't keep our hands off each other!
Posted:Feb 27, 2020 11:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2020 7:48 am
Ever met someone where the chemistry was so intense that when you walk in the door you immediately start deep kissing and probing one another's bodies until the last orgasm transpires?

Just this last week.. then she left for a week long vacation. Hoping she will want me again.. and again.. and again when she returns. Hopeful, but too many of these have turned into one night stands....

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