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Mixed feeling...yeah I am a hoe  

smileybugg69 49F
788 posts
8/25/2019 5:46 am
Mixed feeling...yeah I am a hoe

So, yeah we had sex. But the lead up to it was not great. I am not really ashamed to say I was a booty call of sorts. He was out with the guys and he sent me a message “come get me I am too drunk to drive” So ’s something I never fool with, I won’t be the one who lets someone drive drunk. So off I go to get him in the bar. I walk in to get him and he grabs me and gives me a kiss and hug and asks “what are you doing here?” Wonderful. So drunk he doesn’t even remember texting me. But continues on begging me to bring him home, to my home. (No he isn’t married, I am positive)

But I haven’t had sex in so long I figure what the hell. At least I will get some even if this doesn’t work. It was good, not blow my mind sex but decent. It’s better than nothing. Slept all night cuddled in each other’s arms kissing and holding hands. I had to work the next day so I had to bring him to his truck early, he kisses me saying he would be busy most of the day but we would get together later in the day. Wanted me to know he wasn’t ghosting me if he didn’t answer messages right off.

Well, long story short (yeah too late right?) he did answer my messages all day but begged off doing anything saying he HAD to take some friends out for drinks. Blow off or what?? All day he kept asking me if I had any regrets and he didn’t. Like a guy will have regrets? Keeps telling me he is “super shy.” Bullshit. I don’t have hopes for this relationship anymore, but one good thing came out of it is I know I am ready for a relationship!

smileybugg69 49F
360 posts
8/25/2019 5:47 am

Yeah be nice. I know....I am an idiot

bitchkitty2017 67F  
5259 posts
8/25/2019 6:01 am

Lol when i first met my husband he was working at a dealership as a mechanic and had lost his licence because of drinking and driving ...I told him right from the jump that i wasnt the one for carting his drunk ass around ..he called me from a employee Xmas party one night ( which i wasnt invited to ) and asked me to go pick him up as hed been drinking and was pretty much out of it...I also was working and had my own place needed rest for the morning shift..told him to think back on what i said about cartrig his drunk ass around...He never asked again and i slept like a baby that night....

Granny872 67F  
2146 posts
8/25/2019 6:03 am

Don't be too hard on yourself ... he's the one who should feel like an idiot.


None of us are getting out alive, so let's at least try to be nice to each other while we're here.

jajo696 65F
1992 posts
8/25/2019 6:09 am

Yep... you learned something from it.....therefore its ALL good. Move on....he evidently is not ready ~~

Luv2bottom4u2 63M  
1523 posts
8/25/2019 6:13 am

There you go girl, Dump his sorry ass and get on with you life. There are good men out there { or women} .
Oh No your not a HOE, you just enjoy sex ! Good luck !

dgmx242 55M
114 posts
8/25/2019 6:18 am

We all sometimes do things we regret but at least now you know what you want which is good thing. It is strange the roads we go down and where that road leads you but it sounds like you know which road you would like to travel on now.

Nicolecd1966 53T  
59 posts
8/25/2019 6:21 am

First off, I don't think your an idiot, you kept a drunk driver of the roads, very responsible on your part!! Him on the other hand, seems to be the idiot, he chooses alcohol over you!! Glad to see you are moving on and I wish you all the luck as you start your new search!!

Mr00Fun4U 60M  
860 posts
8/25/2019 6:38 am

Hey lovely Lady you are no hoe for show ((for sure)). Sorry doing a Steve Carrell line from 40 year old Virgin. You were a good friend to make sure an acquaintance didn’t drive home drunk. Your so called friend took advantage of the situation on both ends...got his ride as well as some pillow talk.

So next time send him an Uber and hopefully it can be a well endowed gay man for his driver...or just have the cheap bastard put the app on his phone.

And you know that old saying...if you can’t respect yourself in the morning then hey up in the afternoon. Hope you enjoy your day.

Mixed feelingyeah I am a hoe

RavenGB 59M
1080 posts
8/25/2019 6:39 am

I think most women can have sex whenever they want it, if they put their mind to it. It is more a question of if any of the, ahem, male companionship on offer is worthy of serious consideration. I have noted, in the past, that many attractive and intelligent women sell themselves short and go with some utter shits when they should be able to pick and choose. Now, an off the shelf relationship is a different thing altogether!

Secretsins45875 37M
58 posts
8/25/2019 6:42 am

I don't think you're a hoe by any stretch of the imagination. You wanted some sex--so you went and got some. We are all adults here.

ClassicFriction 58M
875 posts
8/25/2019 7:17 am

This turned out exactly as I expected it would. If you
didn't see it coming, you need a new B.S. detector.

Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with screwing
him if that's what you wanted. But you damn well shouldn't
be surprised to find out what kind of guy you screwed.

Paulxx001 63M
16696 posts
8/25/2019 8:43 am

Really? 🤔
Well I guess, sex will do that.
Sounds like a plan.

... is there another way to look at it.
A Man Will Never Forget How A Woman Smells

s2ndegree 61M  
9701 posts
8/25/2019 9:25 am

There are those times when we let something else do
the thinking for us!
Welcome to Mars

Using more than all the road!

MRTX75201 42M
4 posts
9/6/2019 9:24 am

Wow! So refreshing that you could find the good in that drunken text! Happy it worked out...sort of.

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