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I turned down sex again  

thegrlsnme 63F  
2478 posts
6/21/2016 6:03 am
I turned down sex again


Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.

One of my favorite Hotels is in Dayton Ohio. The Bars attached and it's an awesome pick up bar, if you choose.

For two nights, I was hanging out with a group of four people. Enjoying ourselves. My last night there one of the guys and I were sitting outside and he looked at me and he said so are you coming to my room or not.

I looked at him and I said not. He looked at me with a puzzled look, and said so you're turning me down, like I insulted him.

This almost sounds like it could be part of my I'm not desperate blog. Anyway I told him yes I was turning him down.

I knew he had a girlfriend, and he was at least 20 years younger than me. But what really mattered, i wasn't attracted to him. I wasn't even flirting with him and I really had no intention of touching him, no matter how horny I was.

Don't get me wrong, I really wanted play time but I was not looking. And I guess I didn't want it bad enough because I turned him down.

Im at a place in my life that I'm just not looking for that one night stand.

I'm not saying it may not happen again in the future but that's not what I'm wanting at the moment.


Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


HDSoftail20067 53M  
250 posts
6/21/2016 7:05 am

Quality of a playmate always the right choice


oralinatlanta 66M  
111 posts
6/21/2016 7:24 am

Like you said, you were not attracted to him. Could have been the age difference, his physical appearance, or just that there was no chemistry. When everything clicks, then it doesn't matter if it is one night or the rest of your life. You'll want to have sex with him.

Wayne


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
6/22/2016 4:28 am

Most of the time........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
6/22/2016 4:28 am

    Quoting  :

I know, but I like my playtime as well.........thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
6/22/2016 4:31 am

    Quoting oralinatlanta:
    Like you said, you were not attracted to him. Could have been the age difference, his physical appearance, or just that there was no chemistry. When everything clicks, then it doesn't matter if it is one night or the rest of your life. You'll want to have sex with him.

    Wayne
Sometimes, I think it's how horny I am as well. But for even a stray, I have to have some sort of attraction.

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
6/22/2016 4:33 am

    Quoting damnedvixen:
    Clearly he assumed you would be flattered a 'youngster' was inviting you and you'd be gagging for it.....sounds like it would have been an unpleasant experience all round....and possibly a messy aftermath with girlfriend at some point....
I agree with your thoughts,. I think he thought I was Gung to jump right on it..his voice said it all when he looked at me and said, so, are you turning me down, like I insulted him.......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 63F  
1683 posts
6/22/2016 4:33 am

    Quoting  :

Ahhhhhh, but they do have their place, and they can be fun every so often......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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