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AFF Pet Peeves  

tammykup 34F
102 posts
2/22/2014 3:08 pm
AFF Pet Peeves

1. If you're a female listed as a female but mention things about having a bf in your profile or send me an email about joining you and your bf, that's an automatic deletion. I hate that.

2. Don't ask me to have drinks. I don't drink that much.

3. Females: If I send you an email, I think I would expect one back. Don't just view me and say nothing.

4. If you live hundreds of miles away and email me to just chat, what's the point?

5. Don't keep sending me emails if I don't reply. If you send me 8 or 9 emails, get the hint. I just don't want to feel rude by saying, "Not interested".

6. Its kind of annoying for people to mention something from what I put in my profile and say it in a message.

7. Rude users. Do I need to explain?

8. Pushy couples.

9. Beautiful women with Shrek as their partner. Seriously, I see too many gorgeous women with fat, hairy ugly guys. These girls must have low self-esteems or you're blind. So many girls on here could do better than what they have. I will not meet a couple that has an unattractive guy. Sorry.

10. Profiles with just one photo or no photos. Seriously?

11. The females on here need to open up a little bit. Its good you're selective but damn. "I want at least a six foot 4 man with blue eyes, blonde hair, 16 inch dick, all muscles, his own place and job, straight white teeth, hairless" STOP IT. That's why you're not meeting anyone on here!!! No one is perfect! You won't find "The One" on here!

12. What's up with the BBC thing? Just b/c you have a large penis, doesnt mean the sex is going to be great.

Is there anything I left out? Comment below. I feel much better now lol.

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/22/2014 4:33 pm

I guess I could've been more specific with number 5. I meant that they flirt/hotlist when they view me. Then I send an email to them. Then they just continue to view my profile and don't reply back.

1000islandguy 62M
31 posts
2/22/2014 6:59 pm

As a man one peeve I have is guys who pretend to be a couple while they are just looking for some action with you alone no wife/gf.
Also I find AdultFriendFinder will show your profile as online when you or someone you want to contact are not.

yesmaam6970 50M
783 posts
2/22/2014 7:39 pm

Constant hotlists and flirts from profiles with a gold ball. Why have it if you don't use it to send emails?

As for #9...everyone has their own tastes, I may not agree but it is their choice to make.

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/22/2014 8:47 pm

I see some men on here who have some very hot videos! But they only get maybe 60 likes. But a couple or female who puts out a way less hot video will get 426 likes for some poorly recorded, half-assed blowjob video. If you like the video, like the video lol.

Also I can't stand the fake ass profiles that have females looking for "true love". Cmon AdultFriendFinder we know those are fake profiles.

And has anyone else seen single women user names starting with "rm_"?

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/22/2014 8:56 pm

I keep thinking of things as I go along lol.

I hate when guys email saying "I saw you checked me out" or "I saw you viewed my profile!" Sir it was probably one those pesky, accidental roll over views with the mouse. I didn't mean to view your profile. Sorry.

Or the lack of single women. NO not women that are listed as a single but actually have a bf. 100% SINGLE women. There are way too many men on this site. Some that are MARRIED and should be ashamed of themselves! Same goes for cheating women. Get a divorce.

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/25/2014 3:05 pm

PrincessSybarite, a lot of men on here lie about their profiles, its pathetic. They lie about their penis size, body build, relationship status, if they have kids, etc. I mean, they do know we're gonna find out eventually when we meet them right?

101 posts
2/26/2014 3:20 pm

I just hate it when women constantly dote on me and keep saying how awesome I am. It's getting tiresome.

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/27/2014 6:25 am

I just got three messages from three different men saying, "sup", "plz", and of course, "want to fuck". Wow...

tammykup 34F
9 posts
2/28/2014 2:57 pm


BBW6152 59F  
2 posts
3/12/2014 12:17 pm

you can talk all you want about older men. you can talk all you want about the "shreks"... just look in the mirror and realize you aren't exactly Katy Perry! loosen up a little, and BTW, shave those prickly little hairs from around that thing! it's disgusting!

1 post
3/13/2014 1:09 pm

Brilliant common sense and many laugh-out-loud lines! Awesome!!

rm_cantw8_2meet 57M
9 posts
3/18/2014 3:54 pm

A couple of things that I find annoying are:

The profiles with a single picture of a drop-dead gorgeous woman in fantastic shape that looks like it was professionally taken and an intro that says she is looking for FWB, NSA, blah blah blah - obviously not a real picture of them.

Then there are the ones who can't read - they view the profile, flirt or hot list you then either through chat or email when things appear to be looking promising suddenly say OMG "you're married I don't do that" like it was hidden somewhere in code and they finally figured it out - guess we weren't really a match anyway lol.

One more . . . The woman who asks for a face pic but doesn't have the courtesy to reciprocate as agreed (often the point where they miraculously figure out I'm married) - the optimist in me thinks that maybe I really got their attention so they actually read the profile.

OK now I feel better thanks for the great post!

luv2lick1470 65M
5 posts
7/10/2014 10:06 am

As one who has been in the Lifestyle for quite some time, I have to agree with every word you wrote. From an "older" mans perspective, a lot of women see the age (59) and are simply not interested. If you get a chance, read my blog as well. Just like a big dick doesn't guarantee good sex, having sex with an older guy doesn't mean it will be bad sex either. This isn't my first rodeo and many women can appreciate an older man because they seem to concentrate on the needs, wants and desires of the woman rather than their own. My testimonial from Hotmif469 will attest to that.

blackdicknine 45M  
2 posts
7/11/2014 6:20 pm

AdultFriendFinder has become way to complicated.

Kool_Kancer 44M
3 posts
8/3/2014 9:49 am

I concur and ditto. Also, just so you know, the "rm" is for returning member, as in someone that came back and decided to use their previous username, not that you couldn't figure that out on your own, just wanted it to be clear.

tammykup 34F
9 posts
9/5/2014 12:08 am

@BBW6152 I never said I was "Katy Perry". If you were offended by my "shrek" comment because it applies to your man, then you're welcomed to block me. I'm sure as hell looking a billion times better than you are honey

Kneadyu1000 59M  
2 posts
9/30/2014 4:25 pm

Hey Tammy - that BBC above is just jealous. She doesn't like herself so she doesn't like you.

The various dating/sex sites have all deteriorated. Ive been lucky but not because the site administrators have been helpful. They want to make $ and their 'memberships just keep on growing for the dollar bill while at the same time diluting their product.

AdultFriendFinder- has a giant membership but it seems like cybersex is king. Plus the scammers keep on coming and there is little policing by the admin. As Tammy and others have said this is a sex site but I get ridunkulous proposals to marry or worship nude in a church for ltr- what are they thinking.???

Ash Mad- I am single now but back in the day I would meet married women -- which is what the wewbsite is about. and rendezvous. But then the site was overridden with singles --and I was not very popular.

The above are just 2 examples. There are so many fake profiles its nauseating.

If we could all have some more women like Tammy what a better world this would be,

Mrfantastico321 52M
2 posts
11/2/2014 4:22 pm

I agree.... #s 9 and 11 also contradict each other. .... Although I must admit I am looking for the hottest local girl I can find who's down. ...Goin to the gym. see ya.

Richard19426 58M  
89 posts
1/2/2015 3:01 pm

AdultFriendFinder wasn't to bad when it 1st came on line. Then corporate America bought it and let it go to hell. Now the original owner bought it back and is in the process of fixing most of the issues. I've noticed a big difference since he gained control again. If you have a minute, view my "On line dating" blog for helpful info.

As someone that has been in & out of the lifestyle since the days when you had to p/u a magazine and hand write/snail mail/then wait weeks for a reply this site is great. The problem is that it is to easy for all the pathetic losers to play games. Most men but I have seen couples/single woman play games as well. Most of your issues seem to revolve around the pathetic types but #2 is a real issue when actually with someone. I've seen a few good times go to hell when someone was to loaded to be any fun.

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