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Help or Hindrance? - Question For Those Who Are Married and Looking  

tresennui 66F  
2701 posts
6/6/2016 5:53 pm

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Help or Hindrance? - Question For Those Who Are Married and Looking

Just recently turned on my notifications and am now seeing who's viewing my profile. I have found that there are married men and women who have been here as long as me, ten years, or even longer. Got me wondering. First of all that's an awfully long time to be keeping a secret from their spouse or significant other and to be in a relationship that they are not completely happy in, often downright miserable, but also made me wonder has it helped their marriages? Have they been able to stay married because they have an outlet for their sexual dissatisfaction, loneliness, whatever they are missing in their marriage? Some actually meet and cheat, others, just like to perv and chat (sorta cheating, but that's a whole other question).

So all you married people out there. What do you say... has being here made your situation better for you?
YES Helps
NO I'm still miserable

Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui

mmguy52 68M  
2065 posts
6/8/2016 4:11 am

Yes, married and looking. It does help, as an outlet, and I do hope to meet and relieve some of my pent up frustration. My wife has lost interest in sex and does not want to do anything about it.

ProfPlayful 57M
3855 posts
6/7/2016 7:02 pm

I am a married man who is here to blog - - - to discuss and read about sex and other subjects that do not interest my wife. In almost two years of AdultFriendFinder membership I've had lunch with a handful of carefully-selected members but have not even kissed any of them. I have met some very nice women who deserve a beautiful romance.

My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.

packageman57 63M
1067 posts
6/7/2016 9:18 am

Yes it helps. Relieves a frustration so that aspect of life doesn't interfere with the rest.

lonebone222 66M  
42 posts
6/7/2016 9:01 am

Not her fault was the wildest sex I've had (until joining this site). She lost all interest in sex after female surgery and not able to take hormones. I can't live without sex. I keep my playing secret. We are still very much in love but no sex. This is an outlet for me.

fun_2000 59M
818 posts
6/7/2016 2:09 am

My take on this is that a relationship/marriage is made up of many facets, sex being just one of them. To have all facets must be true awesome but most, I think, will lack one or maybe two and is still very acceptable. That is my situation. I do not meet in person and have, over time, corresponded to a number of very nice folk.

lookin4funinBC9 60M
1385 posts
6/6/2016 7:11 pm

I love my wife but she no longer wants, desires or need sex. She has told me do what you want but I do not want to know. I wish she wanted to be with me but this is the way it is

JoyJustLooking 68F  
79 posts
6/6/2016 6:09 pm

We are in a different situation--we joined as a couple for mFm---and due to circumstances I began this Joy profile---he likes to share me---yes THIS late in life. He was the only man I had sex with until our 1st mfm. It was fun--he now likes for me to play alone and also do mFm--and then play with me after. Just his kink---I will stop when he says---or when I am finally fed up with all the BS from pretenders on here. "Do No Harm" and EVERYONE has a different situation. Take care. Joy♥♥

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