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spcmny 54M
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11/27/2016 9:59 am
When it becomes more than fun


It starts out to be fun and fulfilling but somehow it turns into an intense physical and emotional relationship. I didn't expect it to happen but it did...what to do? Roll with it, fight it or end it?

TippyMoreland 59M

11/27/2016 10:35 am

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BabyGirlTay74 46F  
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11/27/2016 10:47 am

That is a question only you can answer. I mean you know what you want or don't want.

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Tmptrzz 58F
87369 posts
11/27/2016 11:43 am

Its definitely something that I know I have struggled with and only you can decided what to do, for me I just rolled with it and seen where it took me...

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BiggLala 48F  
28972 posts
11/27/2016 12:02 pm

Whatever you do, be completely honest with the woman, and tell her you expect her to be completely honest with you. Nothing will work without that and most likely, you'll both end up resentful of each other if you're not honest.

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BrownEyedBBW 52F
8852 posts
11/27/2016 12:57 pm

what to do? Roll with it, fight it or end it?

Well...there are two of you involved in this so this is a question the two of you need to go to a neutral place, like a diner or coffee shop, and hash out. What are your circumstances? What are her circumstances? Has she explicitly stated that she feels the way you did? Physical and emotional intensity doesn't necessarily translate into a "Relationship". Are you two compatible in other ways? How long has this been going on? If it's been a few months it's more likely to be something more substantial than if it's only been a few weeks.

The two of you have a great deal to discuss before you can answer that question.


spcmny 54M
30 posts
9/8/2017 4:53 pm

I agree with all of you


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