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More and More BS?  

tammykup 34F
102 posts
2/28/2014 8:59 pm
More and More BS?

Lately I've seen a ton of statuses about people being BS and not responding to emails. Now I'm not talking about the 47 year old overweight single male that's not getting any replies. Not to be mean or anything, but do you really think anyone is gonna want to meet you? I'm just being honest.

I'm not talking about couples either because that's a whole other complication. Everyone has to be attracted to each other to meet and blah blah chemistry blah blah if we click blah blah. People over-complicate meeting on this site, especially the older crowd.

I swear I see so many older single women saying, "I need essence, romance, and chemistry with a man. Blah blah blah." I'm just like, you're on the wrong site hun. And they wonder why they don't meet anyone on here. E-Harmony is that a way.

People on this site lack common sense. Guys, do you think a photo of your up-close dick and sex laden messages are going to get you laid? No. Ladies, do you think having extremely high standards and wanting that one fwb with all your favorite qualities are going to make you happy on here? No. Couples, if your man isn't exactly that good-looking, do you expect a single female to jump in bed with you two? No.

I feel like if you're looking for a fwb, you might as well leave this site because your chances of finding ONE that will just be with you only are slim to none. Take your ass to POF or to the bar scene or whatever.

I hate getting messages from females and couples saying "lets meet for drinks to see how we click" or "lets talk on the phone to see how we vibe." For what?! If you're goal is to get me in bed with you, why waste my time with mindless conversation in person? There's no problem with talking on here or IM to "get to know each other" and if we agree to meet then we meet. It is so simple people. Don't over-complicate it.

sphxdiver 70M  
21075 posts
2/28/2014 9:10 pm

You make some very valid points!

thruiner 29M
3 posts
3/12/2014 10:25 pm

I think that's the most intelligent thing I've read on this site! Thank you for that lol you are beautiful by the way! beauty and brains? no, really what's wrong with you?

SoCalZach87 33M

3/19/2014 12:04 am

It's really been insanely hard to meet women on here as opposed to 3-4 years ago when I had my first profile. I definitely get turned down a lot more than before as well and my looks have literally changed by maybe 1-3%. Same physique, same hygiene and grooming, only difference is I'm not as tan as I was before. And it's not the getting turned down that bothers me, its how so. I get replies that are literally in this fashion "Ummmm NO!!!" Was that necessary? Anyways...

Secondly, the whole meeting up thing has become waaay more complicated than meeting up with people in the "normal" world outside of here. As you put it, if you're attracted to me and vice-versa let's meet for sex. That's what this is for...but every female wants me to stimulate their mind and emotions as if we're pursuing a serious relationship. The whole point of this site is to cut through the bullshit and do what we want, which is to fuck people we're attracted to without the whole wine and dine stuff involved. Why must I take time to court you for days, even weeks to prove I'm "worthy" of the almighty pearl between your legs. At times this site becomes more of a hassle than "normal dating"

Also going back to the whole insane standards women have on here and at times, they are women who aren't quite 10's either but of course dare I say she should lower her standards to her own equivalency, cause that would make me a misogynist.

Three to four years ago, with the women and couples I met, we literally would meet the next day we were both free after we got in touch, sometimes even the day of. We would met, fuck each other's brains out, then went about our lives, and if it was really good we did it on a more consistent basis. But oh well, I guess the times change and just gotta adapt.

Sometimes you buy the bar, sometimes the bar buys you.

tomcat0107 39M
8 posts
3/19/2014 3:56 pm

Ah... the good ol days.

pinksteronprowel 51F
6 posts
4/4/2014 3:40 pm

Girl, your so right!!!! every single word. Well put & thnx 4 being 1 with great sense & words.

MrAmazingInBedd 39M
1 post
6/20/2014 5:42 pm

Dead on with this one !!! Some people just dont get it

NubianDC 52M
224 posts
7/11/2014 6:08 pm

Bravo! Well said.

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...

Gentlebill11111 59M
3 posts
7/14/2014 12:02 am


NubianDC 52M
224 posts
9/23/2014 4:05 pm

LOL. was going to comment on this but saw that I had already done so. Either way very well said and common sense goes a long way. Keep expectations realistic and come here to have fun. Don't take anything, including yourself too serious and you'll have a good time.

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...

fun4meanduinva 50M  
43 posts
10/24/2014 10:01 pm

Actually had someone call me a slut on here. After we hooked up. Funny thing is she knows some of the others. What I don't understand, considering what I've put on my profile, how anyone can mistake what I'm here for. I'm pretty fucking blunt about it.

^5 lady. Nice to see a woman with the same mindset.

rm_thebgman4u99 52M
3 posts
3/8/2016 8:18 pm

I'm 47, fat AND bald....damn, I'm really screwed!

TheSecretNibbler 51M  
24 posts
8/2/2016 3:18 pm

.. lol.. me too, but there's hope. My sub is 21, gorgeous, and insatiable... dunno how it happened.. but there's hope.

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