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thegrlsnme 63F  
2479 posts
7/16/2016 8:55 am
Dammed if you do


Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I have a smile, but it's not secret.

I had a meet n greet the other day. One, I definitely should have missed.

He messaged me that morning saying lunch at 11:45. I will let you know where.

At 11:45 he's there, and he let's me know where.

I took a wrong exit. There is a huge amount of construction. I had to go up a couple exits to turn around. By this time he's texting, where are you.

Then he wants to cancel until he finds out how close I was. All he had to do was let me know 15 minutes before he got there, and I would have been there on time.

He slammed me for that. I'm already thinking, what did I get myself into.

I said I would have met him for a beer if he was pushed for time.

He slammed me again. I should have left at that point.

I learned within 2 minutes, I was dammed if I sat there with my mouth shut, and dammed if I said anything.

When it came time to order, I thought fuck it, i ordered a glass of wine and a new York strip. Like I said a beer would have worked for me.

My steak was cooked mediam well instead of medium rare. He was like there's nothing wrong with it. He says well my chicken might be overcooked too. He had me second guessing getting a recook. I politely asked for a recook, and the server took care of it, telling me she had made a mistake. He then goes oh, you were right I took up for you.

He kept letting me know how many material possessions he had, and how many important people he knew.

He kept asking when the last time I had sex.

Right before he left, I said I had sex last night..........he evidently thought I was desperate for some reason.

The thing is, I did the night before, and I neglected to tell him I was having it again that same night.

It went like this until he finally decided to leave.

Yet, he let me know how crappy my life was when he finally left. I stayed and finished my wine.

What pissed me off, was I was sitting there second guessing myself.

Knowing no matter what I did, I was the bad guy.

It just left a bad taste in my mouth, that's all. I hope he felt good about himself.

I always say, things happen for a reason. We were meant to meet.

Thank God it was only for a short time.

Thank God not all men are like him.

Have a great day.


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


HDSoftail20067 53M  
250 posts
7/16/2016 8:56 am

Patience is a sign of a great lover. Keep smiling!


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 9:03 am

    Quoting HDSoftail20067:
    Patience is a sign of a great lover. Keep smiling!
Not one of my best virtues, although I have learned.........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


txslowpoke 67M  
2527 posts
7/16/2016 9:12 am

wasnt yur fault dont give it a second thought


golosa1115 58F
1066 posts
7/16/2016 9:14 am

Wow sounds like a few that I have met either by obligation or just in error. Yes some times it seems that we are suppose to be hookers lol w/o the pay. They want as there on point and willing to do what ever they wish. Mostly at no cost to them. Not even an ounce of free water. I learned to carry my cold bottle of water or put some vodka In my cranberry juice. So I can at least feel some joy and less tense that is meeting someone new. You're good, when he said cancel until he knew how close I was, I would've said oops just got a call, my booty call from last night wants to go to the movies. So I am sorry for wasting your precious time. But youre right not everyone is bad. I met quite a lot of nice guys, some I wish were still around. But have been lucky to move on to a better and real place. Happy wknd


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 9:15 am

    Quoting txslowpoke:
    wasnt yur fault dont give it a second thought
I know, but I sat there for a minute after he left, replaying everything. Like I said, he had me questioning myself. Thanks.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 11:01 am

    Quoting golosa1115:
    Wow sounds like a few that I have met either by obligation or just in error. Yes some times it seems that we are suppose to be hookers lol w/o the pay. They want as there on point and willing to do what ever they wish. Mostly at no cost to them. Not even an ounce of free water. I learned to carry my cold bottle of water or put some vodka In my cranberry juice. So I can at least feel some joy and less tense that is meeting someone new. You're good, when he said cancel until he knew how close I was, I would've said oops just got a call, my booty call from last night wants to go to the movies. So I am sorry for wasting your precious time. But youre right not everyone is bad. I met quite a lot of nice guys, some I wish were still around. But have been lucky to move on to a better and real place. Happy wknd
I was only going to have a beer until he started being an ass. I went for a couple glasses of wine and a new York strip.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 11:15 am

    Quoting TheFunAsexual:
    To be honest he sounds like a massive jerk. Seriously, why not let you know the location in time? The nerve he has to get mad at you when you're late! Jeezzz... Asshole. I wanna punch him in the face for you now.
I wanted to punch him. He said he's the one running the show, not me. I'm like, ok........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 11:17 am

    Quoting  :

He never got out of the starting gate........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


elf123 69M  
96 posts
7/16/2016 11:42 am

Hey luv, good thing that you were not packing, some times patience is not all is cracked up to be, but you sure are going straight to heaven. /d


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 1:07 pm

    Quoting elf123:
    Hey luv, good thing that you were not packing, some times patience is not all is cracked up to be, but you sure are going straight to heaven. /d
The 380 is loaded in the glove compartment. .......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


kzoopair 69M/67F
25742 posts
7/16/2016 7:01 pm

I think I'd have told him I just pulled a train in the alley- after he'd paid for the steak. Fucking dickhead.

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thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/16/2016 9:19 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I think I'd have told him I just pulled a train in the alley- after he'd paid for the steak. Fucking dickhead.
Hell no, I told him before he paid for the check. It was the third time he asked, so I looked him straight in the eye and said last night..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


Resident_Bitch 103M/103F
9132 posts
7/17/2016 3:34 am

Yep, that's why I used to have 'damned' in my username.....seems all I got where idiots never appreciative of the way I am but constantly finding faults and making complaints...

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thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/19/2016 2:50 pm

    Quoting Resident_Bitch:
    Yep, that's why I used to have 'damned' in my username.....seems all I got where idiots never appreciative of the way I am but constantly finding faults and making complaints...
Thank god I don't run into too many..?...........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/19/2016 2:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Yepper, it was the steak and the beer.........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


karmamdA 61M
311 posts
8/18/2016 6:32 am

Lose the loser anytime you like to meet I would love to meet you Jackson Michigan Area


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/20/2016 1:26 pm

    Quoting karmamdA:
    Lose the loser anytime you like to meet I would love to meet you Jackson Michigan Area
I appreciate it but I'm not driving to Michigan. I Drive enough as it is for work......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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