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I need to vent a bit...
Posted:Feb 13, 2018 8:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2018 4:53 am

So there are a couple things that I've learned while being back, and in no particular order, I'll list them off:

• Too many men/boys (age is no factors, only maturity) send dick picks and crummy messages that are by no means appealing. For goodness sakes, get a little class and approach women with some tact.

• Women have some pretty terrible double standards. No offense ladies, as much as I'm on your side, I'm all too familiar with the fact that you jump at me messaging you "Hello" but will shoot down just about every guy who send you the same thing. I'm probably one of the rare cases though where i actually can bring something of substance to the conversation so it's not just a bland discussion about how wet we can get.

• This site pampers women and hinders men. I've been able to get a glimpse as to how a male profile is set up versus a female one and it's pretty significant. For standard members, women have much more freedom to roam this site where as guys are blocked by "buy buy buy" the moment you try to do too much. Granted I think guys may of lost their right to do so ages ago because of a great deal of idiots, it's still seems somewhat unfair.

• Why are there so many women on here shopping around for their man? I don't understand why the guys can't just come on here themselves or heaven forbid you figure out why there was even the desire for someone else in the first place.

• If you have a significant other already, who doesn't know about this site, you should probably delete your account. Seriously, why are you hear? Cheating will just make life suck.

• If you have been on here for a more than five years and you still can't find what you're looking for, just quit. You obviously have bigger problems you should deal with. No offense.

• Just because someone wanted to talk a lot doesn't mean you should always block them, but don't be the person who always nags someone else.

• If you haven't read a book in over a year, do yourself a favor and do so. We're already dealing with Governments all around the world trying to make the average person dumber, especially in the United States thanks to the GOP.

• Get your head out of ass....

• I need sleep...

Be back with more at some later point.
What the hell is this ad?
Posted:Feb 12, 2018 6:12 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2018 12:38 am
So there is a huge issue here... Why am I, a 25 year old woman, getting an ad targeting for creepy old men to be predators and potentially sex offenders/criminals towards women? This is disgusting!

Who in their right mind is allowing this site to function as a means for ads to sway older men into manipulation? What sicko is getting money from this? The same kind of people who may profit from human trafficking maybe? All I know is that this is disturbing and shouldn't be supported. I feel violated to the point I probably should get lawyers involved.

Guys, NEVER playing games with women just to get laid. Be a real man and prove your worth by showing respect, not by being an idiot who buys into this crap.
I think I'll delete my account soon...
Posted:Feb 12, 2018 6:03 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2018 8:13 pm

It's nothing personal but I made a post recently that hasn't really gotten much attention. I was hoping more people would be interacting with it, but only one person bothered to comment. It's kind of disappointing to feel like the only reason people will talk to me is so they can fuck me.

So I think I may need to delete my account after Valentines day.

I know a lot of you will be mad about this, but I just can't take it anymore as is. I get so many messages, but barely anyone comments on my blog posts. It's honestly the easiest way for me to chat with all of you at once. Though since I wont reach my goals for my last post, it may be time to call it quits.

If you don't want that to happen, make it known by supporting me as I've asked in my last post. I know it may be a lot to ask for, but I don't really see any reason to stay if no one bothers to actually listen. I hope though everyone is doing well and that if I'm lucky, I'll have the incentive to stay.
I'll show my face, but there is a catch and I need your help.
Posted:Feb 8, 2018 11:39 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2018 12:43 am

I have decided that I will show my face on here...

but only if I am able to get a couple of things before Valentines day. Here is what I am looking to get before that happens:

1) Gold Membership
2) 1,000,000 points
3) at least 1,000 likes on each of my photos and video

If that can happen before Valentines Day, I will happily share my face on here. I know that may be a little uncharacteristic of me, but I want to take a leap of faith here and put it on the line to see what happens. I'm guessing it wont happen, but on the off chance it does, I will keep my word. Keep in mind though that just because I might share my face doesn't mean I owe you anything more. I've set the terms, and I hope that as many of you help to make it happen.

Hope everyone is doing well.
Long time no see! How is everyone?
Posted:Feb 3, 2018 3:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2018 6:04 am

It's been a while since I did a post like this, but I know I should. So that being said, how is everyone doing? What's new with you?

I have over 100 messages, so not sure I'll get through those all tonight.
I am a standard member
Posted:Feb 2, 2018 11:36 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2018 9:32 am

For those who don't know how this site works, let be break it down real quick for you. There are two types of memberships that I know of on here.

First is what anyone can get, and what I currently have, which is a standard membership. Just by signing up, you can get this. It's free and offers a lot for people to get at. There is, however, a catch to standard accounts. We get blocked from certain things. This includes sending messages first unless for some special reason (guys can't even see the messages they get if standard), we can't send friend requests at all, tons more, and the biggest as a standard member is STANDARD MEMBERS CAN VIEW FULL PROFILES! All activities we want to do send us to a page that lets us read the same message and thats more or less "Buy a subscription to get more access."

So that is where number two comes along. GOLD MEMBERSHIP. That basically lets you do anything on here. The isn't much else to say, you buy and you get access to everything.

But wait... that's not all... you can get gold membership one other way, and that is through popularity. Yes, some members can get gold, probably only women, through popularity. I've only seen it a couple of time. Kind of stinks I'm apparently not popular enough for gold at the moment, but it is what it is.

So to every last member that say in their mini-bio "read my profile" please check yourself because most people can't.

Thank you and that is all

This one was dedicated with the standard members of AdultFriendFinder.
Can you respect porn actors/actresses and sex workers?
Posted:Feb 1, 2018 12:46 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2018 1:39 pm

It's something I'm still trying to wrap my head around. Someone gets paid for sex and has to report those earning on their taxes. But when you see this person in person, what are your thoughts?

Can you respect porn actors/actresses and sex workers?
I am still uneducated on what sex work is
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I can't breathe
Posted:Jan 28, 2018 11:58 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2018 1:22 am
It comes not so much as a surprise but more of unavoidable truth. The more I spend time on this particular website, the more I desperately try to connect with people, and more I try to open myself up, the more I realize actually despicable, selfish, destructive human desire can truly be.

I'm by no means leaving, but it's hard to find a reason to truly stay here if sole reason, the heart of why I even came back it is truly something that can easily fade away at a moment's thought. I find it hard to understand how anyone can be so disgustingly blinded by their own desires that they throw away their Humanity just for the opportunity of either one or or many orgasms. Maybe I'm being a little bit over critical of some of the people on here, but a majority of individuals on here throw away any sign of rational thought for the sake of pleasure.

I'm even starting to regret the idea of you and sharing my body the way I have with all of you. The idea that somehow people who view me more as an object the person that they can respect I've befriend. I just think that there are many other people, no matter what gender or sex they are, being treated the same way.

I certainly have my own desires, but I feel like it might be too much at this point to really sink my teeth deeply into such a forbidden fruit. Maybe it was it truly meant to be for us to connect so easily as it's shown the divide is so drastic at this point between men and women, and anything in between.

What reason to any of us have to truly be on here? What true benefit can actually be given here to us in a long-term manner? How many of you have become infuriated with frustrated by if you're being mistreated or never being offered the chance to show someone what you could offer? And what good does it to anyone to stay on here so long?

I truly feel as though life has been rushing past me every moment I spend time on here. Like I'm missing out on some greater experience that could be waiting for me even if I spend announce the second looking through messages or trying to find a way to rewrite my profile. There's so much more to life than sex and I want to keep sight of that.

For anyone who's been following my blog thus far, I want you to take some time and self reflect. Think about what you lost, whether it be the time or money or anything else for that matter, and if it was worth it to lose all of that. Is it truly worth your time and effort to try to gamble the opportunity for a fleeting moment of pleasure, or more realistically the failure to do so? I have to imagine that only a handful of people on here I've had the opportunity to have a significant amount of success.

Last time I was on here I had a rather traumatic experience dealing with individuals who did not give me space or time to breathe. It was a rather frightening experience that innocence has left me scarred to the point that I've had to seek professional help to try to quell my mind. It's not something that I've taken any legal action against this site or any one person, but the idea that sexual desires can lead someone to hurt another to such a degree it's incredibly sad and terrifying. I've even heard his story where a person and their significant other when they threw a violent evening between the two and at the core of the relationship, at the core of their sexual desires, was BDSM. Only years later after they had the opportunity to hopefully good through all of this did the person who initiated the violence initially do something to utterly surprised their significant other and a very positive and heartwarming manner.

I think many of us are on here for the wrong reason. As wonderful as sex maybe and the freedom making provide, the Dark Side of all of this, far greater than any Star Wars story could ever portray, is the fact that very basic human connections are for more significant and desired than any quickie we could ever get with someone else. Maybe take a moment and think before you decide to long on the next time you're here whether or not you can just go on with your day or easily and productively after simply masturbating versus slaving your time away to desperately grab someone's attention or gratification.

If anything else, don't ever find yourself being forced to come back to this place simply for the hope that you somehow we're going to fill a void that otherwise hasn't been filled because of not taking action in other areas of your life. Maybe talk with an old friend you haven't for awhile, maybe speak with your significant other a little bit more in-depth than you usually do, maybe go out for a night and enjoy yourself for what it's worth in a manner that isn't disrespectful to your body. Find some way to truly enjoy life for what it's worth because before you know it you might be gone. It's a scary reality that all of us have the face that one day we will be gone, and I don't want to be looking back and my mid-twenties thinking all I did was work and try to stop creepy old men from having their way with my body while flirting with a bunch of wonderful women and nice guys.

I think that wraps up my thought for the most part, at least for now. I think it's about time I get some more sleep and get over being sick.
Well... I got sick.
Posted:Jan 28, 2018 1:04 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2018 10:30 pm

Seems like everyone is catching the bug this time around and it just so happens so did I.

• Runny nose
• Cough
• Kind of a sore throat

I hate to say it for all you hitting me up to meet, but I'm not planning on doing anything for a little while. Chances are I'll probably be sick for the next week plus. So while I recover, please by all means send me good vibes and what not. No, no one is allowed to take care of me, I have actual friends and family for that when I'm not able to do so myself. Thank you.

To everyone who isn't sick, please wash you hands and cover your mouths. Same for people who are sick.

Wish me luck.
Cheating isn't the answer
Posted:Jan 26, 2018 10:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2018 2:36 am

Women and men, please never cheat on some you love.

I recently started chatting with some you told me easily of the saddest stories I've read through chat. She told me that her husband, although he loves her very much, hardly shows her any love at all. He spends most of his time ing video games in the basement, not treating his wife well, avoiding getting an education because he believes that he can land a job without a GED, and so much more. Their sex life is nearly nxistent because she doesn't want to have to give up her body to him, and add salt to the wound, they have a . Did I forget to mention that they live in his parents house? That's right. We are living in his parents house and he doesn't even have a job, and doesn't try to get a job because he s so many video games.

So she came on here to cheat on him because she's not sure what else will make him understand that he has to not be such a lazy bum. This is easily of the saddest things any has ever told me on here.

I recommended that she do anything besides cheating on her husband, but the more we chatted it truly sounds like he's devoid of the idea of putting any effort they're giving her the proper attention she deserves. Not only that, but any other reasonable means of trying to get his attention all be pointless. This truly breaks my heart like no other.

If you are on this website only to make your significant other hurt, please do both of yourselves a favor and just break up or get the most professional you can from either therapist or counselor. No family should ever be ripped apart because the ignorance and selfishness unless there is truly no other answer.

If you ever run into some like this, please do everything in your power to stop them from making a horrible mistake. I don't know who this woman truly is, but I know that innocence I already love and care for her, and want to make sure that she doesn't make a mistake that will hurt her family.
I lost all my points
Posted:Jan 26, 2018 8:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2018 10:50 pm

I know as a girl on here it doesn't really matter, but I lost all the points I had after logging in. I'm not sure what happened or how, but apparently logging in right now made all my points vanish. I'm a little baffled, but mostly upset at such a poorly programmed site losing my points. I would hate that to happen to any else on here.

If you run into this issue, remember to contact customer support.
What double standards grind your gears?
Posted:Jan 25, 2018 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2018 1:46 pm

It's been on my mind lately with a lot of what has been happening in the news and on here. So I wanted to pose a question that I'm curious to hear what people have to say. Mind you this is open ended, so interpret how you like.

What double standards grind your gears?
I am flustered!
Posted:Jan 25, 2018 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2018 7:34 pm

I finally have a topic for a blog post and it will be rather quick...


I do appreciate that as a woman on here with a standard account I don't have to use points to chat, which apparently is an issue for guys. Though not being able to use certain words, or having chats not connect at all is infuriating! Some people, no matter how hard I try to reach them are impossible to get at. EVEN WORSE is when I'm in a chat and it just drops out. What kind of broken is this? This company really needs to hire up some new people to fix the chat. And don't even come at me about ing for this site. The sponsorships on here should be doing perfectly well to support their funding. Fucking really pissed about this right now!

I hope every else is having a wonderful day!

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