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How far is too far?  

tammykup 33F
101 posts
10/21/2014 10:58 pm
How far is too far?


This is for the men especially, what's the farthest you would drive to meet someone on here for a sexual encounter? 1 hour? 2 hours?

pytimesx 60M
941 posts
10/21/2014 11:41 pm

It doesn;t need to be sex. The right person to meet in person, have a coffee, walk in the park, along the beach for an enticing conversation doesn;t have a limit. The reason being there is so much more to be discovered about people face to face.

But if its just sex, nsa or otherwise... no distance is worth it to some. There must be something more to make it worth the effort - and it should be a two way street.

Obviously that doesn;t speak for most cats and dogs on an adult site. So use your own judgment as to the who, what and why.


New2Midlo 48M  
370 posts
10/22/2014 2:24 pm

Minus other unrelated factors, an hour is about my limit, these days. The times I've gone beyond an hour, I've found the 'experience' didn't quite offset the windshield time.

BTW, unrelated mitigating factors might be if the individual I was planning to meet was somewhere I wanted to visit anyway, thus making an extended playdate possible.


fun4meanduinva 50M  
43 posts
10/24/2014 9:52 pm

Depends. If I know them I've driven for four. Otherwise an hour. I've had a "wtf" moment or two. Cam verify now. Sucks when the chick turns out to be a dude.

Seriously doubt I wouldn't know the difference


Mrfantastico321 52M
2 posts
11/2/2014 3:56 pm

I was driving 2 hours away on the regular recently for a very attractive young lady, but I knew it was guaranteed. I would not travel that far for anything that wasn't certain unless I had other business in the area.


blackdicknine 45M  
2 posts
11/11/2014 5:46 am

Hour and fifteen is tops for me.


rm_Xaxtos69 44M
1 post
11/11/2014 6:52 am

It depends on the certainty of results I guess and the expectations going in. I would prefer an hour or less so as to possibly turn a one time thing into a repetitive thing. I've been cat-fished before and stood up so a lot of pre-communication would need to happen before committing to a long trip.


rm_MuttRaz 39M
5 posts
12/13/2014 11:21 am

A little over an hour for me, but only because we've already been exchanging emails for a bit of time and the sexual energy was definitely there!


Richard19426 58M  
88 posts
1/2/2015 2:33 pm

I've driven from Phila to DC to meet but usually prefer under an hour unless we really hit it off. I go to FL as often as I can but do not count that as sex travel. More like vacation in a place where there are a lot of fun people. If Tammy and I hit if off, I would not hesitate to drive that far. I love tiny hineys...


NrthnVADragon 59M
198 posts
3/6/2015 9:02 am

Furthest I have deliberatly driven for sex would be about 700 miles, to a BASH where I was certain I would get laid by someone, and wasnt disapointed either, by my opposite sex roommate, as well as 3 gals as part of a 3 cpl orgy. AND, another at the end of the BASH, arranged by a mutual friend who knew we were both interested in the other person, and as a bonus, another gal on my way home whom invited me to stop for an overnite rest (not much rest but lotsa fun) . Have generally been willing to drive 100 miles (depending on the cost of gas) and 150 miles not out of the possibility range.


hightops40 43M
89 posts
5/20/2015 12:44 pm

I drove 6 hours. Granted it was my GF from back in the day.


Summerheat77 59M  
29 posts
11/28/2015 2:42 am

I have driven two hours for fun. I have also driven 2 and had a girl stand me up. Some sick game


senecaguy2 59M
340 posts
1/26/2016 5:15 pm

It depends on rapport developed. I have flown cross country multiple times for different girls plus there have been multiple times both the girl and I have flown to meet somewhere like Las Vegas and Denver and Phoenix and Fort Lauderdale.


u2rxz 51M  
1 post
2/8/2016 10:24 pm

3 to 4 hour flight.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3754 posts
6/2/2016 8:22 am

During the days of $3 & $4 a gallon gas, 50 miles was about my max. Now, in the last year, 100 miles one way has been my max, but am open to more, if am sure of the result at the end of the drive. LOL, I once flew across the Gulf Of Mex & part of the Caribbean for a weeks worth of funn, and besides the gal who invited me to stay with her and be at her 'beck & call", I got to indulge in funn with several other gals while there, all tourists out for a 1 time things, as was I ! A trip I will never forget !


rm_tnazzman4U 46M
5 posts
8/24/2016 11:17 pm

I dont think that time is always good indicator because, as you well know Tammy, you can drive for an hour here and make it 5-6 miles. However, on 10 in Texas, an hour CAN get you a LOT further. Me personally, about 50 miles (1hr), depending on time, is the most I have ever gone. Thats why, in my younger better looking days, I always tried to keep 1-2 FWB within about 30-45 min


DDreams524 68M  
1170 posts
5/28/2018 10:46 am

I have driven up to 6 hours for meet up and very sexy weekend over a 3 day holiday. If the chemistry and passion is right.


RAL2938 63M  
11 posts
11/3/2018 6:31 pm

I hitchhiked from Pittsburgh PA to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri in the late 70's... And yes, I would have done it again... While it did not work out in the long term, it has left me with many wonderful memories...


PrivatelyPassion 42M

3/16/2019 9:36 am

I've driven two hours to meet up with a girl. Of course we had an established chemistry over the phone. And personality matters. Sometimes a little distance makes it more exciting and a chance to talk during the drive.


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