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Realizing She's Not His One Night Stand  

sexyldy1000 59F  
6418 posts
8/5/2019 1:49 pm
Realizing She's Not His One Night Stand

She looked around the dimly lit bar. The music was dying down and most of the tables had cleared . He was right, they both should get going.

Almost reluctantly, she slowly stood up and after a moment, he followed her. She felt his gentle touch as he placed his hand on the small of her back and guided her towards the door.

Outside, the night was cool and the stars twinkled as they lit her path.

She could smell his subtle, expensive cologne. He was strong, intelligent and confident. Previously, she hadn't tried finding someone who challenged her in the ways he did. She’d always just gone with the unquestioning, less challenging ones, those who didn't dare ask too many questions. It seemed safer way.

She looked up at him and his questioning, blue eyes which seemed to see too much. She took an instinctive step back, confused and suddenly spooked. His head had already dropped forward and his lips brushed against her cheek.

“I don’t know what I am doing here. I have policies about these things,” he said as his lips fell to the hollow of her neck. She knew better, but she didn’t want it to stop. The kiss was light and teased her.

He raised his head. “I am not into one night stands. I’m too old for that sort of crap. I have all the things I’m proud of in my life. I don’t believe in one night escapism anymore. I don’t see the point.”

She tried to open her mouth to argue but he cut her off brushing his lips over hers. She was startled and surprised. He stopped and lingered for a moment. He held her lightly, giving her plenty of room; it made her both grateful and disappointed.

She had just started to lean forward when he broke off the kiss.

“I’m interested in you,” he murmured against her ear. “You are not what I expected. You are smart. You are complicated. And I already know you won’t go home with me tonight.”

“You are right. I won’t,” she whispered.

His hands fell from her back as he stepped away. Her arms grew cold as she shivered and watched him walk over to his car. She didn’t call him back. She had her own vehicle so she could drive herself home. It was another of her self-imposed rules, designed to keep herself safe.

She watched as he drove away. And, after another moment, she went home. Alone.




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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 1:55 pm

Sometimes not doing something is the best choice.

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Sensual_GentleM 56M
302 posts
8/5/2019 2:18 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Sometimes not doing something is the best choice.
As much as I absolutely agree with your statement, I know I have not always shown enough self-discipline and restraint in similar situations ...


jajo696 65F
2223 posts
8/5/2019 2:27 pm

He should have let his car and got in yours....if you wont go with him, then he comes with you~~


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 2:55 pm

    Quoting Sensual_GentleM:
    As much as I absolutely agree with your statement, I know I have not always shown enough self-discipline and restraint in similar situations ...
No doubt, we all have found ourselves questioning our choices. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 2:58 pm

    Quoting  :

Hence the expression, 'Hindsight is 20/20 '. Thanks for stopping by and providing your perspective.

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Wonder167 53F

8/5/2019 4:24 pm

Yes, sometimes going with the flow isn't the right thing to do!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 5:07 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    Yes, sometimes going with the flow isn't the right thing to do!
Yep - isn't that the truth! Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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resant78 41M  
2686 posts
8/5/2019 5:36 pm

It's SO easy to give in, but I'm glad I've been with people that are stronger than me!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 6:03 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    It's SO easy to give in, but I'm glad I've been with people that are stronger than me!
No doubt that makes for interesting decisions and memories! Thanks for stopping by and sharing.

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Paulxx001 63M
16645 posts
8/5/2019 7:15 pm

Oooo.... Eeeeee..... Ahhhh....
That turn around and wave goodbye... is one of the toughest.
So then what?
Why wouldn't you come over to my place?
I would have served you coffee, and you could have shared with me - how hot 🔥 he was? 🤔
Yep... and...


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 8:38 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    He should have let his car and got in yours....if you wont go with him, then he comes with you~~
Often, the obvious choices aren't the ones that people make. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/5/2019 8:40 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Oooo.... Eeeeee..... Ahhhh....
    That turn around and wave goodbye... is one of the toughest.
    So then what?
    Why wouldn't you come over to my place?
    I would have served you coffee, and you could have shared with me - how hot 🔥 he was? 🤔
    Yep... and...
Really? Not many would be willing to listen to those kinds of reflections. Perhaps serving a glass of wine would make a difference.

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Paulxx001 63M
16645 posts
8/5/2019 9:17 pm

No... I don't need to be buzzed, to have an interesting conversation.
Wine is good though. Nothing against that. White... if I recall...
I get the impression, that you don't think, that a man and a woman... can just be friends? 🤔
No worries... few do.


proteus_2a 54M
7800 posts
8/5/2019 11:51 pm

Interesting snippet, with an unusual ending - for the premises

The sad undertone still remains, though,
and that makes it more interesting ….

Cheers my lady

P


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 12:03 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    No... I don't need to be buzzed, to have an interesting conversation.
    Wine is good though. Nothing against that. White... if I recall...
    I get the impression, that you don't think, that a man and a woman... can just be friends? 🤔
    No worries... few do.
You misunderstood my comment. Was not suggesting You needed to be buzzed. I don’t drink coffee so a glass of white wine ‘might’ have been a better enticement. As for the ability of men and women to be ‘just friends’, you have that impression wrong too. I think it’s very healthy and have enjoyed those type of relationships.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 12:08 am

    Quoting proteus_2a:
    Interesting snippet, with an unusual ending - for the premises

    The sad undertone still remains, though,
    and that makes it more interesting ….

    Cheers my lady

    P
Thank you 🙏 for appreciating a ‘different’ approach and result. Always nice to see you stopping by and commenting.

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justaguyinalaska 54M  
577 posts
8/6/2019 2:17 am

A wonderful paean to *consent*, a concept seems on the verge of extinction in our passive-aggressive culture of bullying and instant gratification.

What could be more erotic than the revelation that we're woke enough now to recognize that *no* sex is better than *empty calorie* sex. And- more importantly- that lovemaking is at its best when informed by more than a night of drinking.

I hope this connection is sustained and that it proceeds at a languid and sensual pace while more friendship and trust decant into its foundation.


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 3:21 am

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    A wonderful paean to *consent*, a concept seems on the verge of extinction in our passive-aggressive culture of bullying and instant gratification.

    What could be more erotic than the revelation that we're woke enough now to recognize that *no* sex is better than *empty calorie* sex. And- more importantly- that lovemaking is at its best when informed by more than a night of drinking.

    I hope this connection is sustained and that it proceeds at a languid and sensual pace while more friendship and trust decant into its foundation.
‘Empty calorie’ sex is an apt descriptive of what many are willing to fall into, especially on sites like this. Thanks for dropping by and providing your perspective.

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_IKanCu2_ 101M
2700 posts
8/6/2019 7:11 am



" 100% of the Ti(\/)e You will /\/ever know, if YU don't TaKe the S/-/ot !" - Wayne Gretzky.

/-/indsight is alway*z 20/20, Foresight is treated like Foreskin, few have it.
][ regret nothing, for it has formed (\/)e as to Who ][ ]-\\M Today.
The opportunity will come again, tho in what form ][ do not know, but it will come again.

Good Blog,,, tY****


Yes,,, ][ Am a one night stand,,, __ ][ admit/declare it,,, tho ][ take 5 Day*z and 6 /\/ight*z to prove it.



sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 8:58 am

    Quoting _IKanCu2_:


    " 100% of the Ti(\/)e You will /\/ever know, if YU don't TaKe the S/-/ot !" - Wayne Gretzky.

    /-/indsight is alway*z 20/20, Foresight is treated like Foreskin, few have it.
    ][ regret nothing, for it has formed (\/)e as to Who ][ ]-\\M Today.
    The opportunity will come again, tho in what form ][ do not know, but it will come again.

    Good Blog,,, tY****



    Yes,,, ][ Am a one night stand,,, __ ][ admit/declare it,,, tho ][ take 5 Day*z and 6 /\/ight*z to prove it.

Thanks for stopping by and offering your unique perspective.

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Tmptrzz 57F
81912 posts
8/6/2019 10:31 am

I think she made the right choice, and you never know what will happen. And I have to say it's always a GOOD thing when a man wants more than a one night stand with a woman. That means there is a possibility of much more, which I hope they will both have together.

What a great read this morning and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 10:53 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I think she made the right choice, and you never know what will happen. And I have to say it's always a GOOD thing when a man wants more than a one night stand with a woman. That means there is a possibility of much more, which I hope they will both have together.

    What a great read this morning and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
I agree, most women, don’t want to be the ‘flavour of the night’. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 11:41 am

    Quoting  :

Yes.....saying ‘No’ or ‘Not this time’ can lead to an even better future encounter. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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pocogato12 68F  
33763 posts
8/6/2019 6:35 pm

Men and women can be friends with out the physical play. I have some and have enjoyed many. However, in this instance the decision to leave the evening as it lay was an unspoken mutual choice

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6384 posts
8/6/2019 7:16 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Men and women can be friends with out the physical play. I have some and have enjoyed many. However, in this instance the decision to leave the evening as it lay was an unspoken mutual choice
Absolutely agree that men and women can be platonic friends, Been there... done that. Mutual choice is imperative . Thanks 🙏 for stopping by and providing your perspective.

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