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sexyldy1000 59F  
7035 posts
7/27/2020 12:00 pm
The Voice In Your Head



It’s known by different things. Your conscience. Your inner voice. Your gut instinct. Your inner monologue.

Many people use it 'to' guide their decisions; consider their options; weigh the pros and cons; decide what actions 'to' take or words 'to' speak. It can all happen in a split second or much longer.

We all know the other kinds of people. They seem 'to' blurt out the first that comes into their head. They don’t think before they speak. They don’t re-read their email, text or comments before pressing Enter.

Afterwards, when they realize the impact, what do they do? Do they take responsibility? No. They will blame it on their temper or the extra alcoholic beverage they consumed or whatever excuse they conger of for their bad behaviour. Or they think simply deleting that email, text or comments will erase the damage.

Remember:

Actions have consequences.

Spoken words cannot be un-heard.

Written words cannot be un-seen.


@The Voice
Sheldon Allan Silverstein was an American writer known for his cartoons, songs, and 's books. His books have been translated into more than '30' languages and have sold more than '20' million copies. He was the recipient of two Grammy Awards, as well as Golden Globe Award and Academy Award nominations.


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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/27/2020 12:07 pm

How well does your 'inner voice' help you?

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lonlyforlove2 77M
16683 posts
7/27/2020 12:51 pm

Over the past half century, I have mellowed a lot, those comments, not only make you look like an ass, but can be expensive, literally. Sometimes one just has to make an ass out of himself to get enough attention to prove a real point. Although one can cut off your nose in spite of it..
As you say we /all should reread, rethink or adjust our attitude before we stand up!!

Good read/post, Thanks
Have a good day, be safe

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Paradox12121 50M
150 posts
7/27/2020 1:01 pm

I try not to speak with anyone. It's working out great.


Drpecker2cu 61M
70 posts
7/27/2020 1:02 pm

Sounds like a Pink Floyd song 😉


vopesahe 58F
31842 posts
7/27/2020 1:34 pm

My Inner Voice helped me very often. A good read. And I like the meme. Thank you for sharing sexyldy.





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Paulxx001 63M
16323 posts
7/27/2020 1:51 pm

That guy Paradox, took the words outta my mouth.


mamacita38dd 42F
52893 posts
7/27/2020 1:52 pm

It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.

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Tmptrzz 57F
84429 posts
7/27/2020 2:25 pm

So very true my friend.. everyone needs a reminder of this every so often. So thanks for sharing this I hope everyone reads it.. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Ubsurprised81 39M
36 posts
7/27/2020 3:17 pm

It seems not everything is caught the first time sometimes you need to slow down


mc_justmc 60M  
6450 posts
7/27/2020 6:02 pm

It sounds like you've been watching our news reports. My inner voice tells me NOT to inject cleaning products to kill off Corona virus.


sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:02 am

    Quoting  :

No one is perfect. We try to learn and move on. Thanks for sharing your experience.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:06 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Over the past half century, I have mellowed a lot, those comments, not only make you look like an ass, but can be expensive, literally. Sometimes one just has to make an ass out of himself to get enough attention to prove a real point. Although one can cut off your nose in spite of it..
    As you say we /all should reread, rethink or adjust our attitude before we stand up!!

    Good read/post, Thanks
    Have a good day, be safe
Often, maturity and life's experiences will temper our reactions. Of course, there will also be others, who will continue to repeat the same bad behaviour and give the same tired excuses.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:08 am

    Quoting Paradox12121:
    I try not to speak with anyone. It's working out great.
And now you are finding 'Your Voice' through your writings on this site

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:15 am

I guess is does . Thanks for stopping by.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:16 am

    Quoting vopesahe:
    My Inner Voice helped me very often. A good read. And I like the meme. Thank you for sharing sexyldy.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for stopping by ad visiting my blog

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:17 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That guy Paradox, took the words outta my mouth.
LOL. You aren't known for being quiet. Your written words are usually 'Your Voice'.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:19 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.
Bad behaviour exists everywhere. Sadly, for some unknown reason, it seems more tolerated here.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:22 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    So very true my friend.. everyone needs a reminder of this every so often. So thanks for sharing this I hope everyone reads it.. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
Seems we were thinking similarly with our posts. No one is perfect. Some seem to get away with their bad behaviours more than others so they think it's acceptable. Hope you have a great week!

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:23 am

    Quoting Ubsurprised81:
    It seems not everything is caught the first time sometimes you need to slow down
'Take time to think before you speak', seems appropriate

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 4:24 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    It sounds like you've been watching our news reports. My inner voice tells me NOT to inject cleaning products to kill off Corona virus.
Unfortunately, we are bombarded with it! No doubt, this is a time NOT to ignore your inner voice! Be wise! Be safe!

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Justme57754 53M
191 posts
7/28/2020 5:06 am

I was brought up to say it like I mean it. That has both helped and hindered me in life but as long as I'm genuine about it that is all that truly matters.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 6:55 am

    Quoting Justme57754:
    I was brought up to say it like I mean it. That has both helped and hindered me in life but as long as I'm genuine about it that is all that truly matters.
Sounds like a fair and reasonable way to communicate. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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Solfan55 65M
425 posts
7/28/2020 8:32 am

I had a friend that used to type out what she was feeling in a heated moment and email those thoughts to herself. She'd re-read the message the next day and usually change it significantly. She had the benefit of letting her inner voice out without all of the destructive consequences. Some may only have that inner voice to listen to in these strange times we find ourselves.

Stay safe out there sexyldy1000!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 9:37 am

    Quoting Solfan55:
    I had a friend that used to type out what she was feeling in a heated moment and email those thoughts to herself. She'd re-read the message the next day and usually change it significantly. She had the benefit of letting her inner voice out without all of the destructive consequences. Some may only have that inner voice to listen to in these strange times we find ourselves.

    Stay safe out there sexyldy1000!
I have also heard of people writing down their thoughts and then burning them as a way of ‘letting go’. Today’s world is indeed unlike anything else our generation has experienced. Safety first is the recurring mantra.

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trixietrixster 52F  
1910 posts
7/28/2020 6:03 pm

You can't unring the bell. Tho, you can learn from it. Sadly, most don't. There are times where I write my emotions, let's me vent for that immediate gratification. After some time has passed, had time to process those feelings.Rarely do I send/say what I had written at first ... *hugs*

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/28/2020 6:57 pm

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    You can't unring the bell. Tho, you can learn from it. Sadly, most don't. There are times where I write my emotions, let's me vent for that immediate gratification. After some time has passed, had time to process those feelings.Rarely do I send/say what I had written at first ... *hugs*
Sounds like you have found a process that works best for you. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective.

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Paulxx001 63M
16323 posts
7/28/2020 9:45 pm

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.
What do you do when you have no talent?
You do what others do here - post re-tread pics stolen off the web and title them with the same old cute titles... day after day.... day after day.... week after week... month after mont... over and over again. How many times have I seen the same pics on others blogs. I just move on. lol...
And then get your minions and little peeps to tell you how good you are.
Oh... and Then you keep bleating about stuff (yesterdays news)...over and over - hoping others give a shit. Nobody but you and few others give a hoot!

What do you do when you have no talent?
Just keep doing whatever it is you're doing. You'll be fine babe!
Everyone here does whatever they do. They don't look for approval from you !


mamacita38dd 42F
52893 posts
7/29/2020 1:38 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    What do you do when you have no talent?
    You do what others do here - post re-tread pics stolen off the web and title them with the same old cute titles... day after day.... day after day.... week after week... month after mont... over and over again. How many times have I seen the same pics on others blogs. I just move on. lol...
    And then get your minions and little peeps to tell you how good you are.
    Oh... and Then you keep bleating about stuff (yesterdays news)...over and over - hoping others give a shit. Nobody but you and few others give a hoot!

    What do you do when you have no talent?
    Just keep doing whatever it is you're doing. You'll be fine babe!
    Everyone here does whatever they do. They don't look for approval from you !
Hahaha... looks like someone realized they got caught doing the Minion Queen work and now finds themselves blocked, you are a joke, add you to list of men it uses up and then outs for helping it. I was always nice to you, you kept being rude on my blog and others, how many blogs are you banned from? I bet you will be banned from here soon too with your stupid one word answers.... banned from all the top blogs for letting the liquor get the best of you, so sad and pathetic!

You used to be a big fan, don't act like you don't like what I posted, how many times have you jacked off to it, well now you can jack off to miss Canada again sad and pathetic how you are acting now you are blocked, shows your true colors. A real man wouldn't act like you act, oh and this is being forward to the abuse department, the days of men attacking women here is coming to a end from what the site is doing now.

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Paulxx001 63M
16323 posts
7/29/2020 2:32 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.
Caught speaking my mind? Sure. No one is permitted to have an opinion opposite to yours, right?

Rude on your blog and others? You’re confused. I’m not rude, just not as expressive as others. I should wax eloquently about whether I want to smash it with more than one word? Lol…
“Stupid ‘one-word’ answers”? How many words would you prefer?

Banned? From 2. One is your friend. I care about neither.

Me? A big fan? I liked your points babe. Everyone uses your blog for THAT. Or did you think it was your brilliant and original content? How many times do you post the same pics? I pay attention, that’s why I get annoyed when you point a finger at others. Just do YOUR thing. Live and let live.

Jacked off to it? Now, you’re really kidding right? FFS I have hi-speed internet (unlike many of your minions) and can stream anything I want. Why would I use your ‘still portraits’ to pull my thing? Hardly worth the effort…

I’m acting like you expect me to. WE don’t understand each other. You’re not playing with rules I respect. Acting? It’s not an act.

What’s with this reference to ‘real man’? Your constant reference to ‘attack’ is an over-exaggeration of another term you should get used to; it’s called ‘disagreeing with your point of view’. Abuse? You’re confusing what that term means in the real world.

It’s not an ATTACK. You should really stop using THAT rhetoric as some sort of shield EVERY time someone disagrees with you.

PLEASE, when you send my comments to the ‘Abuse Department’ - attach these comments as well. Perhaps they’ll be more inclined to - as you say - start banning people for disagreeing with another person’s opinion.


sexyldy1000 replies on 7/29/2020 3:09 am:
Enough is enough. I don't appreciate people using MY blog to air their grievances with each other. Take it somewhere else!

sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/29/2020 2:45 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    What do you do when you have no talent?
    You do what others do here - post re-tread pics stolen off the web and title them with the same old cute titles... day after day.... day after day.... week after week... month after mont... over and over again. How many times have I seen the same pics on others blogs. I just move on. lol...
    And then get your minions and little peeps to tell you how good you are.
    Oh... and Then you keep bleating about stuff (yesterdays news)...over and over - hoping others give a shit. Nobody but you and few others give a hoot!

    What do you do when you have no talent?
    Just keep doing whatever it is you're doing. You'll be fine babe!
    Everyone here does whatever they do. They don't look for approval from you !
And this is Exactly an example of what I was referring to.

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Paulxx001 63M
16323 posts
7/29/2020 3:09 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.
You're funny... and pathetic.
So... you devote TWO blogs to me, yet block me from enjoying them? What's the fun in that?

Just proves my point about who you REALLY are. Vindictive, negative shallow and looking for a life - and one who has absolutely NO sense of humour!
Go for it babe. Knock yourself out. I don't blog anymore. No one cares about your negative rants about others; least of all about me. I've become a statistic on page 5 of former male bloggers. Who cares? lol...

Oh and .... only friends call me Pablo. Stop pretending you are one.


mamacita38dd 42F
52893 posts
7/29/2020 3:14 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Caught speaking my mind? Sure. No one is permitted to have an opinion opposite to yours, right?

    Rude on your blog and others? You’re confused. I’m not rude, just not as expressive as others. I should wax eloquently about whether I want to smash it with more than one word? Lol…
    “Stupid ‘one-word’ answers”? How many words would you prefer?

    Banned? From 2. One is your friend. I care about neither.

    Me? A big fan? I liked your points babe. Everyone uses your blog for THAT. Or did you think it was your brilliant and original content? How many times do you post the same pics? I pay attention, that’s why I get annoyed when you point a finger at others. Just do YOUR thing. Live and let live.

    Jacked off to it? Now, you’re really kidding right? FFS I have hi-speed internet (unlike many of your minions) and can stream anything I want. Why would I use your ‘still portraits’ to pull my thing? Hardly worth the effort…

    I’m acting like you expect me to. WE don’t understand each other. You’re not playing with rules I respect. Acting? It’s not an act.

    What’s with this reference to ‘real man’? Your constant reference to ‘attack’ is an over-exaggeration of another term you should get used to; it’s called ‘disagreeing with your point of view’. Abuse? You’re confusing what that term means in the real world.

    It’s not an ATTACK. You should really stop using THAT rhetoric as some sort of shield EVERY time someone disagrees with you.

    PLEASE, when you send my comments to the ‘Abuse Department’ - attach these comments as well. Perhaps they’ll be more inclined to - as you say - start banning people for disagreeing with another person’s opinion.
Keep digging your grave Pablo... now I will link this to my post, pour some whiskey in your coffee, you are going to need it today

So let's make it clear... my Minions? So the men on my blog are pathetic... you say? Remember that message where you black men the n word... or the one you called Vope a nazi bitch? You really want to do this you racist drunk?

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Paulxx001 63M
16323 posts
7/29/2020 3:37 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    It seems some people don't have a conscience my friend, unfortunately. We see that here often, they ask for forgiveness and turn around and repeat the same bad behavior again.
Quoting Mamacita: "...Remember that message where you black men the n word... or the one you called Vope a nazi bitch? "
--- - - - -
So let me get this straight... NOW, you're trying to pin random comments and quotes from other people and credit them to me?
Nope... I don't recall those comments since they were never mine, nor would they ever have been anything I would say.

Hmmm... Well, that's not going to work out to well, when they dig out the tapes. lol So THAT's how you do it huh? Ya just invent bullshit stuff as you go.

Like I said. Knock yourself out, and fabricate all you want. Everyone on A F F can see you for who you really are. Frustrated and hopelessly devoted to promoting bullshit, right?


sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/29/2020 4:06 am

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! MY BLOG IS NOT A PLAYGROUND FOR PEOPLE TO AIR THEIR SQUABBLES!

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7Diogenes 101M
997 posts
7/29/2020 5:48 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! MY BLOG IS NOT A PLAYGROUND FOR PEOPLE TO AIR THEIR SQUABBLES!
Haven't seen many Seinfeld's but I did see "Festitvus Airing of Grievances" and thought it might be beneficial at times. So there's this ...

Fight NightFight Night with your permission, of course. Delete comment if you tell me no. I'm used to hearing that.

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onelastchan00 50F  
1493 posts
7/29/2020 6:58 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    What do you do when you have no talent?
    You do what others do here - post re-tread pics stolen off the web and title them with the same old cute titles... day after day.... day after day.... week after week... month after mont... over and over again. How many times have I seen the same pics on others blogs. I just move on. lol...
    And then get your minions and little peeps to tell you how good you are.
    Oh... and Then you keep bleating about stuff (yesterdays news)...over and over - hoping others give a shit. Nobody but you and few others give a hoot!

    What do you do when you have no talent?
    Just keep doing whatever it is you're doing. You'll be fine babe!
    Everyone here does whatever they do. They don't look for approval from you !
The only Minion i see here is you...
Theres a reason u were BLOCKED ON MY BLOGS AT UR FIRST COMMENT
#TAPOUT

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pocogato12 68F  
34092 posts
7/29/2020 10:07 am

Long ago I used to write down my bad thoughts and burn them the next day. I got to rid myself of vituperative thoughts and words. It came to a time like now that I keep tings to myself or deem the person not worthy of my attitude. And it works very well on here with one exception that I have on Hold

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/29/2020 1:28 pm

    Quoting 7Diogenes:
    Haven't seen many Seinfeld's but I did see "Festitvus Airing of Grievances" and thought it might be beneficial at times. So there's this ...

    Fight NightFight Night with your permission, of course. Delete comment if you tell me no. I'm used to hearing that.
Guess I am one of the rare people who never became a devotee of Seinfeld. As for fights, the only ones I have enjoyed are Olympic boxing or the occasional hockey donnybrook. People want to 'go at it' on your blog, I don't care.

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sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/29/2020 1:31 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Long ago I used to write down my bad thoughts and burn them the next day. I got to rid myself of vituperative thoughts and words. It came to a time like now that I keep tings to myself or deem the person not worthy of my attitude. And it works very well on here with one exception that I have on Hold
Yes I have heard that can be an effective technique. We all have to find what works best for ourselves. Thanks for stopping by and offering your perspective.

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LadiesR2B1rst 57M  
741 posts
7/30/2020 9:21 pm

It is amazing how that 'gut feeling" will almost always be correct ! I live in the mountains and on several occasions I have stopped just a couple of steps away from a venomous snake. That's not '''luck" it is instinct !!


sexyldy1000 59F  
6802 posts
7/30/2020 9:36 pm

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    It is amazing how that 'gut feeling" will almost always be correct ! I live in the mountains and on several occasions I have stopped just a couple of steps away from a venomous snake. That's not '''luck" it is instinct !!
Yikes! Thank goodness you have excellent instinct!

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