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sensualmaninmn 58M  
190 posts
8/22/2016 8:24 pm
One night stands

I believe most everyone understands the stigma associated with one-night stands, most notably casual, detached sex. My profile clearly states that I seek and desire ongoing sexual intimacy, because the sex gets better when you are with another person repeatedly -- you get to know what turns each other on, your bodily rhythms, and to anticipate when you are most in need, and what you are in need of.

I had an encounter not too long ago with a woman that was, from outside appearances, out of my league. She is 20 years younger than me and very stunning and well dressed (I am far from perfect, and I don't seek a Barbie-type woman -- chemistry is what I look for first and foremost). During our initial meeting over drinks the woman said she was a total sapiosexual and loves older men. A few days later she invited me up to her apartment. After she let me in we began to kiss. After 10 seconds or so the kisses became French, and I could feel our bodies aching to become one. She walked to the other side of the room, kicked her flats off and promptly removed her dress. I followed suit with taking my clothes off. She then took my hand and led me to her bed where we engaged in several minutes of foreplay before she made it clear that she wanted me insider her. As I mounted her there was a bit of hesitation, as she, though tall, was thin and being a bigger guy, was afraid I would crush her. That wasn't a problem as she promptly wrapped her legs around me tightly, pulling me deeper inside. Her blue eyes met mine with a deliberate gaze and I felt as close as you can get with another human being. With every pump I felt her juices flow and heard the words and moans of pleasure as her eyes begged me to surrender my cum to her, which I did with total abandon. Afterwards, we enjoyed some laughter and witty conversation before we had to go our separate ways for the day. Later in the afternoon she texted to say thank you for making love to her, and that it was wonderful, and looked forward to seeing me again upon returning from a trip.

Fast forward to her return three weeks later.. the woman texted me to say that after careful contemplation she decided that she didn't want to see me anymore, and that she felt used by me. Now, I knew deep in my heart that I didn't use her -- our meeting was very much a mutual exchange. You know that saying "if it's too good to be true, it probably is?" Well, I can't say that I was surprised, hearkening back to my hesitation during our initial meeting. Apparently she was expecting some financial compensation for our encounter (and future ones), and I later found out she had several well-heeled "suitors" that enabled her to live an opulent lifestyle.

I never enter a sexual relationship with a woman with the intent on it being a one-time thing, but sometimes through no fault of your own, it happens... ]

author51 57F  
92430 posts
4/14/2020 8:00 am

I may be generalizing here but when you mentioned 20 years younger going for older men, chances are they are in it for a Sugar Daddy.. I wish more older men would realize that .. She was the one to use and you dodged a bullet there Hun.. I know not all younger/ older relationships are not like that, but have read more horror stories on this site about it than those that turn out well...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

sensualmaninmn replies on 4/14/2020 10:56 am:
That post is four years old, and I have learned a lot since then. Turns out she is a sociopath and fortunately moved far away from here, probably using men in another city now.

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