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Time for the music to come out and play!
Posted:Feb 21, 2020 5:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2020 4:09 am
Just five of the titles I will be "groovin" to this weekend!

Both sides of a "booty call"
Posted:Feb 21, 2020 6:54 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2020 12:56 pm
Last fall (before my "Basic Communications Expectations" blog) I became acquainted with an AdultFriendFinder member who got a hotel suite in a nearby suburb to visit her parents, and she invited me over to "play". I was available, so I thought, "why not?". She seemed mature, sincere, and did not communicate with the code words of a .  In the ensuing hours, I began to get somewhat hesitant, as she would only communicate with me on IM, and not on the phone to get acquainted. But then I thought, the motel is in a nice area, and she eventually called me to give directions and tell her room number, so I pressed forward in my travels. I arrived at the motel, and, still feeling uneasy, left my wallet and phone in the car in the event of a worse-case scenario.

I arrived at her suite and I knocked on the door, which was slightly ajar. The room was completely dark save for light emanating from the TV. I could see in the mostly-darkness that she was naked as she immediately led me to the bedroom and began to undress me. Of course, I was initially turned on and ready to get acquainted in her bed. After some brief foreplay, she mounted and began to straddle me and within two minutes the woman came hard. After that, she basically went "limp" and expressed no desire to continue or fulfill my needs. Sensing that, I also went limp, and the rendezvous was effectively over. She then asked me to go to the sitting area while she got dressed.

It was then that I began to get nervous. During the ensuing 10 minutes thoughts like "is someone going to emerge from the closet?, and "is she going to pull a knife or gun on me" permeated my thoughts. She then emerged from the bedroom, turned the light on, and sat down on the couch with me, and we finally began to talk. In short, she is a single mother that does not to get to have sex very often, and has to get a motel room under the pretext of visiting her aged parents to have playtime. Finally, after 20 or so minutes, she had to leave to pick up her parents for supper, so I left feeling a bit of relief, yet a bit used.

Epilogue: This woman has messaged me several times since to "play", the most recent being this week. I finally told her that if she willing to take her time and meet my needs, I would consider it. Crickets.
Mid-week musical break
Posted:Feb 20, 2020 5:12 am
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2020 5:13 am
An underrated and forgotten talent that left us too soon.
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A fantasy from long ago...
Posted:Feb 19, 2020 11:11 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2020 10:48 am
She is well dressed for a night out -- including
pumps that show off her toe clevage! -- along with her smile
and confident personality I am hard already. We talk, laugh, flirt while we sit at the bar, then acknowledge what is on our minds and make a getaway!

When we are alone she kicks off her heels and we begin to kiss
and caress and disrobe at the same time. As we delight in
the sensation of our bare skin against one another, I sit
her in my lap so I can suck on her breasts more comfortably.
As we become more relaxed our bodies begin to ache for release
even more, She smiles as she lays back on the bed, spreads
her legs, welcoming me inside her.

I ease my way in, and she begins to tighten her pussy, arms and legs around me simultaneously.We begin to establish our rhythm as we both gaze into one anothers eyes, further establishing the sexual bond that
is unfolding. I want to cum so badly, yet I want this pumping
and grinding to go on forever (or at least until she has had
several good orgasms). Finally in a very out of breath but
caring manner my lover tells me "cum baby, give it
to me". She digs her fingers into my back, and her toes
into the back of my legs and I feel her pussy become like a
plunger trying to pull the semen out of me. I gladly let go
as I feel my cum flowing into my lover... I moan her name in
delight as my body convulses and I surrender every drop...
then when we get our breath I hold her close w/her head on
my chest.. we relax... and then get ready to do it again later!
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Starting a new week on a positive note..
Posted:Feb 17, 2020 9:37 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2020 4:09 am
Just wanted reach out with a short post say how grateful I am for the new friends I have made here in blog land, many of whom I have corresponded with privately, and even spoken with over the phone. Although chances are remote we will ever meet in person, you have encouraged me by sharing your stories and experiences, reassuring me that there are others that yearn for what we do, and that we would have wonderful chemistry if it weren't for the miles.
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My Valentine's Day...
Posted:Feb 14, 2020 8:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2020 7:53 am
To very special lover, where ever you may be.. hopefully here.

How I wish we could bridge the miles, and our lips and hips could merge, and your loving, confident and skillful body could take all of from yearning body. I am saving it all you!
Top 10 songs that get Sensual Man hot and bothered..
Posted:Feb 12, 2020 9:41 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2020 8:22 am
Keeping it not 30.. very personal list, all from the classic era of Top 40 radio:

. Make It With You- Bread
9. Thunder Island- Jay Ferguson
8. Undercover Angel- Alan O'Day
7. Love Love You Baby- Donna Summer
6. Stay The Night- Chicago
5. Physical- Olivia Newton-John
4. Pillow Talk- Sylvia
3. Love Won't Let Me Wait- Major Harris
2. Let's Get It On- Marvin Gaye

And #1!

Sexual Healing- Marvin Gaye
It was bound to happen sometime this winter..
Posted:Feb 12, 2020 7:36 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2020 3:23 am
Yep, I slipped and fell on ice/snow.

That is one of the biggest fears I have as I get older. As cautious as one tries be during the Minnesota winters, inevitably a spot that looks safe catches you off-guard and down you go.

It happened as I was crossing the street my workplace. There was a slick spot covered by a layer of snow at the curb, and before I knew it, I was flat on my ass.  I quickly got up, shook it off, got my bearings, and continued my journey into wor

When I got inside, I began realize how hard I tumbled.. my arm was skinned through layers of clothing, and days later I am feeling sore on my right side.

Once again, if you live in a wintery climate, be very careful and shuffle along if need be!
I Freely Admit, I am a "Vanilla" Guy
Posted:Jan 25, 2020 10:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2020 4:18 am

Anyone here got Fetish Life also?
Posted:Jan 24, 2020 9:43 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2020 3:58 am

I had to butcher the name slightly to get past censors, lol

Please share your thoughts, and experiences, as I have learned there a a great deal of crossover between the two sites.
Although "Dick Pics" are still the trending topic..
Posted:Jan 22, 2020 9:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2020 7:54 pm

I am STILL not going post one.

Play with my "Ding-A-Ling"? Now, that's a different matter.
Height: Does it matter?
Posted:Jan 21, 2020 8:30 am
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2020 7:25 pm
I was reading a blog post by an inactive female member the other day and it gave me "food for thought" on an issue I have never really had an opportunity address online-- how does a guy feel about height and does it matter?

I am sure that many men have at least fantasized about being enveloped and dominated sexually by a woman who is much taller than them (I have), and a select few "Amazon" women may actually prefer shorter men, promoting the fact that the are "worth the climb". There is likely more fantasy than reality associated with these scenarios.

Even though chemistry is first and foremost for me when it comes a lover, I have admit that height does a roll in an ongoing relationship--It's undeniably part of that chemistry. Once I was with a woman who is 6'2" (I am 5'"). Although she was a great kisser, it was admittedly awkward for her lean over kiss when standing together.  Laying down it was less awkward, but when it came to being sexual our bodies just didn't fit right, and mutual satisfaction was elusive.

I get it that most women want to at least sense the feel of protection by having a taller companion. There is also still a bit of stigma attached to a tall woman being with a shorter man- one example out of Hollywood is when Tom Cruse and Nicole Kidman were still together - he is 5'8" and she is 5'". Cruse had wear risers in his shoes, and/or Kidman had ditch the heels when they were out in public together.

For , the ideal (though never completely a deal-breaker) is a woman my height or a few inches shorter, as kissing at eye-level is effortless and natural, arms can more easily reach those erogenous zones, and my erection can be felt at a very strategic location..
And now, for something completely different!
Posted:Jan 18, 2020 6:56 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2020 5:52 am

Alright friends, finally a completely light-hearted post devoid of dramatic stories!

I love music, particularly classic top 40 radio hits of the 60s-80s. However, one song that makes dread the upcoming eight minutes is ushered in with the words, "Long Long Time Ago.." . In spite of a slightly disgruntled look that appears on my face, I almost never change the station.

I am still mesmerized the lyrics, even 48 after the song became a runaway hit. I listen, hoping that I missed some carefully hidden reference a musician, event, TV show, or....

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