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sexyldy1000 60F  
10049 posts
8/31/2021 12:55 pm
Every Day You Have A Choice


Every day we have a choice about how we are going to face life and all that it throws at us.

The last couple of days, I could have curled up into a ball and cried until there were no more tears to shed.

However, that's not who I am. And I know that's not how my wants me to live. He wants me to be strong and for his sister and I to continue to look out for each other.

Here's what I am choosing to do.




Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
8/31/2021 12:59 pm

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How did you choose to live today?

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
8/31/2021 1:22 pm

I missed his call today but he kept telling his sister for us to be strong and to take care of each other.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


RavenGB 60M
1405 posts
8/31/2021 1:41 pm

As a parent, my heart bleeds for you. I have endured much, but I can imagine nothing worse than what I fear you are going through now. I wish you strength.


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1753 posts
8/31/2021 1:50 pm

all we know is that someone close to you made what you feel was a bad choice...so it is hard to know what to say to help....except...hand in there..it always gets better...in time..

woop woop


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1753 posts
8/31/2021 1:51 pm

hang in...damn auto-correct

woop woop


Paulxx001 64M
21579 posts
8/31/2021 1:54 pm

Yours is not a REAL question. It's born of grief and angst and ANGER and a whole bunch of other stuff.

Call me later and we'll talkโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž

If you feel like it. I'll be watching the women win gold. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—โ—


stringtime666 60M
1094 posts
8/31/2021 2:18 pm

like yesterday, being curious and being open to everything

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Paulxx001 64M
21579 posts
8/31/2021 2:18 pm

Choices I made today? ๐Ÿค”

I put two sugars in my coffee ; normally I flip one and a half.

I went to the marina, but I sat on the bench under that huge willow tree. Usually, I'll lounge on the picnic table on the right. But the shade was crazy nice near that tree.

I usually head back home, and try and get some work done ; TODAY ... I gave least fucks.

Shall, should, might, could โ€” oh, for fuck's sake.
I chose to live today as if
.. it might be my very, last, day.

And THAT'S why, I re-seasoned my cast iron skillet. (* at 460 for 45 minutes *). What a challenge, but it worked out fine.

Ya never know when y'all gotta go, but at least I'm leaving them with a piece of cast iron that fucking kicks ASS! ๐Ÿ‘

What did I do today? ๐Ÿค”
Fuck all

I lived.๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—โ—


peterlikesplay2 65M
457 posts
8/31/2021 3:08 pm

those are great choices....and not easy to follow through on..good luck


flannel_light 59F  
4012 posts
8/31/2021 4:08 pm

My heart bleeds for you. As a parent you never stop worrying and you are in my prayers.
I cleaned out my kitchen cabinets today.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


lemburns 50M/55F  
8 posts
8/31/2021 5:17 pm

Everyday you wake up the most important thing to do in the morning is choose your attitude.

Choose a good one, it will make your day a little better for you and those around you.

Choose a bad one. Well then your day is probably not going to be good and you will probably ruin someone else's day too.

So which ever one you choose own it. There are many more good reasons to choose a good one than a bad one. Even when things aren't going well or seem dark and gloomy be that ray of sunshine for not only yourself but everyone you encounter.


lonlyforlove2 78M
33432 posts
8/31/2021 5:42 pm

Parents have to breath diferent air, strong air, air with confidence and strengrth.. Breathe deep and relax, it will help..

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scoupe42 58M  
12546 posts
8/31/2021 6:39 pm

All life have value to someone!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38490 posts
9/1/2021 2:05 am

There's nothing wrong in shedding tears. I wish I could!


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 3:41 am

    Quoting RavenGB:
    As a parent, my heart bleeds for you. I have endured much, but I can imagine nothing worse than what I fear you are going through now. I wish you strength.
Thank you for your kind words of support. They do help and are appreciated.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 3:49 am

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    all we know is that someone close to you made what you feel was a bad choice...so it is hard to know what to say to help....except...hand in there..it always gets better...in time..
I am not comfortable revealing the specifics, not even to my closest friend The situation will never get better. I will draw on my inner strength. Thank you for your kind thoughts.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 3:59 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yours is not a REAL question. It's born of grief and angst and ANGER and a whole bunch of other stuff.

    Call me later and we'll talkโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž

    If you feel like it. I'll be watching the women win gold. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—โ—
You are mistaken. I am finding ways to cope and get through each day. I was interested in how others do so. Watching the Women's World Hockey Championships and Canada winning the gold medal was a welcomed distraction.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:00 am

    Quoting stringtime666:
    like yesterday, being curious and being open to everything
That's a positive and encouraging approach . Thanks for sharing.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:04 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Choices I made today? ๐Ÿค”

    I put two sugars in my coffee ; normally I flip one and a half.

    I went to the marina, but I sat on the bench under that huge willow tree. Usually, I'll lounge on the picnic table on the right. But the shade was crazy nice near that tree.

    I usually head back home, and try and get some work done ; TODAY ... I gave least fucks.

    Shall, should, might, could โ€” oh, for fuck's sake.
    I chose to live today as if
    .. it might be my very, last, day.

    And THAT'S why, I re-seasoned my cast iron skillet. (* at 460 for 45 minutes *). What a challenge, but it worked out fine.

    Ya never know when y'all gotta go, but at least I'm leaving them with a piece of cast iron that fucking kicks ASS! ๐Ÿ‘

    What did I do today? ๐Ÿค”
    Fuck all

    I lived.๐Ÿ˜Žโ—โ—โ—
Living life is different for everyone.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:06 am

    Quoting peterlikesplay2:
    those are great choices....and not easy to follow through on..good luck
I agree they are not easy. Thank you for stopping by and offering encouragement.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:08 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    My heart bleeds for you. As a parent you never stop worrying and you are in my prayers.
    I cleaned out my kitchen cabinets today.
Thank you for your support. Life is full of choices. Some days, the choices are easier than others. Sounds like you kept yourself busy!

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:11 am

    Quoting lemburns:
    Everyday you wake up the most important thing to do in the morning is choose your attitude.

    Choose a good one, it will make your day a little better for you and those around you.

    Choose a bad one. Well then your day is probably not going to be good and you will probably ruin someone else's day too.

    So which ever one you choose own it. There are many more good reasons to choose a good one than a bad one. Even when things aren't going well or seem dark and gloomy be that ray of sunshine for not only yourself but everyone you encounter.
You obviously understand what I was asking. Thank you for sharing your common-sense approach to getting through each day.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:12 am

    Quoting  :

Since they make sense to me, I thought others might agree. Thanks for stopping by.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:14 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Parents have to breath diferent air, strong air, air with confidence and strengrth.. Breathe deep and relax, it will help..
Focusing on other things also helps. Thank you for your words of encouragement.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 4:14 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    All life have value to someone!
Indeed it does!

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


ClassicRock2015 67M
1932 posts
9/1/2021 6:33 am

Keep a positive attitude going forward...Sounds like your close family will be very helpful !...hugzzz !


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 7:57 am

    Quoting ClassicRock2015:
    Keep a positive attitude going forward...Sounds like your close family will be very helpful !...hugzzz !
I am keeping my chin up and not focusing on all the โ€œwhat ifโ€™sโ€. I donโ€™t feel I can discuss the specifics with anyone, so itโ€™s my daughter and I facing it together. A hug would be very therapeutic ๐Ÿ˜Š. I appreciate the virtual one! Yes

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 8:14 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    There's nothing wrong in shedding tears. I wish I could!
Itโ€™s not easy for many to allow themselves to be so vulnerable. It was very difficult to hold it together when my son broke down on the phone. I hadnโ€™t heard him cry ๐Ÿ˜ข since he was a little boy.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


Weeload2 58M
721 posts
9/1/2021 8:29 am

Do whatever it takes to kep on, keeping on !
Take it easy for sure !

~Wee~


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Tmptrzz 58F
102586 posts
9/1/2021 9:11 am

Your in my thoughts and prayers my friend, stay strong, and stay happy as you know what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger..

I hope your able to enjoy your Hump Day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 1:21 pm

    Quoting Weeload2:
    Do whatever it takes to kep on, keeping on !
    Take it easy for sure !

    ~Wee~

Thank you. One step-at-a-time; One day-at-a-time.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/1/2021 1:22 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Your in my thoughts and prayers my friend, stay strong, and stay happy as you know what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger..

    I hope your able to enjoy your Hump Day..
Your kind thoughts and prayers are appreciated more than I can express. We both are strong, resilient women.

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


easyrider4008 65M
2397 posts
9/2/2021 5:07 am

I am glad that you have chosen to be positive, best wishes.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9187 posts
9/2/2021 10:46 am

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    I am glad that you have chosen to be positive, best wishes.
Thank you. Another other choice simply wasnโ€™t feasible ๐Ÿ˜Š

Stimulate my mind and letโ€™s see what happens.
Be That One


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