Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

Quick Vent  

suculent_spot 49F
82 posts
6/24/2020 7:21 am
Quick Vent

Okay, I am not one for venting in this avenue, but I am truly annoyed. So I hope you all do not mind taking a moment of your time release.

Long story short, last Tuesday I was supposed to meet up with a "gentleman" but work had gotten in the way, and there was no way of letting me know. Okay, things happen I get that. Well a few days passed, and I heard from him again. We chatted some more, and made plans again for yesterday. Yesterday morning all was confirmed for last night. Last night came, and again another "no show." This time, he had the means to contact me if something came up, and nothing.

Am I upset at the fact that I did not have sex? Hell no! I am more or less upset at the fact that people cannot even be nice enough to let you know something changed, whether it be changing their mind, or that something came up, or what ever... It is called common curtesy, AKA respect!

Call me fashion if you may, but I believe that how you treat others is a sign of how you treat yourself! Kind of along those lines of you cannot expect others love you if you cannot love yourself.... You seriously cannot say you have self-respect, if you do not provide respect others.

Okay, rant over.

MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
682 posts
6/25/2020 4:33 am

I agree. Simple manners should call for a quick message even to say “ sorry I couldn’t make it”
I will be the first to admit I’m not one to respect myself but I sure as hell try to respect others. Common courtesy and common sense seem to be the truer unicorns today. Lol

JustLookn439 55M

6/24/2020 2:14 pm

Interestingly, I just commented on a similar blog by another member.

Here is my take: If a women (I only seek women) cancels on me the day of the "meet" I will NEVER give a second chance...PERIOD. Even if the excuse was a DEATH in the family. Why? Because I play the ODDS....What are the odds of someone dropping dead the very hour we were to meet? Could happen, but I simply don't believe it. This is a common theme on this site of people last minute cancelling or some weird emergency just cropping up at zero hour.
I am not so desperate for sex as to subject myself to this nonsense. Chances are she is REALLY tied up with her hubby that she failed to disclose, or boyfriend, or kids......

CleavageFan4U 63M  
63543 posts
6/24/2020 10:05 am

YUP, an ALL TOO familiar story here unfortunately. I picture these guys sitting in the Mommy's basement wanking off to the PROSPECT of meeting a woman, but too damn chicken to go through with it.

In my 12 years here I've probably met 50 or more ladies. NOT ONCE did I stand any of them up, nor was I stood up.

Sorry this happened to you - move on - this one is a LOSER.

Music, on HNW
This Ain39t Over
Maybe Ill Just Become a Homebody
Private Cleavage My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets

Become a member to create a blog