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smileybugg69 50F
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4/26/2019 1:02 pm
Who to meet??

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smileybugg69 50F
361 posts
4/26/2019 1:30 pm

What are good first meets?


dogslife2live01 68M
2117 posts
4/26/2019 1:56 pm

well there are a million and one... maybe two answers to that
for a woman. when the gentleman takes her home
kisses her gently on the lips and says good night without trying to explore her body parts. then wakes thinking when he will call for another date.
just as she finishes making her first coffee the doorbell rings and it is FTD with a dozen long stemmed blood red roses.
for a guy. she wants to go to a movie. a action movie with lots of senseless killing, bombs, fighter planes, martial arts fighting , and all that stuff.
before entering the theater she stops to pick up a XL bucket of popcorn, and tells you she has a six-pac chilling in her purse. when the light go out she has him unzipped and in her mouth
but in general
good first meets are the ones that lead to relationships

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 2:18 pm:
I like that woman’s one, not sure I am adventurous enough for the mans...lol

dogslife2live01 68M
2117 posts
4/26/2019 2:36 pm

"I like that woman’s one, not sure I am adventurous enough for the mans...lol"
it's really less scary than you think. all you need is a big purse and pack the ice tight so it does not rattle when you walk...

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 3:06 pm:
Not sure about the 6 pack but I can see the “hummer” happening...lol

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/26/2019 2:37 pm

He lives a little ways way but not too far. If it works with him I won’t need to meet others. But I NEED to take it slow. .... Consider the "Site" you are both on. Really consider this.

The chances of him NOT meeting others is very likely down around the .0001 percentile.

By thinking you're going to find a man , on a sex site, for just yourself, and you will no longer have to go meet others, is only setting yourself up for heartache and disappointment.

Trying to decide who to meet. .... Meet them all. Set aside about one hour or less for each meeting, and enjoy them all.

My advice? As long as you are on these kinds of sites, forget about the potential of monogamy with those you meet. They are meeting you , to see if they can get sex. Sex, without emotional attachment.

I’ve never been a good “dater” .... You're not dating if you are not having sex. Once you meet them, and you decide to date, then you should have lust for him, .you should want to see him naked and have sex with him..if not, then don't try to date him.

Going out for dinner , to a movie... this kind of stuff... that's called "Hanging out".....not dating. .... Women like to "Hangout" with men, to, as you said, "Get to know him". That's fine, "After" you have sex. But not before.

Why? Because there is a chance you ,....or he.... will say too much, and then the chances of having sex goes in the toilet.

Now all you've satisfied is your need to "Learn things" about someone, not your horny feeling.... that's just disappointed.

I tend to get attached to the idea of love. ... Don't do that .... you are years away from that ever happening. If it happens at all.

I will have a day or two of feeling like it’s more. But than I come to my senses and I am fine. ... Yes, that is infatuation. That passion that allows us to have sex with people we don't know well.

So go meet these guys... all you feel you might want to see naked. But don't expect monogamy from any of them.


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 2:58 pm:
Your comments sure do make me think. But I wonder if your projecting your feelings and not EVERY mans. There has got to men out there who are monogamous. Who want one woman without cheating. I’ve seen it. I do agree with meeting more men but I don’t think I need to have sex with all of them! Dating doesn’t always involve sex. I like the build up of getting to know someone BEFORE sex sometimes.

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/26/2019 2:41 pm

Good first meets will differ from person to person... but generally a good first meeting is one that leads to sex, now, or next time you see each other.


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 3:05 pm:
I think I’ve moved past the point of having to have sex with everyone I meet. I am definitely old enough to want to “be in love”

DirtyJack101020 40M
11 posts
4/26/2019 3:57 pm

Good points made by all, meets what you make them


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 5:02 pm:
Yeah I just need to meet and explore. And have fun!

heartshapedcock2 37M
1698 posts
4/26/2019 4:18 pm

I wish I could meet you...


smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 5:02 pm:
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dogslife2live01 68M
2117 posts
4/26/2019 6:23 pm

"Not sure about the 6 pack but I can see the “hummer” happening...lol"

Dam! it is like one of those subliminal suggestions hidden in ads! out of nowhere, and for no reason... all of the sudden i have this uncontrollable urge to see an action film!


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/26/2019 8:02 pm

smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 2:58 pm:
Your comments sure do make me think. But I wonder if your projecting your feelings and not EVERY mans. There has got to men out there who are monogamous. Who want one woman without cheating. I’ve seen it. I do agree with meeting more men but I don’t think I need to have sex with all of them! Dating doesn’t always involve sex. I like the build up of getting to know someone BEFORE sex sometimes.


But I wonder if your projecting your feelings and not EVERY mans. .... These are not "Feelings"... more on the line of "Rational expectation" , and certainly not EVERY mans, because all men are not rational.

There has got to men out there who are monogamous. .... Oh, there are, and they are married, or involved with some version of a commitment, already. Reasonably, would a man looking for monogamy, be looking for monogamy on a sex site where, all hours of any given day, women get all kinds of attention and potentially invitations to see her? No. Not a rational man. And you probably don't want to be involved with an irrational man at this time in your life.

Who want one woman without cheating. ... If he is monogamous, and not currently occupied, he wouldn't be looking for monogamy on a sex site. Also... given enough time, a man cheats, or attempts cheating, might be small , might be grand. Women, too.... but usually it's an emotional cheating , unless she is really dissatisfied with her relationship.

I’ve seen it. .... I'm sure you have, I have too, but not on here, not "Couples" on here. If these "Monogamous" couples still have a "C" , or "M" or "F" profile on here, they are not actually "Monogamous".

I do agree with meeting more men but I don’t think I need to have sex with all of them! ... Didn't say you had to have sex with them all,... .I said you should have lust for them, want to see them naked, so if "Sex" did come up during the intro meeting, ....there wouldn't be second guessing and hesitation, unless he said something that cooled your engine. Some men , in person with a woman, tend to talk too much about himself, and the woman usually picks something out of that conversation that will turn her off.

Dating doesn’t always involve sex. ... Actually it does . "Dating", in modern day colloquialism means, "A sexual experience with a person". For instance: Hookers will ask a potential customer if he wants a "Date" [to have sex]. The definition of "Dating" as seen in public dictionaries, is a carry over from the concept of "Courtship" from the 1950s and before. Never updated to 21st century meaning.
"Courting" was investing time spent with a potential bride-to-be, - "Getting to know her". This , in the modern era, has splintered off into different wording. "Spending time with - Getting to know"... is now "Hanging out".
Today, for most everyone in the Western world, they have sex before getting married. They don't "Court", they "Date".

If a man invites you out on a date, and all his systems are working properly, he is sexually interested in you... doesn't mean he's going to get laid that day, but he certainly means he is sexually interested. So good advice to women would be, don't go out with a guy if you're not feeling any kind of lust for him. Don't waste each others time.

As many definitions and customs, "Date" was never updated to stay current. But in on the street, or in life, "Date" is very updated.
We have a great number of words to define social interactions..... hanging out... hooking up... Booty call.... Fwb.....
Fuck-buddy...etc...

I like the build up of getting to know someone BEFORE sex sometimes. ....Nobody is taking that away from you. But as I said, if his penis is still functioning, he usually isn't talking to you because he wants a conversation. He's sexually attracted to you. He invites you on a "Date", because his intention is sexual..... although if he invites you to , "Hangout sometime"... he's wanting to feel you out , learn things.... basically, as you said, "Build up getting to know someone"... ...and as I said, too much sharing , can turn the woman [you] off, or too much sharing from the woman [you] could turn him off .


Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/26/2019 8:37 pm

smileybugg69 replies on 4/26/2019 3:05 pm:
I think I’ve moved past the point of having to have sex with everyone I meet. I am definitely old enough to want to “be in love”


Okay.... but do you think a man,... is on a sex site, willing to meet with women, ......to not have sex?

I suppose, maybe, if he is gay... or if he is unable to get an erection
anymore.

Or let's say he wants to be , "In love" too. Now we are talking , "Infatuation", and this is not a stable situation, even for older folk.

And you're both on a site ripe with blatant sexual distraction. So if a persons goal is , "To be in love".... do you think this site is the best, for that? ..... If I was looking for a woman, to be in love with, ha... this kind of site is not where I would be.


boobwhisperer69 57M  
6189 posts
4/26/2019 9:31 pm

I agree with everything you just said!


Danny65432198 31M
84 posts
4/30/2019 8:26 pm

Hey beautiful let's get to know each other I know that you will love this meeting and will not regret it come on just one chance you will love it

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