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Heartache and hope all in 24 hours  

sensualmaninmn 59M  
208 posts
1/17/2020 8:17 am
Heartache and hope all in 24 hours

With the new year I have made a resolution not to bitch, moan and complain incessantly on this blog. However, shit happens and Wednesday night I was very hurt a woman that I had met in back in December, got along very well with and had said she wanted to be with me.

I will cut to the chase here.. the woman in question cancelled a get together at a local restaurant last Wednesday because of being swamped with work. We agreed to reschedule for a week later, this time a get-better-acquainted-in-bed date, and we would finalize plans over the weekend. I texted her on Sunday. No response. Tuesday, same. Wednesday, I asked at about :am if we were still on. Crickets. Finally, I texted her one more time at 5:. At 5:24 came her response, which was the same as the previous week. Honestly, I anticipated that would be her response, if any. After contemplating for a couple of hours, I texted her a carefully worded response, which in summary said "If you just don't want to see me anymore, just say so-- I am a big boy and can deal with it. On the other hand, if you are unusually busy, my apologies, and I will be patient. Just need some communication here, as opposed to ghosting." So far, no response.

Fast forward to 24 hours later. A woman from AdultFriendFinder I met briefly a year-and-a-half ago agreed to reconnect, and we met at a Target parking lot. We sat in my car for about an hour with the motor running (it was near zero outside) talking, laughing, kissing and caressing. I let her know I am more focused now than last time we met, and that I very much wanted to spend time together with her and be lovers as much as our time and circumstances allow. She said she wanted the same, and I felt the sincerity in her touch and kiss. Later when I got home, I felt a wetness in my underwear...precum had oozed from me while we were together. I let her know that, and she texted back with a smile.

Wednesday night seems like a distant memory now.


sensualmaninmn 59M  
519 posts
1/17/2020 8:19 am

At least a normal heartbeat and a smile on my face to end the week.

Happy Friday everyone!


Bismorb69 49M
2 posts
1/17/2020 8:38 am

Me encanta esta narración muy buena


sensualmaninmn 59M  
519 posts
1/17/2020 8:50 am

    Quoting Bismorb69:
    Me encanta esta narración muy buena
No comprendo.


benard69 63M/63F  
5180 posts
1/17/2020 9:14 am

A Toast to your underwear....


seems6666 49F
3902 posts
1/17/2020 10:47 am

Well good on you... when one fails.... NEXT!


jajo696 65F
2225 posts
1/17/2020 11:21 am

welll....first of all, how did you manage to get this Target date so quickly after the failed wednesday date? Does this mean you were wooing Target while also wooing/.hoping for Wednesday? Orrrrrrrr does this mean, you quickly rebounded to/for/ with the Target? Secondly, what went wrong before with the Target person......and are those same things happening now. I know the heartache is so very difficult....and in the face of that the hope seems so sweet. BUT unless you process the entire situation, the hope may turn to heartaceh as well. Just my dos centavos and things to consider. At any rate....i wish you well....and hope it all turns out well~~

.......and did that motor running for an hour...give u the noxious fumes and cloud ur judgement ???

lol


sensualmaninmn 59M  
519 posts
1/17/2020 2:59 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    welll....first of all, how did you manage to get this Target date so quickly after the failed wednesday date? Does this mean you were wooing Target while also wooing/.hoping for Wednesday? Orrrrrrrr does this mean, you quickly rebounded to/for/ with the Target? Secondly, what went wrong before with the Target person......and are those same things happening now. I know the heartache is so very difficult....and in the face of that the hope seems so sweet. BUT unless you process the entire situation, the hope may turn to heartaceh as well. Just my dos centavos and things to consider. At any rate....i wish you well....and hope it all turns out well~~

    .......and did that motor running for an hour...give u the noxious fumes and cloud ur judgement ???

    lol
There is a lot more to the issue than I could squeeze into a blog. After all, I am not writing a book, lol. I will just say that the Wednesday gal is somewhat of a "Unicorn", and I have learned my lesson. I had been talking again to the "Target" lady for a couple of weeks and we agreed to meet again. It just so happens she was available and nearby on Thursday. What I am seeking is pretty clear on my profile.


jajo696 65F
2225 posts
1/17/2020 4:05 pm

    Quoting sensualmaninmn:
    There is a lot more to the issue than I could squeeze into a blog. After all, I am not writing a book, lol. I will just say that the Wednesday gal is somewhat of a "Unicorn", and I have learned my lesson. I had been talking again to the "Target" lady for a couple of weeks and we agreed to meet again. It just so happens she was available and nearby on Thursday. What I am seeking is pretty clear on my profile.
Oh yes....though i cant view profiles, i can see the path ahead.~~


RyuFujin 52F  
1186 posts
1/17/2020 5:22 pm

Me encanta esta narración muy Buena
Translation according to Google: "I love this very good storytelling".

As acurate as any online translator can give, though it might deviate from the actual Spanish-to-English that a native speaker would give you.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


sensualmaninmn 59M  
519 posts
1/17/2020 5:37 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Me encanta esta narración muy Buena
    Translation according to Google: "I love this very good storytelling".

    As acurate as any online translator can give, though it might deviate from the actual Spanish-to-English that a native speaker would give you.
Thanks. My response was more or less "Tongue In Cheek", but I now realize he likely translated my blog post so he could read and understand in Spanish.


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