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My Day
Posted:Nov 17, 2018 11:15 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2018 4:56 pm

Good early morning. I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I know I'm ready for another one.

So, it's officially my birthday. I turned 62 after midnight.

I usually take a trip on my birthday through thanksgiving. Last year I did not.
I said, I wouldn't let that happen again.

Wrong, I did. Here I am. Next year, I promise you, I will be on a vacation.
Hotel sex
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 5:45 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2018 11:09 pm

Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. looking for mine.

A couple of you have screwed up. That is all.

Some of you know a traveler. With that being said, used to hotel sex.

That could be a good thing, or not.

Hotel sex, seems more sexy.

Sneaky. Forbidden.

It's like you are on continuous vacation.

No worries. Enjoy.

I love hotel sex. When I stop running, i will still enjoy hotel sex with my partner.

Make some smiles.
My smile
Posted:Oct 19, 2018 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2018 5:48 pm



Sometimes I want to say, what the fuck are you thinking.
Posted:Oct 6, 2018 9:27 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2018 4:11 am

good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It's been a month. That's way too long for me.

That should be rectified tomorrow.

So it seems, I get several messages a day from both AdultFriendFinder and the vanilla site. With that being said, I would rather meet someone over a drink. But, meet n greets don't happen like my mind thanks they should.

It's great to receive messages. But it's daunting to answer all the messages, especially with a pleasant answer.

I really want to say, what the fuck are you thinking, or doing.

For me, anyone under 50, is younger than I'm interested in. What I don't understand are the 19 to 25 year olds. In my mind, I'm looking at you like you are 12. I don't do boys. I'm just saying, not even for a one time thing.

Distance is another thing. For me, it didn't matter. But for most of you men, it's again a one night thing. Im not the one looking, you are.

I did do 2 meet and greets, it's been crap, 2 months ago when I was home. Both lived almost 2 hours away. There again, if it was a one time thing it would be doable.

I also did 2 meet and greets last month. Both nice guys, just didn't get the I want to fuck the hell out of you reaction. Damn.

One guy spoke to me for the two weeks I was off, never asked for a meet n greet. It was a last minute invite on a Saturday. I was out. I saw him at a club the following Saturday, where I was. He never saw me. Then he was all over wanting to meet, after I left the club. Too late. I told him, you could have asked for a meet.

I find if you men live even an hour away, it's an issue for you. You either want to come by my house, or want me to go to your house. Like some thought just because I spoke to them briefly on line. Not me.

Then, I have the men that want pictures, or to text, or talk.

A few couples, with the man especially interested.

That leaves the attached ones. They think they can have a FWB relationship. For me it doesn't work, unless you can come and go at free will.

Oh my God, I know there are awesome cool men out there. I guess it's just the timing. Or, the right place at the right time.

We all are on these sites for our own agenda. As long as both parties are happy that is all that matters.

Thank God, I'm making changes in my life. It may take the next couple months to get things ironed out, but change is coming. Yaaaay.

Until then, happy smile making.
Do we need a title
Posted:Aug 28, 2018 9:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2018 9:21 pm

Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I haven't had one since my last blog. But that is on me.

This is the second time writing this blog. You have to love technology. Evidentally when you don't have a title to the blog, it doesn't post. Then it goes into lala land on my device.

I have been working on the road the passed 7 weeks. I didn't make any attempt to hook up.

I did try with one of the guys on the job site, but he was clueless until the last day, go figure.

I have had so much little things going on, from a tooth I found put needs to be pulled, my roof needs to be fixed again, I have an attorney appointment, an eye doctor appointment, the van decided the window mechanism needed to tear up. The muffler pipe decided to separate from the muffler, the battery died last week on the road.

Plan B couldn't make it when I got home.

The other plan B is sick.

Meet and greets are nonexistent at the moment for different reasons, or some 20 year got his feeling hurt when I said no.

Did you hear the violin music loud.

That's been all my shit. Hey, on the upside, my grandson turned 1. You gotta love grandkids, it it's a good thing they go home.

The good thing is, all the shit I have going on is fixable. It just costs me. That I can live with.

Have a wonderful day, and work on that secret smile.

Thank God for plan B
Posted:Jul 3, 2018 7:57 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2018 8:14 am

[bold] Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there, and more than once.

I have been going through a mourning period, as I call it. My MO after a relationship breaks is to have a replacement the next day. I have done this for years. Not this time. My kind sh8t everything down. I thought it was my body, but no, that wasn't it.

The body is willing, what can I say playtime is relaxation and pleasure. Plan B and I finally got our schedules to match.

With that being said, one of my other plan B's that I had cut loose, had an opportunity to be plan B again. Maybe that's a good thing for right now.

On another note, it's great to see a blogger friend back. He's been back for a lol while. I enjoyed reading his exploits. McManiac, I missed you.

Have a great day.
Maybe I should consider it a compliment
Posted:Jun 3, 2018 11:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2018 7:43 am

Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure could use one. But that is on me.

I wil be as short a I can about updating you on my life. I so wanted to not work for the Man (corporate america), and have what I call control over my way to earn a living. Unfortunately, for the next few months, I will be under the Man's thumb yet.

I did go back to work for my old boss, but I am no longer the boss of anyone, but myself. That works for me, it makes my job less stressfull. This is the first time in 20 years I have been just a worker.

Although I enjoy traveling, I have also missed that lil wipper snapper that came into our lives in August. The lil man who has his grandmothers heart. He has unconditional love for me. He dos his job very well.

One more life event for me, and then the blog. I'm not involved with anyone more than superficially at the moment. That is a change that has been quite rough, especially when the heart and mind don't like the change. Time eventually makes things a lil easier to accept.

If you got through all that good for you.

Finally my blog thoughts. One of the cool things about any dating site, sex or vanilla, is.... you can make it what you want.

I do not choose to use any site for one time sex. I can do that anywhere, any time in person, and I have my preferable places to do that.

I realized I was getting insulted by all the boys (yes I said boys), and men looking for that quicky sex. Evidentally on line is their prefered way to pick up strays.

With that being said, I can spin it in one of 2 ways and still make it seem positive.

1. you think I am hot, and sought out me out.

2. you don't give a shit who you fuck as long as it looks like a female, and you sought me out.

Whatever approach works to get some pussy, good for you.

Just because it's not what I prefer I shouldn't take it as an insult. I will say thanks and move to the next.

That's it actually short and sweet. I hope you have a wonderful day, and happy playing.
Because I travel, part 2
Posted:Apr 12, 2018 2:16 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2018 4:52 pm

Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I actually have not had in 2 months now. That's another blog.

When my was 18, she decided to go on the road and do the same kind of work I do.

She stayed with it for 12 years , when she informed me she was quitting. She wanted a relationship and she felt she needed to be in one place for it. It took 2 years but she did it. She did meet him on line though.

I believe she was right in her points about being a traveler. You men look at us differently, like we are temporary. We are not, and that is sad.

I liken it to when I didn't date men because they smoked, you miss out on so many interesting people.

The thing that pissed me off a couple weeks ago, was that the men I was hoping to meet, came off as dumb asses to me.

One wanted to meet for drinks, but he wanted to park where ever, and make out. He said he really felt he needed to play with my tits and pussy to see if we were compatible, yes seriously.

Another would not meet me until I told him I liked his picture, and I was going to be fucking him later.

Another actually set up a meet and greet. I surprised him a day early at lunch. We met for that 45 minutes. The next day, he wanted to cancel the actuall meet n greet and have me come straight to the house for sex. I did like him, and would have liked to pursue more with him.

I had a couple more talking to me at the same time. Nobody wanting to give me a minute, everything had to be imidiate.

I asked of them would you want to make a local woman park and do all that. The answer was of course not.

That week, really opened my eyes up. I just wish you guys were sincere and up front, that is all. Just because I am a traveler, don't discount me. You missed out on a cool person.

I hae had some personal things going on the past couple of weeks. I promise I will blog about them. I may want some advice.

Have a wonderful day.
It is because I travel, part 1
Posted:Apr 2, 2018 8:48 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2018 11:02 am

Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I don't have one, simply for the reason I need to make some changes.

My hip surgery was a complete sucess, and although I had entertained visions of not returning to work, I had to.

I went back to work with one of my previous companies, and yes it involves the same kind or work, and travel. Except, I am not going to be a boss. Yay.

With that being said, I started changing my location here and on the vanilla site. Things went totally crazy when I did.

There were so many responses, I couldn't handle them. I was spending hours navigating messages from men. Only to be dissappointed in the end.

I seemed to find the same when I changed locations again, only with a new city of men. Again, the end results were the same, just a different city.

I am home this week, and things have got back to normal.

Here are a couple things I did discover from this experience from talking with some of you. This is not all, but I shall say a majority, because I did ask some of you when I spoke to you on the phone.

From my perspective no matter what site, because I am a traveler, many of you thought it was just about quick sex, even though what i was looking for up front was discussed and posted.

I realize many of you look at pictures and do not read profiles.

What disappointed me the most was, even though I do travel, I am looking for that long term relationship. I do however know we start somewhere. I am willing to settle for friends with benefits until someone that clicks with me is looking for the same thing.

I do know that everyone uses the on line sites for different situations from pen pals, picture exchange, skyping, sexting, phone sex, one night stands, friends with benefits, short term, long term, temporary, kinks, or actually marriage, plus whatever I didn't mention.

All of those reasons are valid, as long as the 2 people involved are on the same page.

I believe even though I travel if the man is actually serious, a relationship will work. When I am involved with that person, I will most certainly do what it takes to have a relationship, including changing jobs.

What I found however from the majority of the men that contact me, is that they want a fuck and run. I don't know how many times I need to say, I do not use on line for just sex. I actually can make a phone call for that. And even then, I keep it regular, unless I let my self get needy and my fb is not available, I can always find a stray. But I can do that in person not on line.

I did meet many potential men that were my physical type, but when it came down to it, they were wanting the hook up only.

Since this is getting longer then I prefer, I will continue it in my next blog.

I hope you had a wonderful Easter, and I hope you are enjoying your day.
it's been a month
Posted:Mar 31, 2018 6:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2018 8:49 am

Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I definitely am working on mine. I seem to be slipping lately for what ever reason.

I decided to go back to work before my doc released me. I had a chance to work with one of my previous companies. I made a phone call, and was out working within 3 days with a couple of guys that used to work for me.

I actually enjoyed the work. It puts me in one place for a 2 week period, and the work is much easier, especially that I am not the boss. yay.

I was released to work officially and am back on my company's payroll as of this week. I plan on trying it out for a couple weeks, then turn in my 2 week notice.

I just have to make sure I can get health insurance, which I am checking into this week, while at home. Let's keep our fingers crossed i get it, then I will feel more confident things will work out, until I take my social security.

With that being said, I have changed my profile location to each new area I land for the 2 weeks. That has caused some crazy shit.

That will be the premise of my blog next time.

I hope you have a wonderful day, and a happy easter weekend with your family and friends.
I feel like a whiner
Posted:Feb 25, 2018 1:17 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2018 6:29 am

Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile onyour face. I still have mine from friday night.

I feel like a whiner. With that being said, I'm going to try to put a positive spin on the past couple weeks.

The hip was replaced with much success, I am even able to wear heels again. They look great with the stockings I enjoy wearing.

So, I have been home for a month, and there hasn't been any significant progress in the relationhip status. That at least makes the fuck buddy happy, he gets phone calls.

Don't get me wrong, I have had more meet n greets then I could imagine.

With that being said, nothing more has happened with anybody new.

The guy that said he had 3 months to get to me, keeps coming up with excuses about meeting.

As of last night, the tally is up to 2, of you guys that want me to be the driver, to pick you up and so on.

Someone I was very interested in has canceled 2 times already.

I have had a couple men I did meet, that were very nice, but I wasn't interested in them. I will give them kuddos.

And the rest that have contacted me, just want to hook up for sex at the moment.

When I was working and traveling on a weekly basis, I had so many complain I wasn't home. I believe that was an excuse.

I have been home since christmas, and like I said nothing has developed. Not even a frigging friends with benefits thing. I'm like, what the hell.

Anyhow, I'm still here. I can't wait for the next excuse, or story, or whatever some of you come up with.

I will say, I have had several of you on both sites talking to me from several states away. Who knows maybe we will meet eventually.

I'm up for an adventure.

Have a great evening.
more meet and greets
Posted:Feb 24, 2018 11:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2018 7:08 am

Good afternoon I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.

I'm using my company computer. I left my tablet at a friends house. I hope this doesn't bite me in the ass.

So, I'm behind on the meet n greet stories.

Meet n greet number 3, was good. I don't think he was that in to me or he had an agenda that did not match mine.

Meet n greet number 4. I'm actually quite behind on posting these.

I met this guy because he is my initial type. I did like some of the pics he had posted. I was uncertain as to his body type since he just had face pics posted.

We all have body types we like or prefer. I try to be gentle with discussing body types. I do have a couple deal breakers.

After I met him, I was not intrested. He was nice and all, but I wasn't attracted.

One thing he did the whole time we were out, that aggravated me, was that he was so sexual. I am not there to take care of you being horny on a meet and greet.

After we left the club, he drove across the parking lot, and wanted to neck. I'm ok with kissing, it is a meet n greet, and we do need to at least do the kiss.

He's the one that said well, can I play with your tits. mmmmm, I spent about 60 minutes with you, and you were not my body type. I'm surely not making out, or letting you touch my tits in a truck in a parking lot.

I'm not a person that parks and makes out, especially on a meet and greet, and especially if we are not finishing what we start.

Don't get me wrong, I like to neck and make out, if I know you, and we are going to finish it. There are also people you meet and you both want to rip each others clothes off. I love those meet and greets, but that is far and in between.

Needless to say, I did not see him again.

For me, if it involves sex when we first meet, let me be the one to initiate when I am ready. If I'm not interested, you are not getting anywhere.

Have a wonderful day, and get that secret smile there.
It's a Hallmark holiday
Posted:Feb 13, 2018 10:38 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2018 7:10 am

good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I did manage last week.

My hip is wonderful. I'm pretty much released for anything. But I told the doc to keep me on my fmla as long as my company allowed.

So this is exactly what I think of this holiday.

I have a new name for it. Pick whatever you think is appropriate.

Happy I fucked you over, and I'm taking care of it day.

Happy obligation day.

Or, number , happy forgiveness day.

Last but not least, it's a Hallmark holiday. So buy that person whatever the hell you want because you care about them.

Have a good evening.

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