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Hmmmmmm........Are you all Married??  

shybigirl2004 42F  
5 posts
3/5/2009 6:29 pm
Hmmmmmm........Are you all Married??


Being a single girl who is always the one who hosts most encounters that I have has started to make me think. How many of the men I'm meeting up with are actually single? Oh they all tell me they are, but how do you know they're really telling the truth. They disappear, avoid messages I've sent, are only available at odd hours of the day what's a girl to think??

I'm all about having fun but not with someone else's man. Am I too trusting, I'm starting to think I am.

Oh well what's a girl to do!!!

1seeking1 54F
2960 posts
10/18/2015 6:56 am

Careful screening and gut instinct, even then one managed to fool me.
I asked why he kept the deception up so long, his answer "You would have never met me", my reply "You are right and if bad Karma comes from this it is on you". Then took a long break from meeting.


phunt47 50M
8 posts
1/1/2011 10:46 pm

I'm not sure I agree with that last comment. I'm a male in my 40's and single. Up to now, if it was the right person, it was the wrong time and vice versa.


Kitty_n_BigGuy 46M/47F
218 posts
3/7/2009 1:06 pm

If a guy won't give you a phone number to contact him, or usually isn't available to talk (whether on the phone or online) except for very specific hours: aka the wife is asleep or at work), or seems nervous when you are out in public together.. those are all signs that stood out back when I was single and on lavalife.

Best thing to do is to rely on your gut instinct, girl !


Kitty & BigGuy

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doit4joy 62M
645 posts
3/5/2009 10:13 pm

I know...
Some female member on this site clearly said "No Married man",
so those person who want to get attention and get a little bit more chance to meet, cheat the profile saying that they are single...
But think logically, I would say... if any male at the age of mid 30s, or even 40s, claims he is single, means... something wrong with him. Male has more or less some story behind the scene.
Fortunately all ladies I met so far accepted me as exception, after knowing that I am proud married man.


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