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Basic Communication Expectations- Updated 2019  

sensualmaninmn 58M  
162 posts
12/10/2019 7:57 am
Basic Communication Expectations- Updated 2019

It seems every year brings a new technological twist the world of online dating. Since my 2011 post, numerous apps that have been created make it possible connect with more people (theĀ  powers be won't let name them here, but you can figure which ones are trending). As with any good thing, there are inevitably those learn how exploit the latest technology for nefarious purposes. Therefore, better reflect the new realities, here is what I generally expect when I enter into communication with a potential lover:

1. Get acquainted via several exchanges on this site. If you ask for an right away, is an automatic scammer alert and the conversation is over. Period.

2. Exchange cell and . If the comfort level isn't quite there, use an alternate platform.

3. At some point, it is prudent talk on the phone, or set up video chat. If you are not willing do this get know each other, then it likely is not going go anywhere. Not have a cell phone? Sorry, cell phones can be obtained for free by even the most destitute-- lie is no longer even remotely convincing. What happens if I give you a call, and discover it is a text only number? Goodbye--you are a scammer from another country, or a guy masquerading as a woman.

3. Finally, If all goes well, we set up a time and place meet AND if it goes REALLY well, then spend time getting "intimately" aquainted...
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Sound a bit rigid and regimented? Maybe, but at the core of this is plain common sense and courtesy. I don't believe the "requirements" are harsh or unreasonable, as there there are many ways both parties can ensure a safe experience before meeting. So, now all of is of the way.. let's be real!


author51 57F  
86929 posts
1/16/2020 5:00 am

The cell phone may be free but you still have to pay to use it which is why I do not have a plan on my cell phone.I use it for photos and where there is WIFI I can go online.. I use my computer and have a land line to phone my lover whom I met through the site here.. Good post..

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sensualmaninmn 58M  
442 posts
1/17/2020 9:19 am

    Quoting author51:
    The cell phone may be free but you still have to pay to use it which is why I do not have a plan on my cell phone.I use it for photos and where there is WIFI I can go online.. I use my computer and have a land line to phone my lover whom I met through the site here.. Good post..
I don't know what the telecommunications grid is like in Canada, but here in the USA most us, particularly in major metropolitan areas no longer have a land line, because cell service (especially if you are a Verizon customer) is excellent, rendering a legacy phone an unnecessary expense. And my phone uses WiFi where available, virtually assuring a consistent clean connection. I do have a "burner" number that I use because even with selectively giving my number out, I inevitably get hooked by a spammer, therefore my regular number is protected against spammers--even most of the robocalls have ceased.

Thank you for your positive comment Author! I believe clarity on expectations is essential. If your phone arrangement works, I'd say more power to you! And happy you met a lover here.. much easier for women no matter what country you are in.


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