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thegrlsnme 63F  
2478 posts
7/1/2016 8:19 am
Do any of you...continued


Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Wouldn't it be wonderful at this time of the day.

Tresennui responded to my blog post, "do any of you". I happen to wander to her site and read one of her post "trials and tribulations of an affair".

The post was very good, and she had some excellent responses as well.

This made me think about this particular relationship because it is probably the most important one to me at the moment.

I am currently involved in more than a couple of FWB relationships. For the most part, until I end up in a monogamous relationship I will continue my FWB relationships. They work for me.

I have been involved for the past 4 years with an attached man. When I first met him and for almost a year, I did not know he was attached. Unfortunately, I allowed my heart to get involved.

I know now, and I have chosen to continue the relationship. I got in contact with him the night of my knee surgery a year ago. He responded back and we haven't quit since that day.

From my standpoint I totally enjoyed spending time with his man. We talk and laugh for hours, we do other things as well, and the play time is so fantastic.

Would I like it to be something different, yes I would. Will it ever be, one never knows. I do know that things happen in a blink of an eye.

I do know that life moves quickly, and we should be happy. I like to see him laugh and smile and he likes to see me laugh and smile.

I am willing to take what time I can get with him. Will I wake up one day and think something different, who knows.

I do know I'm the single one. It makes me feel sad to think of it ending.

I am doing this with my eyes open, I am seeing others and have been the whole time. Hopefully someone will walk into my life looking for the same thing I am and we can be cohabitors.

I do know, one of the hardest things about being involved with an attached person, is knowing they are going home to somebody else, and you are going home by yourself. You want to be that person they go home to.

It does not bother me to know that some of my other FWB maybe going home to somebody. I kept my heart in a box concerning them.

Sometimes I question what I'm doing. Like I did the last day or two.

But one of my best girlfriends in life, who is going through dialysis right now said Linda as long as you are happy with him, enjoy it as much as you can.

I plan on doing that.

After all, tomorrow is not promised to anybody.


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


1deeptouch 74F  
103 posts
7/1/2016 8:25 am

It's all about being in your truth and the honesty between you.


Funonthenet 44M

7/1/2016 8:33 am

Good read


Han54boat 67M
11662 posts
7/1/2016 8:46 am

That is the only problem for me knowing they are going home to their partner.
I do believe enjoying the one who you are with, especially having fun and happy. You never knows when it goes in the other direction. Great memories is great to have.


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HDSoftail20067 53M  
250 posts
7/1/2016 9:10 am

Excellent words. Enjoy life and the adventures that go with it!


justskin1 68M
11759 posts
7/1/2016 9:37 am

I had an affair with a married woman once. The chemistry was explosive both mentally and physically. The hardest part was not knowing that that she was going home to another but the sneaking. Actually the worst was being unable to call her. Texting was precarious too. For various reasons mainly family and grandchildren she stayed with her husband. We broke it off several times and when we ran into each other by accident it was back to bed and long talks. I have decided that if I ever have an affair with an attached woman again her husband has to know and be ok with it.
PS I do not regret having it for the memories are priceless. Still the chemistry was so good she has spoiled me for an ordinary lover.


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thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:34 pm

    Quoting 1deeptouch:
    It's all about being in your truth and the honesty between you.
Yes, it is.?..........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:36 pm

Thank you, I appreciate the comment. .....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:37 pm

Thanks, I appreciate you reading and commenting. ....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:39 pm

    Quoting  :

That's great you are not a jealous person.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:41 pm

    Quoting Han54boat:
    That is the only problem for me knowing they are going home to their partner.
    I do believe enjoying the one who you are with, especially having fun and happy. You never knows when it goes in the other direction. Great memories is great to have.
I love making memories with anybody. If you are single and care for them it is. If you're attached you can't be. He knows I see other men.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:45 pm

    Quoting  :

He is involved in two relationships he's not going to be completely honest with either one of us. There are a lot of circumstances as well that I do know about from the crew that work with him. And no, the gf probably knows but she's being taken care of, why should she leave.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/1/2016 12:46 pm

    Quoting HDSoftail20067:
    Excellent words. Enjoy life and the adventures that go with it!
I find pleasure in every day, even when things don't go well. I am an optimist. There is always something good to smile about, after all you woke up today......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


elf123 69M  
96 posts
7/1/2016 12:58 pm

Well said and thought out, you should be a "shrink" and help the rest of this
world on single and geographical singles. All the best and a happy and safe 4th to you. /d


sphxdiver 70M  
21067 posts
7/1/2016 5:12 pm

Excellent post !

One never knows what tomorrow will bring, enjoy what you have, while you have it.


sylvainturcot 58M
81 posts
7/1/2016 10:05 pm

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thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/2/2016 6:43 am

    Quoting elf123:
    Well said and thought out, you should be a "shrink" and help the rest of this
    world on single and geographical singles. All the best and a happy and safe 4th to you. /d
Thanks, but if I had all the answers I wouldn't be sitting here by myself on this lovely Saturday morning of a holiday weekend by myself.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/2/2016 6:47 am

    Quoting  :

Probably the best choice for me would be to move on. I just haven't met anyone, that is looking for more then fwb, so here I am . I will enjoy and treasure every moment......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/2/2016 6:49 am

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    Excellent post !

    One never knows what tomorrow will bring, enjoy what you have, while you have it.
I treasure every moment. I know one day, hopefully someone will come along that wants more then friends with benefits......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
7/4/2016 5:16 am

    Quoting sylvainturcot:
    merci.pour.regardée.mes.blog.mature.feme.fantasme.histoir.fhoto.vidéo.rencontre.réalisée.xoxo.Do.any.of.you..continued.post.3848834
Whatever you said....thanks...thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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