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MY ONE-NIGHT STAND  

spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
29201 posts
5/31/2016 10:08 am
MY ONE-NIGHT STAND





A one-night stand, according to Wikipedia, "is a single sexual encounter without an expectation of further relations between the sexual participants ... regardless of whether a single encounter was originally intended by either participant to be a one-night stand, or whether further relations between the participants subsequently occur."

This definition, if correct, troubles me. It means that I have had loads and loads of one-night stands. In fact, every one of my sexual partners, without exception, started as a one-night stand because I never expected sex after the first time.

I think a one-night stand is a single sexual encounter regardless of expectation. It’s sex for one night because of circumstances and/or intentions.


How many one-night stands have you had?
Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?


I’ve only ever knowingly had one-night stand. In my early 20s while a student in London, I met a Romanian woman who was interested in managing the band I was in. It was my job to interview her. I had a few misgivings about her being the band’s manager because she didn’t like music and she didn’t speak good English!

But she was very keen to be our manager and, because she would be paid by taking a cut of our earnings, we had nothing to lose. Up to then, the band had earned precisely nothing and I was getting fed up touting the band to get gigs and that elusive record deal.

However, I spoiled things as I walked her back to the tube station from my flat. Starved of sex for months, I suddenly asked her out of the blue whether she wanted sex before she got the last tube home. She said yes; we then went straight back to my flat and had sex.

Afterwards, I realised that she couldn’t become our manager as my lust had complicated things. She may have wanted sex again! She was my very first and last knowing one-night stand!

Unknowingly I’ve had lots of one-night stands but only they only became apparent when there was no second night! And strictly speaking, I will only ever know they were one-night stands when I’m on my death bed!






kzoopair 70M/68F
25828 posts
5/31/2016 10:54 am

How many one-night stands have you had?
Like you, I don't know yet. But I'm pretty sure I've had a number of auditions where I didn't get a callback.

Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?
My dick was attracted to them. It notified me that it was by becoming erect. So, my eyes may not have been attracted but I wasn't going to fuck her with my eyes and It was probably dark anyway.

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lok4fun500 111M  
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5/31/2016 11:43 am

If you would have asked another question, I'm sure you would have gotten a triple "NO"!!




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author51 58F  
126353 posts
5/31/2016 12:30 pm

I have never held auditions....lol. but I have been to a few with no casting couches in them.lol.

No I have never lusted nor slept with a man I was not attracted to..


VenusRising11 69F
4677 posts
5/31/2016 1:31 pm

One night stands......yes, although several I didn't think were at the time.

Sex with someone I wasn't attracted to...only my ex when he wasn't my ex That's why he soon became an ex.



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sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
5/31/2016 2:00 pm

Let's just say there were some who didn't get the call back!

Yes...my late husband after I stopped loving the man he became.


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citizen4722 63M  
73580 posts
5/31/2016 3:24 pm

I've had one-night stands where I would have liked to have had more than one night!


pal334 67M  
45062 posts
5/31/2016 5:45 pm

How many one-night stands have you had? In my hormone filled years, I had a few


Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? No,


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NaughtyInSO 110F
9755 posts
5/31/2016 9:36 pm

How many one-night stands have you had? None. But I had my share of auditions.

Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? I never lusted after someone I wasn't attracted to.

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Annie_34 63T
5945 posts
6/1/2016 4:17 am

Bonjour Spunky
Je ne suis pas sûre de comprendre la question
Des amants d'une heure j'en ai eu des centaines . Des amants pour plusieurs nuit ,deux , ou trois
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Hello Spunky
I'm not sure I understand the question
Lovers an hour I had hundreds . Lovers for several nigth, two, or three
♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥


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sweet_VM 63F
81574 posts
6/1/2016 8:25 am

How many one-night stands have you had? In my younger years lots
Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? no hugssss V

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spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:37 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    How many one-night stands have you had?
    Like you, I don't know yet. But I'm pretty sure I've had a number of auditions where I didn't get a callback.

    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?
    My dick was attracted to them. It notified me that it was by becoming erect. So, my eyes may not have been attracted but I wasn't going to fuck her with my eyes and It was probably dark anyway.
The pressure of auditions! You have to take your hat off to out-of-work actors who keep bouncing back!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:42 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    If you would have asked another question, I'm sure you would have gotten a triple "NO"!!
I'd sooner have a double NO than a triple NO, but one day I'll get a triple YES!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:43 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:
    How many one-night stands have you had? none yet,oh, well, no, I'm not really sure. I may need some counsel to determine if it was, but there were a couple of meets and then one that was much more personal, but didn't go too far. There has only been one so personal but I don't think it counts. Is that one? I don't think so.

    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? yes, big mistake that one, twice
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spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:46 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I have never held auditions....lol. but I have been to a few with no casting couches in them.lol.

    No I have never lusted nor slept with a man I was not attracted to..
My problem, and it may be a man's problem, is that attractiveness varies according to the time of day!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:48 pm

    Quoting VenusRising11:
    One night stands......yes, although several I didn't think were at the time.

    Sex with someone I wasn't attracted to...only my ex when he wasn't my ex That's why he soon became an ex.
When I re-read your comment, I thought you meant all your one-night stands weren't on the same night! That's either one great night out or a fantastic orgy!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/6/2016 1:49 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Let's just say there were some who didn't get the call back!

    Yes...my late husband after I stopped loving the man he became.

That dreaded no-call back. It takes ages to realise there's no call-back!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:12 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I've had one-night stands where I would have liked to have had more than one night!
One night is always enough for me for sex; I need a rest!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:13 pm

    Quoting grayblue1:
    ...This is easy Spunk....yes...and a diffidently....no.......................Blue
It seems I'm the only one on this site to have had sex with someone who I didn't find attractive!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:15 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    How many one-night stands have you had? In my hormone filled years, I had a few


    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? No,

It seems I'm the only blogger who has had sex with someone who I didn't find attractive!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:16 pm

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    How many one-night stands have you had? None. But I had my share of auditions.

    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? I never lusted after someone I wasn't attracted to.
Auditions are so tiring!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Unlike your band experience, my sex opportunities were very limited!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/9/2016 2:18 pm

    Quoting Annie_34:
    Bonjour Spunky
    Je ne suis pas sûre de comprendre la question
    Des amants d'une heure j'en ai eu des centaines . Des amants pour plusieurs nuit ,deux , ou trois
    ♥ Bisou ♥ Poton ♥ Annie ♥


    Hello Spunky
    I'm not sure I understand the question
    Lovers an hour I had hundreds . Lovers for several nigth, two, or three
    ♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥

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spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/10/2016 6:24 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    How many one-night stands have you had? In my younger years lots
    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive? no hugssss V
It's good that you sowed your wild oats when younger!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/10/2016 6:26 am

    Quoting  :

I sowed my wild oats after I was 35; before 35 years old, not much happened to me!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/10/2016 6:27 am

    Quoting  :

That guy was a cree. I hope you told him what's what!


lyavu 48F
1535 posts
6/19/2016 11:02 am

I lasted after a boss and never knew he did too until one day we had lunch together. We talked and asked me to a movie I was scared but went. We ended going to the office he had to get his tablet then the rest was history. If the office had cameras. Oh my


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/19/2016 11:06 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    I lasted after a boss and never knew he did too until one day we had lunch together. We talked and asked me to a movie I was scared but went. We ended going to the office he had to get his tablet then the rest was history. If the office had cameras. Oh my
I too am pleased that offices don't have cameras!
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missthee 55F  
4457 posts
6/19/2016 12:25 pm

How many one-night stands have you had?
About half of my overall total were ONS.

Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?
Yes. It was with a woman.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
39484 posts
6/19/2016 12:42 pm

    Quoting missthee:
    How many one-night stands have you had?
    About half of my overall total were ONS.

    Has your lust ever led you to have sex with someone you didn’t find attractive?
    Yes. It was with a woman.
I think about half my total werre one-offs too!


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