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spomrsfun 58F
44 posts
10/20/2013 11:17 am
Sunday morning thoughts...


I am having a lot of fun on AdultFriendFinder as in chatting, ect. I get average of 10 emails a day. I get about 20 IMS an hour. I find it interesting when I get ONE line emails. I don't think that is going to get you laid?I don't answer IMS if your cutting right to the chase right off the bat. I do enjoy the other side of country emails and IMS so gentleman like and very sexual. I get IMS from married men who are going crazy cause their underprieved and not my fault-I can NOT fufill you under deprieved. I also get from very young men-I so don't want to play mommy(although other roleplays would be fun). I am really not high maintance I just know what I want. I like to start with conversation and go from there. I can tell if it is something I am looking for or visaversa. I know why I am here to have fun and relax.

Lynn1812 50M  
4929 posts
10/20/2013 11:53 am

I can't blame you for ignoring the one line "Hey, wanna fuck?" e-mails... But keep in mind that with a 30:1 male/female ratio here and most women inundated with requests as you are, 99.9% of all e-mails sent from men to women go unanswered and ignored.

Can you really blame any guy for not wanting to spend an hour authoring the perfect heartfelt first e-mail when all he really wants to know is if there is a real human female behind that profile and will she even take 1 minute to open a dialog... or is it just another fake female profile generated by the management to con men into subscribing?

Think about it from the man's point of view.


spomrsfun 58F
3 posts
10/20/2013 12:13 pm

Lynn I answer every email that is sent to me and I put real pics up and I also get go on cam so they can see that I am for real! I am the same way with wondering is male/dude/guy/mr real or not? There is a way you can contact a person...first impressions tell all


Lynn1812 50M  
4929 posts
10/23/2013 9:05 pm

    Quoting spomrsfun:
    Lynn I answer every email that is sent to me and I put real pics up and I also get go on cam so they can see that I am for real! I am the same way with wondering is male/dude/guy/mr real or not? There is a way you can contact a person...first impressions tell all
You're doing it right.

Certainly, just as men face difficulties finding real ladies here, women face equal difficulties finding men that aren't jackasses. Sadly, many men are actually married and are either messing around or just messing with your head. This doesn't make it any easier for the genuine people here.


rm_vic0151 69M
16 posts
11/10/2013 8:41 pm

I have to agree with Lynn, I believe It's just not worth spending more than a couple of minuets on a custom email. My introduction is longer than most and I believe it does a good job of being a quick intro. My response rate including "not interested" is probably runs about 3-5% although the sample is small.
PS: I did send spomrsfun a quick two sentence email about a month ago although her intro stated "I am not fond of beards or whiskers cause they itch too much." and did not hear back.


rm_vic0151 69M
16 posts
2/15/2014 5:20 pm

Sorry about the whiskers.
-Vic


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