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tamaloa_aulelei 44M  
63 posts
8/25/2020 6:52 am
Conversations I can do without.


Some of the women on AdultFriendFinder have violent<b> boyfriends. </font></b>candiegirl6789, for example. Not so sweet after all.

So what does one do when one is threatened with murder? The simplest approach is simply ban such people. The next step is refer such conversations ones attorney for follow up, in turn follows up with a private investigator.

My profile clearly states that I don't put up with shit from anybody. Sometimes you have to read the fine print.

It's too bad. I was her #1 fan. Past tense. Now she will be forever denied the joy of, well, me.

author51 57F  
102822 posts
8/25/2020 7:39 am

AdultFriendFinder can be and is often a scary place with all the fakes, flakes, weirdos and last but not least violent people with mental health issues..The steps you have described here are good advice for others to heed..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 8/25/2020 8:10 am:
All too true, author51. My guess is that candiegirl6789 is either playing a game or is in serious danger. The balance of probability is that she's just playing a game. And if not, well, she's fully entitled to the consequences of her mistakes.

Massass1963 57M
414 posts
8/25/2020 7:51 am

It is one reason why I stay clear of "attached" women of any kind. They aren't any different than men when it comes to the "cheating" aspect. Many indicate they are doing it with hubby's "blessing" etc, but most are lying OR are setting up for some criminal activity. If I learn of a woman that has a Female profile but turns out to be a "couple" that is a deal killer.
Stick to truly single women and be alert to signs she might not be as single as professed. It is the best you can do.
Oh........and NEVER turn a blind eye to warning signs no matter HOW horny you are!


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 8/25/2020 9:15 am:
Thanks for that massass. So far as I have been able to determine there are no dateable women on this site. I prefer my catphish pan-fried.

I have two Michigan State coeds for fwb/NSA who would marry me in a heartbeat if I weren't nearly twice their age. They said so. Instead they're on AdultFriendFinder trying to find me a girlfriend the hard way. So far I've had exactly one lame date, have been stood up six times, threatened with blackmail once, and threatened with murder once. Fourteen meetings that went exactly nowhere because the persons were way less than the profiles, and I don't date women who outweigh me. Not a good track record.

They don't get it, but I do. I'm letting my subscription lapse 9/4. I have better luck on LinkedIn, although there are catphishers and phonies there too.

tamaloa_aulelei replies on 8/25/2020 9:21 am:
I am minded of a song lyric from before I was born:

Hey, hey, mama, what's the matter here?
You didn't have to tell me you would be my own,
You didn't have to tell me, baby, let me go.
Hey, hey, mama, what is wrong with you?
Hey that's alright. I know your sister, too.

papis_baby_girl 41F
5366 posts
8/25/2020 10:12 am

yeah... many a man has fallen for the whole 'hero' mentality... you know, rescue the poor helpless female victim.

This place is great to troll those 'heros'. Not sure why since sooo many want 'no drama' and that's exactly what they fall for, real or not.

"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say."
-Anais Nin

"I am big, it's the pictures that got small!"
-Norma Desmond


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 8/25/2020 11:49 am:
You are not sure. But I am sure.

Massass1963 57M
414 posts
8/25/2020 8:27 pm

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    yeah... many a man has fallen for the whole 'hero' mentality... you know, rescue the poor helpless female victim.

    This place is great to troll those 'heros'. Not sure why since sooo many want 'no drama' and that's exactly what they fall for, real or not.
I surely will never fall for the hero role LOL....the mere mention of money for any purpose and they have heard the last of me. There is no bigger Red Flag than that! It isn't that I am not a generous person, but I always think with the appropriate head.....ALWAYS.


tamaloa_aulelei replies on 8/26/2020 1:50 am:
I hear ya Massass.

Mr. Happy doesn't run ME. We're a team. Aren't we boy? Yeah, good boy. Down boy! Down I said! Good boy!

Don't mind him. He just got all excited seeing papis_baby_girl. Frankly I don't blame him. I don't blame papis_baby_girl either. Wuh.

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