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tresennui 65F  
2649 posts
11/27/2016 12:53 pm

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Do You Share?

More questions in a series of how people feel about their presence here on A F F.

I have referred a couple friends and even co-workers to A F F, but in general, when asked what dating site I frequent or met someone on I tend to say one that is not exactly vanilla...and not give specifics. I realize when googling AdultFriendFinder or when you sign in the site seems pornographic and there would be the possibility that my profile and pictures and blog may be seen by someone who does not understand the socialization aspect. I do not hide my lifestyle, but I am selective who I give details to.

How apt are you to share or suggest this site to a friend or colleague?
I have shared in the past, or will share in the future.
I will not share. I prefer to keep my prescence here or knowledge of this site a secret.

Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui

SirCumference8 56M
42 posts
1/22/2017 9:40 pm

As a general rule my LS life is completely separate from my vanilla life of work, family & community which many in the LS find kind of odd in that the industry I'm involved in one would believe it to be more accepting to the "lifestyle". I guess the main reason I separate the two is I've never had a reason or need to intertwine my two lives. If I were to bump into someone from my "non LS" world at a LS event I wouldn't act any differently due to the fact they two are in the same situation. Now how actively involved I'd get in their inner circle would probably be done with some hesitation initially.

tresennui replies on 1/26/2017 4:33 pm:
I've always felt if someone is somewhere and I am to there too no one can be judgemental. Still have to be somewhat careful about interaction with peopke you know outside of here or you encounter in a compromising setting. Just like getting involved with a co-worker or anyone you had previously just been friends with it can change your relationship. If the sex thing doesn't work out or you both have different feelings and/or expectations, it can get awkward.

Trapper69 63G  
2497 posts
12/7/2016 12:07 am

I have shared this info with others who I trust, and who are also into this type of fun....

Bawdy_Lee 71M

12/1/2016 7:45 am

I would share but, as you mentioned, be very selective.

Shrewdy2 56M
46 posts
11/29/2016 5:54 am

Close friends know I'm on this site, work colleagues would have a field day if they knew I was on this site!

sphxdiver 70M  
21074 posts
11/28/2016 5:41 pm

A lot of it depends on WHO I tell, but I have mentioned it to a few close friends.

hornyfarmer2851 66M
7 posts
11/28/2016 6:57 am

with my work I can not share. Not if i want to keep my job.

hrlyridr87 66M  
339 posts
11/28/2016 5:46 am

I have shred with a friend who was lonely after his divorce.

proteus_2a 54M
7682 posts
11/28/2016 1:30 am

Just a dating site , with too much one-handed interaction my lady !

Cheers - P

redrockrascal 61M
21416 posts
11/27/2016 8:02 pm

tresennui replies on 11/27/2016 9:16 pm:
lol we seem to follow each other around on the blogs but don't you live in a different state than me...far, far away?

Yes, Arizona is about as different than any state can get.
The distance seems to really put a uhmm . . . kink in meeting desires.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

BrownEyedBBW 52F
8858 posts
11/27/2016 3:22 pm

I don't discuss it with anyone but (a) I would not say I keep it a secret, that has connotations of deceit and shame that aren't in play here. and (b) I don't discuss any of the dating sites I'm on, or my love life in general (as meager as it might be) with *anyone*. People know I use online dating sites but that'a about as far as it goes.

There's a reason it's called a private life.

redrockrascal 61M
21416 posts
11/27/2016 1:50 pm

I'm somewhere in between. But I found out a good friend of mine has been here much longer than I have. I call it a dating site, the fact that many people are undressed doesn't change the meeting aspect of the site.

If you meet me I'll prove my point

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

tresennui replies on 11/27/2016 7:16 pm:
lol we seem to follow each other around on the blogs but don't you live in a different state than me...far, far away?

flowerkings2012 56M  
4236 posts
11/27/2016 1:31 pm

I tend not to offer such info to anyone. i will interact through blogs but I wouldn't share with workers or family and friends that I'm a member here, and in that regards, it would be one of many reasons I wouldn't refer anyone here

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