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Too Old?!?!?!?!?!?
Posted:Dec 5, 2021 4:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 10:34 pm

I just had a 74 year old man tell me that I was what he considered an "older" woman by a vanilla dating sites standards!!!

Wow. I was not expecting that, especially from a man that is .5 years older than I am!!! He says that he would love meet me for coffee and conversation see how we "click" but that I was older than most of the women that he has interacted with on that website.

Needless say I suddenly wasn't interested in venturing any further with him. I don't want meet for coffee and conversation someone sum me up as "too old!"

I would like to think of myself as knowing exactly what my pussy purpose is and how I can get the most out of a physical interaction.

Seriously, I'm too old??????????
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College Football Hell!!!!
Posted:Nov 30, 2021 4:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2021 11:31 am

As an Oklahoma Sooner Fan, I am officially in NCAAF Division 1 Football Hell!!!

Not only did my Oklahoma Sooners loose the Bedlam game, but now our Coach and half of the staff and who knows how many players will be headed to California to the University of Southern California.

Yep, it's crazy!! Yes, the Sooner Nation will recover and grow to become the football powerhouse that it has always been...it's just takes a little longer than we'd all like.

I guess the Oklahoma University football coach drama did take away some of the celebratory feelings of Oklahoma State winning Bedlam this year. Once every 10 years is ok, not really but if there has to be an Oklahoma State win, I really don't want to see another one for a while.

I could go on and on about why Oklahoma State won...29 seniors with the potential for 22 to return next year. Dear Football Gods...when you've got men that have been at school for 5, 6 and 7 years playing football and there aren't any NFL potential players on the defense, seriously, most of those guys just need to retire when they decide they are finally too old to play football any more!!!
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Thanksgiving Eve
Posted:Nov 24, 2021 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2021 7:49 am

Ok, so I allowed myself the 24-hr depression mode, time out of and function!! I do not cook tomorrow which I'm glad. Having done the Thanksgiving meal last year for my , -in-law and two amazing grandkids, I realized is a reason I passed the baton on family dinners to the younger folks!!! is a lot of work. Then is the clean up because I had no one help me as my 's family was on their way a family hunting trip in western Oklahoma, so was just me and my granddog at that time. So relieved they did the family hunting trip a weekend earlier so they can do the Thanksgiving day meal!!!

I finally found a pair of Thanksgiving themed pair of running shoes. They are a bright orange which for this Sooner fan, 's really difficult down at my feet and see that freaking bright orange crap on my feet, but they pics of turkeys, knife and forks, pies, everything Thanksgiving meal oriented!!!! They are made by Brooks and I am a true freak when comes getting themed running shoes for the holidays!!!

I would really loved these shoes in a tan or brown color or even a yellow or deep olive color. But orange is and orange I'll wear. for tomorrow, Thanksgiving day!!

I'm going to be making my cranberry/jalapeno cream dip for tomorrow. I already bought a chocolate silk pie from the food club and that will be the extent of my contributions.

I'll spend a couple of hours on the road tomorrow for my Thanksgiving. I don't mind, driving is a lot easier than cooking!!!!

And then will be the big Bedlam game on Saturday evening. I am really hoping my Sooners can pull out this win and prove all the predictions and such wrong that this is the COWBOYS year. Come on Sooner magic!!! Boomer Sooner!!!
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Tuesday before Thanksgiving
Posted:Nov 23, 2021 7:02 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2021 9:51 am

I have been struggling to remain positive this past week. I feel on a metal patio chair the Saturday before last and really hurt myself bad. Not so bad that I had to go to the hospital but when I did get in to see the doctor, his comment was that he had not seen a hematoma that covered from hip to hip a cross the abdomen like mine did.

He looked at it and ever so gently touched various parts of it to see if there was anything remarkable other than the very deep purple almost black color to my belly and below. It hurt, it still hurts but the coloring is finally turning into the lighter shades of bruising and there is only one spot that is still rock hard and super sensitive. I have been able to do absolutely nothing other than rest. I push myself to the point where I can't go any more and have to lay down and rest.

The same goes for the job, still working from home but all the sitting all day long makes me sore and tired. I get to a point where it hurts so much all I want to do is sit and cry but I push on through it and get my work day done and then go lay down and rest.

Not being able to do anything this time of year is beyond frustrating. And to top it all off I am finding myself more and more depressed. I'll snap out of it eventually but for the time being I'm so frustrated!!

Yesterday the realization that nothing stays the same and everyone wants to keep Thanksgiving as simple as possible, no need in me doing any of the incredible edible delights that I'm used to making...everything is store bought and convenient. No love and hard work required. WTF????? What do I have to look forward to other than showing up, eating what may be there and then heading home??

And to top it all off, this is Bedlam weekend. My Sooners have not been playing up to the caliber that I think they need to play...this might be the year that the OTHER Oklahoma team beats my OU Sooners!!! Good God!!!

So, I find myself having to gear back and heal from my terrible fall. I'm feeling the self-imposed isolation that goes with working from home and being injured. Life can be so challenging at times!!
AdultFriendFinder ADS
Posted:Nov 9, 2021 8:31 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2021 11:50 am

I saw a new profile posting in the local AdultFriendFinder ads where the man stated that he will not settle for anything less than what he has put in his profile. He is seeking someone that is into Oral AND Anal Sex.

I interpreted his ad that he is NOT interested in anyone that may be into Oral but not Anal. In my mind, that puts me out of consideration. Looking at the guy's physical stats, I'm not interested in seeing if we could come to a meeting of the minds or bodies.

I just found it interesting that the guy put it out there that he's NOT willing to settle. Good for him!!!
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Happy Anniversary
Posted:Sep 14, 2021 7:51 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 2:55 pm

Today would have been our 5 year wedding anniversary. I was with my husband for a total of 19 years, 2 of those years actually married.

September is always a difficult month for me with my seasonal depression that I've suffered with all my life. 20 years ago there was the horrific happenings of 9/, and now coupled with the memory of my wedding anniversary and tomorrow was my husband's birthday. Besides marking the end of summer, September just has had that bittersweet depressing feel to it.

For some reason I find myself missing the old hubby more this September. The 9/ memorials over the weekend put me in a delicate emotional state and then the fond memories of the old man and our time together...I've been a mess to say the least!!

Work has been grueling because of some computer/phone glitches and that's added to the heightened frustration and depression that I find myself in.

A bright spot to the craziness of yesterday and Monday was the fact that my rheumatologist insisted that I go ahead and get the COVID vaccine booster shot. Well that was an extra hour at the doctor's office while I got my shot and had to wait the obligatory minutes to see if I had a reaction to the shot and then finally back home and back to wor

Well, an announcement email came out that those taking a COVIID booster shot entitled me to take an hour of approved leave for the shot, then up to 2 days of sick leave, approved and not counting against my personal sick leave, which I decided this morning, why not? My arm is sore and my legs feel like I'm wearing shoes made out of cement, so, I took the day off to celebrate what would have been our 5 year wedding anniversary and anticipate tomorrow's birthday celebration of what would have been my husband's 79th birthday.

Another high point of yesterday was my pussy waxing appointment. I got the pussy all smooth and slick, love the pain of that hot wax being spread all over my pussy area, lips, and then up my ass crack!! All nice and smooth and no one to feast upon it. Such is life!!!

Happy th of September 2021 to me!!!
Crazy Mail On This Site
Posted:Sep 12, 2021 8:09 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 10:34 pm

Nothing like being greeted with quite a few messages here on this site telling me how a guy wants to fuck me in the ass!!! Wow, that makes me want to just drop my panties and bend over...NOT!!! Delete, delete, delete, delete, delete, delete.

I decided against spending the money on the kitchen remodel. I just don't want to get in over my financial budget and find myself wishing I had waited. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it!!!

The weather seems to be shifting a bit, heading into a more fall like feel, low humidity here in Oklahoma is always so welcomed. Makes for cooler evenings and cooler mornings.

I'm fighting my seasonal depression as September begins. I just can't shake the end of the summer blues but hey, I've lived with it all my life, another year of it finds me a bit wiser.

I'm hopeful that the college football rankings are going to be favorable to my Oklahoma Sooners...guess we will see.
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Saturday Musings
Posted:Sep 4, 2021 7:34 am
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2021 11:36 am

Entering September 2021, it's hot here in Oklahoma. There have been hotter summers, actually temperature wise, it's pretty typical.

Not much inspiration here in Ttown. I did see where one of the local bar and grills was reopening under new ownership recently but not sure how open they are from the signs or marquee out front. I checked their website and not any information there as to what entertainment opportunities they are offering. In the day, this bar was where to set the local Ttown AdultFriendFinder meet and greets. Those were fun and interesting gatherings though most of the time there were far more men than women willing to put themselves out there and get out from behind the computer screen and actually meet live and in person.

I don't have the energy nor inclination to be at the helm of plotting and planning naughty, nasty get togethers. That was my passion at one time but that ship has since sailed and with the absence of my partner in crime, the allure is gone. While I'm open to meeting new friends in my life, spearheading local adult get togethers is of no interest to me. Let someone else put it out there and try to gather up some interest!!

Now my biggest decision is whether or not to pull the trigger and remodel my kitchen!! Decisions, decisions!!
Sunday Reflections 08/15/2021
Posted:Aug 15, 2021 10:36 am
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2021 5:23 pm

Another Sunday. I've got so many projects going on around the house that I had to pause for a moment and collect myself.

I have realized that having a friend that is going through some serious mental health issues should not have checked herself out of the mental hospital she's been in for the past 10 days. She needs to go back whether she wants to or not.
I can't help her. No one can really help her other than the professionals. It is sad but I see it very clearly now, she needs to be in a structured, controlled environment until she's able to function with the aid of her meds. It's hard to see someone be taken down by their fears and worries but it is what it is. I don't know if she's even capable of knowing that she needs to go back but I'm not the one to make that determination for her.

I've requested two kitchen remodeling companies here in Tulsa to come and give me a quote. I want to get my kitchen updated to what "I" want. I am hoping it doesn't cost a small fortune but I also want this to be my signature on this house. My current plan is to remain here in this house until I'm at least 70, 6 more years. Hopefully the demand for houses in my neighborhood will remain high and I can get a premium price for it when I do get ready to sell. For the time being, I want to get this house in tip top shape.

I need to get back to one of the many projects I've got going on this weekend.

Have a great work week ahead.
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Membership Status?????
Posted:Jul 31, 2021 11:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2021 5:15 pm

I got an email notice that my "icebreaker" had been accepted and I have another year of "gold." What a joke!!!! The "Upgrade Now" tab remains on my profile and I can't view other members' pics.

Not that I expect this site to run any smoother than it has in the past but do I have a GOLD ball membership or not?????

In other news, it's HOT outside!!!! I can't get my swim spa water to cool down any lower than 88 degrees. Good grief!!! I did buy an end of the summer ft circle umbrella to help shade the swim spa. It's working as well as it can in 0 degree weather.
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Finally Friday
Posted:Jul 23, 2021 6:40 am
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2021 7:18 am

has been a crazy work week. My gateway wi-fi died on Tuesday about :00 am No lights, nothing. Smarty pants, me, decide I'm going go one of my internet provider's stores and get a new gateway device.

The joke was on me!! The stores don't carry anything to do with the internet part of their company. I would have to order that on the phone or through online...uh, hello, I can't access my internet, that's the problem!!! Oh, then you'll have to and order a new wi-fi gateway.

Shit! So, two hours later I get home and get on the phone with said provider and get a new wi-fi gateway ordered. The soonest they can get me the router is within the next 2 days. Ok. See if you can get it here faster.

Got the wi-fi gateway ordered. it arrived about 24-hours later on the next day. I get it all out of the box and hook it up. It starts flashing green that is power but is a flashing red where says broadband. Shit, again!!!

I then start a chat with said provider and am walked through all the steps and still a red flashing light for broadband. The chat then turns a technician will have assist me and the soonest a tech can be scheduled is the next morning between 8:00 am and noon. Okay. Put me down.

I had take annual leave because this is an issue on my side of the work thing, which I've got plenty of time take off, just hate that I had use on a work connected issue!!

The tech arrived promptly at 8:00 am came in and switched around some cables and announced that I had the wrong cable in the ONT slot. I told him I had tried every combination and I would get a flashing green light for about -15 seconds and then would turn red flashing. Sure enough, 30 seconds into our conversation turned red and did not turn green again.

Two hours later, new inside wiring, new inside internet box and nothing but a constant solid green light for broadband!!! Now I'm actually getting the internet speed I am paying for and is amazing how fast my work laptop brings all of my systems up AND I have had no VPN disconnects since I got back online yesterday after lunch!!! is a miracle!!!

This is the first time since I started working from home that I've had a strong internet connection. I can actually do my job and do well!!! I had forgotten how great is when everything works with the work systems!!

Hopefully, this resolves all of the connection issues I've been having since I moved home back in March of 2019 work from home. isn't any projection as when, if ever, we'll go back the office and honestly, I'm fine with working from home though it has made me rather lazy with regards getting up and looking presentable every day. I throw on clothes and grab some coffee and start working at 7:00 am

Happy Friday!!! Have a great weekend and stay safe in the July heat!!!
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Sunday Reflections 07/18/2021
Posted:Jul 18, 2021 12:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2021 6:11 am

I just realized I have not visited this site in quite a while. Nothing much going on in my life other than I'm still working from home and will continue working from home as it looks as though the Delta Variant of the COVID family is starting to make an ugly appearance as we head through the summer. Doesn't look like it will be letting up as we head into Fall and the start of school.

I'm fine with working from home though work has finally hit a point of so much ridiculous protocol and requirements to be deemed "good" at the job that I've been studying how long I have to work before I can actually retire. Optimally working until I'm 70 was the original plan, but 67 is looking so much better. I think SS reflects that I have to work until 66 years old and 8 months. to draw a decent retirement from SS. There are a lot of factors involved and I'm giving them all serious consideration. My new plan as of late is to retire by the time I turn 67. I just don't think I can manage to stick it out mentally until I turn 70. I do want to be able to enjoy some of life after I retire so 67 is the new goal.

The pup is growing so fast and much. He's 7.5 months old and a handful. He's a good and I've signed us up for training here in the next couple of weeks. I think it will do us both good.

I've been trying to motivate myself to get up and around, move more but I'm not going to lie, I'm depressed. The online dating sites are a complete and total disappointment. The only man that has responded lives clear out in western Oklahoma practically to the panhandle. I started thinking about why in the world would I want to strike up a friendship with someone so far away? I ended up cancelling meeting him because I just didn't see the point of venturing any further. He may have been open to moving to Tulsa but I honestly don't want someone that is move in ready. In other words, I want someone to just go out with once in an while and spend some quality adult time with...it's a lot to ask for but hey, why not aim for the moon and stars?

Anyay, nothing new on this side of life. Have a great week ahead!!

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