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tresennui 65F  
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11/25/2016 4:40 pm

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Dicks & Pussy

Unless you have your content filter set to "no nudity" as soon as you sign in you see a multitude of pornographic imagines - pictures and videos, both male and female.

Which makes me wonder, why is it that people (mainly women, though it seems many men agree) get offended by the written word? Why do women and men consider it rude and demeaning to receive an email that says "wanna fuck", but a friendly "hello" from, for example, a profile with a picture of a dick with thick, gooey cum dripping from it, or a couple engaged in anal sex acceptable?



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flowerkings2012 57M  
4262 posts
11/26/2016 3:32 pm

In some cases it's just another excuse to whine. WE know that there many social options on the site, we know despite the word friend that sales pitch is geared towards something else, and we know there is a content filter. Still it gives many a woman the option to moan on the blogs

If a woman sent me an email and asked to to fuck, I'd be flattered, regardless of whether it was a serious offer or not. I'd be less impressed if the offere was from a man!


proteus_2a 54M
7929 posts
11/26/2016 10:57 am

I find that this site is an actual cross section of the outside world my lady
With all the characteristics and mannerisms included
- bitching out, bad manners, poor taste, along
with more sincere or thoughtful behavior etc
So one focuses on what everyone feels like doing

Cheers - p


BiggLala 48F  
28781 posts
11/25/2016 8:54 pm

Personally, I don't get offended at a 'wanna fuck' message or even "would you like to lick and suck my dick" (yeah, received that one this morning from a complete stranger ), or a 'hello' message from a drippy cock. However, I don't find them particularly appealing either. Both communicate something to me about the person, and it's generally...'I'm not interested'.

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tresennui replies on 11/25/2016 9:54 pm:
Those kind of messages appeal to few women. I don't think men think they are going to get a "yes, babe, when do you want me" reponse when they send them. I think men who send those messages do it because it seems risque to them (just like showing their dicks) and turns them on even if it doesn't the recipient.

BrownEyedBBW 52F
8855 posts
11/25/2016 7:26 pm

You're assuming that people don't find the "sea o' genitalia" on the splash page offensive. There's a reason they implemented that filter you know.

The difference is kinda simple.

One one hand, you have a policy or environment that is set up a blind, faceless corporate entity that is strictly out for profits. Those are the profile pics people use, those are the pics that automatically get thrown on the splash page. It's an automated process.

On the other hand, you have a direct personal communication from one person to another. An unsolicited direct personal communication where the sender is hoping to initiate some kind of ongoing communication with the receiver. I'm sure you've gotten those messages, most of the ones I've gotten don't even bother to begin with "hi my name is John" or "I liked your profile" Nope, just "nice tits, wanna fuck".

Classy.

I expect a little more from a person who is contacting me for a potential meet than I do from a corporate splash page.


tresennui replies on 11/25/2016 10:10 pm:
In general if someone is truly wanting to actually meet they don't start communication with "wanna fuck". It's pretty much a given that it won't get a positive response.
I do not understand why would someone frequent a site that on each page says something like hook up, find sex, meet someone hot, etc. if they were offended by sexually explicit pictures and dialog, and ads for girls on cam and links to alt sites.

It's only a small percentage of site visitors who do more than look at cams and perv whatever pornographic material they can find at no cost. Even those that are here to blog often exhibit explicit pictures and most topics are sexually related. Discussions in chatrooms and groups also tend toward something sexually related...even if they start out otherwise.

I've developed a lot of relationships here that are not sexual in nature. But it is our common interest in and ease of being able to talk and joke about sex that got us to know each other in the first place.

redrockrascal 62M
21418 posts
11/25/2016 6:18 pm

From all the posts I've read here there is hardly anything a guy can say that would get him talked about. "Hello" is too short "wanna fuck" is too crude and writing something about a person's profile usually gets ignored. It seems to just be the luck of the draw when you actually say the "right" thing and end up meeting.

Thing is, I once received an initial message from a woman here which said "wanna play" (a.k.a. fuck). I thought it was a scam and "played along". She wasn't and we played.

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tresennui replies on 11/25/2016 10:18 pm:
If you don't take a chance, even with the occaional wanna fucks, you may never know if something good will come of it.

With all the gynelogical pictures and close up zoomed in videos there is no reason why every man should not know the details of the female anatomy and a variety of methods to make her feel very, very good.

sphxdiver 70M  
21071 posts
11/25/2016 5:35 pm

It may well be an adult site, but there's still such a thing as manners too.


tresennui replies on 11/25/2016 5:47 pm:
Would you be offended by an email written by a women to you saying they want to fuck you, or would you be amused, turned on, or feeling sorta happy someone finds you fuckable even if you doubt they mean it?

idblueswoman 62F  
757 posts
11/25/2016 5:29 pm

Truth be told I am offend by both options.


tresennui replies on 11/25/2016 5:42 pm:
May I ask why you are here and what activities you partake of n this site?

Janet4fun2016 59T  
897 posts
11/25/2016 5:16 pm

Isn't this an "Adult" dating site?


benard69 63M/63F  
5237 posts
11/25/2016 5:15 pm

Now see...Even in your pic they are both smiling....


sakisj 47M

11/25/2016 4:57 pm

Pictures offer no more than what you see. Words, on the other hand, are symbols that reflect whatever is in your imagination. If you have offensiveness on your mind, you'll be offended.

They ARE very cute, though.

Nerdy, self indulgent and fascinated by bright, shiny objects, but harmless...


NeedsNDeeds 51M
39 posts
11/25/2016 4:55 pm

Well people have their own perception of things and are generally not aware of their own biases.

Very difficult to understand what's going on in the other person's head and what their biases are.

Only thing we can be is compassionate to most points of view as long as they are only expressed and do not not become malignant action.


tresennui 65F  
2468 posts
11/25/2016 4:44 pm

Cute pussy and dick pic, isn't it?

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