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thegrlsnme 63F  
2478 posts
8/1/2016 4:10 pm
I got blocked, but that's ok


Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.

This is a little puzzling, and I don't know if any of you have had this happen to you.

I had a guy approach me on one of the other dating sites.

His opening line was I'm curious. Of course, I had to answer back.

He responded with another question.

In the back of my mind I knew what he was asking, and I didn't answer him the way he wanted me to.

No, I was not snarky, I replied responsibly, haha.

Needless to say, he blocked me. No explanations.

Regardless of, that was no reason to block me. But that's okay.

He could have handled it a little differently. But again like I said that's okay it's his business.

Have you had anything like that happen to you.

Because of all the questions, I'm going to explain this the best I can, with what Lil I know on the subject.

I have a very good friend that is a mistress in the bdsm world.

I am familiar with her role, as well as that of a slave. I knew by the way the questions were worded, he was wanting to know if I was a mistress.

I'm not, so he had to move along. One way of doing that may be a block. I have had a few other men totally stop talking to me, when they got a negative from me as well, with no explanation. Again, it was in that realm.

It also could have been a command by one of his doms.

Like I said I know a Lil about that world, but I'm not in it.

Have a great evening.


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


porterpiper1 53F
3755 posts
8/1/2016 6:09 pm

well that is a puzzle for me too.


cinnamon0133 28F

8/1/2016 6:51 pm

Another man being a fool

Treat Me Like A Angel And I Will Show You What Heaven Is Really Like


funsmartfriendly 52M/50F

8/1/2016 6:56 pm

Rejection sucks. No easier way to slice it.

The good news is there are compatible matches out there for you. Wouldn't give this situation any further thought.


Not_here2meet 52F
3843 posts
8/1/2016 7:09 pm

Oh, all kinds of people have blocked me, and I've blocked some. I think it's up to all of us, individually, to decide which people we "connect" with...whether that is sexually, emotionally, mentally, physically.

Happy Monday

Live life to it's fullest!

If you're bored, Read
Hugs
Gypsy


Will4funinbc9 60M
201 posts
8/1/2016 7:25 pm

The world is full of Ass holes and Dumd ass'.


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/1/2016 8:10 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh my, I have you fooled mac. .. I am not what he was looking for.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/1/2016 8:12 pm

    Quoting Sexy_SandraD:
    No, but I've had guys on this site say bad things about me in open forums after being rejected.
There will always be people like that anywhere......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/1/2016 8:18 pm

He was checking to see if I was a mistress. Im not.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


BrownEyedBBW 52F
8853 posts
8/1/2016 8:19 pm

I'm a bit unclear, do you think he as wrong to block you?

OK, a couple of questions. Can we assume that what he was asking you was related to meeting/dating/fucking/mutual interests/etc? Can we assume that your answer told him , "you and I are looking for different things" ?

I can think of a couple of good reasons to block you.

When I've exchanged a couple of messages with a man and it's clear there's no compatibility, I've blocked them at times. This way, I don't have to deal with them writing again in 2, 10, 20 weeks because they forgot they wrote me before. It sounds as though you weren't what he was looking for so he decided to just block you.

On the bright side, at least he didn't call you names.


s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
8/1/2016 11:29 pm

Why do you think they call it dope!
He was probably stoned and was thinking
of hostess gems.

Using more than all the road!


HDSoftail20067 53M  
250 posts
8/2/2016 5:02 am

Very weird! Glad you shrugged it off and kept on smiling! Nibbles!!!


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:46 am

Like I said, it's ok, he wasn't an ass, he asked to questions and that was it.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:47 am

    Quoting  :

You can't please them all.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:48 am

No, just looking for that one thing........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:49 am

    Quoting funsmartfriendly:
    Rejection sucks. No easier way to slice it.

    The good news is there are compatible matches out there for you. Wouldn't give this situation any further thought.
There was no reason to be upset on my part.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:49 am

    Quoting  :

Like I said, he wanted a certain thing.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:51 am

    Quoting Not_here2meet:
    Oh, all kinds of people have blocked me, and I've blocked some. I think it's up to all of us, individually, to decide which people we "connect" with...whether that is sexually, emotionally, mentally, physically.

    Happy Monday
Yes, it's all about the connection and what you are looking for.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:53 am

    Quoting Will4funinbc9:
    The world is full of Ass holes and Dumd ass'.
Like I said, he was look5for a certain tning, and I was not it. I have had a couple others in that world do the same thing. Bdsm........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:54 am

    Quoting  :

No harm, no foul, the guy wasn't rude, just blocked me.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:56 am

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    I'm a bit unclear, do you think he as wrong to block you?

    OK, a couple of questions. Can we assume that what he was asking you was related to meeting/dating/fucking/mutual interests/etc? Can we assume that your answer told him , "you and I are looking for different things" ?

    I can think of a couple of good reasons to block you.

    When I've exchanged a couple of messages with a man and it's clear there's no compatibility, I've blocked them at times. This way, I don't have to deal with them writing again in 2, 10, 20 weeks because they forgot they wrote me before. It sounds as though you weren't what he was looking for so he decided to just block you.

    On the bright side, at least he didn't call you names.
He was looking for a mistress, a dom. I have a friend that is a mistress. I know a Lil about her world. She keeps trying to take me along. When he asked the questions the way he did, I knew what he was asking. Depending on if you are a dom or a slave, you have different rules.........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/2/2016 5:57 am

    Quoting HDSoftail20067:
    Very weird! Glad you shrugged it off and kept on smiling! Nibbles!!!
I will take the nibbles........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


MissCinders 55F
1526 posts
8/3/2016 1:57 pm

When I chat with someone and its apparent that it just isnt going to work, I hate to say it, but I have to block them. Even if the conversation ends nicely. If I don't block them, they do come back weeks later in hopes that I have come to my senses and changed my mind. Umm, no. That's where the name calling starts.


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/3/2016 5:14 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    When I chat with someone and its apparent that it just isnt going to work, I hate to say it, but I have to block them. Even if the conversation ends nicely. If I don't block them, they do come back weeks later in hopes that I have come to my senses and changed my mind. Umm, no. That's where the name calling starts.
That makes sense. We all have our reasons we block people.....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/10/2016 10:45 pm

    Quoting BrownEyedBBW:
    I'm a bit unclear, do you think he as wrong to block you?

    OK, a couple of questions. Can we assume that what he was asking you was related to meeting/dating/fucking/mutual interests/etc? Can we assume that your answer told him , "you and I are looking for different things" ?

    I can think of a couple of good reasons to block you.

    When I've exchanged a couple of messages with a man and it's clear there's no compatibility, I've blocked them at times. This way, I don't have to deal with them writing again in 2, 10, 20 weeks because they forgot they wrote me before. It sounds as though you weren't what he was looking for so he decided to just block you.

    On the bright side, at least he didn't call you names.
I was not upset. He was looking for a certain thing, which I knew when he asked the question the way he did.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
8/10/2016 10:47 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Why do you think they call it dope!
    He was probably stoned and was thinking
    of hostess gems.
I bet he had sex on his mind, haha........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


lyavu 47F  
1374 posts
8/27/2016 8:36 pm

Gal I will say this. There many dicks on here. if I guy blocks me which has happened before I move on. His loss may be that's a sign he ain't good.


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