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Posted:Feb 29, 2008 8:04 pm
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One thing AdultFriendFinder has definitely done for me is to build up my confidence and self esteem. When I started meeting swingers, I found some very sexy people, most who looked more like me then a playboy model. Sexiness is about 90% mental and only 10% physical.
What else AdultFriendFinder has done for me is given me the chance to experience many firsts. The first woman I gave an orgasm to was from here. First time having oral sex with a man who was uncircumcised. I'm sure there are others I am not mentioning and hopefully there will be many more to come.
What AdultFriendFinder offers is a way to share desires or fantasies. Too often men and women are scared to talk about fantasies in a relationship. Here there is a community of people who are open minded enough to be here in the first place. There is also the anonymity. If you ask a girlfriend/boyfriend to do something new and different, there is always that small fear of rejection. The worry that the person will start to look at you differently. Here if you tell a playmate that you want to try something new, they may say "no", but you won't have to face them again if you choose not to.
There is also the question of safety for swingers. Most responsible players are tested every three months or so for STD's. Since the sex is planned and the situation controlled, there is also a larger chance that safe sex will be practiced. Overall meeting new people and having new playmates from here is a thought out process. Much safer on a physical and emotional level then meeting someone is a local bar or other common spot. Since communication is open, boundaries can be made clear early on, expectations not set too high, and hopefully no one leaves with hurt feelings.
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Mardi Gras 08
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Posted:Feb 25, 2008 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2008 7:41 pm
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A few people have asked me for details about this weekend, so I'll make a post out of it so more can read. No names or identifying details of course. If anyone does recognize themselves from the story, please send me an email. Let me know if you want me to remove parts, add your name so you can take credit for parts, or just want to keep in touch so maybe we can get together again.
Since I had to drive from Laramie to Denver and had an am appointment in Ft. Collins the next day, I went ahead and drove to Colorado on Friday night. One of the single men on here and I have been in touch for a while now, so he offered me a place to stay for the night. He is a real sweetheart that has put up with me having to change plans at last minute more then once, and even Friday it was very late before I got to his house.
I'm very glad I did give him a chance though. In person he was much cuter then his pictures let on, and we had a good time. Two rounds of sex Friday night, then again on Saturday morning we took advantage of morning wood for a third round. He had to go to work and I needed to make it across town for a dentist appointment so we parted ways with an agreement to meet again when possible. I ate breakfast, hit my dentist appointment, fixed the car, and then hit the road. There was one stop on the way at Loveland so I could pick up some antibiotics for the sinus infection that hit me.
When I got to the hotel I packed everything up to the room, set things around, and then started to procrastinate. Being there completely on my own and not knowing a single person that would be at the party was nerve racking. In fact there was only going to be one person there I knew from online. Knowing I would have alcohol, I got some food, and finally started to get ready. Taking a few moments I made sure that I was shaved smooth, took a shower, and then got my costume on. I had the jester costume with mid length skirt, and top. Under I had thigh high fishnet stockings, garter belt, a black corset, and no panties or bra. Black high heels and my mask completed the outfit. The noises from next door told me that some people were already starting to party and I had to smile.
Taking a deep breath I braced myself and grabbed my purse to head out the door. When I got downstairs I found a long line waiting to get in the door. It was slightly awkward as many people already knew each other so greetings and hugs were being passed back and forth all around me.
Inside I was surprised at how full the room already was. While the party lasted until 2am and people came and went, the room stayed packed all night. There was definitely well over 500 people total in attendance that night. Still nervous I made my way to one of the bars and ordered a drink. A few older, single men asked me to dance, but I have no rhythm at all and was too nervous to get near the dance floor. Instead I found a seat and watched others. Many of the outfits made mine look modest. Some women had only thongs and a bustier. Many women had short skirts with no panties, and almost all had tops made for easy flashing for beads. Around the room there were people meeting friends, feeling each other up, laughing and having a generally good time. Occasionally the interactions went further and displays of lap dances or oral happened.
After an hour or so I decided that the purse was just in the way and I wanted a more comfortable pair of shoes to wear. Just as I was standing to return to my room and change shoes a couple came up and introduced themselves. They were a younger, attractive couple, and seemed fun to speak with. I informed them that I was going upstairs and they decided to join me. On the way out I ran into the one friend I knew from online, so gave him a hug and kiss, letting him know that I would return to the party shortly.
While we were up there I showed off some of the toys I had purchased on the way down. I had a g-spot stimulator, a finger vibrator with interchangeable tips, and little vibrators that fit on your tongue. The girl eagerly volunteered to let me try them on her to see if they worked. Trying the tongue vibrator, I found that it wouldn't stay on tongue and would peel off. I could use it against her clit though by clenching it between my teeth. I started with one finger inside of her, working her clit with the vibrator. She had the largest clit I had ever seen and it swelled almost like a mini erection. She climaxed almost right away. Pushing on I brought her to more climaxes, working more fingers inside. Soon I had my entire hand inside of her while her own juices poured down the inside of her thighs. Her guy took several pictures with his cell phone and cursed the fact he didn't bring a better camera.
After a little longer of play, I put on my other shoes, and emptied my purse. Without a bra or pockets it took me a few moments to figure out how to carry the room key, money, and cell. Since the couple hadn't gotten themselves a room and I had two beds in mine and plenty of room, I went ahead and gave them the second room key so we could share. I finally tucked everything into the top of my stockings. It worked great, but meant I had to lift my skirt each time I wanted to order a drink. A couple guys complimented me on the ingenuity of putting my cash there, I think they enjoyed the show.
For most of the rest of the evening I stayed down at the party. The costume contest started. For the men's contest the guys just had to get up front and the best costume was voted on. The females however had a small challenge. Well all lined up in front, then the hosts and male winner sat in chairs lined up. The women had to move down the line, letting the four judges see the costumes up close while we tempted them with lap dances and flirting. The poor guy who won the male contest looked completely terrified. It ended up coming down to myself and the girl next to me, but she won in the end.
The next contest came a few hours later. The ring toss. Couples went on the floor together and first it was the female version. All the women participating had to lay in a line on the floor. The men stood a certain distance away and had to toss rings around the women's breasts. Being short I couldn't really see what was happening. Finally I got frustrated enough that I pulled out a chair to stand on. Wearing 3 inch heels and having a couple drinks in me, this was more difficult then it sounded. A nice gentleman was more then happy to help me onto the chair, then hold on to me for balance while I was up there. I'm fairly sure that a couple women had some augmentation because gravity wasn't quite working how it is supposed to on their chests. Some of the poor girls were getting smacked in the face with the rings and I had to wonder how many men were going to get smacked when the ladies had a chance to stand up.
Next it was the men's turn. Since the poor guys couldn't be expected to stand out on command, they were allowed to remain standing and put dowels between the legs for the women to aim for. The men around me lost interest once the male half of the contest started, so I found myself stranded on top of a chair, trying to figure out how to get down when the show ended. A tall cowboy walked by so I reached out and tapped him on the shoulder. He was more then happy to put an arm around me and help me down to the floor.
Later the couple I was with earlier introduced me to several friends. The man also brought in his toy bag which he had left in his car. Pawing through the bag I found his wrist and ankle restraints and started amusing myself with those. Figured out more then a few ways I could of attached myself to the chair with them. By now the party was close to over. Many of the women had gotten to the point of being topless instead of bothering to flash. A few were pantless as well. A couple of women had special beads and on asking I found out that they had to do more then flash to earn them. I was a tad put out that I hadn't learned about that earlier and gotten a chance to try myself.
I had loaned my handcuff nipple jewelry to the girl I was with earlier. She complained that they made her nipples hurt and had taken them off. Some of the other women expressed interest in them so I put one on myself and helped a woman try on the other one, making sure her nipple was hard first.
About this time the group was leaving to go up to rooms and I got invited along. We started in one room, but became bored soon after so moved on to another room so the smokers could get a chance to have a smoke. I had a strawberry margarita while there and watched some of the couples play with each other. It turned out that one of the women had a birthday that day, so she was getting paddled with a birthday paddle everyone was signing.
We moved on to her room next where there were several people. One of the women there had extremely sensitive nipples and wanted to try on the nipple jewelry. Sitting on the bed with her I started placing the handcuff on one nipple. The woman started squirming and coming close to orgasm just from that. She looked at her husband and said if he ever wanted another blow job then he had better buy her some of those. Finding this highly amusing I started to flick and pinch her nipple, asking if it had gotten more sensitive. She moaned deeply and pouted that her other breast was getting jealous.
I had my sun nipple shield on the other breast, which is a lot harder to get on and off. Leaning forward I sucked and nibbled her nipple to get it hard enough to try and put the shield on. Warning her that I would have to pinch, she told me to go ahead, she liked it rough. In order to fit the shield on I did have to pinch her nipple fairly hard to slide the shield on. By this time both of her nipples were red and swollen. Taking advantage I started to suck and tease one with my teeth. The woman started to slide off the bed as she lost control. Making her lay back I attacked one nipple and started to stroke her through her pants. Her husband came over and began to work the other nipple. We brought her to orgasm several times that way. She wanted to take me home and keep me as a pet and her husband was more then willing to let her.
I was having fun, but after playing with so many women I wanted to get back to the men. Coming up with an idea I announced that it was the one woman's birthday, she would get to decide what activity we would do next. She was more then willing to go along with that plan and had all the men stand at the front of the room in a line. The wives/gf's of the men got on knees in front of their partner and started giving oral. There were three of us single women who stayed on the beds and just watched the show. My idea was to start playing musical chairs and have every one moved to the left after a bit, which some of the women were all for, but others didn't think was great.
After a few minutes some of the couples had moved off to the side, but two of the men were very well endowed and the women with them said jaws were too sore to continue. One complained that he would love to meet a woman that could take his full length. For those that know me, I can't pass up a challenge like that, just to prove to myself I can do it. Jumping up I asked the girlfriend for permission to try. She consented so I dropped to knees and had to give it a try.
Surprising the guy, I managed to quickly swallow his full length, pressing my nose against his pubic hair. Apparently I'm only the second woman he's ever met that is able to do that. I stayed there for a while longer, amusing myself with sucking him and enjoying his reaction. He found it even more impressing that I wasn't getting tired or a sore jaw in the least. The girl sharing my room decided she wanted a chance to prove what she could do, so asked to change places with me. I agreed and let her at that guy, while I decided to try out the other well endowed man.
The second guy was roughly the same size, maybe very slightly larger. He was more challenging though because he was so hard and rigid that you couldn't really move him to a good angle. I ended up having him on the bed and me turned with my ass to his face in order to suck him down. The other girl noticed and objected that she had always wanted to try that one. By this time I was pouring off sweat so I let her have a go while I went and stood by the air conditioner.
The birthday girl asked if I would do her a favor and service her husband who was sitting in a chair, watching the show. Can't tell a girl no on her birthday, so I moved over to him and told him to pull down his pants. He happily obliged. He was average size, so I was able to do more with him then on the other guys. He was also a sweet guy who would ask before touching me. At one point I heard the door open and close, then realized that my skirt was flipped up and I was bending over. Basically the entire room and anyone at door was getting a full show about the fact I had no panties on. Every once in a while I would feel a pet from some of the other men in the room. The guy I was servicing was fully enjoying himself. While he had started out asking me if he could touch me here or there, he lost concentration and I got a few spanks without warning.
Glancing around the room I saw that almost everyone else was also involved in some form of oral. The single women had found ways to get involved, one of them sitting on a guys face while another woman sucked him. The guy I was with finally was ready to cum. I slid him into the back of my throat, fully prepared to swallow. Bending over upside down makes it hard in the first place, but when he came it was an amazing amount. I ended up pulling away and had cum splattered all over my hair and on him.
He sat in the chair kind of shaking, and the smokers decided to head outside. Since I was still pouring sweat I decided to tag along to go outside where it was cooler. Passing by the mirror on closet doors, I realized that my new mascara had smeared so bad that it looked like I had painted black circles under my eye with thick ink. I slipped into the bathroom to clean up my face and some of the cum out of my hair. The gentleman came in and tried to apologize to me about the hair, but I told him never apologize for both of us having fun. Apparently he had cum all over himself as well. As I walked out I watched him stagger back to the chair. His knees looked barely strong enough to hold him up.
Went outside for a bit with the woman from my room. We looked up and you could tell which rooms the party attendants were in. The windows were fully steamed over. We took up most of the fourth and fifth floor. I pity the regular guests there since almost every room had some wild noises coming from it far into the night and early morning.
The man from my room met up with us and we all headed back upstairs. I decided to get out of costume and have a shower to get the sweat and cum off myself. The couple took over the bed and started having sex again. After she came a few more times, he came into the shower with me and helped wash my hair. I am a bit to short for shower sex unless I stand on the tub edge, so we moved back to the bedroom. All three of us played together a little more until the woman yelled mercy. She had cum so many times that night that she was completely worn out and sore. Everyone laid down to cuddle, but she wanted to stretch out so she took the other bed to herself. The guy and I teased her a little and started playing again. She said we were evil for getting her worked up again, but she was just going to watch and not join. He came inside me again and we nestled up together in a spoon position and everyone fell asleep.
In the morning, only about two hours later actually, we were still spooning and I could feel him poking me. Grinning I took the opportunity to start pressing my bottom back against him and rubbing it against his morning erection. Lifting one of my legs he slid into me from the side. We stayed in that position for a few moments, then moved to him on top and my legs lifted high. The other girl woke up and started laughing at us for going again. We invited her over but she said she was still way to sore to join.
I finally pulled myself out of bed to start packing the room since check out time wasn't too far away. The other girl decided that she was too worked up and wanted to play regardless of pain, so she slid in with the guy. I sat down and watched as he turned her over and slid into her from behind.
A little later everyone was finally dressed. I was still trying to collect together my things which were spread all over the room. We were showing each other our AdultFriendFinder profiles and things while I packed. The guy got excited again so the girl moved to kneel down in front of the chair and gave him head while I packed. His phone rang and it was another party attendent from down the hall asking if she could have a ride home. In a high pitched voice he answered "Sure, but you are going to have to give me a minute." For some reason this was just the most hilarious thing I had heard in a while and I ended up on the bed from laughing so hard. She sucked him to cumming, and I was surprised the poor man had anything left to shoot as many times as we used him.
She had to leave to meet with family, so we said our goodbyes. He stayed to help me pack my things in the car and check out, so we went to breakfast together. It was time for me to leave so I had to pass up the offer of one more time. My babysitter was getting more then a little impatient as to when I would get home. So I gave him a kiss goodbye and headed on my way. Surprised I made it home in one piece as tired as I was after having almost no sleep over the weekend. Remembering details about the party and coming up with new ideas of what else I wanted to do, I started to get turned on again while driving. Needing to keep both hands on the wheel, all I could do was squirm against the seam of my jeans.
Today I spent most of the day asleep just catching up. Of course that means I am wide awake now that it is night time. I can't wait until the next party chance where I can meet up with friends, make new ones, and have fun with the people I didn't get a play chance with this time. Until then I will have to meet with friends where I can.
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Posted:Feb 21, 2008 11:46 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 10:09 pm
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I've just discovered all the different capabilities my web cam has. Photo capture with self timer, burst rate, time lapse, and a few others I haven't tried. It is also 1 am and if people haven't noticed, I am an extremely easily amused person.
Oh, and I have coffee left.
This does not look good.
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Oxygen
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Posted:Feb 20, 2008 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2008 8:17 pm
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Whoo hoo, still stuffed up but I can breath through my nose again. That's a good sign for my sex life.......
I was going to put my mood as obnoxious until I read the actual definition of the word
"noxious means injurious to physical or mental health; obnoxious means very offensive, objectionable, or unpleasant"
Amazing how words are misused completely. So I need a better word for silly, teasing, slightly annoying, and bothersome.
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Thumb Twiddling
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Posted:Feb 20, 2008 10:13 am
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2008 8:16 pm
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In the main page you can set your mood, but it is extremely limited. Why not have all the moods available that the blogs use?
Anyway, I am on a leave from work for a few days. Basically it's to take care of a and myself until we get over this stupid virus or what ever we have. Little person also has an ear infection. I can't take her back to school until she has been fever free for 24 hours.
I have a huge list of chores that need to be done that my excuse has been no time. While I am feeling about 95% better, my head is still completely congested and tired out. The really silly thing is I haven't been able to sleep. Could be good old insomnia, or just the fact that resting all day doesn't make for a deep sleep at night.
The goal is get better, get the chores done, and then if kiddo is well enough to go back to school before I have to work..............
Gee, what would I do with free time on my hands. It's been so long since I've had some available to me.
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Real People
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Posted:Feb 10, 2008 5:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2009 4:54 pm
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I've had a few people ask me if AdultFriendFinder was real and if anyone met through it. Being in a rural area it can be much harder to meet with everyone you want to unless you are willing to drive an hour, or several, to be able to meet with them.
I have had the good fortune to meet with two couples now that I have met through AdultFriendFinder. Both I would consider friends outside the bedroom, and very exciting playmates once inside. I plan to meet with them more as time allows not only for the sexier games, but because I honestly enjoy their company.
Other's on here I have made plans with to meet, including couples and single men. Others I want to meet with at some point, but distance makes it more difficult.
So for those wondering, yes you can meet friends and playmates with AdultFriendFinder. It might take time and patience, or changing the approach, but it can and does happen.
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The things we do
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Posted:Feb 5, 2008 8:49 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2008 5:27 pm
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Today I got contacts and heels. Not a major buy by any means, but neither one is that comfortable. It used to be a gender issue. Women would wear corsets, poison themselves for fair skin, and other wise torture themselves. Have we improved, or have we just made men join in the masochism?
These days men suffer the razor rash in personal areas, suck in the guts when women walk by, see airbrushed models setting an impossible standard, and generally worry about many of the things women do.
So now I have heels, a sexy costume, stockings with seams up the back, and most importantly a mask. What is it about a costume and mask that let us loose our inhibitions? For a moment in time we can step out of ourselves and act a part we choose.
So what kind of game would I like to play
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Courage or Not
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Posted:Feb 2, 2008 10:40 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2008 5:40 pm
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Now it looks like I could have a sitter lined up for that party this month. Checking the hotel there is also rooms still available to reserve. Now I have to decide if I have the courage to go on such short notice, or if I still want to wait until Halloween. I can see why couples would have a much easier time with things like this because they would have each other for support. Traveling and attending completely on your own with only knowing maybe one or two people out of over a hundred is kind of intimidating. I asked for a password to access the photo gallery of past year parties for Rocky Mountain so maybe that will help me decide or not. I don't even have a clue what would work as a Mardi Gras dressup. I realize you don't have to dress in theme for the party, but the mask and the costume sound like a lot of fun to me and it's something I would like to do. Role playing and all.
UPDATE: Ok, I called and reserved a room because they said I had a chance to cancel with no charge if I did so before 4:00 that day. So at least if I decide to go there will be a room for me, and if I change my mind deciding not to go, no harm, no foul.
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Responsibilities
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Posted:Jan 29, 2008 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2008 10:40 am
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My years were rather dull, and by the time I hit college I already had and responsibilities. This year I learned of a large Mardi Gras party for people to meet, play, and just enjoy themselves. Lack of a sitter and responsibilities will most likely keep me home once again, but that's alright.
What I plan to do is instead of a second childhood, I'm going to have a first one. Once the are off to college then it will be time to sell off everything, buy a Harley, and become one of those eccentric retirees the embarrasses the completely. Yes, I will dye my gray hair a bright color to rival any anime, dress in leather, and tour the world.
It's good to have goals.
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Posted:Jan 25, 2008 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2008 7:52 pm
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I had a strange realization a few days ago. When I first started signing in again, I couldn't remember my username and had to request it. Sweetrose was one I used often, although I've moved to a different one for most things. The 19 part I couldn't figure out though.
Then I started thinking about when I made the profile for the first time. It was when I was 19 years old, and that is where the number came into play. That was quite a few years ago, to say the least.
While some men would enjoy a nineteen year old far more, this age seems a lot more fun. I am far more self aware and confident then back then. Now there is sensuality, freedom, and more wisdom about human nature.
People don't always get better with age and experience, but some of us do actually learn from past experiences.
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Posted:Jan 25, 2008 7:40 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2008 3:57 pm
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Running through my head are always a ton of random thoughts. Writing them down would be confusing to anyone else. I'm not sure what else I could put into a blog as I don't have nightly, or even frequent wild escapades to amuse and delight. Plus that whole discretion issue.
One of the things men, well people, on here tend to ask is what exactly I am looking for. The problem is I haven't fully figured that out yet.
Yes, someday I would like a serious relationship. However, being single is fun and I'm enjoying myself. There is no reason for me to jump into a serious relationship too fast or because it's presented to me.
Friends that are just friends are also relationships I want to develop. After being somewhat isolated for a while, I suddenly realized that I have to get out and find myself a life.
Then there are all the in between points. A friend with benefits, or a friend that you can just cuddle against can be great for many reasons.
For me to have sex with someone, there has to be a spark or chemistry for one thing. There seems to be a series of men who expect me to meet with them, have sex instantly, without ever having met them or even spoken to them. I'm not a blow up doll with action features. If you want a non thinking sex toy, there are plenty of shops around that cater to that.
I won't claim to be a prim prude that has never had a one night stand. In those cases there was a period of flirting, build up, anticipation, body language, with sex just being the final step. The sex may not of always been great, but the chase and foreplay was an important aspect.
Foreplay doesn't mean a few strokes and nibbles before things begin. Instead it is a mix of the mind, body, and each of the senses. Eyes meeting, then turning away, slightly brushing against the person with your hips, warm breath caressing the neck or ear, slowly undressing them in your imagination, light teases and taunts, it all adds up bit by bit.
Flirtation is not being a tease. It is building up the anticipation and frustration until each person can no longer resist the urge to touch and consume each other. Pushing for the sex right away, or acting like an entitled wanting a toy, is so fast of a turn off it can be hard to recover from.
The one thing I don't want is to be someone's mother. No one can "fix" or "save" another person. That has to come from the person themselves. To love and support someone is important, to rely on them to make every problem go away is fantasy that can only be shattered later.
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